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JohnnA1:
Should be 21 sef.

Wetin happen now. Stop am if na play

BloomingDale:
Age of consent for what? Name them.

Why are you so scared. Pls am looking at it from the positive aspect and not the negative you might be insinuating.

joyandfaith:
Age of consent should be 19 . Physical maturity is different from mental maturity. More adults are behaving like kids. Exposure to Internet doesn't accelerate mental maturity.

Aba, bros abeg take am easy. If you know what most of this kids are up to, you won't be saying this.
You look at them as small kids, if only you know what is in that their small head. Although if channeled towards the right direction, you see them manifesting great things.

You have a point, but looking at it from my daughter's angle,she started primary at age of 5yrs which is not bad and secondary at 10yrs, but at pry 1 they were taught the works of pry 2, and pry 2 the works of pry 3 and so on. And that's how most average private schools works in Nigeria today.Beside change is constant. And as a large society we need to be flexible, the world is evolving so fast, we need to keep up with the pace.

caesymore:
That should be their business, and it shouldn't affect the general public... technically anyone in the University should have reached age of consent, its is at the cost of the parents and you people should not be looking for backup from the government on your personal decisions of catch them young.

A lot of things were kept where they are for some reasons, if we keep changing rules to some of these things we won't have a serious backing to rules anymore giving raise to a dilapidated society.

The first to comment started with haaa, the second to comment started with hmmm.
I don't understand why the haaa and hmmm

I understand, but am also looking at ages of the average Nigerian been admitted in our schools of higher learning, which are between the ages of 16 - 17 yrs of age. During my own time, the gen y it was between 18 - 21yrs.

caesymore:
Hmmm oh,

That's a one sided reasoning OP,so because of your daughter and the few ones wey feel say them done get feathers na why they go change age of consent.

I believe 18 is still the best so far, not a majority of Teens in Nigeria has that opportunity as our Daughter to be exposed to experience as you said.

For those that might say age is just a number, it ain't just a number its also entails the level of experience one has.

Didn't you read where I said am using my daughter as a case study , and beside there are countries where age of consent is 15yrs like Brasil, my daughter was aware of some south America nations which their age of consent is 15. She said they do celebrate age of 15 "Quinceañera" in Latin American countries just to justify herself.

ademasta:
Haaaaa....

Be like say konji don dey hold you ontop one small girl abi...

No try am o... Wait for 2 more years let her ripe finish, na you go still chop am .

Now to be more serious bro: the age 16 is not about development of sexual organs or growing faster than normal, it's about the age a lady is considered being fully part of the deal. She must be willing to give her full consent. This is an internationally acceptable age for 18+ related activities.

I believe it's time for the Nigerian Govt to make the age of consent 16yrs old.
Am speaking as a gen y parent.
I noticed the gen z and alpha are growing so rapidly unlike our time. And thanks to the internet, because they were born into the internet age, unlike ours when we knew about the internet while we were in adulthood.
Most kids now get admitted into the higher school of learning averagely between the ages of 16 - 17 yrs old.

My daughter is a case study. She's 16 yrs and about to get admission into the University, she asked me if I was still going to put her on parental control, and my answer was yes, I told her she hasn't reach the age of consent yet, but I could see that frown on her face, Like Going 100level and her phone still under parental control.
Well I told her if the govt can change the age of consent to 16yrs only then I will allow her do lots of thgs without my supervision, but as it is now till you get to the age of 18yrs before I could let go alot of things under my supervision.

Meaning "I die here" .

Pls why are Asiwaju supporters and Obi supporters just busy clashing and insulting themselves, meanwhile Atiku is there with no one insulting him.
If care is not taking the south might lose the election to the north and that will actually result to the north and the Fulani ruling us for 16 good years.
You can imagine what would happen to we the southerners by then.

I have my pvc and am voting for Peter Obi, have told all my friends that long ago, But am not just happy how his supporters are going about it. And sorry I don't know you felt insulted by what the op posted

Arysexy:
So bc Obi is Igbo, if a fool try to insult Igbos, we should keep quiet?

Fake Obi supporter deceiving himself.


You should ask yourself why Tinubu supporters are only about tribe. We have seen many support for Obi coming from every part of Nigeria, but only Tinubu supporters are trying every effort to push the narrative that IPOB or Igbos are pushing Obi / Datti project.

Why must urchins bring tribalism into this? Was it Igbos that asked APC to misrule? Was it Igbos that asked APC to bring forth an old senile man, where a whole VP Osibanjo could be easily sellable to all Nigerians? Why try to push false narrative that Igbos are the only one hating or attacking Tinubu? Are Yoruba APC Muslim urchins not attacking Obi?

I haven't checked it for a long period, so I can't say for now.

Aristocrat1011:
Okay, but is the account still active

I meant no offence man. But Even though you might be seeking attention, you already got it by the mentioning of Asiwaju to spite the Obi supporters and the Ibos.

johnmartus:
You are senseless I can see it in your post.just look at a bitter unintelligent fellow spew out

Illiterate

When I read the post by the op, I thought no one was going to pay him any attention. Beause he sounded so unintellectual, illiterate, unintelligent and childish. But to my surprise the way most Obi supporters and the Ibos started bombarding the op aggressively really amazed me. Am an Obi supporter not because of his achievements, but I believe it's the turn of the south east to become the president irrespective of the candidate.
It now seems like most of the Obi supporters and Ibos are really hunted by the sound of Asiwaju and it's beginning to irritate me.

Sorry I only opened the account, but I never used it for transaction.
I just use only my Payoneer account for my online freelancing which is on fiverr for now. I even got my Payoneer debit card but I had to cancel and deactivate it cause it was way too expensive to maintain, $30 per annum.

Aristocrat1011:
Good afternoon sir, I saw a post you made concerning creating a Malawi PayPal that sends and receives. Does it still work? ...I'm struggling to create a PayPal to receive funds.
I'll appreciate your reply

This man suffer for OBJ hand that year

I stand with Russia..

Pls moderator should move to the fp this info could be live saving. Apart from God's saving Grace upon my live, I lost a friend due to similar incident, he wasn't that lucky, cause he had an accident some years after mine and he requested for water at the hospital and it was even the doctor that asked them to give him water, immediately after he drank the water he just said he wanted to sleep and that was the end.

Nice info. You are so right cause I had a personal experience. I had some serious cut in my arteries and I lost so much blood. At the hospital I became so thirsty that I started requesting for water but the Nurse said no one should give me any water if they wanted me to live. Infact I was actually begging for water like a begger

farem:
The Reasons Why It Is Dangerous To Give An Accident Victim Water To Drink

Some of you would be confuse when you meet an accident victim. Some accident victims normally ask for water immediately they are hurt by a vehicle or an object, but giving them water is helping to kill the person.

Before now, have you ever thought of the reason behind why Accident victims always request for water after having an accident?

Have you also fathomed why accident victims dies immediately after drinking the water they requested for?

I know that water is life, but not on the case of accident. You should know this.

Below are the reasons why you should never give an accident victim that is bleeding water to drink.

The reason why Water is cancelled on this case is because the injured victim has lost much blood as caused by the accident and because of the loss of blood, the person now has little blood in his or her system. The little blood in the system is what keeps them amidst the accident.

Giving them water will cool the remaining blood in them and the person may die.

When someone is bleeding internally, The person will surely request for water because of haemovascular anomaly. haemovascular anomaly is as a result of the internal bleeding. When you obey their call and give the person water, he or she would experience blood discharge immediately.

The thing you are to do to an accident victim is to rush the person to any close hospital so that the person would receive anesthesia injection. It will make The person to be relieved of pains.

Another reason why giving water to Accident victims is bad is because it increases the person's Blood pressure and when this happens, the wounds starts opening because the bloods would be pressured to pop out of the body.

So, don't give bleeding accident victims water to drink no matter how thirsty they are.

Richard Anigboro
First Aid Instructor/Trainer

Well maybe that's why God gave her such guy. God is merciful. But I think the bobo in question is finding the burden too difficult to bare that's why he could have such courage in sharing such matters with a stranger like me and my friend at the bar.

Demigod22:
LoL, at this particular point, I don't have the courage to continue. While actions are free, there will be consequences. I don't want to be consumed when the consequences knocks. I know forgiveness is a virtue but I believe only God can do the forgiveness.

I am a coward when it comes to dealing with ladies with gross sexual recklessness, I will just run fiam.

Wow am really gathering lots of info right here..thks alot.. Though I was so high at d bar but am remembering some of the thgs the guy said. He said that the lady went for deliverance service and she met with a pastor and told him since she stops being a sex worker that the pastor should pls pray for her cause her private part do hitch her so much just for her to get sex. That atimes she will start looking for anyone just to have sex for free and not for money. That the urge was that bad.

Divoc19:
She has an impressive CV be that.
She is a good match for her fellow nymphomaniac brother.
With plenty money, their union will be cool

In a generation where we have 4some?
Let her continue.
Karma will hear about this

You are right bro. But one thg the guy also said was that the lady went for deliverance at mfm.

FalseProphet1:
As a prophet, I can authoritatively tell you that the average prostitute has over 7 demons living inside her. If you marry her, those demons would make sure they make your life miserable.

You would suffer business breakdown, job loss, unexplained money disappearance, sickness, frustration, disappointment...etc

If you want the best for yourself, stay away from prostitutes. There's nothing special about them you can inherit only sorrow and pain.

This I have seen.

Why didn't USA threaten Russia that they will send there troops to Ukraine if Russia invaded Ukraine.

Hmm. This is so deep

paulolee:
not all past her just past....no problem if u say so, dts if u can handle the future effect..

You are on point bro. It takes lots of courage having such person as a gf

falcon01:
Omoh.. no! Call me insecure but I can't handle it. I used to think i could but I ain't gonna lie I can't. I can't sleep with the thought of knowing many diçks have entered her using various positions and in various points of her life she was been ploughed like a goat and she lied down there and took it all in, and she's sucked a lot of diçks, it's just too much to swallow.

If your girlfriend confessed to you she was a former sex worker and she narrates all her sexual escapade with you to the extent that she sleeps with an average of seven men a day and she was also into drugs, will you still give her a chance. Even though she still sleeps around with some men after leaving the brothel, she told the guy that it was a thg of the past after meeting him, and she doesn't want to go back to her past.
Because I was at a bar with a friend when we met this other guy narrating his story to us. Well I decided to bring it down here to seek multiple opinion amongst the good, the bad and the ugly.

Cc: seun, mynd,
lalasticlala no worry your own na snake matter.

You said monkey pox in Europe n America yet you are showing us an African man having monkey pox.. Pls change that pics and put a white man there. This is how u use media in destroying and blackmailing us in Africa.

Ok. But must we now bring the sin of the parents upon the child? If truly it's immoral for two grown up consenting male and female adult not to bring a child to this world because they are not married.

caesymore:
Morality is the key word bro. It is what it is.

Mankind can't be 100% perfect. Mistakes are bound to happen in one's life. The focus is on the innocent child. They are lots of cases that could bring about "the bastard" child.

caesymore:
For example, "Fool" is a word, and its only when you behave a fool people can use words like "Fool" on you. simply stated if you don't want your child being called bastard then do not give birth out of wedlock shikina

Pls I need more explanation, who now gives the name if not the society. After all it's not a name brought from heaven above.
I believe the world can change the name "bastard" and protect innocent kids from the stigma.
Pls let any of the mod move to fp. We can fight
on behalf of this innocent kids with our voices.
Lalasticlala I know it's not a snake thread but pls do the needful.

caesymore:
In this our generation Morals have gone south, Immoral acts are now being seen as the norm and I believe that and only that will make a someone come up with such a thread as OP has done.
There is no moral justification what so ever having intercourse out of wedlock, only shame accompanies it and only one word can embody and express such shame BASTARD!!!

Na coded movement so no lose guard give your pikin that attachie as no be society dey give the name.

Why does the world label a child born out of wedlock a bastard. The term bastard has been used by the world as an insultive word, why would the world do such an act. If a couple decides not to get married before having a child it's there own choice and decision, and the child that is been born is not supposed to be labelled a bastard, because he/she is innocent and has nothing to do with the parents decision. Let the world stop labelling a child born out of wedlock a bastard. A child is a child. Let another better term be used for kids born out of wedlock, because the word "bastard" as already been bastardised by the world.
In this present age most people prefer having a "bastard" than having a child in a marriage settings.
All child are legitimate whether born out of wedlock or not.
#AllChildAreLegitimate.