₦airaland Forum

Shebarh:
The mother still wanna claim ownership of her son ..Sometimes ah do pray for the Mil to die before ah even meet her son.. Awful prayer but sometimes it's the best

I believe you have a brother, so someone else is also praying for your mother to die all because he wants to marry your brother...

Eberex:
True, but one still need to cut down the probability of an event happening.

Never worry Abt things you can't control. The truth is you cannot control what ppl do but you can control how you respond to it

warrior01:
By the time Buhari finishes with you guys, you'll all stone him to leave. Meanwhile, enjoy the change. With the massive unemployments being witnessed, rising cost of food and basic needs and another hike in electricity tarrifs; Nigerians should brace up. Anyways you guys were warned

The hike was planned during gej tenure not Buhari. Part agreement your gej hard was fixed increment as the year progresses

Tashaamania:
The nonentity might turn out to be Mr. right. I'm just saying..
She shouldn't ignore any signs. Staying with someone for five years isn't a guarantee just as knowing someone couple of months back isn't. Anyone can pretend for any length of time.

OP weigh both options. if need be, take time off the wedding planning, postpone and figure out what you really want. Marriage no be beans especially when you're going into it with doubts, that's alot of pending trouble.

you are assuming that the guy she wants to get married to will just sit down and wait for her while she nourishes another relationship with a new guy abi? So if it was a guy that says he wants to put your wedding plans on hold because he met another girl will you be ok with it? Note she said next month meaning it is already out there.

thorpido:
It's just a feeling.Feelings are never good enough.
You're allowing yourself to get distracted.focus on your fiance and sort out whatever issues you have with him.

Women are so funny. Give her 2 years with this guy she will comeback and tell you I met another guy and I think I will be happier with this new guy...lol pls women there will always be another guy and another guy there is no limit to the numbers of another guy that you will meet. Love is sacrificing many another guy for one guy, so if you are not ready to make the sacrifice don't start a relationship. You can't keep your cake and eat it too

Luchi20:
Huh??U guys are soo stingy.atleast frm tym to tym he should get her gifts na.it nourishes d relationship@neavenmade nd hummerwise

provided you are giving him gift from time to time too Na. Abi Na only man dey nourish relationship?

Luchi20:
Ok.lemme open up,am not ready 4 sex nw nd am new to datin.wanna knw oda ways to make him hapi aside sex.

Don't start a date if you are not ready for sex. Just keep male friends.

Toks2008:
Oh thanks bro. I was actually expecting a backlash from guys because this looks like a show spoiiler lol.

Actual your post is very foolish,no offense. This is 2015. Women like sex, so some of them use and dumb guys even if the guy wants to get married to them. Your post makes it looks like the decision of marriage rest solely on the guys and like men are the only ones interested in sex. Back date your post to 1960.

permsec:
The person above me deserves to be flogged like a pupil with 0/50 scoresheet.


CHINA : Nigeria's biggest Trading
partner and Investor, Snubs Nigeria
over Buhari’s Behaviour and BODY LANGUAGE.



Nobody jokes with china bro. even the almighty America depends on china heavily for sustainability and are heavily indebted to china, talk more of you fvcking African (now underdeveloped)!



Like i always say, this country is on auto-reverse with full speed that can be compared to that of Airbus A380 all in the name of one Daura lord called SAY BARBER.



Watch the gullible avoid this thread like a Ebola..

Go and sleep. America depends on China just as China depends on America so it is not news. No man is an island. We will pursue what is in our interest we don't care if China or Jp Morgan snub. Your report on blaming Buhari for q2 economic slum is so lame except of course u don't knw what q2 is

seunmsg:
What happened to the 13% derivation collected by Emmanuel Uduaghan in 8 years?

The man should be arrested. Urhobo and itsekiri ruled for 16years and a small city like warri is still in total mess

ZDXQ:
Mind you am not a victim, am male and a graduate of that faculty and work their, all what you read are factual situations, any unical student can corroborate this facts s the name Ndifon is not unknown in this bussiness, if you still doubt then take a walk to campus and interview law students.

Then his punishment is long overdue. I'm just amazed that a prof can stoop so low to the level described. There are ways he can have sex with the females students involve without going to the extent described.

philfrey08:

Op.... i suspect from your title you are blackmailing this man further. I jus feel there are so much lies in this your "cry for help" you claim he did these outrageous things even during the day.... is he the owner of the school?


I jus feel there are so much lies here. Thats all.
You not only ruining the school and Faculty of Law rep but the integrity of every female graduate of the faculty is questionable.

Finally, dont poison the minds of Nairalanders. This is wrong, the story sounds all cooked up.

Funny enuff Nairalanders would not read the full story to smell the lies.
Or is this guy advertising for FOREIGN EXTRA STOUT?

the write up was just foolish in my opinion. That's the trend now, once there is case of rape unknown ppl will just come out to claim victims...smh

neocortex:

What a dunce! you think those your village rich men are very rich ?
Who will ask them to prove their source of wealth because I have not seen
any law anywhere that requires a person to prove his/her source of wealth
except you are running for a public office.

It is better to keep shut next time so as not to embarrass yourself further.

For Forbes to come out and name anybody as richest in Africa or any top ten list, they have proofs and estimated source of wealth. The rich ppl do not announce themselves as richest ,so I don't understand what you are talking about law to prove source of wealth. Forbes do research for themselves , to come out with list based on fact findings about the individuals. I did not comment on ritualist vomiting money, I only picked @ a phrase where the poster said top 50 black richest. My point is simple there ppl richer than ppl u see on various list, that's why I said ask Vladimir Putin. Next time keep shut if you don't understand the point a poster is passing instead of reacting emotionally

FriedPlantain:
Yeah, I should ask Putin about folks who make their money by receiving cash everyday from damned spirits vomiting money from their mouth like an ATM.
And people still wonder why Africa still struggling miserably when the brain of the youths here are filled with 15th century bullshit like this.

I did not comment on ppl vomiting money. I only referred to your list about richest black and all that but of course low IQ cannot decode the point of adding Vladimir putin to the equation

FriedPlantain:
This is what you get from watching too much low IQ nollywood movies. Blood Money is real yet not even one of them could make the top 50 richest blacks in the world.

The only damn thing that is real is hustling for your money.

Your IQ is also since you don't know that to make up the list you will have to prove your source of wealth. There are ppl richer than those list but they prefer to hide themselves ask Vladimir Putin...lol

alexistaiwo:
u are very wrong. girls free up bottled up feelings whenever they are angry

First of all what she has told you is the truth. The fact that a girl/boy is in a relationship with you, doesn't mean you are the best person he/she will meet in life. Love is sacrifice, so we choose to sacrifice all the other good things we see outside just to be with one person inspite of there short comings.
So chill she has seen guys better than you and you have seen girls better than her. It is a fact. Just remind her next time that you have seen girls better than her too so is no biggy. It is not enough to break up tho

Pierocash:
Abacha, IBB, Atiku altogether didn't loot half what only Jonathan looted.

This post just made u look very foolish. Go do research and come back

Jhenny:
cant read pm's,i've got problem with my mail

Ok just give it time tho you will learn how to cope

Jhenny:
it is me and i dont know what to do

You need to work on it. Love and relationships is choice not just feelings. Prolly send u a pm so we can chat if it is cool with u tho

Jhenny:
i dont know.

So what makes u bored? Is it the guy? If the problem is you then u can do sumtin abt it

ladyF:
Ask him na....Dont be assuming

Somebody says I love you and you want to still ask him...lol girls are just clowns

Jhenny:
honestly,i dont know. Thats why i'm scared of marraige. Relationships bore me. D longest i've been is 3mths. I hope i get over that soon sha

I guess you are still young so you never know if u can stay for 2 or 3 years .

Jhenny:
i praise people that are in relationships for a year and above. I dont even see myself dating for that long,i'll get bored

You will get bored with marriage too abi?

Okestra01:
So you dont disgrace yourself in public

You plan to surprise a girl...lol if she refuse proposal you don surprise yourself be that o...I can't stand that kind disgrace in front of friends and well wishers. Na prevention sure pass

LadyBoss1:
Girls say no all the time
Because we do not know if there are any underlined issues within the relationship , the man might not even know ( u know chics be stuck i. Thier feelings n when ask they say nothing is wrong) yh so she might be pissed or upset or just plain insecure ..

Some cases alot are just too shy and public place is a no no for them ..

Well Guys are really good at hiding emotion and feeling so i guess most would handle it, only a few percent would walk away from the relationship totaly .. But common does the word NO phase guys erm no lol

My opinion tho

B4 I propose to a girl I must be 100 percent sure of the answer. I go don even ask if she dey like public or indoors lol... I refuse to surprise myself all in d name of proposal

datyrone:
how can a guy propose to you in public and you say no....haba.after months and probably years of dating,,,,diplomacy is crucial here

But wait do ppl propose with out knowing what the answer will be? The proposing is just formality na haba!!!!

Tapout:
it rarely happens....

She is mistaking it for toasting...lol

chocolateme:
The lawyer is right, that they are robbers doesn't mean they don't have right to an attorney..
Sometimes these police officers takes law into their hands and even carry jungle justice on criminals.
They should follow due process.


FTC

So the ppl they killed, don't they have right to live. Did arm robbers go to court b4 they kill innocent ppl?

Gurgle:
theres nothing wrong but you need to leave her until youre like 32 and she is 22, otherwise its wrong

Lol...he should keep her for another 5 years. Gurgle you are wicked

peppyluv02:
I agree 100% with the bolded.

All female will agree 100% cos most times you ladies prefer to give less in relationship. Men like op will continue to betray us

Toks2008:
ofcourse but the bottomline is that its better if the man is more crazy about u

This is Hw u male put us in trouble. I prefer her to be crazy abt me too...haba.

bamac:
if you didn't many do and you know it. The post is referring to the majority and not the minority

Woman wrappering.