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Aisha95:
How can a man forgives his lover but yet does not accept her back into his life?
She will feel that he is barely doing that as a leverage to let her depart from him as soon as possible. That's even more downcasting.
However I understand your point. A case of who laughs last.

Oyind17:
I hardly pick calls cos my phone is on silence. People complain a lot about it. lil i

Oyind17:
You are taking sides with your friend. if the lady is doing all that, why is your friend hell bent on marrying this lady? I wish I can hear the Lady's side of this story. My man was angry cos I didn't pick his call, my phone was on silent and he sent an annoying msg to me. If he opens a thread on Nl I know the kind of advice people will give him.

zaragal:
to all does guy shouting am i her father, i cnt carry any responsibility, i cnt help out in tyms of need.

May ur sisters date a guy who wen she is dying sick he ll give her bible 2 read instead of takin ha 2 d clinic, type amen o, if nt u guys saying all does stuff re hypocrites

ronald4lif:
Taking up some responsibilities doesn't mean you're her father. For a guy to wow a woman money is needed. What's that thing to impress a woman that usually doesn't require money. Money must always come to play whether a man is her father or not.

zaragal:
All does shouting they can't carry any responsibility and Gold digger, u plan on dating a girl for free??...I don't get

INTROVERT:
even nicki Minaj and beyonce still get taken care off by their men..... tyga bout a super car for his Kendal who is already a millionaire last week. SO







let me wait for NAIRALAND guys to come and run their mouth here.

Woged2005:
Hmmmm! but you did not give any real proof why u will take such a stand as a father. That's what I am eager to hear. Does anyone have a real story to back up these fears about female bank marketers or it's just perception?

Jhenny:
that is why it is very neccessary for girls to close their legs and only open when they get married. Dat dude is heartless. He even said it to her face. Smh

millionboi:
Buhari sld 4get abt d past Govtmnt focus nd change dis country as promise

classicB:
I.do have a boyfriend and we've been together for a long time now. He's the only guy I trust with myself

MrsPhyno:
Hmm good point. I think I'm too close to my male friends. I'll try to adjust

MrsPhyno:
I agree somehow. Especially if the lady in question is very beautiful or very sexy. Hard to stay platonic with her.....

However, I think it's up to the woman to decide. If she insists (with her actions) that you guys will only remain friends than it can work.

The lady may tease the dude tho, like sitting on his lap and hugging him and playing with him. Which can be more frustrating for the dude.

Sha, I wouldn't advise it. Male and female friendships are messy.

skimma:
So it means you will open your puny for any male friend since that is your mind-set from the onset.

just wondering

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asscb:
Me too

freecocoa:
walahi if you were a girl,you'd be very easy to play,so until a guy lures a girl to his room and undresses before she'd know he's interested in her abi? You are so smart.

beautifullll1:
Facebook chat..... I don't no how that works.... but upload the screenshots here let's analyse it.... Some Facebook chats are not real



If anything bad didn't come up, you would still give her the phone. So why keep it just because something came up? keeping the phone will make it look like you're one of those guys who get all their stuffs back simply because it didn't work out....


my opinion(even though its not needed) .... Give her the phone and still leave the relationship if u want to. Avoiding her that way will make her come to her senses....

Giving her the phone won't make you feel less than a guy.... But keeping the phone with you will.....

Cutehector:
Just gv her d fone and dnt call her anymore...

nickyblinky:
this month making it the sixth month, I think I have to put less into the relationship.

lucilicious:
my dear,only guys go tru dis stage,ours is very different dear,most ladies fall inlove too quickly,especially if d man is their *ideal man*

Gurgle:
yeah of course!

i mean like when dating, in case she messes up

then when youre ready to marry her you can close them

isn't that what marriage is? rejecting all other options?

we should all be realistic mehn

Gurgle:
So what do you suggest i do to avoid disappointment

and can you honestly say you stay with one woman at a time

Gurgle:
it wont if you manage to control yourself

i understand that its messy

but if your guy betrays you and youre left with nothing its even messier

Gurgle:
it wont if you manage to control yourself

i understand that its messy

but if your guy betrays you and youre left with nothing its even messier

IamLEGEND1:
the involvement of emotional or sexùal commitment doesnt matter here.
the simple act of keeping suitors lined up just bcoz of ur paranoia that ur current r/ship might break down is selfish and you arent doing justice to ur partner either, who is probably doing everything in his power to see that ur r/ship flourishes.


however,
i go just dash u diz argument,

coz if i dont

we will probably keep going till infinity...

#Sori4DaLateReply.

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Gurgle:
it depends what you mean by side guy

like i said, it doesn't need sexual/emotional commitment it just means not closing all options

good afternoon

Gurgle:
but can you successfully refute my point? you cant

not to be sleeping with 2 guys at once but just to keep her options open

jmoore:
Wise girl.

Mumu boy.
Was sex part of the terms and conditions?
Did she force you to take her to Dubai? Foolish boy!!

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