hooha:
Sin is sweet, but the disgrace is "sweeter".

All these pre-marital sex sex sex sex sex...It can make someone unable to stay with one partner in marriage

You mean once you have had the forbidden fruit you want more? Or the fact that people might compare? I think the problem mostly is lack of communication.

Depressed101:
hmm yes i have, but it has been very frustrating getting gigs without reviews...

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You just need to get one and keep on doing what you do.
Keep on telling people what you do

todman:


How is the environment for IT professionals and the salary range. I have noticed an increase in the number of recruiters from Dubai on linkedin. A couple of them regularly reach out to me but i don't know what the IT landscape is like there. Do they pay better than a good Nigerian Tech salary. (Talking about over the 500k range)

It depends what company is reaching out to you. Be careful and do you research. Some people got their fingers burnt. But if it is with a mnc based there you should be fine

Depressed101:
hello dear i dont have a degree, but i have some IT certifications..., I don't mind doing blue collar job i am tired of Nigeria, what would be your advice, since you have a lot of experience.

If you have IT qualifications have you looked at freelancing via fivr etc. Be honest open and professional you will get work.

It could be thrush, you need to get the right diagnosis.

TheAlchemist:


Hope the girl would wait for him! A bigger emerald ring awaits her for patience and loyalty.

But he is married and just had a baby. Wonder who the ring was for

missimelda01:
I guess I'm the only one in Nigeria that didn't download the app, I can't deal with seeing wrinkles on my face :'
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I didn't don't like taking pictures anyway. It is worrying

Busola has now filed a suit against the pastor

This saga has me gripped as a writer.

Timi has just posted on Instagram very interesting

Funmmyastic:


They did it to protect her identity and image.

Too late now, they have inmasked her

dyydxx:


haa kemi is a lunatic oooo.... not sure that lady has any credibility

Agree, my issue why even name anyone.
What about if it's the wrong person

dyydxx:


who's she?

Please check kemi olunloyo inst page.

The lady has been unmasked. But I don't know why they did when she asked for privacy. It's on instagram

ichidodo:
This pastor must have studied psychology at some point in his life because that will only explain how he must have gotten away with so much and with scant regard to the emotional well being of his flock....He really f**ked them up real bad. And the scariest part is the fact that his likes are numbered in thousands all over the Church... controlling,manipulating and f**king pussies....hundreds of pussies...

That's true and he must be looking for certain traits. Troubled background, self esteem. Etc

Celestial777:
Egbe is the general unbrella for different types of emere children.
There are so many types emere (Spirit child)
We have Iyalode..... the keeper of Market
Balogun
Bashorun
Elere
Ologede
Alaje


The list is endless ......
Some are good and some are bad
If you have the good one you will be advise to propitiate them so you can have a good life
If you belong to the bad group you will be disconnected from them

Thank you

baby124:
Egbe can be an age group club, society or cult. Emere is a person that belongs to a bad group of spirits. Egbe is not necessarily a bad thing but depends on context. While Emere usually has negative connotations. An Emere will probably belong to an Egbe of some kind. This is why some people interchange both words.

Thank you

HI guys,

I hope someone can help me.

I am in the middle of writing my next book and I need some help

I remember growing up and hear people would say Bleep cleaned that room very fast she must have egbe?
I found out that meant the person had sprit people as companions that stayed with them.
Does that mean the person is actually an emere?

Or what is the distinction between the two?

And would you say both are different to ghosts.

Thank you in advance

But the question is will they come back to Nigeria to work

paraltero:
You guys' responses are exactly why so many Nigerian kids are not as close to their parents as the should be. You guys are so consumed by your god complexes that you don't realize that your behaviour gradually alienates your kids and makes them even less likely to ask you for stuff.

Be truthful to yourselves: most of you would rather ask your friends and colleagues for stuff before you ask your parents. How is that a healthy parent-child relationship? You guys have no idea what the difference is between a healthy relationship between parent(s) and child and disrespect.

Later it's the same you guys that would be asking your kids "why didn't you ask me? Why did you ask other people and not me?"

Continue perpetuating the same unhealthy dynamic with your own kids o. I hope it pans out well for y'all.

We will get shouted at but this is what is happening right now to children. Someone was saying the exact thing recently. Her words were why do you think most Nigerian children are not close to their children? But the house I grew up in my father cooked and when visits me there is nothing in the sink. I wash up as I go anyway, and I also get a do you want me to make the rice for dinner. If we can't speak to our parents for help who do we speak to. Or will you say a child should never ask her father to feed his grandchild.
If we don't change we will be raising children the same way, we were raised that was wrong. But the parents did it because of the way the were raised...

Imagine the curses rained on kids all because they did something wrong a child would do. Or the implements used to punish us as kids is it still right to use electrical wire on a child all in the name of discipline.

Anyway, there could be more to the story.

Before people lynch me....

I hope the girl has not been through a lot at home? I know the father is paying the fees, I am asking I hope all the women of the household are not victims of abuse.
It takes many forms and for the victims it is small things they can use for rebellion. Unfortunately her rebellion for whatever reason has backfired

victorian:
Her parents failed in their duties to train her properly.

Nothing to do with parents, so children are just...

Regiomontanus:
This absolutely ravishes me. This why I always advise women to pay no attention to feminists and respect their men as your fellow feminists will be nowhere to be found when your feminism back fires. Think of the women who lost their marriages and relationships because of feminism, did you see their fellow feminists consoling them and trying to fix things up when sh1t hit the fan?

Why can't you respect your man and do the chores as a stay at home wife? What can you give that will measure up to the responsibility of going out to make money and bearing the financial burden alone? You think it's easy to make money and spend it on others because they call themselves wife and children? The act of making money and bearing the financial burden alone demands respect not the rubbish called feminism.

It's way more easier to be a stay at home wife than to be a husband who bears the financial responsibilities alone. It's not easy for men.

I understand if it is a stay at home wife. But a lot of couples abroad split the bills 50 50, but all household chores fall on wife, even when they do the same job. Have read so many stories where this causes problems

We have foreigners that read on this forum. And we have gorilla and snake eating money in Nigeria. Yet we make out we are the giant of Africa, most educated etc.

How can animals eat money? What scientist do we need to prove it.

We have suffered, money that would put people in jobs.

Amakavula:
The guy started off with too much respect, don't over respectful women, it shows us you lack capacity.

Be bold ( not arrogant ) fearless ( not stupid ) and careless( with subliminal tact ) about chatting with ladies, that shiitt ticks us off with good vibe, shows you are in charge and have capacity.

If I was the guy, I would start off with something, a little negative, have the lady on the defense from the go; then swoop in to save the day ( gets a few laughs too)

Maybe talk about:

You: "..my friend always say ladies on filters are low key scammers ?"

she is curious, asks why,
You : " pretty and worwor ones hide behind it," hard to tell which is which.."

she laughs
You laugh

You: you know you can't hide forever?
She : " that I worwor ? "
You: " are you saying you are cos I never concluded ? "

Now you have neg her, have her high esteem in check, you can just ignore the conversation and ask other things. It becomes easy for you. ( don't try this with me you will fail , but it works for my Male friends I advised )

A man with power, money, or fame would never over respect anyone.

Imagine Wizkid chatting her, he wouldn't try to over praise because he is the prize. You are to him anyone, adopt that mentality all women has.

You need to write a book about your code

Gandollaar:
Bros, will you be surprised if I built the house we live in?

The truth is, it's un-natural for a man to depend on his woman. But where circumstances makes it inevitable, wisdom and understanding is key. The problem is that men are very insecure in such arrangements and would always do something stupid in a bid to assert needless authority.

Men whose wives are gainfully employed are more respected by their husbands.

Very true, until the man turns around and tells the wife to leave the job and sit at home, also because he is feeling somehow about the progress the woman is making and wants to assert authority. Then the woman has to choose between marriage and job.
So much going on in Africa, which is a real shame.