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BrendanJo:
Just being curious to know, because a lot of people now emphasis mostly on once virginity before marriage, while ignoring good decorum. Should girl's virginity be the major emphasis towards a successful marriage or behavior?
I know of someone that the only advice she gives to girls is remain a virgin, which I believe is not bad, but while advising while not talk about the general behaviour and how it will also help in the success of marriage.

Lordcassy:
I don't know the kind of people that attend a church pastored by a woman....I still don't get it...anyways what she basically teaching is she is projecting her female hypergamy unto the word of God....it is well...

Lightheaded:
Picks mic.

A Japanese adage says (I'm not quoting) don't bother reading if you believe everything you read. This means filter the information you read.

Someone said keeping your semen in your epididymis increases your muscle mass, bone density, glows your skin, increases your power of attraction and .... I didn't even bother reading the rest.

Whether you release or not has no effect or your physical health.(Excessive sex or masturbation is another ballgame entirely). Don't mistake semen for testosterone.

Low testosterone levels, malnutrition ( and sometimes other underlying conditions) lead to all the aforementioned side effects stated above.

WHAT'S TESTOSTERONE?
Testosterone is an androgen (male sexual hormone) responsible for sexual differentiation and expression of secondary male sexual features (the characteristics that differ a yong boy from a man- talk adolescence and puberty, talk testosterone). Not limited to increase in muscle mass and increased bone density, testosterone is what makes men look like men. You'll find out some ladies have higher than normal testosterone (the facial hair, voice, body hair e.t.c), also noticable in aging women. I apologise if I might have digressed a bit , I was getting into sturvs mode).

WHAT'S THE LINK THEN? Testosterone stimulates the production of mature sperm cells by stimulating Sertoli cells. Every other fluid in the semen is produced by accessory reproductive organs. The AVERAGE volume of semen produced per ejaculation is 3.5ml. You know that big syringe (5ml) yea, it doesn't even fill it up.( I said average, I'm not talking to you FOUNTAIN). This is insignificant compared to the 42L of fluid a 70kg human being contains. But every synthesis in the body requires ATP (energy) and where do you get ATP from, food.

If releasing semen was deleterious to the body in any way, a lot of married men wouldn't be alive, a lot of brothers would have turned hospitals to their second home, heck I'd give Dembele and Carzola a run for their money. The major reason for the weight loss, bone density brouhaha is because you don't consume enough nutrients by consuming enough food. Your night food na garri but you won use tramadol kill person pikin from 11pm to 4am, HELLO!! who you won impress??. Sex itself is an exercise, the twisting the turning, the hanging the lying. Our brothers that put them in 70 positions in 7 minutes I hail. For energy used you need nutrients replenishment.

Eat good food, fruits, vegetable, get enough rest.

I had to write this because someone might bite into his words hook, line and sinker, even swallow and digest it. I'm sure the MGTOW path is not because sex will depreciate the quality of one's health. Don't attribute ejaculation to it.

If you like avoid sex like a plague, if you don't nourish your body Johnny Sins will live longer than you.

Drops mic.

Awinneralways:
You’re right. You can read the book called Rockefeller Medicine Men for more insight on how medicine evolved from a healing art to a profit venture and form of control. It all started in the 1920’s when it was discovered that the minerals contained in herbs can also be synthesized from hydrocarbons.

Every drug you take has a side effect that will cause further problems for you in future. Every drug also has a natural equivalent that can also heal you without any side effect but you would never find reference to natural medicine in any medical journal.

Contemporary medicine and even science are usually bankrolled by a select few who have the means. People like the Bill gates and the Rockefeller’s etc.

I pity those that believe everything science says especially concerning medicine. A lot of times, many of their researches are not even reproducible but still published in a bid to sell drugs.

You have corrupt financiers who are in bed with corrupt medical labs who are in bed with corrupt big pharma companies that are also in bed with corrupt hospitals. It’s a mess.

Learning how to deal with women is just the beginning of the red pill journey. It’s a rabbit hole that can drive you mad if care is not taken.

It’s common for real red pillers to eventually want to go off the grid and live like a hermit away from society.

The rot runs deep and goes far beyond just women.

MrColdsweat:
[b]The emphasis on women has turned some men to misogynists.

All supposed red-pilled truths and perspectives about women are distorted and subjective. "Women are whores, women are this, women are that...". These claims will always be in contention.

But there is an objective truth. Women are humans like you, man. Same flesh and blood. God gave man and woman the same freewill and instinct for self-preservation. why are men mad that women are exercising them?

This hypergamy we talk about, What exactly is wrong if a woman wants and picks a high-class male for a partner? Is it not an expression of freewill and self-interest we're all naturally endowned with?

If you, as a man, get several job offers, won't you likely take the job with the best pay and best working conditions? Won't you likely dump your present job for a new job with a better pay?

What exactly are women doing wrong that men are not involved in?

We're all guilty of everything thing we accuse women of. We're often accomplices.

Take a good look at the thread. Is this level of misogyny healthy?

If you are a fulfilled, happy man with achievements, what would you gain by insisting on having women under you?

Some of us on this thread are thread are Christians, is this what Christ taught? Some patriarchs wanted to stone a woman for whoring, did Christ not stop them? How then can Christians even think of writing these disgusting things about women when Christ asked us to love unconditionally?


No forget say Some of us for this thread go finally born daughters and another mummyfuccker fit come dey oppress am because of red-pill wey him swallow.

The oga-shepard of this thread once claimed that women are psychologically violent. And his sheeps applauded him, saying nonsense about women. Is the acclaimed psychological violence, hypergamy, awalt and other red-pill tags of women as deadly as the physical violence perpetrated by men?

Do you know that if you are killed today, it is very likely that it will be done by a man?

Men are responsible for at least 70% of violence and rape in society. Should that not worry you guys? Is this not a reasonable topic for discussion?


I first came to nairaland 10years ago and I know the level of maturity and the respect we accorded each other in this section.

I'm tired of the misogyny.

Anybody waiting for me to leave this thread is wasting his time
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Karlovych:
John Kerry the presidential envoy for climate still flies around on his private jet yet the hypocrite is preaching about climate change and global warming

Fatalveli:
I want to know about mode 1 bro.

cococandy:
not while we have any sort of conservatives in any level of power. They convince their base that any effort to curb pollution and control/slow down climate change is an attack on their freedom. They will never vote for bold changes that can help solve this problem.

CaveAdullam:
On this one, the feminist coven are still sleeping or probably still imagining how one of their own messed up big time. If a woman kill a man it's self defence against rape and it's good. But if a man kill a woman, it's crime against humanity and he must rot in hell. What a crazy society we live, full of bunch of idiots!

A stupid girl commits murder and instead of people to make sure the court of law brings justice and send her to jail, they're all debating on her facial look, smoking video, big butts pictures and her age. No one is even talking about the struggle the victim had with death before he finally gave up the ghost. No one talks about the amount of supplications he made for his life to be spared. He would have gave his all for his life but that tiny little b!tch: CHIDINMA OJUKWU, took his life like a broad day blood sucking evil vampire. The man is guilty of infidelity quite alright, but that doesn't warrant his gruesome death!

The way many people are even rooting for her as if it's a political campaign explains that the society we live is in a simping state of mess. Crime is crime and anyone found guilty must pay for it.

So unfortunate that the late billionaire didn't see this coming or probably miscalculated and fell for her innocent looks. Hell is not worth competing with a woman's fury when it starts manifesting; it's innocent but deadly.

Brethrens be wise as a serpent around serpents and wise as serpent around doves. The doves of this day have claws of wolves.

Well done!

KiNg0G:
It's fûckin rude for a girl to ask a guy this question....means she already placed herself above you... during all your meetings n all

This where the fûcked up leads to bro..... left to me if an object ask me this kinda question... it's an opening for me to display whose the man here...bro... like for real.... you had an opportunity to redeem your simp assx but you lost it bro.

She be blocking my assx off the next minute bro... if she cant deal with my response!.. trust me.







For real bro she should be asking you "WHAT ARE WE" not the other way round.

DaniWhizbang:
A male feminist (my friend) called me woman hater, wicked and uncaring because I said I won't serve my wife breakfast in bed if she suddenly falls sick

What led to the outburst.. My guy recently came back from camp (nysc) and shared a disturbing story with us.

He said two newly married female Corp member were caught having sex in camp. And upon catching them, the authorities alerted there husband whom they both listed as brothers in the form they filled.

Now, this male feminist friend of mine was telling us that the authorities shouldn't have informed there husbands.

The guy was depending it with all sorts of gibberish about how the marriage will be ruined and that they should've put themselves in those girl's shoe. He even said he wouldn't want to be informed if he was the husband.

He was drawing a lot emotional conclusion in order to sound reasonable but all he ended saying were nonsense rooted in emotion and fantasies.

Me and my guy had our laugh while also putting him in his place with logical reasons and cantered all the other arguments he brought in defence. He finally lost it along the line calling us names and saying we are heartless. I so much enjoyed it that yesterday

CaveAdullam:
It will not be "wise" if redpillers don't cash out of this simps crash. Oh boy! Tell is whole hell of money in that biz bro.

I think I should start cracking my nerve cells on how to cash out of this big simp market. After all it still serves as part of multiple streams of income.

Peacesupreme21:
I get ur point bro..
The thing is much as I want to focus on my life, I want to get along with her too because she's actually my spec. Won't she perceive me to be too domineering considering our inexperiences? (Opportunity lost can't be regained)
PS: we're of the same age. In our early twenties.

SOZINN:
I'm beginning to view this assertion from another angle. I've perused some articles and watched some interviews on YouTube about these white people, especially those in the United States. And I've come to the conclusion that you have to belong to one of the three gradations of oppression to be respected by numerous people in the society. The are the three kinds of people who are believed to be subjects to ill treatment customarily.

1. Black people.
2. Homosexuals.
3. Women (*rolls my eyes*)

Victimization, victim hood and the victim mindset have triggered protests which in turn led to talk shows where lies were utilized to make the truth more acrid than it was. There are blacks who still believe that they are being maltreated in some way or another even though we're not in the 19th or 20th century. Criminals are seen as iconic people who were viciously murdered because the whites are still oppressive. At this point every white police officer is conjectured to be racist unless proven otherwise. There are still protests online/offline from blacks who want unmerited pedestalization or adulation, no one cares about their criminal records or their offences. The black community doesn't want to see any video of a soul brother/sister getting arrested or shot. The truth is, more whites die every year due to police brutality but the media doesn't report it because it doesn't get attention or clicks on the internet. But just one black person will generate twice as much recognition, heck might start a protest. The scale is now asymmetrical but there are still people who want to be part of the false injured party, so let them.

For homosexuals, their breakthrough came in neoteric years through Barrack Obama, until then they didn't receive equivalent treatment and discrimination was like expected manna. Things have changed, when you compare the western communities to places like Africa. You could sanguinely affirm that they have achieved a lot but president Trump and his negative comments happened and they felt like they were drawn back into the dark ages which is perspicuous.

As for women, feminists are just living in large towers of deception they built themselves because they were never subjugated by the "evil patriarchy ". All they have done is accuse the patriarchy which (held both genders in equal regard from as early as the 1700s), of androcentrism. They can't inculpate men for being the more productive gender, when only a few of them were interested in making the world a better place throughout history. Well, they are all crazy.

Other people who are believed to be subjects to ill treatment but haven't gained as much support are :

1. Fat people: Rather than put in the work to change their unhealthy lifestyles, they chose to maintain their obesity and asked the society to accept them for who they are. They have their own vacuous campaigns. Oh well, this is the 21st century, nothing should come as a shock to us anymore.

Judging from everything I've enumerated, we can say, no one feels more victimized than the fat, black, gay woman and the straight, white, healthy men are the ones who might be denied freedom of speech in coming years.
So DieRich5, if you want the society to care about you just join one of the movements and push a propaganda. You are black right? Your statement is not entirely true. Or you could add more weight.

cutechioma1:
I don't think most people understand where Trump is coming from. He's supporting Nigeria not because Twitter needs to be named but that Twitter has censorship that prevents people from voicing their opinions regardless of who it is hurting. Some people that supports this ban should know that Trump is not on their side. He just wants social media platforms to allow people express themselves and I'm sure that is not what the Nigerian govt wants. They just want to gag our voices while theirs are the only ones speaking.

Bluntemperor:
TMr Trump is realing from defeat and failure amnesia and his thoughts are cruel.
He should have done that to Twitter in his time but he knows well that he will lose all these so called Republican loyalties.
• Here is a man that does not believed in Democracy,a Russian agent in the White House.
• Trump had miopic knowledge of World Affairs, thinking that Twitting is the only way to move American forward- Mr Twitter,how now?
• He brought and lived in Conspiracy Theories,by so doing,he could not read the American forefathers 'ethos' on equality of all races!
• Trump performed woefully on human relations,he started 'American First' and it took Americans 4-years to know that he was preaching Trump First' and you know,the Great American People did not waste time to throw him out of the Power House.
• Trump knew that it is the Rule of Democracy that ' majority own the votes' as a Winner but could not acknowledged it in the elections that brought Biden and many Republicans do still believed the lies he is spreading! So arrogant!
• Thank God, American has moved on without him- here is a man that failed to face Covid-19 that killed over -haif a Million American,that a new President Biden destroyed within a twinkle of an eyes.
Mr Trump,De Ja Vu!

Beancounter93:
Sorry, but Trump is just as autocratic as Buhari...otherwise he won't have been praising him for banning Twitter...and WISHING...that he TRUMP did the same in the USA WHEN HE WAS IN CHARGE.

Trump is just Buhari lite with better performanceJ

And yeah, Twitter is BIASED...but the fact is, if you don't like twitter, you can SIMPLY BOYCOTT IT...which is what Trump and Buhari should have done...not BAN it which promptly makes you out as a oppressor of free speech as Buhari did, and Trump is now supporting.

Better stop supporting Trump, or Buhari. (And don't back the liberals either). Trump is just as bad as the autocrats in Nigeria.

EmekaBlue:
Shut up. Blacks cry too much!

Kante a real black man definition is shinning with the world liking him. Anything Una go cry foul

Inferiority complex kill black man

Beancounter93:
So why is Trump calling for the ban of twitter? And applauding the action of the very autocratic Buhari?

This shows he is as autocratic as Buhari too

(And I don't like Biden or Kamala either, so don't go there)

Ladyhippolyta88:
Thank God that America as a nation has strong institutions that were able to limit the excesses of the twice impeached orange man if not he would have done the same to America when Twitter permanently sent him to the oblivion of irrelevance.

If only Nigeria had strong institutions too to limit the excesses of dictators.


Thank God 81 million Americans removed that sick man from office.The orange head needs big tech more than big tech needs him,no wonder he had to end his blog because he couldn't get the attention he had on Twitter and tried to enter Twitter again last month and Jack banned the account again.

Like Trump like Buhari that is why I am amazed that people support Trump then hate Buhari they are the same thing the only difference is that America had strong institutions to curtail him which Nigeria unfortunately doesn't have

TheUndercover:
@Lordcassy,

One thing I noticed is that the men who make women their sole purposes, their goal, their frame ends up being disappointed at the end. At the beginning it will look like they are winning, but later in life, they realised they've wasted themselves away trying to prove to themselves what is not worth the whole struggle. It's easier for a man to get distracted. Women are afforded the luxury to be careless, but not men. It's either you make it or you don't.

If men realise that their urge won't die with that one time sex they are dying to have, they will focus on more important things. The discussions on these thread is mainly on women because it's what most people are contributing to and of course, along with the topic of the thread. If we decide to change the focus or topic of this thread, then the discussion will change. First 20-30 pages of this thread is enough for anyone to grasp what all these is all about.

Men will forever be driven to sex but the ball is in your court to decide where you'll be driven to. Some men drove to their death, some men drove to depression and some others, in a never ending loop, all for what? - Sex.

ubunja:
the key is the single mother. If single mothers gain enough traction in any society a matriarchy forms. Keep Women from raising kids on their own and you'll be fine. But as history as showed, the more developed a society gets, the more it empowers women and empowered women have the biggest chances of being single mothers. Just keep single motherhood in check.

Right now in many countries laws are being discussed that will force companies to have a minimum number of women on their boards. Those laws will beget more laws like them and women will eventually have an equal footing economically with men. And we all know when women gain economic freedom they're less likely to want traditional relationships. Yet they'll continue having babies.

Don't just look at the situation around you, be able to project into the future and work out from cause to effect how things will change. Because you can bet your last naira, things will change. Whether we like it or not. A change is coming.
SA men are productive to an extent but women are far more driven than men. Because women have something to prove and freedom to gain. They are not playing. The only saving grace for men is that SA women are very understanding and logical since they're mostly masculine and they'll get with a nobody of a guy. Which is something most guys here apparently can't pull off since they can't abide women who provide.

Oh and the true survivors are women. Not men. Many times whole tribes and cultures have been wiped out by invading forces but the women have always survived as the spoils of war. You know this.

ubunja:
See this is the problem with Nairaland redpillers. You all want to pretend you don't want women. Yet this thread, with its half a million views is about Nothing but women. I don't know who you want to impress or deceive, but it's not working. For all your talk of the Red Pill being about self improvement im yet to see one page on actual self improvement. It's all women women women. Please stop wasting your time and confess you're all here for women.

Moving along....

ubunja:
all roads lead to women. be it one woman or many women. be it marriage or the player life. unless guys want to go full monk mode.

ubunja:
that's true. Even myself I sometimes forget we're all from different backgrounds and cultures.

Anyways the world is changing and sooner or later men will have to reckon with female mass-independence. Look at any college campus and you'll see more girls than guys. This means years down the line the balance of resources will change with women having largely zero need for men's money. Now SA is closer to that reality than countries like Nigeria. The black American community however is already dealing with that shift as shown by the snapshot below...