₦airaland Forum

if you reside in iyana-oba or its environs, then you will know there's nothing beautiful about it! Finish the road already and stop suffering road users

My thoughts exactly! Young couples should be calming down! Even if she got married at 20, her body needs to heal before another pregnancy! RIP to the dead

LadyRosa:
5th child at 34

Rip

Op, so what do you suggest young parents do? A lot of people desire to see their children turn out well but don't actually know what to do.

It invariably means his existence is sin because his dad had to impregnate his mum for him to be born! End time pastors

HonNL:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T5_RqE-EM7I
Mr. Nkang Essien
Former Controller of Prison- Port Harcourt (1995-1996) at the Human Rights Violation Investigation Commission of Nigeria (otherwise known as the "Oputa Panel"



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TnWO40yaFhc
Ibrahim Agboola Gambari, then UN envoy, defends the execution of the Ogoni 9, despite condemnation from the UN

And the same Gambari is the current chief of staff to the president? I weep for this country

I'm loveth, coming from Lagos to Kebbi. Anyone from Lagos here

I don’t understand the reason for this comparison! For goodness sake there’s a reason why your mother is your mother and your wife is your wife. Both of them play very vital but different roles in your life. If we understand the concept and purpose of marriage, then we know that there are intricate things we can only share with our wife because she’s now one with you. You can also share intricate things with your mum but we all now that at the end we should be taking care of her and not disturbing her with life issues. We are different people so my opinion my differ from yours

Yes i do every 26th of December in my hometown Enugwu-ukwu in Anambra state. A festival that attracts lots of people i must say.

I dont think your wife hates your sisters and mother rather i think she has had a bad experience growing up! She has this fear that they would be cruel to her when she finally becomes your wife! Help her change her orientation about this. its not easy but i can relate to this perfectly but with time she would come to love them

Wow!!!!! I had a similar experience bro! but with my mother's younger sis. I made my waec but didn't write further maths the day I was suppose to because there was a bridge in information and I couldn't give anyone my phone number because if I get a call from anyone asides family, im in trouble. I went for my exam thinking it was an afternoon paper but it turned out to be a morning paper, so absentee appeared in my waec result for further maths. The day I checked my result, I had mixed feelings because I knew I was in for it. I had 3 bs and 4cs and 1d in my waec and the d was in a Nigerian language. I got home and waited for her to return to work and when I showed it to her, not even a congratulation or anything, the first question was what happened to further maths? told her the story and come see beating. she was very particular about it because I was a science student and I was also asked to fill I for elect/elect engineering because that was the only course asides computer science that could give me a good leverage when im done with the university. I wrote jamb twice and didn't get the admission and was later sent to for pre-degree for the same elect/elect engineering and still I didn't get admission through pre-degree. I went back home because I was living in school during my pre-degree days because that was the only thing that could get me out of home. I returned home after not getting the admission through pre-degree, the house became hell on earth for me. in February 2012, I used the money my mum sent to me to buy a jamb form which was already late, I was living in lagos but lagos centre was filled as at the time I applied but without my aunty's consent because went outside the country. Before she returned, I had written my jamb and guess what the lowest score I ever had in all the jamb exam I had written(188) but I filled financial management in futo because I had economics in my waec so it also gave a better chance. I wrote the post utme and scored 280 and around November my name was out but before then my aunty threw me out of her house for not seeking her consent before buying the form so I left her house in april and started leaving with my parents as they had just relocated from the north to lagos then. When I got the admission, my parent practically had no idea of how I would even pay my acceptance fee but God was merciful and he divinely provided for me. When I stayed with my aunt, I remember greeting one of my male teachers and she stopped the car because I greeted him form inside her car and asked who he was. I remember days I was flogged mercilessly because her fake prophetess told her ive had series of abortion and I have never slept with any man all my life then. I WROTE ALL THIS TO ENCOURAGE YOU THAT YOU'RE NOT ALONE IN THIS, SOME PERSONS MIGHT BE PASSING THROUGH WORSE BUT HOLD ON TO GOD, CHANNEL ALL YOUR NEGATIVE ENERGY INTO SERVING GOD AND BEING YOURSELF. Today im in 500L and soon to be a graduate of financial management. I ENCOURAGE YOU TODAY TO BE STRONG AND REMEMBER GOD LOVES YOU. DONT EVER THINK SUICIDE BECAUSE YOU COULD USE YOUR STORY TO TRANSFORM LIVES

FriedYam:
Good evening Nlers.
I'm a eighteen year old. From a family of five. The only son with extra strict parents. A lot has been happening right from my childhood down till now and my parents are of the view that I'm an apology.

I wasn't the brightest in school. I'm above average nd particularly led my class in my core subjects. I wrote my wassce in 2014. I cleared my papers except math nd literature. Agreed. I'm a dumbo at math but literature.... All students failed because a classmate was caught with a phone. Thus, I became the first in my family to fail o'level.

I registered for neco gce nd failed even more cos there was high expo there. My jamb score was 223 that yr for an imposed course, Law.

2015,i registered neco again at a school known for expo. However, before the expo was brought into the hall, I would have answered all my questions nd was only helped in maths. They called me a textbook in the school. I had B's all through but my father thinks it was expo that helped me. At 2015 , my jamb score was 257. U.I f'd me up. Law again.

This yr, jamb did the unthinkable. After popping coffee all night to study nd reading all day to the extent that i lost weight, i had 212. Y'all know how jamb was. Now I ddnt gain admission for law.... I'm being blamed now for jambs incompetence.

A who bunch of other things relating to education where i've been gravely misunderstood are untold.

But, that's just abt education.

extremely frustrating. I stood one time on the queue to withdraw for about three hours after a tiring day and guess what, some minutes later before it could get to my turn, the atm stop working. Diamond bank has colonized futo and this as a result of the amount they give as commission to the so called administration. We hope the federal govt this time would look into the administration of futo. Don't ask of the SUG because they are nothing but puppets used to implement their selfish desire. The electoral process even though electronic, is programmed to count for whoever the senate has chosen to be their candidate.

luciouscookie:
Imagine only one bank in such a big school That must be really frustrating for the students.

Excuse you!!!!!!!! did you say this lady, as she be like this is 23?? haba na give us something else. Did he use jazz on her or tie a rope to her neck before she came to lagos?? Even a girl of 16yrs can decide for herself in this current generation. The sister sef wey go bring police, she no see her sister caution first? Enough pay for the policemen wey carryout this arrest.LWKM

Aiholi:
http://punchng.com/lagos-hotelier-turns-job-seeker-sex-worker/


Edet and Obano Pictured

If I may ask, you believe she's your wife because you've prayed about it and you've a leading from the holyspirit or because you both think you're meant for each other? I suggest first you seriously wait on God as regards this because marriage is a life time commitment. Don't rush in because you love her, love alone cannot keep marriage. You have to face realities with this lady oh. There are so many questions you both need to sit down together and answer truthfully. As regards your financial situation, just give it your best, I know God will perfect everything that concerns you. Wishing you the best too

blackboot:
Please I Need Advice From Real Men And Sensible Ladies On This Issue


My girlfriend of 2 years is about to leave me. the signs are everywhere. i am not financially stable for now but i love her so much. my income is small(30k) a month and i am planning seriously to get a better job before settling down.

She is 29 and already worried because she has a very good paying job and a lot of pressure is coming for her to settle down. family and friends are worried why she is still single and alot of other guys have been coming for her. a read a chat with her and her friend on her phone one time and the friend was telling her to leave me for another rich dude.

She has been very patient with me but its like her patience is running out since she is getting close to 30. she said she is ready to marry me the way i am that we will manage our income together till i get a better job since her income is better. she also said some families dont even earn half of what she earns and they are fine, she said she cant wait for me anymore that she wants to settle down but am scared because i feel a man should have enough before settling down and i want to be a real man. should i go ahead and marry as she suggest since she has a good job or i should beg her to be patient till i find another job so i can be a better husband. i dont want to loose her, i believe she is my wife and i told her from the first day i met her. pls how can i handle the situation. matured advice please.
NB. we met during nysc and she was lucky to get a very good job before me

PapiNigga:
Imagine! The photos was shared on social media by the boy, He wrote: No Kissing Baby And No Touching'' then a Facebook user, Aguguo Ifechi who was familiar with the 14-year-old teen girl re-posted and shared some detail about her.

http://www.certifiednaija.com/2016/10/see-what-this-14-year-old-girl-her.html?m=1

whoever that lady is, she's very wicked. Even if her parents were always travelling and no one was there to advice her then what ever happened to that mouth of yours? she's a friend to your sister abi? how sure are you that your sister is not even pretending? I'm very pissed when I see ladies trying to paint themselves to be all righteous when in the real sense they are worse. if she is doing something very bad, is it helping to spread the news of her bad behavior that would change her? whoever that lady is, please remove the log in your eyes before you can remove the stick in another person's eye.

speedyconnect3:
unknown actress

but she use N5.7m buy car for her mama and she no cry to you say she dey broke. Be happy for others that way you can attract your own blessing.

How many shekaus do we have again? the one the Nigerian army said they killed nko? I wish Nigerians would wake up and realize that this is just politics and these ogas allow young soldiers died for nothing. Hunters would soon come back with the news of killing shekau and guess what, they would get their own share na! Abi no be popularity and national cake them want before??

Am I the only one seeing this? if you look closely, you would see pink on the said black eye .All the attention seekers sef and the Vincent dey tag aishabuhari so money go enter acct abi? Kai Nigerians