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Family / Re: A Thread For "Everything Polygamy"! by logicboy01: 7:06am On Oct 01, 2014 |
tintingz: Because you and your friend had bad experience in a polygamous home doesn't apply to every polygamous home. Stop the lies. Why cant you give details? The people with bad experiences with polygamy have given detailed stories of how they suffered. You are just telling us with one line that you are happy. How many wives in your family? How does the husband apportion time and resources between wives? 1 Like |
Family / Re: A Thread For "Everything Polygamy"! by logicboy01: 7:03am On Oct 01, 2014 |
iyaire: @Godsdivinefavour I admire your courage and I understand how difficult the decision will be, I also grew up in a polygamous home thou my mum and stepmum never lived together, fast forward dad died stepmum was busy making troubles over properties she met on ground guess she also died fighting. I just feel living together will make issues worst richybanky: Polygamous family is a war on is own.. I also came out from a polygamous family, if I start narrating wat my eyes went tru from my fathers house walaii I won't finish it cus its a seasonal movie on its own.. My father married 7 wives tho I don't knw his first and second wife, dey both gave him 1'1 guys which I don't even knw dere wer about my mum was d 4th same like 2nd since 1st&2nd ar nt staying wit him It is good that we are seeing the bad side of polygamy. People are giving their testimonies. I wonder how any young man or woman of this generation (20- 35 years) who is educated and stable can look at polygamy and see it as a wise choice. We know that muslims and traditionalists are here to defend their inferior ideologies. Sha the truth is coming out. 4 Likes |
Family / Re: A Thread For "Everything Polygamy"! by logicboy01: 6:59am On Oct 01, 2014 |
tintingz: You haven't explain to us what you mean by advance countries. Akon is muslim. A hypocritical one at that. You should be careful about the people you hype. Akon is an American. Polygamy is illegal in America. I do not know why you are such a liar and so dull. Funny how you put the opinion of a widely-criticized feminist as something serious. lol. Why not find out what majority of feminists say on polygamy rather than post the rantings of one fringe extremist feminist? ============================================ How do you rank an advanced country? -high literacy rates -high income per head -human rights eg freedom of religion, speech etc -Equality of income (when it comes to income redistribution) -High economic standard of li -lots of exports (positive balance of trade) Your Arab countries (UAE KUWAIT SAUDI) mentioned lag far behind western countries on this criteria. 1 Like |
Family / Re: A Thread For "Everything Polygamy"! by logicboy01: 4:54am On Oct 01, 2014 |
BABE3: lmao.......I just have to laugh. Maybe when you grow up, you will understand why advanced countries do not legalize polygamy. For now, you are deluded by your own environment or culture. You said that you have given tax solutions when in reality, you are talking like a financial illiterate. Grow up. Even business partnerships between only 2 people can take years of litigation to share assets in dissolution. You think that it would be easy to share stuff during death/divorce in a polygamous family where documentation of assets is not legally required and hence lacking compared to a business partnership? I want women to have choices. Does that mean I should support the wrong and illegal choices they make? Do you think at all? 1 Like |
Family / Re: A Thread For "Everything Polygamy"! by logicboy01: 4:50am On Oct 01, 2014 |
BABE3: lmao.......I just have to laugh. Maybe when you grow up, you will understand why advanced countries do not legalize polygamy. For now, you are deluded by your own environment or culture. 1 Like |
Family / Re: A Thread For "Everything Polygamy"! by logicboy01: 9:08pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
coogar: Sexuality nko? |
Family / Re: A Thread For "Everything Polygamy"! by logicboy01: 9:00pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
coogar: I have a dislike for romance/sexuality section frequents. Thanks to ishilove. We have never met. 1 Like |
Family / Re: A Thread For "Everything Polygamy"! by logicboy01: 8:56pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
coogar: oh, the feeling is mutual. I had beef for you long time ago. 1 Like |
Family / Re: A Thread For "Everything Polygamy"! by logicboy01: 8:52pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
coogar: lol.....my parents have been married for almost 40 years now. Go and sleep. by the way, I am an atheist......put that in your pipe and smoke it 1 Like |
Family / Re: A Thread For "Everything Polygamy"! by logicboy01: 8:48pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
BABE3: Dont call me misogynistic abeg. Dont use that word lightly. Please, understand what an analogy is. I never said that the women in polygamy are slaves (although they have slave-like reasoning). Note that I am not also talking about ALL women. Just some women who have chosen to be shared like a toy. Husband with 4 wives works 9-5 from monday to friday....has only 6 hours to meet them on monday to friday evening before he sleeps. out of those 6 hours, he will waste 1 hour coming from work. 5 hours left. Do you think those five hours a day on weekdays is enough time to emotionally connect with wives? 1 hour each for each wife.....shared like a toy 1 Like |
Family / Re: A Thread For "Everything Polygamy"! by logicboy01: 8:42pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
BABE3: I feel that you are too young or simple minded on this issue. Life is not a bed of roses. Marriage is difficult....talkless about marriage between 3 or more people 1 Like |
Family / Re: A Thread For "Everything Polygamy"! by logicboy01: 8:41pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
tintingz: Prostitution? after she's with a child? 1) UAE lacks freedom of religion, scientific research and innovation, a strong manufacturing sector, a sensible number of multi-nationals etc 2) You didnt know who morticia is. Stop lying that you are a fan of Addams family. 3) You didnt understand the context of her quote. Left alone, it makes sense but when you see that she is a weird goth/witch/satanist, you will understand that it is actually not a quote a muslim should use. Gay people have used a similar quote too. 4) Fela is not a witch/satanist. Witches/satanists are condemned in the bible..... 5) I use slavery as an analogy 6) Single mamassssss 1 Like |
Family / Re: A Thread For "Everything Polygamy"! by logicboy01: 8:08pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
coogar: www.nairaland.com/attachments/1746202_obamalaugh300x200_jpeg9dc5298243e7b91e7485aaf305010e8e 2 Likes |
Religion / Re: Is It A Sin Not To Want Kids? by logicboy01: 7:29pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
striktlymi: The new york times already lists overpopulation issues that are currently challenging Nigerians and you are here looking for a way to lie that that Nigeria is not overpopulated? -traffic jams (too many cars) -inadequate housing facilities for the masses -50% unemployment I understand that it is only after you personally get hit by some of these issues that you will admit that Nigeria is overpopulated now. |
Religion / Re: When You Fellow Atheist Falls Your Hand (seun Osewa) by logicboy01: 6:09pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
Seun: I just misunderstood what they were saying. Nothing to see here. And you shared it? |
Religion / Re: When You Fellow Atheist Falls Your Hand (seun Osewa) by logicboy01: 6:07pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
[size=3pt]Please, let no tool come and try to derail this thread by either claiming that I am usermane or that I have not put up evidence for what I have said[/size] |
Religion / When You Fellow Atheist Falls Your Hand (seun Osewa) by logicboy01: 6:06pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
It is bad enough that my fellow atheist, Seun Osewa is silent on the atheist discrimination that goes on on the religion section (to be fair, it has now died down) but now, we have Seun Osewa supporting abuse and religious bigotry. One thing that is dividing islam and christianity is sectarianism. Different denominations or sects of a religion fighting each other. I just went to my shared posts and found out that Seun shared this post; Ayinba1: You have been outed. OR you only see what your eyes choose to see.https://www.nairaland.com/1794405/islam-muslims-side-talk-station/29#26747149 This shared comment is a reply to Usermane. The comment is accusing Usermane of being a preacher of violence and supporting terrorists (ISIL). To put more nuance and context into this issue, one has to understand that Usermane is a liberal muslim who doesnt take some sunni interpretations while Ayinba1 and many other muslims on the section are conservative muslims. They have been branding Usermane as a fake muslim or a heretic for sometime.....which is very wrong. Sectarianism- "your interpretation of islam is wrong and mine is right". Furthermore, if you follow the line of argument in the thread, the argument was about "who is responsible for isis and prophecy about isis". Usermane was only saying that 1) Islam (violent interpretations) and the west both are responsible for ISIL 2) That there was no prophecy in the holy books about ISIL. Yet, we have fellow muslims calling Usermane a preacher of violence. This has been a constant trend of mockery and abuse of Usermane as a "heretic". For Seun to support this abuse is shameful. Rule number 2. Also, there is no atheist, christian or pagan here that will describe usermane as violent. Usermane always uses peaceful language, doesnt insult and is very liberal and openminded. In my village, the old men say that "a great man is one whose enemies still praise". tags; usermane, ayinba1, maclatunji, mukina2, mynd44, |
Religion / Re: What Is Your Position On Letting Your Children Play With Children Of Atheists? by logicboy01: 5:42pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
DOnly1: Never, what union has light got with darkness. And your arrogant pharisee self will think that you are the light. |
Family / Re: A Thread For "Everything Polygamy"! by logicboy01: 5:39pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
coogar: See this olodo. You call scientific research "opinions"? Dullard 2 Likes |
Family / Re: A Thread For "Everything Polygamy"! by logicboy01: 5:38pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
BABE3: I will leave you to deceive yourself that such things are easy. You have probably blinded yourself to the fights and struggle for property/assets that polygamy has wrecked on many Nigerian families. Maybe when you have seen a friend busted for tax evation or filled a tax form yourself, you will understand 1 Like |
Family / Re: A Thread For "Everything Polygamy"! by logicboy01: 5:28pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
coogar: Do you hear that? That is the sound of you losing the argument Please take note of my earlier post listing the top advanced countries. Maybe I will take you seriously if you tried to put hard evidence behind your posts 1 Like |
Family / Re: A Thread For "Everything Polygamy"! by logicboy01: 5:23pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
tintingz: So you are the one to make choices for these women? No. I never said that. Strawman tintingz: Single motherhood also led some women into prostitution. This is a trivial matter tintingz: Dont mix "beautiful" with "Advanced". UAE lacks so many things that an advanced country shouldnt when you compare it with the West. tintingz: You are a muslim quoting a satanist/witch character from a western cartoon. I find this hilarious. You are quoting someone that is trying to make her satanic rituals sound normal. lmao tintingz: of course. 1 Like |
Family / Re: A Thread For "Everything Polygamy"! by logicboy01: 5:16pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
tintingz: Like BABE3 said polygamy can't work if women don't accept the proposal. Slavery also cant work if men dont sell their brethren into slavery and slaves do not revolt. You and BABE3 are pointless. You talk as if women dont make wrong choices. 1 Like |
Family / Re: A Thread For "Everything Polygamy"! by logicboy01: 5:13pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
coogar: based on what factual standard? is it more literate, more technologically advanced, more gender equal, more developed? How many things do you have that are produced from the west and those produced in Abu dabi? The very Abu Dhabi that was constructed with the help of western expatriate Engineers? If I didnt know better, I would have claimed that you are a muslim conspiracy theorist like the ones we have on NL 2 Likes |
Family / Re: A Thread For "Everything Polygamy"! by logicboy01: 5:10pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
coogar: See this one Saudi UAE and Kuwait all have incomplete or a lack of ra.pe statistics, yet you feel bold enough to compare it with the USA and the West that do not hide their statistics? Gay people deserve rights. Do you even know that Saudi beheads more people than ISIS? [size=14pt]Please look at the top ten advanced countries and point out where you will find UAE, Kuwait and Saudi. One of us is talking with hard evidence and one of us is talking nonsense from his azzhole[/size] ======================================== top 10 countries for women (BBC + World Economic Forum) 1. Iceland 2. Finland 3. Norway 4. Sweden 5. Philippines 6. Ireland 7. New Zealand 8. Denmark 9. Switzerland 10. Nicaragua http://www.bbc.com/news/world-24650912 Top 10 most advanced countries (Human Development Index 2014) 1)Norway 0.891 (Steady) 2)Australia 0.860 (Steady) 3)Netherlands 0.854 (Increase 1) 4)Switzerland 0.847 (Increase 3) 5)Germany 0.846 (Steady) 6)Iceland 0.843 (Increase 2) 7)Sweden 0.840 (Decrease 4) 8.)Denmark 0.838 (Increase 1) 9)Canada 0.833 (Increase 4) 10)Ireland 0.832 (Decrease 4) 1 Like |
Family / Re: A Thread For "Everything Polygamy"! by logicboy01: 3:39pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
tintingz: Lol Face me like a man, bro 1 Like |
Family / Re: A Thread For "Everything Polygamy"! by logicboy01: 3:39pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
BABE3: because women cant make wrong choices abi? mtchew |
Family / Re: A Thread For "Everything Polygamy"! by logicboy01: 3:37pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
coogar: There is no need to argue any more with you. You have lost and are shifting the argument. Furthermore, you talk like a local person. How can someone compare UAE, Kuwait and Saudi to the west? Google the most advanced countries and the most female friendly countries and see whether you will find any of these three in the top 10 rankings. Polygamy is illegal in advanced countries and in the top 10 countries for women ranking. Go figure. Their societies are progressing without your barbaric practice of polygamy 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Nigeria/nairaland And It's Horde Of Fake Atheist. by logicboy01: 3:30pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
Ukutsgp: that is what i'm saying. there are no true atheist in Nigeria. it is those confused christians that call themselves atheist including u. You are raving mad. I know you do not have one single atheist friend and that is why you are ranting nonsense |
Family / Re: A Thread For "Everything Polygamy"! by logicboy01: 3:28pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
BABE3: Of course, I will support any wife that wants to leave polygamy. If all the parties agree, who is then going to go through the wahala of reconciling their public records? How do you tax a man with four wives sensibly? How do you divide the assets or inheritance of a family with four wives? If a man has four wives, how does one divide a compound into four? Who then owns the property when the man dies? Who owns the deeds to the house? Do you think western society rejects polygamy without thinking? Do you know that wills are contested? Do you know that many even die without wills? A monogamous marriage is very easy to settle in times of divorce, inhertiance and settlements. It will easily be between the alive spouse and children. 4 Likes |
Family / Re: A Thread For "Everything Polygamy"! by logicboy01: 3:21pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
tintingz: Some women make the wrong choices. Some women are desperate to escape from poverty and they become second or third wives. It still doesnt make it right. Single mothers is another issue for another day.. Right and wrong are a matter of reasoning, logic and effectiveness. Advanced societies try their best to adhere to policies that work, that are logical and that are a result of serious reasoning/planning. Polygamy is neither effective or logical from a societal point of view. tintingz: Slavery is also beneficial to the slave-master and the house-negro (house-slave). It doesnt mean that slavery is good. Do you know that some house slaves wouldnt leave their slave masters because of the free housing and food? 2 Likes |
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