Romance › Re: My Wife Isn't Adding Any Value To My Life Part 2 by louken(m): 6:11am On Mar 11 |
Kobojunkie: This is an example of the common case of self-inflicted injury. 🥱🥱 Who is the bad person here? |
Romance › Re: My Wife Isn't Adding Any Value To My Life Part 2 by louken(m): 11:33pm On Mar 10 |
Kobojunkie: Again, having a passion for something is not go ahead to pour money into making a business out of it. This woman, again, from your OP did not have business accumen. So, while I understand your frustration, she is not to blame for all of this. 🥱🥱
There are so many people who spent many decades and millions of dollars in wasted investments to come to that realization which is that passion does not translate to business accumen. 🥱
If you want to divorce her because you have changed your mind and would like to find yourself someone else, fine! But don't pretend she is the bad person here and the reason for it all. So, dead the attempts to make her out as the bad person in your marriage. 🥱🥱 Who is the bad person? |
Health › Re: Girls Forced Into Breast Ironing: Untold Stories by louken(m): 9:09pm On Mar 09 |
Our people did a lot of nonsense out of ignorance.
Meanwhile, how come kobojunkie has not seen this topic?
Someone should alert her that her favorite food is done. She doesn't miss any opportunity to heap her frustrations on men. |
Politics › Re: Nonye Soludo wants women to take center stage in the fight for gender equality. by louken(m): 5:36pm On Mar 08*. Modified: 10:39pm On Mar 08 |
She should fight to become equal with her husband first. Charity begins at home. |
Politics › Re: Soldiers Clear Biafrian Liberation Army Camps In Anambra & Imo (Photos) by louken(m): 8:24pm On Mar 05 |
So these were the weapons they used to attack and kill security operatives (army and police). This story get as e be |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Mojtaba, Khamenei’s Son Chosen As Iran’s New Supreme Leader by louken(m): 9:43am On Mar 04 |
FreeStuffsNG: JUST-IN : Washington Post: Iranian drones hit CIA station at embassy in Riyadh An Iranian drone attack struck the CIA station at the U.S. embassy in the Saudi capital of Riyadh. This was reported by the Washington Post, citing two sources familiar with the details. The U.S. and Saudi Arabia confirmed that two drones hit the embassy compound in Riyadh, but did not disclose that the CIA station was damaged. The intelligence agency declined to comment. An internal alert obtained by the Post stated that the attack "collapsed" part of the embassy roof. The notice indicated that the embassy sustained "structural damage" and staff "continue to shelter in place." Hopefully someone won't start shouting genocide in a few days time |
Family › Re: Is It Your Responsiblity To Take Care Of Your Parents by louken(m): 5:27am On Mar 02 |
Is it the responsibility of your parents to take care of you |
Christianity Etc › Re: 5 Plateau Pilgrims Denied Israel Entry, Now Touring Jordan by louken(m): 2:17pm On Feb 27 |
Who processed the Visas? Why weren't they informed in time the exact Visa that was available for them? I do not blame Israel at all. I blame Nigerian (Plateau state) officials that processed the Visas |
Christianity Etc › Re: After Genuine Salvation Does Restitution Have Any Relevance In Eternity? by louken(m): 11:20am On Feb 15 |
If you stole someone's property and you are enjoying the property while the owner of the property is suffering. You now repent. Are you supposed to keep enjoying the property while the owner of the property keeps suffering, or, are you supposed to return the property?
Conversely, if you were the owner of a property and someone stole it. Which action would you prefer from the person that stole it? |
Family › Re: How Do I Convice My Wife To Have An Abortion, Without Losing Her by louken(m): 8:00am On Feb 08 |
Kobojunkie: 1. You had all of these many reasons, yet you did not consider getting a vasectomy or at least ensure you used protection every time you had sex as a result? 
2. You knew all of this, yet you did nothing to protect the future you supposedly want for them? 🥱🥱
3. Well, getting an abortion would impact her body and mind in many ways. But I guess that all means little to you since the reason why you did not bother using protection yourself or getting a vasectomy to preserve your dreams is that you reasoned your body would not need to deal with any of the impacts if pregnancy happened, right? 🥱🥱
4. Seems you love everybody, but seem unwilling to do even the bare minimum, which is maybe to use protection yourself or get a vasectomy to protect anybody. Goodluck! 🥱🥱 This kobo junkie and her joyless comments  She doesn't miss this type of thread. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Catholics In Lagos What Do You Think About The New Guidelines?? by louken(m): 12:18pm On Feb 01 |
BILLSMAN: Your response is so shallow. He was asking you why you pray to Mary for help and bow to worship moulded and crafted things? You talk about portrait in the village. Many of such portraits can be so dusty and some even broken cos who cares? We don't worship our grandparents, we may put their portrait were we can still remember them for as long as it last and if it wears out, life goes on. So how is that related You are blabbing and derailing the the thread. Open your own thread and ask your question or bring up any argument you have. Your submissions have no standing with the topic of discussion. I also have questions and arguments that will challenge your Christianity and your bible but that would also be derailing Op's topic. |
Islam › Re: Unmarried Woman Flogged 140 Times In Indonesia For Having Sex, Drinking Alcohol by louken(m): 8:41pm On Jan 30 |
QuinQQ: Not beheading, stoned to death -as recommended in the OT And Christ said: let he that is without sin be the first to cast the stone. |
Sports › Re: Ex-FIFA Boss, Blatter, Calls For Fans' Boycott Of 2026 World Cup In US by louken(m): 12:31pm On Jan 27 |
God1000: I support this call from sepp Blatter, america is one of the most dangerous places on earth to be right now
FIFA should do the needful before it's too late, why hosting such game in a hostile country And US is more dangerous than Nigeria? Keep rolling out more jokes |
Politics › Re: Labour Party Brought Me To Power, I’m Not Defecting — Otti Declares (Video) by louken(m): 6:56am On Dec 31, 2025 |
We wish you the best, Mr Governor |
Business › Re: New ₦50 Transfer Charge Quietly Set To Begin January 1 by louken(m): 11:50am On Dec 27, 2025 |
This government is looking for money from all angles. Nigerians brace yourselves. |
Celebrities › Re: Crossdresser, James Brown's Christmas Photos by louken(m): 10:00pm On Dec 26, 2025 |
Who are your brownies family onuku |
Family › Re: Abusive Men Describe The Benefits Of Violence by louken(m): 8:19pm On Dec 22, 2025 |
ChybuzzDD: Na woman be that, no be man I have seen a couple of her posts. Her own brand of feminism caught my attention. She has obviously never been loved by a man: probably raised by a man-hating single mother or a terrible father. I used to have the urge to attack her comments but I now view them with pity. |
Politics › Re: Ette Elders Reject Enugu Government Claim, Insist Community Is Igala Land by louken(m): 12:45am On Dec 22, 2025 |
Wickedtruths: Ette belongs to the SE but Anioma doesn't belong to the SS, abi? Ask Ned Nwoko |
Phones › Re: Before You Send Voice Notes Instead Of Text Read This. by louken(m): 10:03pm On Dec 13, 2025 |
I detest voice notes. If someone always uses only voice notes to communicate, I will see that person as very low and slow. |
Politics › Re: Shame On National Assembly That US Held Hearing On Nigeria’s Insecurity - Bakare by louken(m): 9:32am On Dec 01, 2025 |
They will soon start saying that Bakare is IPOB or that Peter Obi has hacked his account |
Politics › Re: Obasanjo: If Govt Can't Save Us, We Have Right To Call International Community by louken(m): 9:10am On Nov 29, 2025 |
One ìɗi0t said he (they) won't forgive Peter Obi for making same statement Obasanjo made |
Family › Re: Wife Kidnapped On Her Way To Boyfriend's House: Should The Husband Save Her? by louken(m): 11:09am On Nov 27, 2025 |
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Celebrities › Re: I’m Ready To Get Pregnant Out Of Wedlock, I Can Take Care Of My Kids – Mercy Eke by louken(m): 9:59am On Nov 25, 2025 |
Kobojunkie: . Here's hoping you don't lose the pregnancy lottery, as some women out there did. If your looks are important to you, maybe pay a surrogate to birth your kids for you.  Of all the factors one might consider important, it is the postpartum looks that ranks highest in your mind. Someone is planning to bring children to this world and has decided in advance that she will fully deny them the experience of having a father figure in their life and you don't find that disturbing. You don't fail to show your double standards when it comes to your fellow women. That's very low. Being a feminist shouldn't rob you of your brain or morality |
Family › Re: Married Ghanaian Woman In Dilemma After Giving Birth For Late Brother by louken(m): 7:22pm On Nov 23, 2025 |
I do not believe this story |
Romance › Re: I Can't Respect A Man That's Not Earning More Than Me by louken(m): 7:09am On Nov 20, 2025*. Modified: 4:57pm On Nov 20, 2025 |
Kobojunkie: You said OP is right and wrong, but did not clarify any of this in your comment. 
Your wife is lucky that, in your case, things turned out better than they were when she first met you. However, for the vast majority of women out there who married men who earned less at the time, the reality did not turn out the same. That is partly the reason why almost 50% of married women in Nigeria today are breadwinners. Of the others who were not breadwinners, many of them who were not able to attain financial independence before marriage(and maintained it in marriage), a large portion are financially abused by their spouses in marriage. 
What OP expressed is a preference many women have, and there is nothing wrong with their choice. Additionally, that choice is facilitated when the woman is financially independent before and throughout the course of the marriage, as we are all aware that even rich men can be stingy towards their own wives and children.  Where did you get your statistics of 50% of married women being breadwinners in Nigeria? How did you get your information? How many married women and married men have you interviewed? |
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Politics › Re: Reported Kidnap Victims Across Zones & States (May 2011 — June 2023) by louken(m): 5:29pm On Nov 18, 2025 |
coolcharm: All I can say is that these figures are greatly suppressed Most people quietly settle the kidnappers without involving police |
Sports › Re: Peter Obi Reacts To Super Eagles Skipping Training Over Allowance by louken(m): 4:02pm On Nov 12, 2025 |
Jovi10: Hey can't play for the pride of their country, smh How many European footballers get paid to play for their country? They see it as an honour. But politicians get paid for serving the country. Dey play |
Romance › Re: Never Support The Injustice Against Regina Daniels!!! by louken(m): 6:58am On Nov 08, 2025 |
What exactly did Ned do? Lay out the facts so we know how to deal out our online support. |
Romance › Re: Please What Will Happen If I Don't Pay Back The Loan From A Loan Shark App? by louken(m): 6:48pm On Nov 07, 2025 |
What is your reason for not wanting to pay back? Why would you borrow and decide not to pay back? You are even saying it with confidence.
These loan sharks have their excesses though but that doesn't justify what you are trying to do. |
Celebrities › Re: I Never Wanted Regina To Marry Ned Nwoko — Rita Daniels by louken(m): 6:19am On Oct 22, 2025 |
DiarisGodoo: Gina that has filed for divorce What type of divorce? Did they do court marriage? Do they do divorce for traditional marriage? No be to pack her things commot and her people will return the bride price |