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Re: Between Virginity And Good Behavior, Which Is More Important. by InfinityFabric: 11:10pm On Oct 20
frozen70:


Every girl was once a virgin and must be broken

Character and good attitude is what a man should be looking for in a woman
Sound like someone who's not a virgin.

Good character can be attained, but virginity? go get surgery ? Haha!
Re: Between Virginity And Good Behavior, Which Is More Important. by Solofresh2: 11:17pm On Oct 20
Well for me,I think virginity means a lot.
I mean there is a joy that comes with being a virgin and marrying a virgin but then again,i think a man should go for a virgin with good character or behavior.
Mind you, there are ladies out there that are not virgin but they have good behavior,but the fact that they got good behavior does not mean they won't cheat on you if they are sex freak.
That's why before getting married, you really need to study your partner very well before tying the nut with them
As for me,I would go for a lady with a very good heart ,who might not be a virgin than to go for a mannerless virgin because, the fact that you married her a virgin does not mean she won't cheat on you at the end of the day.

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Re: Between Virginity And Good Behavior, Which Is More Important. by InfinityFabric: 12:09am On Oct 21
Good Character breeds virginity. Virginity it is.

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Re: Between Virginity And Good Behavior, Which Is More Important. by jmoore(m): 12:24am On Oct 21
When Yahweh sent Jesus Christ to come into this world, he chose a virgin.

God didn't choose a borehole with good character.

It takes good character to remain a virgin till marriage.

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Re: Between Virginity And Good Behavior, Which Is More Important. by Candidlady(f): 5:57am On Oct 21
Mybrotheralso:

Exactly the same way u made that virgins don't have morals, so you now understand the hypocrisy in your initial statement grin grin cheesy cheesy , I rather be deceived by a virgin than a retired overused pvssy

never said virgins dnt have morals!

good morning
Re: Between Virginity And Good Behavior, Which Is More Important. by Mybrotheralso: 8:10am On Oct 21
Candidlady:


never said virgins dnt have morals!

good morning
No worries babe galm are you still single or taken?
Re: Between Virginity And Good Behavior, Which Is More Important. by Rosement(f): 8:47am On Oct 21
Though, it is advisable to abstain from sex in other to honour God but it is good behaviour that can sustain a marriage not virginity.
BrendanJo:
Just being curious to know, because a lot of people now emphasis mostly on once virginity before marriage, while ignoring good decorum. Should girl's virginity be the major emphasis towards a successful marriage or behavior?
I know of someone that the only advice she gives to girls is remain a virgin, which I believe is not bad, but while advising while not talk about the general behaviour and how it will also help in the success of marriage.

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Re: Between Virginity And Good Behavior, Which Is More Important. by Lordcassy: 8:50am On Oct 21
BrendanJo:
Just being curious to know, because a lot of people now emphasis mostly on once virginity before marriage, while ignoring good decorum. Should girl's virginity be the major emphasis towards a successful marriage or behavior?
I know of someone that the only advice she gives to girls is remain a virgin, which I believe is not bad, but while advising while not talk about the general behaviour and how it will also help in the success of marriage.
I will say and say it once "YOUR ARE A MAN USE YOUR LOGICAL BRAIN"....why would a girl who has broken the very training her society and her parents gave her be more likely to have good character.....why would a girl who has kept herself in this age of sex decadence and immorality be more likely not to have a good character....Use your brain, I can not say much but you will never meet a woman feminine as a 20years old virgin. ..
Re: Between Virginity And Good Behavior, Which Is More Important. by stanliwise(m): 8:52am On Oct 21
BrendanJo:
Just being curious to know, because a lot of people now emphasis mostly on once virginity before marriage, while ignoring good decorum. Should girl's virginity be the major emphasis towards a successful marriage or behavior?
I know of someone that the only advice she gives to girls is remain a virgin, which I believe is not bad, but while advising while not talk about the general behaviour and how it will also help in the success of marriage.
If a girl is a virgin it means she has a good behavior of keeping her impulses and not having sex.

so virginity is part of good behavior and just one of it. So tell us the other good behaviour you're talking about.

All I see here is you trying to play on words.
Re: Between Virginity And Good Behavior, Which Is More Important. by SenecaTheYonger(m): 8:52am On Oct 21
luvmijeje:
As a female, the only advice I have for Virgins is that you are more than your virginity. God have bless you with gifts, wisdom and knowledge to make this world better. Virginity is not a gift o. Don't let one stupid man tell you your worth is in your virginity.

And that manipulative nature of women comes out again in this post
Re: Between Virginity And Good Behavior, Which Is More Important. by stanliwise(m): 8:55am On Oct 21
Lordcassy:

I will say and say it once "YOUR ARE A MAN USE YOUR LOGICAL BRAIN"....why would a girl who has broken the very training her society and her parents gave her be more likely to have good character.....why would a girl who has kept herself in this age of sex decadence and immorality be more likely not to have a good character....Use your brain, I can not say much but you will never meet a woman feminine as a 20years old virgin. ..
In as much as you have a point remember that opposite of virginity is not promiscuity. it is non-virginity.
where it is important is that

some people who are virgins today can become promiscuous tomorrow. So it begs us to understand how people came about their virginity.

Some girls are so fortunate to in the hand of strict parenting and have not yet had their own chance.
Some are just being skeptical and afraid, haven't find enough motivation to sleep around. just one or two will do the magic.
some don't have the platform to make it happen.

so it is a deeper issue if you think it deep
Re: Between Virginity And Good Behavior, Which Is More Important. by frozen70(f): 9:00am On Oct 21
BrendanJo:
I think you are very right and on point.

You are welcome
Re: Between Virginity And Good Behavior, Which Is More Important. by frozen70(f): 9:02am On Oct 21
Mybrotheralso:

You're not a man so shut up and allow us to answer. Virginity and good attitude aren't mutually exclusive, so shut up

You don't need to show how untrained you are in a public forum

Simple self respect and discipline is all you need

Try and work on that
Re: Between Virginity And Good Behavior, Which Is More Important. by Candidlady(f): 9:43am On Oct 21
Solofresh2:
Well for me,I think virginity means a lot.
I mean there is a joy that comes with being a virgin and marrying a virgin but then again,i think a man should go for a virgin with good character or behavior.
Mind you, there are ladies out there that are not virgin but they have good behavior,but the fact that they got good behavior does not mean they won't cheat on you if they are sex freak.
That's why before getting married, you really need to study your partner very well before tying the nut with them
As for me,I would go for a lady with a very good heart ,who might not be a virgin than to go for a mannerless virgin because, the fact that you married her a virgin does not mean she won't cheat on you at the end of the day.

love how you started your comment "well for me"

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Re: Between Virginity And Good Behavior, Which Is More Important. by Candidlady(f): 9:50am On Oct 21
stanliwise:

In as much as you have a point remember that opposite of virginity is not promiscuity. it is non-virginity.
where it is important is that

some people who are virgins today can become promiscuous tomorrow. So it begs us to understand how people came about their virginity.

Some girls are so fortunate to in the hand of strict parenting and have not yet had their own chance.
Some are just being skeptical and afraid, haven't find enough motivation to sleep around. just one or two will do the magic.
some don't have the platform to make it happen.

so it is a deeper issue if you think it deep

bless you for this

like we dont have virgins who are promiscuous!

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Re: Between Virginity And Good Behavior, Which Is More Important. by Solofresh2: 9:52am On Oct 21
Candidlady:


love how you started your comment "well for me"

Thank you
Re: Between Virginity And Good Behavior, Which Is More Important. by Rosement(f): 10:04am On Oct 21
I agree that being a virgin is a good thing and being faithful is very important in marriage but to be honest even non-virgins can decide to be faithful after marriage and marriage is not all about being faithful, there are other important aspects in marriage. If a virgin has nothing to bring to the table than her virginity, then she is not impacting her marriage in any way.
The Bible makes us to understand that there is no first place or last place, everyone is equal, the prodigal son and the dutiful son has the same right in the Lord.
Sometimes, we forget that Jesus died for us 2,000 years ago before we were born and that we are not saved by our works but by His grace. Rather than embracing others and bringing them to the Lord, we tend to judge them and put them down. Read Ephesians 2:9 to have a better understanding.
The virgin birth of Jesus was for a purpose, Mary Magdalene was not a virgin but yet she washed the feet of Jesus with her tears and wiped it with her hair. She was even a close friend of Jesus, she was the first person to see Jesus when He resurrected. We don't have the right to rebuke anyone, we are not God.
jmoore:
When Yahweh sent Jesus Christ to come into this world, he chose a virgin.

God didn't choose a borehole with good character.

It takes good character to remain a virgin till marriage.
Re: Between Virginity And Good Behavior, Which Is More Important. by luvmijeje(f): 11:12am On Oct 21
Mybrotheralso:

Boreholes are getting jealous grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

Are you a virgin?
Re: Between Virginity And Good Behavior, Which Is More Important. by luvmijeje(f): 11:13am On Oct 21
Smartb0y:
see one of them non-virgins aka hoes....

Are you a virgin?
Re: Between Virginity And Good Behavior, Which Is More Important. by luvmijeje(f): 11:14am On Oct 21
Solofresh2:
Shut up bitch!

Why?
Re: Between Virginity And Good Behavior, Which Is More Important. by luvmijeje(f): 11:18am On Oct 21
SenecaTheYonger:


And that manipulative nature of women comes out again in this post

How?
Re: Between Virginity And Good Behavior, Which Is More Important. by hayzed1090: 11:21am On Oct 21
agbangam:
Marrying a virgin is a beautiful thing but the truth is marrying a virgin can never guaranty one a peaceful home or marriage. Most men that got married to a V usually complain of poor sex life. I only pray for a good wife whether virgin or not.

There is no poor or great sex life if the partners were sexually upright b4 marriage.

Mehn.. just imagine the comment from females here!
Re: Between Virginity And Good Behavior, Which Is More Important. by luvmijeje(f): 11:29am On Oct 21
I get una time today. I want to see the hyprocrites(The so called Virgins) repeat how their mother didn't open her legs before giving birth to them.
Re: Between Virginity And Good Behavior, Which Is More Important. by Mybrotheralso: 11:30am On Oct 21
luvmijeje:


Are you a virgin?
Yes
Re: Between Virginity And Good Behavior, Which Is More Important. by zexy2030(m): 11:34am On Oct 21
BrendanJo:
Just being curious to know, because a lot of people now emphasis mostly on once virginity before marriage, while ignoring good decorum. Should girl's virginity be the major emphasis towards a successful marriage or behavior?
I know of someone that the only advice she gives to girls is remain a virgin, which I believe is not bad, but while advising while not talk about the general behaviour and how it will also help in the success of marriage.
Abeg find woman wey fear God. There are different ways to check this. Some virgins are filthier than some non virgins.

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Re: Between Virginity And Good Behavior, Which Is More Important. by luvmijeje(f): 11:35am On Oct 21
Mybrotheralso:

Yes

So that gives you effrontery to call your mother's virgina a borehole?

All non-virgin are once a virgin. You are not special o. We were once like you. You are all going to be like us. You are not special o.
Re: Between Virginity And Good Behavior, Which Is More Important. by Mybrotheralso: 11:38am On Oct 21
luvmijeje:


So that gives you effrontery to call my mother's virgina a borehole?

All non-virgin are once a virgin. You are not special o. We were once like you. You are all going to be like us. You are not special o.
E pain am say her mama vagina na borehole including her own, olosho ooo grin cheesy wink cheesy cheesy grin grin grin grin

We are special, go and sort your mama's borehole vagina including your borehole leaking vagina tongue
Re: Between Virginity And Good Behavior, Which Is More Important. by zexy2030(m): 11:41am On Oct 21
luvmijeje:
I get una time today. I want to see the hyprocrites(The so called Virgins) repeat how their mother didn't open her legs before giving birth to them.
Virginity is a big deal for a lady who has no intelligence.

Imagine if the husband of okonjo nweala would ask her, " dear, I hope u r a virgin'? It's definitely unnecessary. Her character towards life involves lots of disciplines aside connection. Your level of responsibility to managing over 1000s of humans, virginity in this case is a talk for mediocrity. She will be too busy and disciplined to even think of it.

Top notch ladies don't share bodies, they keep their homes.
Re: Between Virginity And Good Behavior, Which Is More Important. by luvmijeje(f): 11:43am On Oct 21
Mybrotheralso:

E pain am say her mama vagina na borehole including her own, olosho ooo grin cheesy wink cheesy cheesy grin grin grin grin

E no pain me. I am just thinkink of the audacity that you have. If you are a man, your wife vigina and and all the virginas of the other women in your life will later become boreholes. So when you are insulting someone else virgina, always remember you are referring to all the women in your family.
Re: Between Virginity And Good Behavior, Which Is More Important. by Mybrotheralso: 11:46am On Oct 21
luvmijeje:


E no pain me. I am just thinkink of the audacity that you have. If you are a man, your wife vigina and and all the virginas of the other women in your life will later become boreholes. So when you are insulting someone else virgina, always remember you are referring to all the women in your family.
Olosho with her borehole leaking vagina including her mama's borehole leaking vagina should be ashamed of her failed and worthless generation 0f females with borehole vagina cheesy cheesy grin grin cheesy grin grin grin
Re: Between Virginity And Good Behavior, Which Is More Important. by luvmijeje(f): 12:05pm On Oct 21
Mybrotheralso:

Olosho with her borehole leaking vagina including her mama's borehole leaking vagina should be ashamed of her failed and worthless generation 0f females with borehole vagina cheesy cheesy grin grin cheesy grin grin grin

Don't forget that you are referring all the women in your life. Awon omo Iran kiran. Disrespectful child.
Re: Between Virginity And Good Behavior, Which Is More Important. by luvmijeje(f): 12:06pm On Oct 21
zexy2030:

Virginity is a big deal for a lady who has no intelligence.

Imagine if the husband of okonjo nweala would ask her, " dear, I hope u r a virgin'? It's definitely unnecessary. Her character towards life involves lots of disciplines aside connection. Your level of responsibility to managing over 1000s of humans, virginity in this case is a talk for mediocrity. She will be too busy and disciplined to even think of it.

Top notch ladies don't share bodies, they keep their homes.


God bless you sir.

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