Xisnin:

In Nigeria, I am actually expected to be the king in the marriage, to be served as I like.
I don't know the box you are scared of, can you explain?


No, it doesn't and you don't know it.
If I refuse to give police bribe at the checkpoint, they will see me as disrepectful but I know better.
To some people, leaving them alone is respect while others expect you to acknowledge them.


There is no role for wife/gf outside of what they are prepared to give.

That is why marriage is voluntary. You can walk away and find a better slave anytime you want.


Check back all my posts, you will see that I never mentioned chores which seems to trigger many people
because I consider it a non-issue.
My point is that nobody should be forced to do what they don't want. Washing and cooking is not slavery,
being forced to do them is slavery.


Oh, another one.
You assumed I am a woman because I think this particular husband is wrong.
FYI, there are men out there who don't need slaves as wives.
If you find a woman who willingly do whatever you want, good for you and I have no problem
with that.
My issue is that you cannot force your will on a free person like you and then term call it disrespect when they
refuse.

I worked with an NGO involved with domestic affairs. The most common complaint from shocked husbands
usually goes like this. "How can I ask my wife to do X and Y and she dares refuse, isn't it my right to
tell her what to do"

We try to tell them that such behavior is normal when dealing with a fully grown human, not a kid, not a slave. Some later understand some don't.

dominique:


It is only an extremely petty, small minded, low self-esteemed man that will have issues with being called by his name. It's no big deal especially if the couple were friends before marriage. You African men have nothing going on upstairs except how to dominate a woman and how she should massage your silly egos. Your foreign counterparts are busy making ground-breaking inventions and research, you're busy looking for who to serve you food and call you sir. Don't you people irritate yourselves sometimes?

Buckubuck:

Lol. They have names like baale, oko, olowoori. Modern wives call their husbands by nicknames or add daddy to the kid's name when calling him. However, the whole thing is wearing off. Culture is subject to change without notice

kevin25:
I have been to a family where the wife calls her husband honey behold all her children calls dia dad honey even up til now imgain if the wife is calling d man solomon then the children wil join and start calling d man solomon even infront of visitors? My dear stop defending dis my fiancee as it stands now calls me daddy and it didnt start today...

Buckubuck:

In Yoruba culture, you can't even call ur husband's siblings by name. You have to add a prefix. So calling your husband by name among yorubas is a no no. Though I guess the whole thing is wearing off steadily sha.

kevin25:
Are u married? Wat did u call ur husband? Let say his name is peter den u call him peter right even infront of his frds? Not inside huz u and him alone ? Even at dat? And u have kids? Who wil learn from u nd start calling dia father by his name cos u dos dat.. Why wil a woman cal her husband by his name even when the man is not happy about? it and has warn her? D man in question has never called the wife by her name is dis not lack of respect let call a spade a spade..

ebby9z:
You're legally married to two wives in the UK? Okay.

Olalan:
How do you qualify quality sex? Is it by the tone of moaning or the speed or energy asserted by the the guy.

TheFacelessMan:


Lucky him

Many years back while i was still in Uber business...


I returned a lady's N7 million back and she asked me inside for "coffee" out of appreciation.

I felt i had hit jackpot after smoking the honeypot without a silencer on my bazooka.

I pumped with ALL my strength, not even one drop landed outside.

Someone with 7 million in her purse will have 70 in the bank, right?



9 months after i got a package from her... not the FedEx/ DHL type


Turns out she was just a salesgirl and didn't own a dime


That's how i got my 3rd babymama

The End

Culled from "The Memoirs of The Faceless Man"

Freeman59:
Why would US embassy ask for a DNA test cuz of visa?? The story is not adding up. The US embassy doesn't ask for that

MajorJeffery:
...and you harbored this wicked friend's secret? I believe she is still committing the adultery with the said white man yet you stand and watch the husband wallow in ignorance. Says much about your personality.

Brownshugar69:


She knew that if the baby turns out half white she is out of her husband house