My friend's 15 years old son scored higher

They say she chased him away because he was obstructing her runs

questioner:
My mum has people staying with her - my niece, an extended family member and a close family friend and her daughter.
We are okay with it cos it ensures she always has company and reduces the need to always travel to check on her.


Recently the monthly subscription I do on the router at home, which usually has carry over data by the time it expires, now lasts about a week before they start calling me to renew
Everybody in the house denied being the cause of the data drain.


Last week, I came to spend some days at my mum's and first thing I did was to install a network tracker to monitor.
Long story short, I discovered the excessive consumption was from my niece but that's not the major issue.
She was visiting porn sites which was draining data but that's still not the major prob.
My problem was the frequency and how long she spent on porn daily.


The day I came, after she retreated to her room, the porn streaming started and didn't stop until the family member sharing a room with her came back at night.
The next morning once the other lady left for work, she continued with the porn until it was time to leve for her lessons.
Once she came back in the afternoon, she did some chores, ate, sat around the sitting room for a while and went inside
and boom the porn resumed until the other girl came around hours later. This was practically the routine for the 4 days I stayed there.


The day I was to leave I told my mum that I observed the drain came from my niece and blocked her from the router.
She called my niece and questioned her but she denied knowing anything about it, I spared her blushes by saying sometimes apps have background processes that consume data without the owner knowing.


Ever since, I have been wondering if I handled the situation properly.
I didn't confront her about it cos I was concerned about the embarrassment she will feel for a male family to find out about her secret.
She might even assume I have told my mum or my elder bro (her dad), which might weigh her down emotionally.


Also, I am concerned if this is a sign of promiscuity, she will be 17 next month And aside the fact that she's quite tall, she might as well pass for a 14 year old. She's barely endowed for her age- bottomline, not the kind of girl, you will associate with waywardness.

My question is
1. Would it have been better if I had confronted her
2. Is this a possible sign of promiscuity ? - if so, I will suggest mum sends her back to her Dad cos I am not sure at her advanced age
she should be dealing with issues like this, to avoid stories that touch later on

I don't know why you elders misbehave in the name of being civil.

My friend, that moment you found out, call her out and warn her sternly. Tell her everything you know and teach her about the dangers of porn and masturbation (Since she's addicted, she is presumably masturbating).
Guy help her to be free from that spiritual clutches she's confined herself to.

Kenneth4u205:
So how does cars drive in ?

See question

"I love her"

Oya untie your wife's mouth na

Emperormartin:

In my secondary school during early 2000's in one of the schools in the east, the overall first position was usually a young boy from Adamawa state.

Each term he takes the position; he was simply undisputed and he's been till today celebrated in that school.

What puzzled everyone even our parents back home was the young man doesn't speak Igbo; understands little Igbo and his igbo scores are somewhat low but he uses other subjects to capitalize.

With this, I still believe there are bright brains in the north though their numbers might be few...

We equally need to see northern girls take great stride in education

The Adamawa boy was outstanding because it was unfortunate that your set had the worst dullards at that time

buygala:
I prefer the Chicken head


I love sucking out the chicken's brains and eyes, then chewing its skull... Very yummy

Cannibals on Nairaland

Terrible country! First day I landed US, Philadelphia. My gf took me out to take a walk that morning, just in front of her house there one guy shot a young man dead.
In the evening, I saw the shooter drinking in the same bar we went to. Na me come dey pray make the guy no recognize me. SMH

Student loan...
Oya all of us go turn to students overnight o. Problem is, na some greedy Nigerian Lecturers Dem go use the money sort. Thieves

People wey never fit refund Palmpay and Okash. Una decide to give loan. No wahala o

FG will arrest whoever fails to repay. The one una dey owe China, anybody arrest una? Lol

Sijo01:



Where in the video did you hear all that you wrote here?

Though the voice over covered their voices. I watched the video earlier on another platform. The only thing the girl was begging for was that the guy should return her powerbank he took to enable her charge her phone and pay.

If not that the guy is stuupid and broke, looking for who to embarrass and trend, why will he cease the girl's powerbank. Nonsense

This thing just dey pain me. I wish I can see the guy face to face and punch him in the face. What right does he have to embarrass the lady like that? Mscheew

Unfortunately, she went out on a date with a very useless man with poverty mentality. Food of 12k is not big enough to cause such public fuss and video recording just to tarnish her image.
It's too pity.

virginchaser:


No, don't go there. In my house in the eighties. We got over ten functional televisions, three video players and one big satellite dish.

Lies

20 TV? The house na hotel?

Abi if moderators update scores EFCC go arrest them?

Congratulations to them. We all know they will kill Chelsea as it stands now

ahnie:
The cheap meal I prepared as dinnerwith just #500
Ingredients
2 sachet tomatoes paste
Ginger n garlic
One knoor seasoning used.
Sachet Benny
Groundnut oil
Crayfish(optional)
My fam is a sucker for crayfish.
Fresh tomatoes
8 cone of raw eggs
Fresh pepper
Fresh tomatoes.

I agree this meal is N500 but you get yam, eggs, all ingredients for house except crayfish N500.

nairalandkachy1:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9fG09a7r0SQ

Seun: There was a lot of money that exchanged hands in that election, who bankrolled you?

Dino: Anyways, I am not a staff of the EFCC or ICPC, so I wouldn't know if there was...but the issue you know is that if at my level I cannot finance a Primary, then there is a problem somewhere but definitely God bankrolled me.

I bank with the Almighty God.

Seun: How much did you give to the delegates for mobilisation?

Dino: I gave them anointing oil and it did the magic.

Seun: Really

Dino: Yea, I just told you my belief in Phillipians 4:19 (that God will supply all my needs according to his riches in Glory in Christ Jesus and I am telling you he did it.

Please any link to get the full video? Na Wike part I wan hear. I mean the man that thwarted Peter Obi's votes in Rivers State

highchief1:
ur voice is so Igbotic I couldn’t watch it.next time don’t talk just mute ur voice.U r not even educated.

Because of your comment, I clicked that red button to hear gaffes only to hear an eloquent person speak.

Your craze remain one bar before e go catch up with you.. werey

What is Kwakwanso's name doing on that list

These guys could be working for Atiku o

Emefiele is seriously unserious

Emefiele is seriously unserious

Napata77:


You are a small, ignorant kid full of lip, so let me school you.

A metro system is an intra-city network that may or may not have underground tracks depending on several factors as earlier mentioned.

There is nothing particularly 'advanced' about having underground lines, as all it takes is digging and tunnelling. The British were doing this over 100 years ago using antiquated machinery.

They make more sense in cold, temperate climates where the enclosure underground provides natural heating, and are very costly in humid, tropical nations with their need for expensive 24/7 cooling and ventilation systems.

NIGERIA is ranked among the few African nations with a metro system, one in Lagos and the other in Abuja.

There are 'advanced' European and Asian nations, and nations in the Americas, with NO metro systems, as shown in this map.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_metro_systems#/media/File:World_Metro_systems.svg

So get rid of your complex and low self esteem.

This your educative explanation knocked your rival out with 360 hit mortal Kombat combo. The 'full' lip had to shut the "f" up.

However, you guys could have argued without abusing each other. Which one is dingbat, dolt etc. 😂 Una two no get sense!

I thought I would be the first to comment on this thread but unfortunately there are so many jobless people here on Nairaland.

Now Lampard is now one of them.

If you get Ulcer your name na sorry.

No listen to that girl wey dey shout

Murife.... don't ran, don't rún

This is the second time this week that the APC presidential candidate is suffering a gaffe.

And those selfish politicians, seeing the bloopers still be hovering around him like windfall buffeted apples. All because of money.

Sproposito! �‍♂️

I don buy fuel. Buy popcorn. Chase everybody from upstairs, my private sitting room. I don buy beer too.
I've done my own part. Na Dem I dey wait

Small yansh dey shake o

Good one to compensate for the loss

Arise TV, now Osinbajo. Why is everybody apologizing to Tinubu.

Wetin him go do sef? Him go beat person?

There you go again... snitching!

£5m is equivalent to N4bn

If I decide to be paying myself N4m every month like an oil worker, in 80 years I can't finish N4bn.

This is what people are using to buy NONSENSE house. Mscheew