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CelebritiesRe: 9ice Brags About Not Staying With One Woman (Throwback Video) by Lleigh(f): 7:51pm On Nov 22, 2020
humilitypays:
a young lady sleep around with broke guys for fun and pleasure without any monetary benefithuh Story that only happen in the fairytale book of women to tame gullible guys shocked shocked
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Then why do we have sex addicts? Both male and female.
CelebritiesRe: 9ice Brags About Not Staying With One Woman (Throwback Video) by Lleigh(f): 7:50pm On Nov 22, 2020
argent412:
who tell you that one.

yet married women are depriving there husband's of sex.

you're just try to be on top, but it can never happen.

nature made men libidos to be higher than women
They deprive them because they think they are making their displeasure known. But they should do the opposite, have the sex and still show their displeasure. As there are women who say they don't like sex. There are also men with low sex drive.
CelebritiesRe: 9ice Brags About Not Staying With One Woman (Throwback Video) by Lleigh(f): 4:12pm On Nov 22, 2020
TheLionofLasigi:
Before westernization took over us and polluted our society...men could marry more than one wife, divorce rates were absolutely low and lesbianism hardly existed....one man one wife isn't a biblical law, English Kings of old had more than one wife and even had concubines called consorts as at then....with the advent of industrialization, loss of thousands of farm jobs, urbanization which led to higher costs of living and crowded cities...the government through religion came up with the policy of one man one wife and this spread into Africa by means of christainity, this is why yoruba men find it hard to be loyal...one woman alone cannot satisfy us.

But this isn't to say that every man should go out there marrying more than one wife...if you don't have the financial capability of marrying multiple wives please don't put a burden on the society.

As for me I go just manage two.
There was a lot of lesbianism in polygamous homes. A lot of people are dealing with generational curses, caused by polygamy. All human beings are made to be jealous. But somehow men believe woman are ok with multiple women living under the same roof as one man.
He can't sexually satisfy them never. When women all live together, periods synchronise. Women become incredibly Hot just before their period so tell me how will he give them the 5 rounds they crave.

And men think women don't crave variety. It's all going to pot now because people are talking and women are becoming more successful in their own right.

On average women have a higher sex drive than men. Society dampened it.
CelebritiesRe: 9ice Brags About Not Staying With One Woman (Throwback Video) by Lleigh(f): 4:04pm On Nov 22, 2020
shedomains:
at the bolded dear Only foolish men believe otherwise to console themselves that their wives can not cheat in a union. is an adventurous game for both parties.
Thank you...for stating that fact. All human beings want variety.
CelebritiesRe: 9ice Brags About Not Staying With One Woman (Throwback Video) by Lleigh(f): 4:00pm On Nov 22, 2020
humilitypays:
Don't compare a prostitute with normal man keeping multiple partners out of natural zeal.


Prostitution is a profession....it is a job.


Forget those nonsense talk, women don't cheat more than men.....women can only sleep with multiple partners not because of natural desire to have sex but for money and favor.




But men cheat with multiple partners for pleasure....for fun not for financial gain or favor......but women who ever does same do it for money and favor, which is their motivating factor, which tells you that its not their natural form.....something motivates them to sleep with multiple men - MONEY or FAVOR!



Right from the days of Adam, great men have lost their greatness and crown just because they couldn't control having sex with poor women are even far below their class.....but tell me one woman in history who has ever lost her crown or greatness just because she couldn't control the urge to have sex with a poor man or man below her classhuh Name one
A lot of women would sleep with men for variety just like men do. Society just frowns on it. Everybody would like sexual variety. Men and women
CelebritiesRe: Joke Silva And Olu Jacobs Celebrate 35th Wedding Anniversary (Photo) by Lleigh(f): 10:19pm On Nov 16, 2020
buygala:
35 years together doing what? huh


Oga Olu swear with Sango that you have never cheated on her...huh

35 years of managing...

35 years of wearing to-match to church every Sunday after nearly tearing themselves to pieces inside the house


35 years of pretending in front of the kids and everyone else ...


35 years of playing to the Gallery...




35 years being together doesn't equate 35 years being one sad


Happy 35 years Sir and Ma...please can we now hear word? huh
So true.
EventsRe: Woman Buried With A Penis Casket For Marrying 10 Men With A Child For Each One by Lleigh(f): 10:59pm On Jul 27, 2020
The truth at last.

The ten by ten woman just didn't ring true
FamilyRe: Men, Can You Take Your Wife Back After Cheating On You? by Lleigh(f): 10:32pm On Jul 26, 2020
Amanee:
On the internet: No

In reality: Yes
Very funny
CrimeRe: Hushpuppi Hires Micheal Jackson Ex-lawyer, Mark Geragos by Lleigh(f): 1:35pm On Jul 06, 2020
How will he pay?
HealthRe: I Am AS And I Am Getting Married To AS by Lleigh(f): 10:57am On Jun 05, 2020
I know one AS couple, seven pregnancies and 4 abortions. They now have three kids.
They tested for genotype when possible and did not go ahead with the SS ones.
If this couple is willing to do this, it's a decision they will have to take on their own.
Being SS has a lot of challenges, even though they are living longer it's still a hard cross to bear.
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Good luck
FamilyRe: Seeing Dead Aunty In My Dreams Repeatedly. I Need Any Solutions Please by Lleigh(f): 8:40pm On May 27, 2020
You could be the person holding on to her and not letting her go. Due to the negative feelings you have about her.
She tried for you, she wasn't your mother. You will only realise this when you get older and have your kids.
You spirit and spirit's spirits might not like the way you were as a poor relation growing up.
Forgive her and let go. Let go of that hurt and hate and she will cross over.
FamilyRe: My Fellow Married Women And Mothers, How Do You Deal With A Husband Like Mine? by Lleigh(f): 8:02am On May 12, 2020
[quote author=dominique post=89112694]Men nag more than women in marriage yet they keep saying it's women that nag. Me, I can't keep apologising for the wrong I did not do, if he wants to carry face, let him carry face. Good thing my ignore game is on point. If you refuse to eat, I stop cooking for you. I may not always talk back but I won't keep quiet all the time because I gats to be submissive.

@op
A lot of people treat you bad because you let them get away with it. You need to start standing up for yourself. Tell him disagreeing with him does not mean you're disrespecting him. Once a while, remind him of your contributions to the family. Tell him you're ready to live without him if that's what will give you peace of mind. If he's still acting up, park him to one side and face your kids. Start being selfish, put yourself first. let your happiness revolve around yourself and your kids. The moment men see how well you can and will live without them, they tend to sit up.[/quote
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Word sis
RomanceRe: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Lleigh(f): 11:43am On May 08, 2020
The problem is in generalisation. Most African men abroad who marry white people treat their wives differently. It's known it's seen. This same man would treat a black wife differently. Why give one reverence and the other a take it or leave it attitude.
We all need to do better and communicate. If your wife has gone to do a twelve hour shift and you have been home, is it fair to expect her to come home and start another shift with you claiming rights. The issue in marriages these days seem to be more along the pressures of living. Talk properly and you will find peace at home is not an illusion.
We are no longer living in a world where it's only the man bringing food to the table. It's both and it will be hard for anyone doing the same job as their husband to come back home and start while he sits and does nothing.
Its been mentioned why other races like Chinese and Indian don't divorce. It's because of family dishonour, a lot of the women in those races are mentally depressed and trapped. They are not happy and the make sure their son's spouse goes through what they went through. Don't let the outside deceive you, they are hiding a lot of suffering women and domestic violence is rife.
Let's all just learn to talk more and communicate effectively.
Ladies if you are dating a man and he expects you to do everything it will not change when you are working and children come along.
We are all afraid of being seen as vulnerable for the person we love.
Both parties if you really love each other you will help each other.
Stay safe
RomanceRe: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Lleigh(f): 10:47am On May 08, 2020
pDudd:
First tip: Leave that your native brain in Nigeria.

If you're the kind of man that will sit on the sofa and be watching UEFA champions league and be telling a woman that she should go and cook, serve you, bring you water to drink and wash hand, you are in for a rude shock. Nigerian women in US have opened eye now o. They are not going to serve you like master and servant while your stretch your legs on sofa and be watching football.

If your mother did that for your father, please go and marry your mother so she too can come and be serving you like a king. Nigerian women ain't doing that for you.

Before you leave Nigeria, better learn how to cook, clean house, do laundry, go to buy groceries, take care of kids, and learn humility.

Learning humility is of utmost importance because the day you step your feet into America, you are now second to every woman. The American society favors women over men. They placea lot of value over men. So if you didn't respect women in Nigeria, you may need to reconsider that stance. And if you can't see yourself having a woman above you or respecting women, then better stay in Nigeria.



Next tip: All you old men that have spent 20 years following Akata and are now looking for unmarriedd younger girls in Nigeria who you want to turn into RNs and use her as your ATM, believing that she is a "good girl" and that she will be a good obedient wife, who will be at your beck and call.

You guys are looking for to go to an early grave and lose everything you have worked for since the 20 years you've been in Yankee. I implore you, please stop doing that nonsense.

There is nothing like a humble Nigerian girl. The ones that appear humble are just broke. The day money enters her hand is the day you will know her true colors. Now in US, you will find an elderly guy in his late 40s or 50s. They came to US in their 20s and hustled Akata for paper, and thereafter became legal. Instead of going to school, gain an education, and improve their standard of living, they take up security guard jobs, CNA jobs, and taxi driver jobs. They spend gruelling years doing these low paying jobs and saving pennies to eventually go to Nigeria and do big wedding and marry a small naive village girl, thinking that they are investing in her so that she will yield fruits and serve him in his old age.

Notice that Nigerian men are always looking for women to serve them cheesy

Well, these small naive girls come to US, go to nursing school, become LVNs or RNs. They then begin to make lots of money and they will begin to open eye grin

Lefulefu come and back me up here.


Those small, naive, village girls suddenly begin making about $3500 or more every 2 weeks. Back in Nigeria, they weren't even making 3500 naira every month. This kind of money blows their minds and they don't even know how to spend it anymore. The man who is her husband and invested in her now wants to control the money and keep her in a subservient position.

At that point in time, that is when the girls father in the village knows that he wants to receive chieftaincy title. Also that is the time the mother knows that she wants to become Lolo of NdiOhia. cheesy. That is also when the girls brother wants to open spare parts shop in Alaba. That is the time when the girls sister wants to get married. The entire family of the girl begins to pester her for money. Also at this same time, the girls husband wants to start to build block of flats in Nnewi. Also he feels that he is old enough to receive chieftaincy title in his village as well. All these things costs lots of money.

The pressure on the poor girls starts mounting. She has one or two kids at this point but she starts to work extra hours and overtime at work. Putting in a lot of exhausting energy into trying to fulfil the dreams of everyone. Instead of the husband to understand, he is not sympathetic to her. After all she is his investment and she better yield fruits. She begins to burn out slowly but surely. She needs support at home but the husband expects her to work for 12 to 13 hours, come home, prepare eba and ogbono soup for him, take care of the kids, and then open toto for him to Bleep cheesy. Tomorrow again it is back to the same routine up to 7 days a week.

One day all the pressure gets too much and then the bubble pops. The woman, under intense financial pressure from her extended family coupled with her unsupportive husband and work-family life, crumbles under it all. And what usually kicks it off? Money of course. Or the lack thereof.

The man, wanting to control the finances of the woman, starts a quarrel about how much he invested to bring her to America. Because of all the stress upon the woman and women being very emotional creatures, she snaps. She insults the husband with the greatest insult of his life. She neglects all he has done and acts on emotion. The man too, unable to stomach the insult, verbally and physically attacks the woman.

Now it always ends in 2 ways. If the woman is still alive after the physical attack, she calls the police and they arrest him for domestic violence. She files a restraining order against him and he cannot return back to the house he bought and the home he built.

The second way it ends is that the man attacks his wife and kills her with his security guard job service pistol or he strangles or stabs her to death with a kitchen knife.

In both cases, the police arrive and arrest the man. And then the family breaks up and most times can not be rebuilt anymore. It becomes a broken home with shatters dreams.
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This is spot on. Pressure makes people react in different ways.
CrimeRe: Daughter Kills Mother Over Sex With Her Husband In Osun by Lleigh(f): 3:02pm On May 04, 2020
But the ages can't be right.
Her mother was 15 when she got pregnant. So when did she marry her daughter's father.
I am not saying what happened isn't wrong, but the ages might be off
HealthRe: HELP: I Always Feel Lower Back Pain After Workout by Lleigh(f): 8:14pm On Apr 21, 2020
bammo:
I usually do squats with barbell on my shoulders..
I always knew that something is weak somewhere, I guess it's the glutes.. but what can I do about it pls?
Try starting with activating your glutes first, before working out. Glute bridges, single leg deadlifts.

What I do in between deadlifts is kettle bell swings. That helps with glutes.
HealthRe: HELP: I Always Feel Lower Back Pain After Workout by Lleigh(f): 6:26pm On Apr 21, 2020
Since I don't know what work outs you do, there is a possibility that you have weak glutes..

If one all the back, glutes, hamstrings are not in sync one could be over compensating for the other.
HealthRe: BREAKING NEWS: Woman Gives Birth To 11 Babies WITHOUT C-section Delivery by Lleigh(f): 12:12pm On Apr 09, 2020
This is not true.

The woman gave birth to 8.
HealthRe: Coronavirus: We Are Suspending Services – Sex Workers by Lleigh(f): 9:39am On Apr 01, 2020
msmon:
This part for me rolling �




Kindly follow me on Twitter @officialMON33!
I swear. But they can still do there job virtually
HealthRe: China Owes The Whole World An Explanation,how Come They Have Best Recovery Rate? by Lleigh(f): 1:59pm On Mar 31, 2020
A lot of people don't believe those numbers. Plus 21 million people have dropped off the mobile network there. So that is a better indicator of the numbers who died
Foreign AffairsRe: Prince Charles Tests Positive To Coronavirus by Lleigh(f): 12:06pm On Mar 25, 2020
alberto2k:
The Brits are obviously not taking this COVID-19 case serious. Even as we speak London Heathrow airport is still operating, people are moving in and out of London.
A British airways flight from Heathrow is expected to touch down Lagos today(another batch of "suspect is a returning traveller"wink Naija shutdown just be like joke undecided

The Aviation industry seems like the Petri dish is this pandemic era. undecided

Shutdown every fucken airports and borders till the pandemic is contained but they won't listen. angry
I thought all airports are closed in nigeria
HealthThe Prince Of Wales Test Positive For Corona by Lleigh(op): 11:39am On Mar 25, 2020
This is now getting serious
FamilyRe: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Lleigh(f): 10:03am On Mar 24, 2020
KaideeGee:
You had beta have that baby oh
It is beta 2 be guilty of incest dan 2 be guilty of incest and child murder
But that isn't incest.
You will have to come clean to your sister
HealthRe: Covid 19 Nairaland Doctors Situation Reports: Share With Us by Lleigh(f): 7:32am On Mar 24, 2020
Item 2.1.
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This came up a while ago on a thread and people were screaming fire and brimstone.
It's better to stay safe, stay indoors and self love.
HealthUK Now On Lockdown by Lleigh(op): 9:49pm On Mar 23, 2020
Boris Johnson has announced UK wide lockdown.
Only to shop for essentials. And only one person per household
HealthRe: What Led To Corona Virus Outbreak by Lleigh(f): 10:07am On Mar 22, 2020
omoiyamayor:
Which other websites can I read this news from or this Chinese guy is a member of nairaland.com
wink
HealthRe: 10 New Cases Of Corona Virus Hit Nigerians by Lleigh(f): 3:16pm On Mar 21, 2020
This shows that covid is already rampant in our community abroad.
Imagine all the people who have returned and haven't shown symptoms yet and have been to parties and church.
HealthRe: My Fiancée Pussy Hole Is Tight And Needle-like (Help). by Lleigh(f): 9:50am On Mar 21, 2020
NextD18:
I hate it when a lady gets disflowered by a man who's not her husband.

It disgust and irritates me so much.
Really? Why
HealthRe: My Fiancée Pussy Hole Is Tight And Needle-like (Help). by Lleigh(f): 9:49am On Mar 21, 2020
Infamous:
Are you certain that you are penetrating the right hole?
Haha.
HealthRe: Coronavirus: Dying Patients Beg Doctors To See Families One Last Time In Italy by Lleigh(f): 9:44am On Mar 21, 2020
Hakeem12:
Italy has the second-oldest population in the world, and the outbreak has killed a disproportionately high number of people in their 80s and 90s. Whoever Patient Zero was -- yet to be determined -- that individual may have brought the virus to Italy weeks before anyone noticed.
There is an article in the guardian about who patient zero was in Italy. No one thought it would end like this.
HealthRe: Chinese Man With Coronavirus Symptoms Collapses In Lagos (Video) by Lleigh(f): 4:19pm On Mar 20, 2020
If what I am hearing is true.
They were looking after him at home instead of taking him to the right place in Lagos.
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So all the people living with him could have passed it on..
Truth be told I reckon we have at least 400
cases in Lagos.
HealthRe: Masturbate During Coronavirus Lockdown To Boost Your Immune System - Doctor by Lleigh(f): 6:23pm On Mar 19, 2020
FemiEddy:
Indoor exercise. There are numerous.
If you exercise really well I e weights and stuff, your body will release testosterone. Which could lead to the feeling of self love

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