₦airaland Forum

EvilMerodack:
Not the best, but its a great one

A lady marrying at 24+ with her virginity still intact signifies a whole lot of positives, especially when you realize s-e-x isnt too hard for women to get

I would choose a virgin with a pleasant character over a Non-virgin with a pleasant character

So the constant in this equation is pleasant character.

I don't know other gifts you people are talking about.

Leave revenge alone. It doesn't benefit anybody.
Try to find a way to heal from your trauma.
Then resolve to be a better parent who your children will grow up to be proud of.

Lionnation:
is there any car that is not duely registered

Please tell them. Can't we incorporate tint permit in vehicle registration or even their much touted CMR.
Why proliferate these data bases just for the purpose of ripping people off

Let me bookmark this

When you date someone young enough to be your son

AntiChristian:
May Allah give our kids good mum!

May Allah bless our mums and forgive them!

It's good to have a good mum!

I wanted to say amen before I saw your name.
Now, get out!

ExudeLoveToAll:
Stay with elder sister for what exactly? To go and put pressure on the pocket of another man? Everyone has their issues.

As younger sister no work out, let him try elder sister naa.
If that one too no work, he can try uncles and aunts.
Which other advice do you want me to give as he no gree humble himself and hustle

Sonnobax15:

Bro,that should be your source of motivation for you to step up and hustle like you've never done bb bbefore....

Some of us,we lived with our fathers and step mothers....I can tell you for free it wasn't easy at all.....But whenever I look back and think of how life was,in my father's house,I simply convert my aggression into buckling up and hustling..

Las las, nobody's coming to your rescue bro.....Na only you go sit your assss down and strategize on how to better your life,so as to avoid see-finish.

He's inviting us to his pity party

Mrdealer4all:
This is the worst mistake I made by staying with my foolish younger sister and her husband in search of greener pasture because they have money.
Her husband treated me like slave and house boy.
The husband senior me with just 7 months will be talking to me like a child because life favour him...
Throughout my stay with them , they never treat me like in law or family member.
I was indoor throughout my stay with them..
Imagine staying with your in law for the first time after getting married to your younger sister for years and being treated like trash or nobody.
It is well.
Who go help you no go stress you.

Next time, stay with your elder sister.

Kobojunkie:
My guess is the reason you give him this sort of advice is because you have yourself never done any of what you advise or been a child in such a situation.

I also want to know if you have been in such situation, either as a kid or parent, that made you feel your advice/opinion is superior to other people's own.

Kobojunkie:
Which part of the husband and wife living together like literal enemies do you imagine implies them spending time with kids? What aspect of remaining in an unhappy/toxic marriage do you construe as spending time with kids? Explain this reasoning you have.

Young lady, this is the advice someone dropped and you quickly countered it:

Your immediate solution now is to be completely independent.
Cook your food, get a private transportation for your children, sleep in a different room from her and always spend your spare time with your children and friends or yourself only, try as much as possible to limit your conversations with her,
She will reset ASAP to wife status

Now tell me, if you ain't already biased towards your gender, how this advice translates to what you are asserting?

Dude doesn't want to vacate the house for the woman. Why are you so irked about that?

Kobojunkie:
You refer to fostering even more friction in a home already uncomfortable for the kids as spending time with the children? Wow...😩😩😩

You mean spending time with kids equates to friction?
Friction with who or what?

dbabs500:
I have no property yet. I have few evidences of the domestic abuse.

What is the family history of this lady?
Are her parents living peacefully? Did she come from a broken home?
The way your mother-in-law treats/treated your father-in-law will likely turn out to be the way your wife will treat you - on the long run.
I used to think this is not true but I've seen it play out several times. There are only very few exceptions.
As it stands, prepare yourself for whatever comes up. Never ever allow her trick you into resorting to domestic violence. Get your emotions under control. Think with clarity.
Start preparing yourself for life without her. If you ever depended on her for anything, start working towards breaking that dependency.
Don't feel bad or bitter. Stop confronting her.
Start doing things that make you happy without involving her. Cheers bro!

Kobojunkie:
. You mean he should continue inflicting trauma on his kids' futures? He should make a solid decision on whether to leave the marriage or endure, like our elders in Nigeria typically advise women to do.

How will spending time with his kids translate to continue inflicting trauma on his kids' futures

Trust Chinese products at your own peril.
They are going to produce flying coffins

Very loquacious, insensitive and arrogant governor.
For the first time, the good people of Anambra are considering voting APC in the guber to teach Soludo a lesson.

You are analysing a mad man's statement and expect it to make sense.

Meanwhile, politicians already know that the easiest way to distract and deceive Nigerians is by inciting tribes against each other so that the masses will focus on fighting each other instead of fighting the real enemy.

Jokers

Not enough original content
Please take a moment to write a quality post with at least 40 characters.
This will make the forum more interesting for everyone.

This man is funnier than most standup comedians.
My man.

Funny people.

APC propaganda.

Kobojunkie:
You clearly hate these submissive women for you to give such advice to this one whose husband literally flaunts his disloyalty towards her! 😶😶😶😶

Has it occurred to you that the man would actually have sold the car to the said lady. What evidence do you have that the he gave out the car as gift?

Have you asked if the man has enough resources to maintain 2 cars?

If the man had left the car for the wife, would the wife be able to keep the car running without dumping additional burden on the man?

Why is it difficult to tell your own gender to work towards buying her own car or is it a taboo?

Why do you find it difficult to reason intelligently?

helinues:
We have other players who can replace him. Arokodare has been on fire whenever he's introduced.

Desser was a bit lazy with his marking yesterday though

The guy that paired with Bassey yesterday was good. Infact we played back 3 which was solid to some extent

You sound more sensible when you are not talking politics.

I strongly believe this guy's main offence is that he started off production without obtaining NAFDAC licence.
His products might be wholesome and effective but not having NAFDAC licence already makes the whole thing illegal.
He's definitely not the only person guilty of this. Let the upcoming entrepreneurs read this and receive sense.

Beautiful

Kobojunkie:
Are you sure you are OK at all?

You are obviously not ok. You are one of the ladies the op referred to.

Ebibedike1:
I feel so sorry for that innocent creature. He just swam to the wrong side of the Atlantic

That creature has never been innocent

Much better than sitting on bench at AC Milan.

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uchkochi:
Domestic violence versus verbal abuse.

Everybody is hung up on domestic abuse by men against women. Nobody spares a moment to find solutions to the equally devastating verbal abuse men suffer in the hands of their wives. It is worse because men can't discuss what their wives do to them for fear of scorn and derision. They suffer in silence. Timebomb.

Unfortunately, the Nigerian society has little or no support systems for this kind of situation. Little or no counselling services. It's been mostly left to the church to deal with. What happens when the man doesn't go to church? What happens when the woman doesn't believe in spiritual intervention? These women are raising daughters. Their daughters are hearing and seeing how they speak to and treat their husband. What kind of wives will they grow up to become? Those that treat their husbands as kings or those that believe husbands are nothing but verbal punching bags?

We've all agreed and rightfully so that a man has no business hitting his wife. So how then do you stop a wife raining verbal missiles at you? Leave the house? Okay. But you'll return and it will continue. What next? Leave again? For how long?

Recently, I visited a senior friend, an important man in the society and while we were downstairs gisting, the voice of his wife could be heard upstairs. She was spewing unimaginable bile against the man. She called him all sorts of unprintable names. Impotent, wretched fool, miserable man that was nothing when she married him, etc. This is a well respected man. A father of 4 children. She tore at his very core and mocked everything society respected him for. She said he'd soon crash and she'll be there to laugh at him.

I was so uncomfortable as I beheld the man. He was shrunken before me. He was deflated. He tried to gamefully continue the gist to distract me but it was not working. The woman's vitriol was a ceaseless torrent. Uncomfortable silence ensued. I excused myself and left his house.

I was really sad.

You want to know the truth? This is what most men go through in their houses. They labour and toil and build respect but when they return home, the one who ought to speak to the king in them tears them to shreds and tries to deflate their self-esteem. When they are outside, they try to act cheerful and happy but back home, they are shrivelled because the person they live with makes it a point of duty to verbally assault them.

A sad story comes to mind. There was recently a Nigerian Ambassador who was recalled because his wife released a story to the press that he beat her. She also released pictures showing fresh injuries on her body ostensibly inflicted by the man.

In a dramatic twist, their children came out to debunk the stories and said their mother faked the injuries to embarrass their dad. Grown up children.

A particular sentence by the 1st son saddened me. He said it was as if their mum woke up every morning with one mission in life: how to make their dad miserable. They said they were witnesses to how their mum constantly harassed and abused their dad and wanted the whole world to know that their dad was not who their mum was painting him to be.

Yes, opinion shifted on the scandal but the damage had been done. The Ambassador was recalled and nobody heard from him again.

A family is currently at odds with the widow of their son and brother. The wife was constantly verbally assaulting him. Nobody wanted to visit them because each time they were around, it was always quarrel and the wife would call him unprintable names. Even in their presence. When they try to interfere, she will give them their own. The man died recently of heart-attack caused by high blood pressure. He was in his late 40s. The family insists his wife sent him to his early grave with her verbal torments.

Our bars are filled with men who are afraid to go home to their wives for fear of what verbal torment they will go through. Men are finding every excuse to travel because they'll rather be anywhere than in their own homes.

Everybody is focusing on men as culprits in domestic abuse.

Copied from Sam Hart.

Very touching.

Alaigbo:
Even if it take over a trillion millenium Palestine will be free.

We all know the criminal state of Isreal was created by England just 1948 n not any God you delude your soul with.

Soon rather than later Palestine will be free.
And that is coming from a Christian.
In case you desire to wail.

Who cares if you are a Christian or not.
It is gross stúpiɗitƴ to think that the war between Israel and Hamas is a religious war.
There are Israeli Muslims and some of them are in the IDF fighting Hamas.
Israel is fighting for survival.
The Arabs don't want Israel living among them but they don't have any choice.
The more they try to wipe out Israel, the more Israel puts red hot pepper in their eyes.

You have evidence that someone is a fraudster. You don't want to report him.
You tell the fraudster to sue you first so you can report him.
Aren't you the joke of the century.

If this Peter Obi truly has criminal records, I'm very certain this APC government would not hesitate to use it against him.

Stop sounding like a joke. Reno has tried and given up. Adeyanju now wants to try and he's sounding stupid while at it.