Wizpa: Questions that make people hate you (stupid questions to avoid as a bachelor)
1. When will you get a job: In a digital age where alot of businesses are online, people make 6-7 figures from there living room, this question would be appropriate if we were still living in an industrial age. Only unexposed people ask such kind of questions.
2. When will you get married: marriage is not meant for everyone and except you are ready to support financially, this topic should stay out of your lips. Getting married is one thing, staying married is another.
3. Why are you still awake by this time: while you are enthused about your 9-5, you won't expect someone else to be like you... most mental work is done in the midnight and the best decisions of ones life are made during times.
4. Why eat outside instead of cooking your food: we all know how expensive gas is in nigeria, how time consuming cooking can be, and the energy you put into it while still thinking of preserving the left overs except you have a fridge. Taking a stroll to your favourite canteen wont only save you time and energy but will get you a delicious meal.
5. Did you go to church or why didn't you go to church: Excuse me!!, serving God shouldn't be a routine but a willingness (from your heart). Times you feel energetic to go to church might be the time someone else needs to sort things out. Do not be self righteous/hypocritical.
Feel free to add yours
Which kain digital job pesin fit learn/do whey go give 6-7 figure income?
prettysassygirl: Well I beg to disagree, Yes I know divorce is bad for children,I am a product of a divorced home and it happened when I was very young but I and my siblings turned out fine. If the parent that is with the children is strong , responsible and dedicated to the children ,the children would turn out fine too.
It's someone else that will have to pass that judgement. Divorce 'always' have effect on children. You might not even know you have the problem.
BESTScientist1: The reward for folly isn't just for the foolish but also for the spreader(s).... So be careful....you can't afford to be foolish in 2022.... There are more serious issues bedevilling this country than this
Guest2008: How Can I Help My Brother Out Of This Mess
Good afternoon nairalanders. As I'm typing this, my mum is not herself and she's been crying since morning because she caught my younger one smoking in his room..
He locked himself in the room for a very long time and my mum decided to go check on him. After a while, he sprayed his room and opened the door.
The room was filled with this hard drug smell, she called me and we decided to check the room even though he denied ever smoking.. We saw a light brown paper that he probably tears from, a nylon containing something like sand and a lighter behind the toilet seat. Despite all this, he still denied it claiming the smell is probably from the next compound. My brother just clocked 16 and he's in SS2..
How can I advise and help him stop because I believe he was actually smoking even though he denied it?
Optimistic4life: Year 2021 February to be precise, my husband served me a divorce notice. Though I saw it coming as we have been separated for some months. The case is still in court though.
We are blessed with 3 kids under 10.
Soon the divorce will be finalized and we will both move on.
How easy is it adjusting to a new life as a divorced lady?
I just want to let it out as I have never discussed this with anyone. Just my immediate family members knows about it.
What is life like out there for me?
The shame, mockery, coping with kids alone, moving on etc
3 more emotional imbalance young adults will be released in the next decade.