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Ugandan woman’s rare feat has generated interest on social media with opinions split on its appropriateness. Ann Grace Aguti, 36, married three men – Richard Alich, John Peter Oluka and Michael Enyaku – at the same time with all the men sharing the same compound. On how Aguti met her man-loves, Alich, a retired police officer with 10 grown-up children noted he met her when she was returning home from Brac Uganda, Ngora branch, where she had gone to process a loan.

“Her bicycle had developed a mechanical problem, so I offered to repair it. In the process, one thing led to another and I found myself here. I stay in that hut,” Alich submitted.

“I met her at a swamp where I was grazing my cows and joked about her taking me on as a husband too – and that was it. She allocated me a hut. We have lived harmoniously for close to a year now. I have no problem with my co-husbands. The consensus among us is that mummy (Aguti) determines the duty (sex) roster and her decision is final,” Oluka said.

Aguti’s taking on multiple sex partners has incurred the ire of some people, not least her father Pastor Peter Ogwang. Local newspaper, New Vision reported the incensed father mobilised family members to evict the husbands of his daughter on the compound.

There’s some good news, however, as Aguti, a mother of three, from the Ngora district is reported to be six months pregnant, but it’s unclear if a father will claim the child or the baby will belong to all three men.

Curiously the radical woman who earns a living selling cooked cow trotters used to have more men lovers but booted some out for breaking set rules including one who attempted slitting her throat with a sickle. The three husbands have huts allocated to each of them from the seven huts on the family compound. The land, Aguti says, was given to her by her father after her first failed marriage to settle and start life afresh.

Rebuffing her father’s attempt to evict two of the husbands so she stays with one, Aguti stated: “I was married before in a manner my clan wants but my desire is to have a tender loving husband, who can provide all my needs as a housewife. My husband was useless and I remained the breadwinner. When I left him, I started looking for that special someone, but I have not yet found him because even now, I have to feed the men that I have. So, my search continues!”

Something of an activist also, Aguti says she wants to break the tradition where a man is entitled to two or more wives, but a woman is not allowed to do same.

It does appear Aguti will live with her husbands till a man emerges with the deep pocket to bear financial responsibility for her upkeep whereupon she might divorce the others for that golden man.

With Aguti’s father demanding the eviction of the men as he claims he is unaware of their marriage, the local council and clan ruled that each of the men return to their respective villages only to return officially with identification and introduce themselves to the local authorities at Amugagara.

Upon that statement, Aguti wailed: “My dear husbands, I love you so much. I am not the one chasing you, but your father-in-law and his clan. Please do not forget me wherever you go. You have been my pillars in this large home of ours. Please keep checking on me because I may die of loneliness in the house.”

Curious as Aguti’s move is, it’s nothing new. Polyandry is a form of polygamy in which a woman takes two or more husbands at the same time. Polyandry is contrasted with polygyny, involving one male and two or more females.

It is practiced in various societies in India, such as Rajasthan, Ladakh and Zanskar, in the Jaunsar-Bawar region in Uttarakhand, among the Toda of South India.

It is practiced also in Nigeria among the Nymba, pre-contact Polynesian societies, Mosuo people in China and among the Maasai people in Kenya and Tanzania. In Uganda, polygamy is legal.

Source: https://face2faceafrica.com/article/ugandan-woman-marries-three-men-and-determines-the-roster-for-sex

This is how Lalong of Plateau state should have done to save his people but unfortunately, he was bribed by the caliphate with chairman of northern governors forum.

Pierocash:
Plateau State and Zamfara should give those fulanis the Taraba state treatment . Taraba state militias dealt with them and are still dealing with those ragtag minions to the point that fulanis are running away from their own indigineous lands and villages. How many times do anybody here hear about fulani attacking any community in Taraba like they do in Benue,and Plateau?


Benue and Plateau are just too docile

Benue is really dealing with them now. It's only Plateau that they are having upper hand because the governor has been bribed with the position of northern governors forum chairman

It's shameful. It's bad.
The way soldiers from the southern extraction are being killed is very bad. This islamization will not succeed

Sometimes, I wonder how people survive with that kind of salary. Sometimes, it cost me 150,000 just for upkeep alone in a month. May Jesus help us all...

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Read the communication between them....

Sometimes, I wonder if bihari and his advisers go to school at all. Somebody have to remind them always of what the law said. Too bad.

Money from kidnapping cannot buy a private jet for Gumi that is why he is so pained. The terrorist spoke man should keep quiet

This may lead to crisis. The federal government cannot tell anyone who is issued certificate of occupancy by the state government to pack out that it is a grazing reserve site. Bihari is just trying to make the insecurity situations worse

Too bad

This is how it feel for everyone. When fulanis killed the first time, no arrest was made and the security agents did not protect them. Now that the people revenge, some of you are now shedding crocodiles tears.
Tell the fulanis to stop killing and there will be peace.

She done buy market be day. Enemies will use this against him/her

Too bad

I blamed the governor of Plateau state, instead of him to take strong position against the killings, he is busy licking ass of the fulani elites until his people are completely killed

Southern Kaduna need to rise up to the challenge and build a strong vigilante to secure their environment. It's too bad.

I'm a lecturer and I can pick lecturing job anytime, any day. Once you are a lecturer, many doors will open. I lecture in a federal University and I have gotten two additional lecturing jobs in Nigeria: one as a visiting lecturer in a state University and a visiting lecturer in a private University.

Also, I'm lecturing online as a part time lecturer with Atlantic International University (USA) and University of the People (California, USA) and getting 500 dollars a week.
In this Covid era, it's not hard to get an online lecturing jobs.

Where are the southeast governors? They are the real slave to the guys jalon jihadists. They should be the first to start implementing the open grazing ban and prohibition laws

This is a good news to me. I work as a lecturer online with an European University. I get my earnings in dollars. Hmmm. E go better very soon...

My wife is older than me for 5 years. She has first class in disobedience and disrespect. I regret marrying her. She was behaving like an angel until after marriage. I'm the one footing the family bill � 100

Okay. What of Kano?

Even we the Christian northerners in the east may not be spared.
You are on point in that number 2. It's going to be scary except God intervenes.

Naija147:
God see what broken marriages have caused so many children including me

Me too

I got two lecturing jobs online and I'm happy doing it online.

My advice is go for the course and apply for jamb again.

Kind regards