Politics › Re: Imo Gunmen Kidnap Four Catholic Sisters by lokito: 6:32am On Aug 22, 2022 |
Shedrack777: i just hope and pray they don't fvck them If they try it, God will not show a pinch of compassion on them. His wives, Hmmm |
Celebrities › Re: DJ Cuppy Reacts To Anthony Joshua's Loss To Usyk In Heavyweight Rematch by lokito: 11:00pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
She's a humble Lady. God bless you for encouraging our champ. Lose or win, we are proud of you Joshua but e pain me enter bone Sha..Bet9ja win lass lass  |
|
Politics › Re: Ado Doguwa: Don’t Blame Buhari For Security Crisis by lokito: 10:47pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Yeah right. Let's blame the man putting on the mask. |
Celebrities › Re: Kizz Daniel: This Is The Most Handsome Musician In Nigeria! (Photos) by lokito: 10:19pm On Aug 21, 2022 |
Islandlady: No doubt Kizz Daniel who's real name is "Oluwatobilola Daniel" is the most handsome cute male musician and he is one of the most successful and talented singer in the country!
He is tall, Dark, cute, physical well built. . .He also have dimples 
He has a very wonderful and lovely voice too! Kizz has been giving us hit songs back to back, especially Buga!
This is my opinion. . . You might agree or disagree! Thanks. I'll put DJ Xclusive and Flavor in front of him. Imo |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija: Housemates Up For Possible Eviction This Week by lokito: 11:39pm On Aug 15, 2022 |
Promosaver: I never think of my life finish na show way I know go benefit anything I go come day think for Abeg next news for better naija  My dear...show wey Dem dey overhype. Ask me which BBN past participant or even winners dey the entertainment limelight. Who dey remember Tacha, Tobi, Alex, Mercy, Laycon, White money, Miracle and that werey wey say him na rapper? After BBN okpari |
Travel › Re: Cameroonian Man Excited As He Relocates From Poland To Nigeria For Better Life by lokito: 9:53pm On Aug 10, 2022 |
Just one year later una go dey hear "What sort of a country is this?" |
Christianity Etc › Re: Woman Teaches Married Couple How To Pray During Sex For God's Blessing At Orgasm by lokito: 12:02am On Aug 09, 2022 |
|
Politics › Re: Politicians Recruiting Cultists, Ex-convicts To Cause Trouble In Rivers – Wike by lokito: 9:51pm On Aug 07, 2022 |
The man has less than 10 months to stay, yet he's looking for scapegoats this period. |
TV/Movies › Re: Beauty Disqualified From Big Brother Naija by lokito: 6:58pm On Aug 07, 2022 |
I just dey shame for her |
Celebrities › Re: After Giving Him All Styles, He Left Me. I Don’t Think I Can Marry Again – Korra by lokito: 7:55pm On Aug 03, 2022 |
Next move she's gon start sleeping with married men. Life |
Celebrities › Re: Caroline Danjuma Laments About Traffic In Banana Island After Paying N3bn by lokito: 11:55am On Jul 28, 2022 |
3bn naira in banana Island. Lies |
Health › Re: My Girlfriend After Checking Her HIV Status Told Me This by lokito: 12:19pm On Jul 24, 2022 |
Babisha10: Can't u do the test for her urself? I taya o. Just buy HIV kit test her yourself. Simple |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija Season 7: Full List Of Past Winners & What They Now Do For A Living by lokito: 9:50am On Jul 24, 2022 |
Wait this thing I'm seeing on channel 198 na big brother house abi big brother boys quarter. Is there another house ni? |
Politics › Re: Osun Election: Aregbesola Posts Cryptic Message On Facebook, Deletes It by lokito: 11:32am On Jul 17, 2022 |
Pst |
Christianity Etc › Re: Soludo Demolishes Odumeje’s Church In Anambra This Morning (Pictures) by lokito: 3:17pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
Chai The Liquid Metal don cool down like Liquid ice block |
Christianity Etc › Re: Fr. Evaristus Bassey: ''Virgin Mary Appeared To Church Members In Calabar" by lokito: 11:29pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
Ijoba85: It would have been better you were never born cos you are such an unfortunate being joking with your Maker. I hope God forgive your sin cos only Him own your spirit He's such a nonentity |
Christianity Etc › Re: Fr. Evaristus Bassey: ''Virgin Mary Appeared To Church Members In Calabar" by lokito: 11:25pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
dazzlingd:

Same Virgin Mary whey dey collect doggy from comrade holy spirit idiot |
Christianity Etc › Re: Fr. Evaristus Bassey: ''Virgin Mary Appeared To Church Members In Calabar" by lokito: 11:23pm On Jul 01, 2022 |
VeryWickedGoat: That means some people must have peeped her kpekus because I can that see she wore a gown May God forgive your asininity. Idiot |
Politics › Re: Philip Aduda is New Senate Minority Leader, Ahmad Lawan Announces Defections by lokito: 1:31pm On Jun 21, 2022 |
Wahalumm |
Politics › Re: Atiku Jettisons PDP Committee Report, To Pick Okowa As Running Mate by lokito: 6:53am On Jun 16, 2022 |
|
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Liverpool Vs Real Madrid UCL Final (0 - 1) On 28th May 2022 by lokito: 9:26pm On May 28, 2022 |
Pure goal |
Politics › Re: Wike’s Anointed Candidate, Fubara Emerges PDP Flagbearer In Rivers by lokito: 10:39pm On May 25, 2022 |
How does a commission declare someone wanted yet the person is winning election in a conspicuous place while the 'declarers' are busy breaking another man's doors and ceilings? |
Politics › Re: Bandits Kidnap Many Travellers On Abuja-Kaduna Expressway by lokito: 11:18pm On May 17, 2022 |
No sane person should travel to Abuja or the North by road for now please. If you're ibo or Yoruba living there look for a way and relocate. No place like home, at least to an extent. |
Science/Technology › Re: What Hasn't Been Invented, But Needs To Be ASAP by lokito: 2:31pm On May 15, 2022 |
Wireless Television |
TV/Movies › Re: Drop A Famous Line From A Popular Movie & Someone Will Guess The Movie Name! by lokito: 2:31pm On May 13, 2022 |
If you weren't such a clotpole, you'd see that... |
Romance › Re: Boyfriend Retrieves All He Bought For Girlfriend After He Saw Her With A Guy by lokito: 8:59am On Apr 22, 2022 |
The blogger is talking nonsense. Absolute balderdash. The guy should return all the fxxks |
Celebrities › Re: Fan Thrown Off Stage For Interrupting Davido At Rick Ross' Lagos Concert (Video) by lokito: 6:46am On Apr 16, 2022 |
Yamayama fan for that matter o. Lol |
Celebrities › Re: Davido Acquires Large Expanse Of Land In Banana Island To Build His Dream Home by lokito: 7:54am On Apr 15, 2022 |
Very soon if Davido buy new boxers he will post it. Childish |
Crime › Re: Why Did The Prisoner Choose The Bread Instead Of the Key by lokito: 6:49pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
The entire mindset of the prisoner is to eat first. There is a possibility that he didn't even notice the key. However, let's say he noticed the key, before that move, all he wants first is to eat, get strength to unlock the gate and move.
Even if he goes for the key first, there are hurdles (police and sentries scattered around) to face prior to escape that will require lots of strength. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Tiffany Trump And Michael Boulos Visit Pastor Paul Adefarasin In Lagos by lokito: 6:31am On Apr 12, 2022 |
She wanna marry a Lebanese man be that o. Those people get sense pass Mbaise people o. Tiffany looks pregnant tho |
Family › Re: My Experience As A Married Woman Being Best Friends With A Married Man by lokito: 11:30am On Apr 07, 2022 |
chioma134: This post was triggered by an earlier post I saw where the poster was having long talks with his friend's wife. I've been in a similar situation. I changed location and had to be separate from my family due to work. I was lonely and needed a friend. I talk with my husband regularly, but his interests are not my interests, so I find that besides household and family matters, we have little else to talk about. I found myself talking to this guy I met when I went for an official assignment. We started as friends, but we became attracted to each other. So when I travelled back to base, we started these long conversations. We're both born-again Christians and both married, so we kept to certain boundaries. I enjoyed conversing with him more than with my spouse. I became consumed with thoughts of him. He also expressed his desire and attraction towards me, but we laughed over it as jokes.
My husband noticed the conversations when I travelled home and became suspicious. He forbade me from speaking with him. He had never seen me have long talks with any friend, talkless of a male one. I informed my friend and he said no problem, he would wait till I travelled back to work base before he would continue. He later travelled to meet his family and conversation became scanty. I realized how much I was addicted to him when I couldn't talk to him as much as I wanted. He returned to base and we continued like before.
I started praying for God to help me overcome these desires. Maybe he also felt the same, because for some reasons I don't know, he reduced the frequency of calls and chats drastically. I didn't try to find out why, just thought the time-off would help me clear out immoral thoughts. But I got hurt when he acted indifferent on one occasion when I felt he should have shown more care. I asked him about it and he pretended not to understand what I was talking about. I read the writing on the wall, and decided to play along. So I said "bye. It was nice meeting you." Part of me was grateful it ended, another part was wishing I could still be with him. I love my husband and children, I cannot come and scatter my home.
He thought I was joking. I was no longer responding to his chats, and when I did, only with monosyllables. He became hurt and accused me of going silent on him. I told him he started it. He wanted me to become defensive, but the Holy Spirit whispered "keep quiet ". So I allowed him rant without saying anything. I thank God I didn't, because I would have exposed how deep my true feelings for him were.
Right now, he chats once in a while, just general "how are you". I say "fine". My feelings have healed and I thank God we didn't continue because I wouldn't have been able to stop myself from an affair if we had eventually had any physical contact. I can categorically say I'm no longer in love with him.
I penned these down for those struggling with similar situations. Just cut off the relationship. Stop conversation, chatting, or physical contact. Then pray for God to help you overcome those lusty feelings. This should be like the best terse story I've read here recently. Not that first thread littered around with windfall-buffeted promiscuous sinners |