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I feel so pained like your mom is my sister.
She is very soft and theres little you guys can do about it coupled with the fact that she is old she can not do much at the moment.

Your mom telling the children what she said was borne out of keeping too much within herself she just wanted to let something out. She never really wanted to make the children feel bad even if they might end up saying she said something bad cos of the way your dad reacted.

For the house tearing apart don't bother much, the house tore the day your dad made his 4 kid out of wedlock, if the first 3 was a mistake what about the next?

Please babe don't stress your life much with them, let your mom hold on to all her money and you guys should try to get comfortable as fast as possible, your mom will be too busy pursuing children and grandchildren visit for her to remember she has a husband that is misbehaving

Is this add supposed to be on Nairaland or some other foreign site?
We hardly rent/share rooms we rent houses

Maybe the cost of processing has increased.
The grinding machine uses diesel, the labor will add to their wages, firewood would have gone up and at the end of the day it comes out expensive

I see stroller as a very non-practical property to own in Nigeria. Where you wan carry the baby for stroller go?

Thalassemia? Leave that one, blood group is enough in Nigeria..
BTW have anyone seen any Nigerian with Thalassemia just wondering... Where do they do the test in the whole of Nigeria?

Seems baby mama is now a profession
Wetin I sabi?

24 hours to your wedding when everyone is beginning to annoy you.
Where did you tell your chief bridesmaid that you were going to?

We can move from friends to acquaintances..... If he pushes the friendship then I will run very far
If you have a problem you think I can solve then tell me straight up and same with me but all the lovey dovey friendship thing is no longer for me.

Weddings are so beautiful.. I love seeing pretty pics..

If I could do mine all over I will just go to Ikoyi and sign the dotted lines no time for stress

Fake lashes, colored hair possibly bleached skin and you are here coming to scream natural..

Even with my unending struggle with eye pencil I am 92% more natural than you

Thought I was going to read something educative

Hiss

My younger sister got married and had children before me
Didn't seem like anything to us at home
Wonder why it should be an issue

[quote author=ajibsca post=61003461]Cheap flights indeed. I actually flew them because I didn't book ahead since I had urgent business to do and the other better airlines were pretty expensive .Lesson learned,book flight ahead .

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My case was cos of the cost.
Very unimportant trip so I really needed the cheapest possible flight
The flight from Nigeria to Kigali was crappy while the other route was great

Flew Rwanda air..
I think Kigali has the dirtiest airport toilets in the world...
What cheap flights can cause

She could be suffering from postpartum depression
Didn't know what the next reasonable decision was to take
So just dropped the baby, money and birth certificate
Finding her will be very easy
She needs help

nairanaira12:
Anty please shut up. If you (either the man or the woman) refuses to condescend, that home can't be in peace. In a marriage, it isn't about you anymore; it is now about "us". Everything you do shouldn't be about what you feel is right or about the way your upbringing tells you it should be; it is now about "what will work for us"

Fool go and read my initial post again I see you lack comprehension skills..
Is there marriage I was talking about or people generally..

Go ahead fooling yourself with half of a brain that's in your skull

I have sympathy and empathy in large quantities but this man story just doesn't seem like one that deserves so much attention..
An accident victim claimed to be abandoned for 5 hours in Ore and 24 hours in casualty ward in UBTH.
An accident victim in pains rejected general anesthesia for reasons better known to him and would rather take a bus to Abuja
They placed you in UBTH and you wanted to be in Abuja hospital that's to say you decided your own discharge in such situation you should have paid your medical bills and not expect a refund and only be asking for compensation from the accident.
What has the accident got to do with the whole load of children by your side and the mud house behind you?
Is that to tell us things are really bad for you?

Anyone that has experienced pain in accident even dislocated joint will know that this man is not being sincere with his account of the incident

nairanaira12:
Now I understand why many marriages /relationships fail: people aren't ready to forgo their personal opinions/understandings/belief systems /convinctions /egoes, etc in their relationships. People want to carry their past lives into the present without understanding that relationships require condescending.

Having your ways or sticking to your guns because that was how you grew up, will always crush your relationships. Not being ready to change your ways of beliefs isn't to your interest. At the end of the day, you will remain single forever or become a baby mama.

Is there any difference in being yourself and sticking to your guns?
Men like you are the ones that cry foul that after marriage she changed to be someone else cos she acted in the way you said an "ideal woman" should behave..
If you didn't get the message I passed you would have walked pass than to quote me..

BTW i am happily married to the man i am not giving surprises at home cos i never pretended to him in the course of a relationship in the name of changing beliefs or condescending

An Alumna...
Hallam I thank una.. I no regret say I pay una fees again at least my brother go collect our money back

I just cant stop laughing...
Your mom told you that you and your siblings are beautiful. Maybe she just said it in a way that you took differently...

I have told my husband plenty times that if my son looks like him I will dash his mother.... LOL is that remotely possible?

Live past hatred..

Namzy:
Not possibile. Identical must ALWAYS be same sex

Its possible but looking at these children they are no where close to being identical even the 2 boys you can tell them apart easily at birth

Well said..
What one brother told me some time ago will forever be in my mind...
Dont go to anyones house be it a babe or a guy to impress or form for them
If in your house you can lay the bed when you wake up then do the same
If you can cook for yourself and your folks and he has the things available by all means cook and eat for your life and stop stretching for fast food
If a relationship fails because you cannot be who you are not then good news

My friend has OCD for cleanliness, oh i love him visiting me especially during the weekend make he help me fix things
When he is done the house will be looking like he was paid to do deep cleaning service

I am AA and would have been able to marry a SS without issues (Yes i understand the medical challenges)
But in this day and time when i see AS contemplating to marry themselves all i see is selfishness in them.
I am a Christian i have faith that can move mountains but then the bible said in Ecc. 10:10.. Read it into the situation...If the iron be blunt, and he do not whet the edge, then must he put to more strength: but wisdom is profitable to direct.

Southerners will say e they hard for who they pray for talkless of who they curse... If you have one SS (Which is possible) your life will not remain the same

The few Oyibo i know, the birth announcement came with the name of the baby and it was even sent directly from the hospital....

Left for me alone i will name my child without a clergy afterall in the birth certificate issued at the time of his birth the name would have been written down.

BTW what do i know? Make the husband do the party he so wishes.

If your sisters catch you they will almost castrate you....

Be warned oh

Try to move past the hurt..
plotting a revenge on him is a waste of time and resources.
May her soul RIP

Plan and concentrate on your own life you need all the planning you can do

What you want can be done.
You can actually ask for the list even without meeting them physically...
Talk to your lady and she will decide if she is fine with it then she can talk to her family.
Truth be told as Igbos it might be difficult for them to accept

aiyele200:
I did not come here to insinuate that what was fishy is cheating. I for one have perished that thought at first thinking. We all know here that unfaithfulness is what actually leads to cheating if not well handled. This is the issue we have been battling for 6 years now, haba! How much can a man take? To make more known, I reported the issue the next day to her dad, he told me he'll call her, but instead he decided to come 4 days later to see her in person to talk to her, but a day before, I had already arrange cash to bail her out, I can recall her kneeling down in front of me crying and thanking me for rescuing her, to the extent of sending me a txt saying she never thought I'll bail her out on the very last day of deadline, that she will never let me down by stopping to ask for loan, blv me you, a day after the father came to talk to her, I overheard her talking to the same segun requesting for a larger amount of loan this time around. My system just ran down that I had to go out for a drink and just be myself.

Guy you are a sisi for a man a very big sisi..
I have just been married for about a year, before wedding i have a friend that we used to watch each others back financially going into hundreds of thousands of naira for business and other stuff... Yea he is a married man but as at then i was yet to meet his wife due to distance.
The day i got into his town i went from the airport straight to his house to greet her before going to my hotel.
He is way older than my husband, when i got married he brought his family to come pay "homage" to my husband he calls me his younger sister too...

As at today we still do some bits of financial transactions but my husband is always in the loop even though they dont talk much only pleasantries....

Guy go back to your drawing board and ask yourself where you have failed and get it right

Fine dinning and cinema in any order..
Good laugh then back to my house...
You have made my day

This kind girl sef
Go and check the meaning of impotence before you post...

I cant even imagine what the husband feels now
Wish i fit help am cry