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Family › Re: My Neighbour Always Sneak Into My Apartment Anytime I Went Out by Lostchild(op): 2:58pm On Aug 13, 2021

LadySarah:
Is Imalma1 your neighbour?

Yes O, Imalmal1 is my nairaland neighbor, we are even currently quarelling

Why on earth will a man love complaining?

Married women has trouble me too much and I keep enduring. Many times I worried if they will trouble my wife, especially if she refuse to join their gossip league.

Having close neighbours is a huge headache.

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Family › Re: Please Advise This Family Man In My Group. by Lostchild(m): 2:43pm On Aug 13, 2021

Pavore9:
I am just happy for the woman, she don collect her 5 years US visa waka...the man go wait tire!

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Family › Re: Please Advise This Family Man In My Group. by Lostchild(m): 2:38pm On Aug 13, 2021

Halle000

I know how bad you feel right now about her betrayal and neglect.. Many people here will not believe your story and think you did her wrong. She has chosen america over you, the key is for your to choose something over her and move on.

Move on with your life

NOTE: Marriage is a contract and will expires when the time comes.

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Family › Re: My Neighbour Always Sneak Into My Apartment Anytime I Went Out by Lostchild(op): 2:28pm On Aug 13, 2021

Bola146:

I am enduring and I know it will soon be over.

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Family › My Neighbour Always Sneak Into My Apartment Anytime I Went Out by Lostchild(op): 2:03pm On Aug 13, 2021*

I have seen some NL who live abroad and complained that they do not even know their neigbour, when I, myself is even praying for God to give me the life where I will not even know my next neighbours

As a man, when you have eaten the bitter fruit (bitter Kola) all your life, you will not know how sweet an apple can be. I remember when my female married neighbor through my window saw that I have a laptop when she came to speak to me, then I know there is trouble.

Within weeks I started hearing voices that keep saying to me, get rid of the laptop, get rid of the laptop, if not one day you will come back home and never find your laptop again. I listen to the voice and get rid of my laptop. I also backup and encrypt all my most important files and data because I am a person that read and write a lot.

The key to my door got spoilt, knowing that I will move out from the place so soon, I decided to be locking it with a padlock called american lock. I got that padlock from an offshore aquaintance and it is almost impossible for a person to break that lock unless you wants to fall the entire building.

The worst thing is that, I have lost two of the keys and only one key was left. Out of fear of lossing the only one key left, I decide to always hide the key somewhere outside as I go out anytime because that key and padlock is not available in Nigeria market. I also noticed that my neighbor saw me oneday, since then she always observe me on where I kept my key.

I never knew that my female married neighbor will anytime sneak into my apartment when I am away. She has the evil guit to open my door even though we are not even friends. She knows that anytime I go out, it will take 4 hours for me to be back. I came back home one evening and realize that one my phone was missing. I became confused as I search the whole entire house. For the first time in my life I was confused about how my phone got missing.

After about six weeks, I was preparing to go and retrieve my Airtel and Glo Sim, I came back one evening again and I saw that my Nokia battery was missing. I became angry with myself, why do I keep misplacing things.

Yesterday evening, when I came home at late hour of the night, I saw something on the floor that does not belong to me. How is this possible for me to see something I never bought with my money in my apartment ?

Why?
How can this be?

This morning I look very well and saw that she or they check somethings and mis-arrange them.

Imalmal1. You are very, very ignorant as you called me a sad person. Many of you women have problems as all you always need the attention of single men inside compound to make you feel special and wanted. They as women hated me because I refuse to befriend them

This is not the first time someone has sneak into my apartment. In 2010, another neighbour I used to share my food with, sneaks into my house and stole my phone.

For many years of my life I began to understand why wealthy men are afraid of people and why they do not have any close friends. They only make a friendship with wealthy business men or people like them self. Wealthy men are some how lonely and solitude and I see that God is training me and I pray to soon be come one of the wealthy loners.

NOTE: I love to share my stories of how many times I have fallen, and will surely rise again.

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Family › Re: They Beat Him Up After Marriage by Lostchild(op): 1:44pm On Aug 13, 2021

greenie77:
Hand myself to who?

Go and hang yourself

Family › Re: Nigerian Mothers And Their Drama | When Are You Getting Married? by Lostchild(m): 12:35pm On Aug 13, 2021

The only people that throw speech at me to go an get married are women. I began to wonder what women does to their fellow unmarried ladies

Family › Re: They Beat Him Up After Marriage by Lostchild(op): 12:15pm On Aug 13, 2021*

Why are you feeling pained if I want people to know how many times I have fallen?

I will say that, even you or your family does not have problem. Disappointment and joblessness is natural in every country and society. You should not feel pained when I express myself and the negativeness of my life experienced. As I am now, I have followers here because I write what they like, I don't write for everyone but for few.

Despite my negative post, people still view them and comment and I will share more of my past because I came to nairaland to share myself and not to teach and will share more about my glory.

In fact, I see no reason why you keep bumping into my thread if not for the aproko wey carry you come here. If you continue to open any of my new thread I post then it is your shame and pain.

I advice you to avoid my threads to avoid high BP

ImaIma1:
If I tell you the sad stories about my life, you will take a back sit. Is it about immediate family battle, job losses, disappointments, loss?

But unlike you, I don't want a cloud of sadness and negativity around me. We choose to deal with them and move instead of carrying it like a badge of honour.

What do you expect from people with your everyday sob stories? Pity? Empathy? Or what? I told you on another thread that you needed to move on.

If you are out looking for sad incidences, you will find them and they will keep following you.

However, if that is what you find joy and fulfillment doing, please carry on.

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Family › Re: They Beat Him Up After Marriage by Lostchild(op): 12:13pm On Aug 13, 2021

cezarman:
I'll beat a woman if she attacks me... And if this is the case, I'll never consider myself or anybody (man or woman) who does same a coward

Some women may not attack you but will constantly rained insult at you, of which the disrespectfulness will become daily bases. There was a time I was angry with my middle brother for slapping his wife. At first I failed to understand his action till today that I do.

I dated a girl who take advantage of my gentleness on regular basis until I began to understood that she fear and respect brutal men.

Family › Re: They Beat Him Up After Marriage by Lostchild(op): 11:58am On Aug 13, 2021*

greenie77:
You mental space is scary!

You are just too foolish to see that, you are on the family section of Nairaland.

But if all my post they pain you, just go an hang yourself.

Family › Re: They Beat Him Up After Marriage by Lostchild(op): 11:57am On Aug 13, 2021

realtalk19:
You are indeed a lost child,sorry

Family › Re: They Beat Him Up After Marriage by Lostchild(op): 11:21am On Aug 13, 2021*

elonmuskbaby:
it's very normal for couples to fight but what is abnormal is using violence.

At least show you came from a functional home and not a garage

I understand you.

The man did not use violence, it is the extreme ego of the woman that she came from well to do family or have brothers to back her up.

I was aware of the ego of the woman

Family › Re: They Beat Him Up After Marriage by Lostchild(op): 3:09am On Aug 13, 2021

Richy4:
What if the wife beats him first... Some ladies just have some dirty idea of slapping men... daring them to retaliate... has that at least occurred to some of you?...
<<< Yes men should not beat their wives... Yes men should leave the place when it gets toxic... But a woman should not hit me first.. it's not a good idea ....

Many of the guys here attacking me has not been under the hands of a manipulative women (wife)

I pray they should get yoke with these crazy type of women

I pray so

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Family › Re: They Beat Him Up After Marriage by Lostchild(op): 2:53am On Aug 13, 2021*

ImaIma1:
You have so many sob stories. How do your friends cope with you and all this sadness around you?

I am sure you do not know the true definition of sadness

I say this you because I see that, you wants to attack my personel but I will answer you in this way. I am one of the most gracious and joyful humans that is currently walking this earth. Wherever I go, the spirits of God goes with me because I am a man of love, peace and joy.

I see that, your attack only reminded me of the evil of black man and how a former friend of mine put poison in my food, but I couldn't die because my life is in the hands of my heavenly maker. This is why I don't make friends, I don't wants friendship because black men are too evil.

Do you know that this evening, I went out and I just found out that, anytime I went out, my next door neighbours are entering into my house to steal?

Do you want me to tell you more stories about my life?

Can you answer me?

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Family › Re: They Beat Him Up After Marriage by Lostchild(op): 1:23am On Aug 13, 2021

yuping:
Violence with violence is not a good thing but abusers are always getting their ways and it very painful while we watch on.
At least now the pastor knows how it feels to be maltreated.

You will not understand.

Family › Re: They Beat Him Up After Marriage by Lostchild(op): 1:22am On Aug 13, 2021

b3llo:
He got what he deserved but the family no try as them carry the wife go.

I believe that, the lady brothers are more wiser now and will not do such thing in this modern day

It is just a normal fight or small beating

Family › Re: My Husband Hardly Satisfy Me by Lostchild(m): 1:05am On Aug 13, 2021

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Family › Re: They Beat Him Up After Marriage by Lostchild(op): 1:04am On Aug 13, 2021

MrBrownJay1:
when children are involved, DIVORCE IS BETTER than raising children in a foul/failed/negative/damaging environment where they see mummy disrespect daddy and/or daddy beat up mummy for sport. your children will always be better off having two separated happy parents than married parents who hate one another. such failed environment damage children and teaches them the WRONG values.

divorce is the ONLY solution to having a disrespectful wife, whether it be easy or not is irrelevant to your children/family wellbeing.

Family › Re: They Beat Him Up After Marriage by Lostchild(op): 4:29pm On Aug 12, 2021

MrBrownJay1:
- why do you believe the above?
- why would a man want to stay with a disrespectful woman?
. why should a man stay with a disrespectuful woman?
- what benefit is there to stay with a disrespectful woman?

Divorce is not that easy when kids are already involve.

There is no point being with a disrespectful woman. You can easily divorce when you see marriage as for better and not for worse.

I repeat: divorce is not as easy as you think.

Family › Re: They Beat Him Up After Marriage by Lostchild(op): 4:21pm On Aug 12, 2021

Kobojunkie:
My wife would never slap me because I don't engage unintelligent beings.
Again, It is "normal" for a man to beat his wife, according to what law?

Where does this right you claim the husband has to beat his wife come from?

You claim you are a man, OK

When your wife start cursing you, what will you do?

Politics › Re: Ali Yakubu Numan Jailed 30 Months For Calling Fintiri ‘Father Of All Thieves' by Lostchild(m): 4:18pm On Aug 12, 2021*

Northern Nigeria are just too different from we southerners.

Chai.. angry

Family › Re: They Beat Him Up After Marriage by Lostchild(op): 4:13pm On Aug 12, 2021*

Kobojunkie:
So you are just a coward then. Why not slap a man when they badmouth you?

To answer you, men don't bad mouth. They fight which can result to blood.

You see, you have even started cursing just as a typical crazy woman

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Family › Re: They Beat Him Up After Marriage by Lostchild(op): 3:08pm On Aug 12, 2021*

mariahAngel:
...and the man did no wrong by beating up his wife?

One thing you should understand is that most women always take advantage of tender and quiet men. As long as the man keep enduring them, they will keep abusing the man and make his life living hell.

As a gentle person, I nearly slap a pregnant woman, if not the fact that I had to control and restrain myself and walk away from her to cool off. She was a terrible person who sees quarreling and gossiping as her daily meal.

I am not the type that lays hands on someone but some women deserve hot dirty slap to reset their brain

better one

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Family › Re: They Beat Him Up After Marriage by Lostchild(op): 2:59pm On Aug 12, 2021

MrBrownJay1:
any man can decide how he wants to deal with his wife, but then again, make sure she doesnt have some MMA fighter type as a brotha, who can possibly deal with you mercilessly!

ultimately, if your wife is disrespectful to you, divorce the woman instead of trying to change her with beatings.

Divorcing a woman is not as easy as you might say it. Some women, their mouth is so bad that you will not even know when you slap them and end up beating them

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Family › Re: They Beat Him Up After Marriage by Lostchild(op): 2:52pm On Aug 12, 2021

Kobojunkie:
It is "normal" for a man to beat his wife, according to what law?

Where does this right you claim the husband has to beat his wife come from?

You haven't answer my question.

What will you do if hubby slap you?

Family › Re: They Beat Him Up After Marriage by Lostchild(op): 2:49pm On Aug 12, 2021

MrBrownJay1:
dude got what he deserves from the wife's brotha....if you can beat her then you should be ready for her family wrath.

Women mouth too bad and need to be well slap

Family › Re: They Beat Him Up After Marriage by Lostchild(op): 2:48pm On Aug 12, 2021

mariahAngel:
First of all, hahahahhahahahahahahahahahaha

Secondly....you know what? Forget it!

Marriage sucks

This is what I am trying to say to you, the brothers did wrong to beat up their sister hubby. Some wife have bad fowl mouth and can provoke a stone to tear their head.

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Christianity Etc › Re: The Painful Mistake Of A Young Prophet (True Story) by Lostchild(op): 2:38pm On Aug 12, 2021

Oeis

Sorry it has taken me so long but I did respond to your email

Family › Re: They Beat Him Up After Marriage by Lostchild(op): 2:36pm On Aug 12, 2021

Kobojunkie:
What does it mean to fight as normal couples do?

Didn't you state that your friend laid hands on his wife , beating her up?

It happened years ago, so does that make using of violence against a partner ok?

Yes, he laid his hands on her which is normal. If your hubby beat you up, what will do you?

Family › Re: They Beat Him Up After Marriage by Lostchild(op): 2:25pm On Aug 12, 2021

Kobojunkie:
You can fight without resorting to violence.

It is not a violence. They fight as normal couples do, that is not enough reasons for the wife brothers to come and beat up the man.

This happens years back and I believe these guys do not have sense

Christianity Etc › Re: My Experience With Mermaid Spirit - Marine Powers by Lostchild(op): 2:06pm On Aug 12, 2021

madprophet:
I just did

OK
I will check later

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