₦airaland Forum

etrange:
She'll not be bashed. She'll not be called names like "smelly", "olosho", "snatcher" and other unprintable names Nairaland boys use. You know why? Cause she appeared to have left her career to stay at home and breed kids; just the fate a typical Nairaland boy believes is ideal for a woman. Any other thing outside this is "olosho", "old woman", etc...

That said, I love Mercy Johnson. She's smart and I'm certain she knows what's best for herself. I just miss seeing her face in recent movies. Congrats mama!

She is still doing movies up till tomorrow, she does more of comedy now...

dannyla:
I opened a new account to remain anonymous.
This story is a bit long but pls bear with me.

I met this man almost 2yrs ago at an event a friend invited me to. The next week, he collected my number from my friend and called me, we began talking from there and agreed to go on a date. He proposed marriage to me on the first date which I rejected. I told him that I can't marry outside my church and from the little I've heard from him, our life dreams differ. I decided to cut him off from that day and I stayed away for about 3months. Meanwhile he got my friend to introduce him to my sis, mum and another friend who happened to be from his place, I'll call her Grace.
He made them all aware of his intent towards me and my stand and asked for their help to change my mind. Grace became his biggest ally and convinced me to have another date. He asked that we date for a while and see if we can work out our differences. During the date I noticed he has a very hot and quick temper and he listens to gossip a lot so I do tell Gracethat I don't see a future with him but he was too persistent, Grace always had words of encouragement and considering the fact that for some strange reason, it was mainly married men always approach me for a relationship with stories of how they got married to a wrong woman and they are or are almost divorced, dating a single man with no kids was very tempting and I decided to give it a try.

He asked me to tell him everything about me so there are no secrets between us and I did. Starting from secondary school to that day, I told him everything, from my first kiss, the colleague who tried to rape me, my ex who lied about his marital status and disvirgined me etc. he did the same too and I felt a burden roll off my shoulder.

Few days later I began to notice changes in him especially towards my business. I thrive in a male dominated industry in a ratio of 9men to 1woman. He asked me to show him the pictures of my colleagues which I did, he also asked if they make passes at me which I said is almost inevitable but my boundaries are clear and rigid.

Fast forward to now. I noticed that whenever I drop my phone, he goes through it. Facebook, sms, WhatsApp etc. He even picks my call when I'm not close to the phone. He asked me about a certain colleague who cracks dirty jokes like how I rushed to get married (I told him I'm already married). I didn't think much about it.

He later began to complain about my partners and how I'm sleeping with them like the prostitute I am, called me an unrepentant liar, unsubmisive, manipulating etc. Said he regrets asking for my hand at all and he's just waiting forthe day he'll catch me redhanded so he can dump my sorry a*s.
I told him to end it now cus I'm fed up, family came in and I later found out that Grace has been telling a lot of lies against hoping to get him for herself as well as hate filled advises from some aggrieved friends who felt ladies from my tribe are no good and just there to "chop money". Apologies were said and received and we continued.

Another time I visited him and we had an argument, he gave me several heavy knocks on my head and I developed a headache and began to insult him which resultedin more heavy knocks. I broke up with him and left. Later my mum called him to ask why he laid his hands on me, he denied it swearing with his life. Said I insulted him and he lost his temper and insulted me back that he's sorry. He began to drop messages everywhere and I eventually gave in.

3rd incident happened on our way back from an event. He saw a message from a colleague he told me to stop doing business with cus he feels the man has his eyes on me which is totally not true. He flared up, stopped the car and was even threatening to beat me up. I came down from his car and stood by the roadside. He came down too and gave me the insult of my life in full public view and glare and told me to enter the car which I refused. I had no money on me and had to beg a stranger for money. By that time he was coming back, he quickly took a picture of both of us and sent it to everybody of how he caught me in the act with my lover on the road. He called me and said that if he must marry me, I must break my business sim card and look for a wife friendly occupation or sit at home.

He later apologised over it. Meanwhile he and my sis don't flow as before as he once called her a prostitute.

I want to call it quits but everyone around me feels it's a mistake and he is saying everything out of anger and if I'm patient enough, he will change completely.

I must admit that he has changed alot since we met but the progress compared to the timeframe and the heat I face everyday is nothing to write home about.

He loves me to a fault and I don't know if I can find someone who loves me like him but his other attitude is sniffing life out of me. Do I stay or quit?
Thanks for reading and pardon any typos

Madam a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.. Be wise..

It looks like she was asked to Just sit there and snap pictures, doesnt look like she owns the place..

Mathscum:
New testament of the use of English that year . But you did not tell us what to use instead of opportuned, I think we can use fortunate, can we?

The correct word is opportune

judgementyard:
The governor is yet to visit

He has

mercyviv:
I said it, I said this man Moghalu is on its way to APC. His body language says it all!
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Did you even read the article!

Simplyleo:
SE and erosion matter sha.

But the mud red sha o.

The mud is Red here in Abuja.

zoba88:
A fast moving tanker this evening crushed a little boy dead at Upper Iweka along Express Way,Onitsha.May the Lord grant the little boy eternal rest.Amen.


Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2019/09/tanker-crushes-little-boy-dead-at-upper.html?m=1

The little boy was a disabled in his wheelchair,i think they use him for begging on that axis, i was there today, it was an eye sore..

frbona:
Please drop his name for NCAN assessment

UCHANNA ISRAEL UBUTT, this is not an Igbo name biko...

You can go to Chaste Intellect, a school in GRA Ilorin, they pay well and they even give you lunch... Thank me later...

kstyle2:
Perfect. Hopefully, other clubs will learn from this. I feel more funds need to be invested in our league. The matches should be televised, teams with the most turnout may receive some financial incentives, some of our ex players or maybe celebs should be paid to tweet about some matches and hopefully attend. This will attract people to come and watch. Local jerseys could be worn by governors of the state as well as encouraging wizkid, davido to promote our jerseys. In no distant time, our league will pick up

The matches are live on supersports..

holyidol:
Old man that is fucking his daughter's mate

He paid for it, he did it legally....

Sirjamo:
I don't know what the fuss is all about, we where importing toothpicks and pencils during the PDP years, those people left this country in ruins and its going to be years before anyone can clean up the mess.

We still import toothpick till this moment,no toothpick manufacturing company is in Nigeria..

IbrahimDamola:
But okanaube wait o...

I'm still trying to find out why smart is loved so much. Many people who voted PDP for presidency and YPP (Ifeanyi's uba) for senate vote Smart of APGA.
Commoners in Nnewi donated money, vehicles, just to ensure smart campaigns, win and go to Awka.

Tell me more about that guy.

He was outstanding during his reign as SUG president of Federal Polytechnic Oko

Cosplay:
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LN - Peoples Republic of China

I can only imagine how silly and foolish you must feel right now.

China is L only, LN means China and Nigeria..

wirinet:
I get your drift, but 70% is an over exaggeration. The whole engine, tyres, steel panels, electronics are all imported. It is few items like upholstery that can be sourced locally.

Don't say what you don't know please,the electricals, lighting's , upholstery including dashboard, mirrors,cars are now made with fibre not steel....etc are all made in Nigeria at innosons different factories.. Innoson manufactures motorcycles, also has a plastic industry...

He had her when he was 20yrs old!!! Wow

nija80:
Bros 10000 teachers?how many schools do you have in rivers state?,If they employ 100 teachers for a school which is not possible that makes it 100 schools.This is just politics pure and simple.so the man that said he will employ 1000 is still more reasonable and sincere

Have you toured Rivers state before? Teachers prefer to stay in the urban areas, I served in a rural community in Rivers, na only corpers de come school to teach even after Amaechi recruited 13,000 teachers...

This is a FAT lie, I know this family, the wife made up all the stories so she can get full custody of the twin boys...Please don't crucify him yet!!!

Aieboocaar:
So... a court order is now needed to pay a worker his entitlement in this damn country??!

I swear when i reach heaven, that angel wey send me come Nigeria at birth go chop better Superman punch from me
https://www.allwrestlingsuperstars.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/Roman-Reigns-Delivers-Superman-Punch-On-Brock-Face-Al128.jpg

That's if you go reach heaven sef.

This is what mine is saying..

Ikechuob:
So this nigga is a cross dressing prostitute? Hmmmm okay. I try not to judge gay people but for this one, i go judge am. Grown man doing sugarbaby. My disgust him na something else. Transgender HIV spreading mofo. Isn't it illegal to be gay in that country? Why is he still free? Shouldn't he be rotten in jail for 20 years?

, My dear its not illegal to be gay in Nigeria, its only illegal to be caught in the act and the witnesses must have video evidence not even pictures, for the accused to be sentenced....

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So he got married at 21?

Someone should please upload the song for us to download oh...

pinkguy:
finally

pls am part of information, pls keep in touch..

Jesus is NOT a Muslim,
Jesus didn't write the Bible,
Mohammed is not the comforter; because he is not a spirit, rather opposite,
The comforter Jesus promised Christians is the Holy Spirit,
You can't understand this if you're not a Christian..