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Janosky:




Doctors are human,them no be God Almighty, Yahweh Ha Elohim.
Almighty God has the final say.
Pls, Cry out to your Maker "to Prove to be what He shall prove to be", to your unborn baby, to your wife and to you.

Isaiah 59:1, Exodus 33:19. Psalms 128. Psalms 66:18-20.

May Divine Mercy& Favour prevail, to the glory of Yahweh.

amen

dazzlingd:
I've driven one hour to eat and go back home

one hour you drove down.. that means you were invited... in my case I wasn't invited... lolz

dawnomike:
I have never had the mind for such... Hope you enjoyed the meal biko?
U kanot coman goan kee yasef

abi now. some girls on the table I sat even they form self...

doggedfighter:
God has nothing to do with abortion.

People decide to either keep or not to keep a foetus .

It's a choice .

means the choice made the folks involved a killer, based on God's word "do not kill"

Yesterday it was a celebration of another new matrimony in many places...

I was in my room, with no only Garri and Noodles
after taking it, I was still hungry. after some meditation on how to eat for the night, I remembered there are receptions around I just dressed up in one of my native and zoom I was at one reception ground.

the event started Abit late so I sat down at the back as I entered the way people were looking at me as if they known I wasn't invited, I simply keep my cool. when the bride and groom was ushered in I took out my phone to snapped them as if I knew them. but in my mind na the rice and coke I came for..

in no time the food was been served. I ate two plate and after sitting for a while, I just left the event to my house..

I was laughing at myself for what I did, so I was like there are also some people who might have had such experiences. wetin man they go through for this country no be small..


Yesterday it was a celebration of another new matrimony in many places...

I was in my room, with no only Garri and Noodles
after taking it, I was still hungry. after some meditation on how to eat for the night, I remembered there are receptions around I just dressed up in one of my native and zoom I was at one reception ground.

the event started Abit late so I sat down at the back as I entered the way people were looking at me as if they known I wasn't invited, I simply keep my cool. when the bride and groom was ushered in I took out my phone to snapped them as if I knew them. but in my mind na the rice and coke I came for..

in no time the food was been served. I ate two plate and after sitting for a while, I just left the event to my house..

I was laughing at myself for what I did, so I was like there are also some people who might have had such experiences. wetin man they go through for this country no be small..

Roadsidetaylaw:
Abortion is a no no for me

Bt 2 ur scenario since is nt taking d mother life abortion is nt a good option

the doctor says it can take the mother's life....

It is clearly stated that before a child is born, "God knew him and called him". from this statement it's not part of God to kill an unborn child.

Now doctor says to a pregnant woman that the child is not forming well and it will be detrimental to the mother's life....

for me I feel It is not good to abort, because we can see and have heard of children born challenged but are doing well now. people like Nick, cobbams, and many others.

Psalms 127:3 sons are a heritage from the Lord, children a reward from him.

and from the present USA election Trump is against abortion and the other is for..

what's your take about abortion when God is against it and doctor says it's detrimental to your life?

ambitiouschap:


I have vow to stop my porn addiction but it has been getting the better of me and secondly I am religious guy I pray before I kick-start anything but all what I start are just not going my way ,

Still looking for admission and debt upon debt , I am longer brilliant as before, so many things I just wish I can get my old self back, I am Lonely and sad right now

kindly chat me up sir

UDOKABESTLUV:
I'm in onitsha now and u

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UDOKABESTLUV:
Bro, u are far

where is your location please

UDOKABESTLUV:
Bro, where are you now

am in kwara state presently but you can chat me up with my number displayed.

usoroh4luv:
I'm not strong bro. I can't even wash clothes. I can't make decisions. I didn't go to church. I have work tomorrow, but I'm lazy. I wish I can change my environment. Go to a different place and start life afresh.

also note for you to type, you are strong it takes strength for you to hold your phone and type, you just made a decision to type to this trend, every day of our lives we make decisions, when we don't do anything we also have made a decision not to do, when we are poor we decided to be when we have in plenty we decided to have, you have made a decision today.
yes, you may not wash your clothes but you have
clothes on. you may not was your cloth but you change them.
your work tomorrow shows your are not dull and stupid, you only need to decide.
now, this world is given to you to enjoy. your live is not consist in what you possess. their are people who possess wealth but are dying in silence and pain. but because they don't come out publicly people don't know and their are people who don't have but are doing fine. the world system makes people feel if they don't have all the all they are good for nothing, that's a lie and deception of the Devil. the earth is the lord and the fullness thereof, the world and they that dwell therein. God gave it to you to enjoy. once you leave this world by your our doing. it a lot lot worse, than been amputated on both legs. enjoy here right now go out reach out to people, learn the life of God and see it over shadow you. you are loved, your mind needs to be highly protected. loved

usoroh4luv:
I'm not strong bro. I can't even wash clothes. I can't make decisions. I didn't go to church. I have work tomorrow, but I'm lazy. I wish I can change my environment. Go to a different place and start life afresh.

it happens to me too some times ago, but once you can't make things happen, it is a deception the devil wants you to see off yourself meanwhile you are more than enough. switch to shift from lazy views to greater view. it's in you sir. you are loved and lots of value in you

Davash222:

I feel like committing suicide..
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sonmvayina:
A missionary wrote to me: "there is NONE righteous NOT one" " I saw the bodies of those who rebelled against Me... and their worm never died and their fire not quenched" WHY would a Holy being ALLOW unholiness near Him and WHAT would be the currency that would permit such a union ?"

This question is nearly at the center of the difference between Christianity and Judaism.

Most Christians believe they are not good enough. That humans are somehow filthy -- a worm that is unholy and unworthy of G-d. Jesus had to die for them because they weren't good enough to "save themselves."

The phrase "there is none righteous, not one" is found in Romans 3:10, but it is not found in the T'nach. The closest to this one will find in T'hillim / Psalm 14:3 and 53:4 says "no one does good, not even one."

The Hebrew here is ט֑וֹב -- good. Not righteous. . . good.

The book of Romans is misquoting the T'nach.

When the psalms say "no one does good" does it mean that there are no good people in the world? Does it mean that it is impossible to be a good person?

Nope.

Read it IN CONTEXT. "The degraded one says in his heart, "There is no G-d!" They have acted corruptly and abominably (in their) action; there is no doer of good."

The degraded one does no good.

Not all people.

There are hundreds of verses that stress we can do good and amend wrongs. Perfection is neither expected or required!

Romans 3:10's anonymous author reverses the bible! Romans states that there are no righteous people in the world. Romans 3:9 - 12 says "For we have already made the charge that Jews and Gentiles alike are all under the power of sin. As it is written: “There is no one righteous, not even one; there is no one who understands; there is no one who seeks G-d. All have turned away, they have together become worthless; there is no one who does good, not even one.”"

Totally unbiblical!

People ARE righteous.

People DO understand.

People seek G-d (isn't that why you are reading this blog?).

While some reject G-d, many seek Him and do not turn away.

How dare the anonymous author of Romans 3 reverse G-d's eternal word and say that His creation, mankind, is worthless?

Why does Romans make it seem as if no human alive does good -- not even one -- when the psalmist makes it clear that he is speaking of a select few -- the degraded -- who "do no good"?

Christianity teaches that people should be perfect, and because Adam and Chava (Eve) sinned the whole world is damned to not being perfect -- meaning that according to Christian doctrine G-d screwed up and screwed up badly.

Why would anyone want to worship a god capable of making that bad a mistake -- right from the start? Why would such a god deserve respect let alone worship?

To make things worse, Christianity then claims that in order to fix the mistake -- mess -- that this god made He commands the painful murder of himself to himself to "atone" with human blood for his screw up.

Again.

Not biblical.

One of the verses most devastating to Original Sin is B'reshit / Genesis 4:7, where G-d tells Cain that he can overcome temptation. Cain is envious of Abel because G-d accepts only Abel's sacrifice. Cain is tempted to murder Abel. G-d says, "if you do not do good, sin crouches at the entrance. Its desire is for you, but you can rule over it."

Right from chapter 4 we are told that we can rule over sin.

The bible also tells us that G-d created everything -- good and evil are His. G-d does not make mistakes.

Let's return to the claim. Since the two psalms do not say that no one is righteous, but rather "no one is good" -- what does it mean?

Obviously a lot of people do good -- so we must first as ourselves -- to whom is this addressed -- everyone in the world or a select population which is not good?

It is actually NOT everyone in the world. T'hillim / Psalm 14:3 is about Nebuchadnezzar. Rashi says that Nebuchadnezzar was destined to destroy the Temple -- and that not one man would try to stop him.

Let's start with recognizing that T'hillim (Psalms) are 150 poems. POEMS. Most of them were written by Dovid HaMelech (King David) and they were sung in the Temple as prayers. Some praise G-d. Some thank him, some plead to Him -- and some even speak of human fears and how G-d's love transcends our fears. The psalms deal with real human issues and real human lives. These are not the words OF G-d, these are our words TO G-d.

Here is T'hillim / Psalm 14:3: "For the conductor, by David. The degraded one says in his heart, "There is no G-d!" They have acted corruptly and abominably (in their) action; there is no doer of good. 2 From heaven HaShem gazed down upon mankind, to see if there exists a reflective person who seeks out G-d. 3. Everyone has gone astray, together they have become depraved; there is doer of good, there is not even one. 4. Do they not realize -- all those evildoers, who devour my people (those seed of Nebuchadnezzar per Rashi) as they would devour bread, who do not call upon HaShem -- 5 (that) there they will be struck with terror, for G-d is with the righteous generation? 6 You shame the poor man's counsel, that HaShem is his refuge. 7 O', that out of Zion would come Israel's salvation! When HaShem restores the captivity of His people Jacob will exult, Israel will rejoice." T'hillim / Psalm 14, Artscroll Stone Edition Translation.

None of those people helped -- not one looked for G-d. But the day will come when G-d will restore us Jews and we will rejoice (when the messiah comes, the Temple is rebuilt and global knowledge of G-d is here -- along with worldwide peace).

Remember: G-d created everything... and He did so for a purpose.

He created us imperfectly, but with the ability to make mistakes and learn from them. He MADE US this way. He gave us free will to choose good over evil -- but without evil how would would humans have anything to choose FROM?

Nowhere in the T'nach (bible) is it even hinted that man is expected to be perfect. Indeed the T'nach tells us "there is no righteous person who never sins." (Kohelet / Ecclesiastes 7:20).

Righteous people sin. Sin is part of G-d's plan. G-d does not expect perfection -- He expects us to try, to fail, to pick ourselves up and to try again.

The bible itself tells us we can do it! "It is not in heaven, to say 'Who will go up for us to heaven, and acquire it for us, and teach it to us, and we will do it?' Nor is it across the sea, to say Who will cross the sea, and acquire it for us and teach it to us, and we will do it?' For the matter is very near to you, in your mouth and in your heart, to do it." (D'varim / Deuteronomy 30:11).

well the word of God is clear enough to those who can see it, how ever people chose to see things in different ways, when God told Adam and Eve not to eat, they didn't see what GOD see and neither did they ask questions. but when the deceive came, it makes more sense to them and they could see sense out of no sense. that became the way of life of many people after the lost of the garden, the desendant of Adam and Eve multiply and many turn abruptly against God while the few follow God. EG Abraham till Noah, after the flood, eight came out, out of the eight, some still went agog after sin and it spread life wild fire till david wrote what he wrote in psalms 14:3 of no one doeth good, romans refrences it because of human nature, to teach and tell believers how to conduct themselves in christ not that he was condemning everyone. look at Romans 3:20, therefore by the deeds of the law there shall no flesh be justified in his {God} sight: for by the law is the knowledge {knowing} of sin. God didn't plan for us to fall, men fall, they chose too. you choose to fall or stay upright, but note the law draws you to sin, the Spirit join you with God. this is also choice. God is always intelligent, man is weak in intelligence

THE cliche is vastly used all over the world, that is NO! BODY CN be PERFECT, ONLY GOD is perfect.this is used in our daily conversations, and in our activites for the day. however, we need to know what the bible says, human words and beliefs is totally different from what the word of God demands from us.
I then say this, to say this 'many people don't read their bible, and those who do reads it to suit their life style or even read it to further confuse themselvs, some read to argue, some read it for some many reasons, why many don't even try'. Today our youth don't, they prefer other knowings and studies, than to sit with the word of GOD, now you may say it is boring, yet in the word is life and peace.

have we take a good look at how complete we are as humans, with all our body parts functioning properly and in agreement with each other? is it not perfect? we observe the way the tree grows and bears fruit, is that not perfect? have you observe the way the sun rise and set, is it not perfect? those are the doing of God to show how perfect he his in doing things.

let come down to us, the bible says we were created in God's image in other words we are exactly God. with this your mind will dispute this fact, and you are saying no oo, i am not God but human. mistakes humans make is they always fight with the truth and embrace lies, it as been from the begining, EVE. even plenty, many, lots of pastors and G O's say we are not God we can't be perfect. how sad.
Yet your mobile phones are made by human being, and they make sure it is perfectly made without mistakes, your laptops, planes, buildings, Apps, name them. Right now humans have made a gadget that can read your mind and do lots of things, yet men believe they can't be perfect while they make perfect things. how can perfect arrangement comes out from an imperfect mind, is that possible, that shows us something, humans believes lies about himself and makes perfection out of ordinary things while he himself is not ordinary.

Another lies is that we were brought up to believe we can't be perfect and school to not be perfect, once we fall short of doing the right things, we conclude nobody can be perfect, but before doing the wrong things you will notice your mind rejects that wrong thing and you also know the consequences of that actions, but out of impatience and blindness of heart, you went ahead, and then concluded that no body can be perfect because you just made that error. what if you grew up in an environment where you were taught to live and stay perfect, that will automatically become your default settings. meanwhile do you know that their are people who are perfect? there are people like that. but the mind of man makes him believes once he cant be perfect so is every other person, and they voice out this ignorance and many poeple follow suit. not asking questions, the devil simply capitalize on people's ignorance to deceive them. I once told a brother i was perfect, but instead of him to calm down and ask questions how is that possible, he always get more offended at that word, because humans like low things and high things are like blasphemy and believes if i am not perfect how come you will now be. in other words humanity like depravity. Jesus once said i and my father are one and the High Priests where angry at that saying. we where some times darkness, but now are ye light in the lord walk as children of light the bible affirms Ephasians 5:8

NOW let see the scripture stand concerning perfection and those who were in the old and New.

Genesis 6:9 KJV
These are the generations of Noah: Noah was a just man and perfect in his generations, and Noah walked with God.

this statement is in the bible yet many today in this generation don't believe in anyone being perfect.

Job 1:1 KJV
There was a main the land of Uz, whose name was Job; and that man was perfect and upright, and one that feared God, and escheweth evil?

no wonder he was able to defeat the devil after all.
not in this our own generation, they fall for every sin and mistakes, even so called pastors and teach lies and heresy

GOD talks about thes men to be perfect and they were perfect.

WHAT GOD WANT

Deuteronomy 18:13 KJV
Thou shalt be perfect with the LORD thy GOD

Dueteronomy 25:15 KJV
But thou shalt have a perfect and just weight, a perfect and just measure shalt thou have: that thy days may be lengthened in the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee.

people who don't believe they can be perfect don't live long and are always in issues and problem all the time and days of their life's.

Job 8:20 KJV
Behold, God will not cast away a perfect man, neither will he help the evil doers:

Psalms 37:37 KJV
Mark the perfect man, and behold the upright: for the end of that man is peace.

LET SEE NEW TESTAMENT

Luke 6:40 KJV
The disciple is not above his master: but every one that is perfect shall be as his master {GOD}.
wow, now see why people say i am not God but human they are not yet perfect, many will say we strive towards perfection, yet many who said that are late today, question how will they see god who is perfect? "thing on this"
the imperfect disciple is equal with is imperfect master, and a perfect disciple is also equal with is perfect master. selah!

John 17:23 KJV
I in them, and thou in me, that they may be made perfect in one; and that the world may know that thou hast sent me, and hast loved them, as thou hast loved me.

believers will have to correct the wrong use of words of nobody can be perfect, because the world those not know perfection, but those in christ do, and john says that they may be one in him and God, then the world we know that God truelly sent JESUS, the reasons many religion dont believe in JESUS yet is because of division and lack of oneness in the body of christ all over the world. because even christain believes he cant be perfect and they still quote that they are made perfect in christ, yet they continue in their imperfection. who is deceiving who?

1 Corinthains KJV
Howbeit we speak wisdom among them that are perfect: yet not the wisdom of this world, nor of the princes of this world, that come to nought

2 Corinthains 13:11 KJV
fianlly, brethren, farewell. Be perfect, be of good comfort, be of one mind, live in peace: and the God of love and peace shall be with you.

Galatians 3:3 KJV
Are ye so foolish? having begun in the Spirit, are ye now made perfect by the flesh?

that means those living in the flesh can not be perfect or made perfect, no wonder many confesses of not be perfect, flrsh is at work, they have not start to live by the principles of the kingdom of God, they don't live by and in the Spirit.

Philippians 3:15 KJV
Let us therefore, as many as be perfect, be thus minded: and if in any thing ye be otherwise minded, God shall reveal even this unto you.

Colossians 3:14 KJV
whom we preach, warning every man, and teaching every man in all wisdom; that we may present every man perfect in christ Jesus.

other word for perfect means completeness, mature wholeness, finished, full grown, full age.
so we still have babes all over the world, not mature, not perfect Spiritually, emotionally, in marriage, work, in words etc

finally, Matthew 5:48 KJV
Be ye therefore perfect, even as your father which is in heaven is perfect.

to say nobody can be perfect means God is not your father, and you cant see him in heaven, because he can not behold imperfection.

I believe this will teach you to stay perfect and die perfect. it worth it. Selah!!!

THE cliche is vastly used all over the world, that is NO! BODY CN be PERFECT, ONLY GOD is perfect.this is used in our daily conversations, and in our activites for the day. however, we need to know what the bible says, the human words and belief is totally different from what they word of God demands from us.
i then say this to say this many people don't read their bible, and those who do reads it to suit their life style or even read it to further confuse themselvs, for read to argue, some read it for some many reasons, why many don't even try. today our youth don't, they prefer other knowing and studies to sitting with the word of GOD, now you may say it is boring, yet in the word is life and peace.

have we take a good look at how complete we are as humans, with all our body parts functioning properly and in agreement with each other? is it not perfect? we observe the way the tree grows and bears fruit, is that not perfect? have you observe the way the sun rise and set, is it not perfect? those are the doing of God to show how perfect he his in doing things.

let come down to us, the bible says we were created in God's image in other words we are exactly God. with this your mind will dispute this fact, and you are saying no oo, i am not God but human. mistake humans make is they always fight with the truth and embrace lies, it as been from the begining, EVE. even plenty, many, lots of pastors and G O's say we are not God we can't be perfect. how sad. yet your mobile phones are made by human being, and they make sure it is perfectly made without mistakes, your laptops, planes, buildings, Apps, name them, right now humans are have made a gadget that can read your mind and do lots of things, yet men believe they can't be perfect while they make perfect things. how can perfect arrangement comes out from an imperfect mind, is that possible, that shows us something, humans believes lies about himself and makes perfection out of ordinary things while he himself is not ordinary.

another lies is that we were brought up to believe we can be perfect and school to not be perfect, once we fall short of doing the right things, but before doing the wrong things you will notice your mind rejects that wrong thing and you also know the consequances of that actions, but out of impatience and blindness of heart, you went ahead, and then concluded that no body can be perfect because you just made that error. what if you grew up in an environment where you were taught to live and stay perfect, that will automatically become your default settings. meanwhile do you know that their are people who are perfect? they are people like that. but the man of man makes him believes once he cant be perfect so is the other person, and they voice this ignorance and many poeple follow suit. no asking questions, the davil simply capitalize on people ignorance to decieve them. i once told a brother i was perfect not one brother, but instead of them to calm down and ask questions how is that possible, they always get more offended at that word, because humans like low things and high things are like blasphmey and believes if i am not perfect how come you will now be. in other words humanity like depravity. Jesus once said i and my father are one and the high priest where angry at that saying. we where some times darkness, but now are ye light in the lord walk as children of light the bible affairm Ephasians 5:8

NOW let see the scripture stand concerning perfection and those who were in the old and New.

Genesis 6:9 KJV
These are the generations of Noah: Noah was a just man and perfect in his generations, and Noah walked with God.

this statement is in the bible yet many today in this generation don't believe in anyone being perfect.

Job 1:1 KJV
There was a main the land of Uz, whose name was Job; and that man was perfect and upright, and one that feared God, and escheweth evil?

no wonder he was able to defeat the devil after all.
not in this our own generation, they fall for every sin and mistakes, even so called pastors and teach lies and heresy

GOD talks about thes men to be perfect and they were perfect.

WHAT GOD WANT

Deuteronomy 18:13 KJV
Thou shalt be perfect with the LORD thy GOD

Dueteronomy 25:15 KJV
But thou shalt have a perfect and just weight, a perfect and just measure shalt thou have: that thy days may be lengthened in the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee.

people who don't believe they can be perfect don't live long and are always in issues and problem all the time and days of their life's.

Job 8:20 KJV
Behold, God will not cast away a perfect man, neither will he help the evil doers:

Psalms 37:37 KJV
Mark the perfect man, and behold the upright: for the end of that man is peace.

LET SEE NEW TESTAMENT

Luke 6:40 The disciple is not above his master: but every one that is perfect shallbe as his master {GOD}.
wow, now see why people say i am not God but human they are not yet perfect, many will say we strive towards perfection, yet many who said that are late today, question how will they see god who is perfect? "thing on this"

Seunaj05:

Op don't be naive. Most of the ppl advising you to marry off your sister to that guy are doing so for religious reasons. I can tell you that many of them are Muslims and what they want is the eventual conversion of your sister into Islam. Let me tell you from experience that a thug will always be a thug, if you are unable to talk to that guy now when he still needs your consent to marry your sister, DON'T EVER think that you will be able to deliver your sister from his hands WHEN(not if) he starts to maltreat her. I have an example right in front of my family house here in Ilorin. The unfortunate girl has now had 2 kids for the thug who is also a suspected cultist and was forcefully converted to Islam. The last time I heard, the girl has ran away from him when she could no longer bear the humiliation and is now at large

thats our fear for her, and the intreast the thug family has in us releasing the baby and mother to them, alot is at stake, considerinng your example

nabegibeg:


ask your sister what she wants

she want the baby because abortion is a no go area for her.

nanaman:
The deed has been done and next step is what you should be worried about. Good you have made a decision that the baby should be born.

First, what's your sister's stand? To marry him or stay away? Do not force decisions on her and do not decide for her because no one knows, the child might change the father's behaviour, change the story of the family or otherwise. Let her decide and respect her decision. All you can do is to counsel and guide her on the right decision to make.

If she decides to stay away from the father, let it be done in a proper way. With what you said, the father is "irresponsible" but the family are capable. The question now is, are you ready to give the baby to the family to take care off or you think your family is capable? If your family is capable, let them do the naming, inform them that they should pay some amount of money every month for the upkeep of the baby and choose days when the father can visit.

Second, for proper documentation and future reference, you should contact the nearest welfare office around you to get this done so that if perhaps they fail to concur to the agreement which they would actually do, court process can be initiated. The custody and care of the child is paramount at this stage so, if court process is initiated, you can have full custody while the father would be playing the fatherly role while the child visit to acquaint him/her with the roots

Finally, to be sincere, you would have no choice than to relocate your sister from that area, else, she would get pregnant again for the same guy. Her future might be ruined by stigma so, try as much as possible to find her a new abode and something worthwhile doing.

wow, thanks

uninspired07:


It would have been better were the thug a Christian.

It’s unfortunate the girl fell for a Muslim. That’s part of the reason the OP is pained & it’s justifiable.

major part of it, asince they are given to marrying more than one, he can later decide to marry more and treat her roughly.

uninspired07:
I still don’t understand what Op means by thug & he has not given us information about what kind of girl his sister is.

He’s intentionally avoiding those questions.

Don’t come & lambast an innocent guy while absolving your own sister of blame.

Who — in your estimation—is a thug? And what kind of girl is your sister. Give us a honest assessment so we can help you.

are you not aware of guys who take advantage of girls because they are friendly, and i state it clearly that she can be cynical too.

GraGra247:



Please don't follow the advice of this possible fellow thug. Maybe he's even the person himself. A thug is a thug and should have nothing to do with normal human beings.

Get your sister to abort. If its too late, let her have the baby but hand it over to the baby daddy's family if they insist they want the baby.

Seek a future for your sister with a responsible man elsewhere.

Your family is paying the price of neglect of your sister. They shouldn't make the mistake twice.

humm, we are christain and we don't encourage abortion. thanks though, will look into " seeking a better future for her"

2special:
If they wants the child, pls let them have him/her but don't let your sister go, if l was in your shoes that's what I will do but here l don't know much details about the other family that you're trying to paint bad... Sometimes very difficult to advise until you know the full details and hear from the other party....I'm sure your sister won't love/like the guy.

we don't want her to go, but looking at the plea from the guy family, because they said once they impregnate a lady they dont reject the baby or the girl in question

donbachi:
Ur smear campaign against the guy has already failed on arrival....any child dat goes to a party and dance....must be given party rice...ur sis got served...if na dangote son u for call am thug?...do u even know if he will end up becoming ur entire family breadwinner?...u all should thread with caution.

but we can't make wrong right, if he has done it the right way, it will be better, now he insult us anyhow he want, can that be a good inlaw, can that be a breadwinner? how would you have handled it if its your sis? you will let it slid, hoping he will become your home breadwinner? what about you being the breadwinner. just saying

Explicit02:
Firstly it is wrong to call your in-law thug

I guess because he knew you call him a thug that makes him have no regard for you guys...

Be kind to him and fix a date for intro and accept the fate unless your sister will become a baby mama and that stigma may affect her later in future


My view on this

i'm not calling him a thug, thats how he is in the neighbourhood, for privacy sake his picture should have followed the post. and his behaviour is annoying.

This is to seek for your honest solution to this situation, no insult pls.

My younger sister is very friendly, and cynical, but this attitude of hers, is always to the extreme, she mostly lived with our elderly sister and her husband, while they leave her alone at home with their children often, this continue for long. During this time, i was away from home, because my work took me out of town.

Before my return, I was informed that my sister was pregnant for a thug she met whenever she was sent on an errand. According to her, this guy always waylaid her on the road threatening her to have sex with him, but she said it happened after she frolic with him and some other friends around the neighborhood, before he started making advances toward her. She is in her early twenties

To cut the story short, how they get to become intimate was a surprise to us. Because right now she is with a child and he wants the child to be born, yet he has no regard for any of us in our family, he insult us at will, and he is also a muslim.

Recently his family came over to apologise for his misconduct and demand we release the mother and the unborn child to them. meanwhile we do not want to have anything to do with a thug, that has no regard for the family with no sign of remorse. what do you think we can possible do on this issue