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coolsegun2002:
Ur case is a sensitive one..my mum is marriage counsellor nd she's been at it for 20yrs....I read someof her file cases anytime I visit her.to be candid ur case is a bit common..like u said ...u love her..u might need to do more dan u av done...like prayer...
Why?? It couldbe spiritual ..I saw one of the file cases after diliverance...the lady happen to have spiritual husband nd kids..making her share only her body sexuallly with her physical husband but not her heart.she wasn't even allowed to concieve orhave kids in this physical world according to her confessions..
2)Out of desperation some ladies just marry a guy cos time is rolling by nd all their friends are gettin married...without genuine love...its quite clear wateva someone does will be out of reluctancy....I'm not saying ur wife's case is either of the two I stated oooo...its just dat u need to do more than u are doing now I to win her heart..

like seriously? He needs to do more? Please it takes too to tangle. She needs to come out from her shell or loose her man.

vincent7447:
[color=#006600][/color]Bro we are in the same shoes,my own wife even deny me of sex all in the name of work.
Each time I initiate sex,she tells me word like this, I am tired,I have headache, I am sick, I have backache, an endless excuses which often piece me off and when I push further she tells me that I am selfish that I don't care about her and so on.

Get a side chick

DrGroove:
Your wife is using defense mechanism on you.
Which is by giving you showing you less affection,being unromantic n cold towards you.
Because naturally,when you show somebody too much affection,they don't appreciate it
Most times,when a woman makes a man feels too loved,is too romantic and attached to the man,the man begins to feel like alpha n omega,gets choked,tired,unappreciative and takes her for granted.
He will even cheat on her n rub it on her face and maltreat her,knowing it will hurt her deeply.
But as she is not sending you,see as e dey make u loyal and nice,even helping with housework.Lol
I don't blame her!

Lame reasoning is the course of so many broken relationship.

ahsekeena:
There's shaa money in the account,they shaa didn't take out of it. I seriously don't see what the big deal is here.




They wrote 50dollars but when the atm dispenses it would be in naira right?



Abii what's the problem,is there something I'm missing?

Just read comments and be educated

Mindependent:
1st of all learn how to spell loser before calling someone that.

2nd what makes you think guys won't date or notice me? U can't just go around making assumptions and judging people because I do get noticed alot + I have a boyfriend so I'm not looking for any guy to date me

3rdly I think u just lost the plot like wtf are you even saying , if you read what I said u would realise I'm an advocate for the relationship rather than breaking it up and Im not looking to break anyone's relationship

Lastly having a lot of male FRIENDS has never been a crime and should not be a base to use in judging someone only insecure men like yourself evidently would have a problem with a girl with loads of male friends,personally all my male friends are only friends and they know their boundaries so I'm sorry to inform you but your points are invalid

Are they just your male friends or guys that you friend zone? Please clarify

honeygirl17:
Lol, na my opinion sha

I get. But it is important to knw y guys are insecure. Girls contribute a lot to it.

BLOTRS:
they have seen buhari for who he really is, that's why they are the ones making decision for him

Which decision did they make for him? You can't even read and comprehend...smh

softysparky:
But why do guys always beg like their lives depend on it.

Lol... Because girls are pretenders and are ready to die inside...

Freshnex:
The true facts

Is life all about pleasing a woman? Most ladies always want to careless and leave the man to be fighting everyday for her HABA!!!

EggovinMma:
That lady is close to the truth, Nna most broke guys get issues o . Their wahala dey irritate.

What about broke girls? The last I checked jay z got married to a rich girl. Broke girls are parasite

Money can't buy love but broke guys are annoying sometimes. I'm not saying its wrong to date a broke guy. They are always insecure about the relationship and keep accusing the lady of cheating.

My opinion

Because you keep giving them reason to feel insecure. Beside the rich guy is only secure because he may have like 10 other girls which you are even aware of lol. A broke guy most times have you as all and all so Na concentration of emotions cause the insecurity

Omotayor123:
I wonder oooo.




No money, no love jare.

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Seriously, money is not love buy it's an essential factor in love..


As far as I'm concern,
fvck broke niggas

thats why rich men will never respect girls except of course you have your own money too. Fvck and dump broke bitches

Omotayor123:
I wonder oooo.




No money, no love jare.

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Seriously, money is not love buy it's an essential factor in love..


As far as I'm concern,
fvck broke niggas

thats why we will rich men will never respect girls except of course you have your own money too. Fvck and dump broke bitches

agarawu23:
the Lady might have change you know? he might be thinking the lady is no more a Virgin. And besides "konji na bastarddd "

donmoris how did the guy confirmed your Virginity ?
hope he is still confirming it ?

The lady even said the guy is suspecting that she is cheating. Babe you are just scamming the guy coz for the guy to suspect u it simply means you are keeping your options open. Typical Nigerian girls don't want to loose anything. If I may ask what is the difference between your 2years old boyfriend and other boyfriends that have bin asking you out and u kip them on friendzone

donmoris:
who is collecting money,am nt collectng any shi shi frm him nd I have nt for one day ask him to give me to give me anything. I have parents who is ther responsibility

Pls is it mouth that he uses to show care? You don't need to ask first b4 he spends...lol u girls know how to set up a man

Tallesty1:
Story for the village chiefs.



Regret ko, register ni.


Is she the only one that will find love?


The guy really tried because it is not easy to be loving and caring and still not get what you want.......


There is always a better girl out there.

Don't mind all this hypocrite. Sex is part of her commitment to the relationship. Without sex she can easily move on. Every relationship involves risk, so if you are not ready to take the risk then don't enjoy the benefit of things that comes with relationship. Just kip normal friends

Sexxkillz:
[color=#000030]The issue of trust is a weighty and long one. Trust can mean a lot of different things. It's very naïve of anyone to think that access to your partner's phone, or non access to it denotes trust, or lack of it.

For starters, if you trust your partner like you claim you do, why would you want to check their phones? Checking their phones already confirms the obvious fact that you do not trust them. A cheat is a cheat. If I want to cheat on you, I can give you my phones to hold, and I'll still be cheating on you! The mindset that having access to your partner's phone checkmates their cheating is simplistic. It leaves you more vulnerable to be cheated on. If I am a cheat and I notice how frequent you check my phone, I'll change my modus operandi. Now, you'll still be oblivious to my change in mode of operation and be thinking how trustworthy I am etc, until you find me cheating thru another method. . . That leaves you more devastated because I have proved you to be very clueless, and nothing hurts more than being cheated on, and being made to look like a fool while being cheated on.

There are several other ways to gain the trust of someone. You have to pass a series of tests and not just allowing access to your phone. In fact, to me, allowing me access to your phone doesn't mean that I trust you. Not that I'll want to have anything to do with your phone, by the way. A phone is a private property. No matter how close you are to a human, you need your private time. A phone is that private. It shouldn't be touched, especially on the basis of using it as a template of trust.

When you trust someone wholeheartedly, you have trusted them with everything, including your life. That also silently means that YOU DO NOT NEED TO CHECK THEIR PHONES PERIODICALLY! If you do not trust someone, or you have reasons to doubt their trust, never ever lie to them that you trust them. . . In the two examples the OP gave, those are prime examples of people who failed to see trust beyond their partners allowing them access to their phones. If you have the innate ability of studying the body language of another human, simple things like looking into their eyes while they talk can reveal a lot to you, but that's story for another day.

Phones are private and should not be accessed without permission. There are better and more effective ways to detect someone who is betraying your trust without even touching their phones. Exploring those avenues will put you on a higher pedestal than the naïve and simplistic method of going thru a phone to detect cheating and what not.[/color]

Most ppl that go thru their partners phone are already suspecting their partners. All they need is confirmation tho. As they a suspect is innocent until proven

Jarizod:
Some people are going to beef me for saying this but remember its only an advice and also the truth

One of the major reasons(NOT ALL) men get dumped is they get lazy.

They think the game is over once they've started "seriously" dating a girl, or once they've slept with her, or once they're engaged, or even married.

Absolutely wrong. The game has just begun. And you have no choice but to continue to play, and play well, if you want to keep her as your own.

You must continue to be interesting by thinking of unusual things to do together. You must continue to care about how you look and strive to present yourself as positively as possible. You must continue to compliment her. You must continue to listen to her sometimes "boring" stories... and act like you're on the edge of your seat. And you must continue to be a mystery, a challenge, unpredictable, and exciting!

Heed these words — Get lazy and you'll get dumped... and spend the next 3 or 4 months of your life moping around wondering what happened... and why she's now dating your best friend.

Remember its only an advice. .. No beefs please

And your best friend also will get dumped so the circle continue..lol no time

Flets:
A critical review of the Nigerian situation reveals that Nigeria is at a dead end.

Stopping that contract has dire implications that could crumble the Nigerian economy in a matter of weeks.

Its morally wrong to pay out such funds just like amnesty in a perfect society but almost justified in the Nigerian context its absence could lead to the loss of everything.

Nigeria must adopt true federalism through regional governance to progress. Anything short of that is mere anarchy.

Shallow minds will say, take away the contract and take the war to them. We cannot war and produce crude oil (generate revenue, allocations, Salaries) at the same time. We have to choose one.

Who is talking about war? Are we held hostage? A contract can be revoked except the contract was made with guns to the nations head. Abeg make I no hear war again 4 ur mouth o. We simple want our navy to secure our water ways

sanandreas:
Are there not competent hands in this country. Please don't stress your self. Obasanjo did something like this, it changed nothing.

What was subsidy claim in obansajo time and good luck Jonathan? So there is no difference between 300billion naira and over a trillion naira right? The way some of you post comment is just crazy. If u must talk or type be well informed.

20pounds:
What does he need 15 advisers for? I thought this is a government of frugality, where a spartan approach to governance shall reign supreme.

Let him not also forget to ask them to declare their assets and their salaries should be made public.

Buhari's convoy is still long and made up of foreign cars. When is he going to start driving Innoson cars and the made in Nigeria Nissan cars?

Let us not forget that Aisha Buhari's wristwatch can sink 15 boreholes in Daura, where people and camels hustle for a drinking space in stagnant mosquito infested- ponds.

I hope we have not been scammed. #CHANGE DOLE!

very foolish post. Did the wife steal your money or the nations money to buy her wristwatch? Do ppl question you what u do with your money? If no y tell another person what to do with theirs?

Agwoden:
First lady ke. Anything short of scrapping the office as promised during campaign won't be acceptable. That woman I saw rocking a 10M wristwatch is another one chance waiting to happen.

Did you see her? Did she steal your fathers money to buy it?

ifedubatoochukw:
THE MILITARY CENTRAL COMMAND IS THE ENGINE ROOM OF THE ENTIRE NIGERIA FORCES INCLUDING ARMY NAVY AND AIRFOCE all their cordinated strikes is control from this command base... even BOTH NIGERIA COMBAT AND SURVEILLANCE DRONE IS CONTROL FROM THERE.. IF BOKO HARAM OVER RUN THIS BASE NIGERIA IS DOOMED ALL OUR DATA CODES AND DRONES AND MISILES WILL FALL INTO BOKO HARAM HAND

for this thing u posted u just completed your level of cluelessness

No need 4 break up. It is an open relationship

ireneony:
i wil hug n kiss him
but if i dont love him, ain't giving him my punny

After the gift u will learn to love him...lol

Mbkite:
Exactly my point.

Do u sit in your house and receive the pay? If not how long do you sit without doing nothing? Is your time not precious to you? Ppl pay you 4 your time basically. So if you spend time in an office you should be paid for it even if u just sit down look.

Opesyy:
Kindly include it if you can because It's among the requirements and nowhere was it stated that you shouldnt include it for online app. But, we have seen people who didnt submit it and still got TRV. Cheers

Tanx I appreciate. Pls do u have a template or format for SOP

Please house, if I'm doing my application online, do I still need police clearance,cos a friend was saying if I'm doing it online I don't need. Pls I will like to knw from gurus in the house. Tanx

Justfollowit:
He is looking for a beautiful and classy babe
She is searching for a rich man. She has what he wants. He has what she wants. No gain, no loss.

Also, love was never a requirement for a relationship not to mention marriage. I suggest you guys quit manipulating us with how your foremothers married for loved unconditionally Because guess what? ; D, most of them DID NOT marry for love.

Pls educate me on the requirements for relationship again cos e b like I don dey 4get am

Google flirting

timawoku:
Hmm...

'This uprising will bring out the beast in us'

If I were to be him, I would leave the house for some days, then come back to check if her senses are back. I would do so until I find solace outside and that might spell doom for the marriage. But I won't bring out the beast in me.

Easier said