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This is pure disgrace to themselves, to Nigerian army, Nigerian police and to the whole nation.
Why do I have this feeling the guy is not a real army personnel.

Rabiu4190:
There's a psychology behind ghosting.


More often than not, it's young women who frequently ghost men for this reason:

If your girlfriend is between the ages of 18-25, she's always being hit upon (toasted) by several men. It so happens while she's dating you, she will meet guys who are better than you. Rather than break things off, she will take a break from the relationship to try the new guy out. She won't return your calls, spend weekends unavailable, appear to be moody. She's testing the waters with new guy while still guaranteed your commitment. At that moment, you're her backup plan.

If new guy is better/richer/funkier and if he offers commitment, after a month of ghosting you, she will break things off officially. If the dude doesn't match you, she'll make up some BS reason to return. Ghosting is the warning sign your competition is auditioning for her affection.

Don't just take my word for it, there are countless examples where this actually happened. Listen to the guys in this video narrate how their girlfriends ghosted them for over a week and a month.

This is the perfect explanation of what happened.
Every man who has had experience with women knows this.

Haa

My heart goes out to the man that will become this lady's husband

You made valid points Mr Atiku even though you ain't a saint either.
Even the common man on the street that is criticizing Tinubu will do worse if given the opportunity.
This country has damaged beyond repair

Na waa

Racism.
Well, that's if the story is actually true.
Why didn't they also conduct a search in the pharmacy where she got the said drugs.

Mynd44:
I think he deserves to be insensitive considering that the Dr. Ikenna held his ex-wife, nanny and his own children at gun point. He shot himself when police showed up

Did it occur to you that the deceased doctor could have shot the wife too but decided not to?
Isn't it obvious that in his depression he didn't lose his conscience?
For someone like me, if I decide to go that length, I will definitely not die alone. I will make sure we leave the earth together.

The society had long stereotyped men as domestic abusers.
It is becoming evident that this madness knows no gender

Dude should stop disgracing us.
He's probably on some medications that altered his state of mind

I've been there. It wasn't funny

Let him receive the same treatment he gave others

NoIgboSoundTueh:
Isreal Reputations have been deal a big blow since Oct 7th we would see how it will respond in coming days

What was their reputation in your own understanding and how was it dealt a blow

What is the purpose of this commando style of arrest in the middle of the night if not pure arrogance.
This doctor may get out of this case without scratches if his family gets a good lawyer.
Well, they may charge him for illegal possession of firearm since the gun wasn't licenced to him but to his father

Reno has appointed himself to do that on their behalf

This is pathetic. Fighting to death over another man's whims.
Their leaders should be ashamed of themselves.

Dey play

Kobojunkie:
What has gender to do with this? A woman chose to kill someone. Is your mother a murderer? Are all women murderers?

I quoted you particularly because a couple of your comments I have come across show your deep-seated disdain for men.
I once commented that you were raised by a bitter single mum.
Your comment on this post would have been far from kind if it was a man that committed this crime.

Kobojunkie:
Sad part of all of this is that the man would probably abandon her and the baby and move on to find himself another woman, and side-chick. Na wa ooo! 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

You are not even blaming your gender for this senseless murder. Your only concern is that the man will abandon her and the baby.

Tell the person to initiate a recall through his own bank while you give your own bank an approval to return the funds.
Note that this process will take some days (even weeks in some cases) to be completed.
If you know the sender very well, there's no reason for unnecessary drama. Send the money back to him.

Epic responses.

thesolutions:
Among the rich, there are those who won't give you shishi. They will rather give it to a clean or rich guy outside.
Among the poor, there are those who won't wash your clothes. They will rather drag you into village and compound fights.

There are good and bad in every one.

Gospel truth

Lalami3232:

Should we tell him?
What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news

Tell him. Help a brother. Love is still covering his eyes

Importance of money can never be overemphasized. Forget what they told you about love. Get enough money and spend it generously on your family and you will have all the love you want

IfyAwazie:
Thought this guy get money but it's not really showing atal. .. So skinny..

You want him to develop potbelly in order to prove to you that he's rich

Ethnicity and tribalism, those are our mumu buttons.
Politicians have learnt how to press those buttons and they use them to control us like puppets.

SonofElElyonRet:
Mr single mother hater, see the swollen face of single mother. How you take know say no be bro pound am like that?
p.s. I'm against violence but don't give if you can't take

She attacked and killed a man that was sleeping. That is not self defence. That's cold calculated murder.
She will need all the luck in the whole world to get herself out of this case

1Sharon:
Divorce is now to be celebrated? He couldn't keep his home like his fathers of old.

Ashewo dey his eye. He just wants to sleep around.

Somebody wanted to jail you and seize your property and you are talking about ashewo.
Apart from the divorce, the man has enough reason to celebrate

Eyitayo29:
This is very well noted

Thank you for sharing your experience.

If anything, I know I need to know myself more and be more assertive. My EX probably wouldn't have been an issue if I was also super confident and opinionated like she was.

My brother, except a lady's natural temperament matches yours, or she is ready to make compromises, or you are willing to make compromises and sustain those compromises throughout your years of marriage, please step back and reconsider and possibly abort mission.
If your purpose of learning assertiveness is to put yourself in a dominant position and make her to become humble and submissive, you might be in for a long bumpy ride.

Eyitayo29:
Thank you for your response.

Generally, I am just a very easy going and naturally empathetic person. I probably need to start learning Assertiveness fully now.

So, how my mum took it, basically his death was fully grieved by her for some years and she hasn't remarried ever since, although she had suitors but my elder sister was successful in kicking them away. But then, I am beyond grateful to her that she took up the challenge which made me what I am today and I have successfully retired her. However, up till tomorrow, she still try to give me "lessons" I should learn from my Father's passing. Not one good thing she says about him in our discussions. But me, even as a youngster, from my observation, I realized my mum was also a very opinionated and stubborn person, she still is even, but unlike my ex, she was expressive, hence the nags, arguments and fights, not silence. Sometimes, I believe my mum did a better job as a Mother than as a Wife.

There's sincerity in your quest.
From your analysis, it seems you took after your father in temperament.
If you marry a very opinionated lady like your dad did, you will likely have a marriage similar to your dad's. You will have a wife who will be strong enough to carry on even in your absence. The downside is that you may not enjoy the softness most men crave in a woman. There will be endless power tussles.
If I am in a distant marriage, I will prefer such woman. But if I will be living with her and be seeing her face everyday, I will run faraway from such woman.

This your question is questionable

FORWARDEVERLY:
I don't feel pity for the animal Simp that was set ablaze ..
The LovePeddler wife knows that he is a weakling hence she did it ..

Even in her dreams, fear no fit allow my wife to dream of such in her dreams...

Dey play.
Tell God not to allow you meat evil women