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Juniorbuba:
u well? Beutiful? Death by drinkin poison? Go check ur brain mehn

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder Respect the deceased!

I know you will be surprised by this. Yes, i need foods, or a meal plan to get a bit fat... I am not that skinny, but still i'am slim.. I need what to eat or timetable to get a bit fat...


Why am I doing this? Yes, i owe nobody any explanation for how i look or what i do, but common, there are a few exceptions
Yea, my parents are the only ones i owe an explanation to. I want to impress my parents, especially my day.. They have yabbed me so much, saying that i m too thin, they don't know where all the money i am making is going to

so i want to surprise them this December...
I actually don't stay with them at the moment, i stay on my own

Foodlanders, please help out

awww... such beauty! Teenagers at such age can do anything for love... it's so painful she left this way

amazzinggrace:
You would be born if you were meant to be.

explain more please. Will it be me as i currently am? Will there be changes from how i currently am? if there will be changes,what type of changes will it be. Thanks

Sometimes i just sit and wonder about some things, which to me are mysteries.
One of them is why i created this topic.

Sometimes it happens that a woman will have two men in her life with the choice of settling for one and get married to one. Finally she chooses one out of the two and they raise children together. Now the other suitor marries another lady and raises up a family with her.

A man marries a wife, and due to infidelity or some other circumstances, he impregnates another woman and she gives him a child or children, depending on the case.

Now my question is, if it happens that my dad married another woman, or vice versa, am i still the one to be born?

in the examples above, what is the probability that the children one family will be the same if the man or the woman marries the other suitor

I need explanations please.

4C2215131:
Given that she is still in high school, you may hold your peace with regards to really 'dating' her (though I admit there are 18-20 yr olds in high school sometimes, by the way you didn't let us in on her age). If she's 16 or less please stay away from her just so she can concentrate on her studies.

Though, you could let her determine by herself that you have amorous feelings for her. Most females are good at deciphering this irrespective of their age in fact, they thrive on it. This let's her know she's got a potential man in the wings and this knowledge informs her behaviour with regards to you and other potential suitors. This way she won't give you one of the most painful responses you can get from a female after she's taken and you tell her you loved her all this while, the statement? "But you didn't tell me now that you had this feelings for me. I thought we were just friends". This is one of the most painful things that can happen to a man, seeing someone you'd give the world for slipping through your arms because you were either too dense, pround, shy, naive or plain stupid to declare your intentions when it mattered.

The age thingy matters to you now only because she's still possibly a minor hence you think you're far too matured for her. What do I mean? When she is 15, you're 21, and you see her as your little 'pet' and God help you if you make sexual advances and get found out as the society will crucify you. Now fast forward to say 10 yrs later. She is now 25 and you're 31, can you marry her now? I'm sure you know the answer to that question. So, age shouldn't be a problem. I mean, there are couples with more than 10 yrs between them going on strong. Last time I checked, I heard someone say age aint nothing but a number (though I qualify this statement sometimes).

Thanks

KashyBaby:
Yes ...it's not worth to go back & forth for the sake of that little card...



Juz use it while it last..

Thanks, it is not my fault!

olihilistic:
you can lie for halfrica oo how did you complete the last digit of my contact?

I copied it from your shop!

KashyBaby:
Keep it...



Considered it as a special promo and early pre-christmas sale...

Really?

ULSHERLAN:
Please return it.

You are better off the person selling the card and moreso they hardly gain much on the cards.

I understand that they don't make gain. Had it been the place is trekable, I would have returned it. But I have to spend nothing less than 300, and I will lose for trying to be a good Nigerian

olihilistic:
have you forgotten my shop so soon?

Looool! I have sent it. Did you receive it?

PushPlay:
Yes, return it.

think of the distance. I will loose nothing less than 300 to transport myself back there

olihilistic:
I'm the guy you bought it from no need wasting transport coming here just send it to my number 0701749957*

Where is your shop located

vicstar:
I'll advice you to make your move, and keep tinz on a low key, coz u never can tell who will overtake u,if u Hesitate.

As in should I ask her out now?

luwiizy:
lol op na this kind of rock go land for your dick if you no look somewhere else, so u won bleep ur friend lil sista.....

abeg o! Na me steal budget?

Am just a victim of love

Ok. I went to the atm to make withdrawals. As I was comming back I decided to buy recharge card to subscribe my phone. I told the person selling the card to give me that of 1,500 (I wanted to subscibe for airtel 3gb for 1,500). I was given the card and looked at it, two cards (1,000 and 500). Correct! I gave the card seller 2,000 and was given 500 as my change! Sure! Confirm. I left the shop and looked for okada to take me to my residence, and I was charged 150 by the okadaman. (fuel scarcity)

On getting home, i brought the two cards to recharge and to my greatest shock, the 500 card was double, that is i was given 2,000 airtime instead of 1,500! I just don't know what to do, please should i return the extra 500 card or use it? Remember, going and coming back will cost me nothing less than 300

(Mods, I will appreciate if you help me move it to the right section!)

obizzy:
lol
he epp you oh!
If he says NO,then the girl in question will be no more than your forever crush.

Shes scared of her broda as you said. She will respect everything he says to the last and thats bad news for you.

Except una go dey do una love for koro make the broda no catch una.

Na true you talk oo.. I go keep the bro updated before i do anything.

I don grow pass that koro love joor! na for kids, i don grow pass am

Fmartin:
one tin i do to avoid havin a crush on a friend's sista is, avoid starin at her, i only talk to her wen necessary.

Yea, thats true, but we've got so acquainted, everyone around knows

100Cents:
Okay.

But dont look at her this way o.

She too young..

Free Johna joor!

Abbeyunique2:
OP wait till she get to 18. dont mind all the bashing. rem Capt Ekeinde married omotola @18. i'm sure he wooed her, they went on many dates, and some month of courtship b4 getting married.
But you should stylishly ask your friend abt it so you wont lose the friendship. jah bless you bro

Thanks for your advice, Jah bless you too!

100Cents:
I may not know what you have in mind.

Are you ready to marry her now ?

As in, engagement and introduction..

Bro, your question is too forward na. Marry now?
I surely like her but won't rush into marriage. I am readily financially and emotionally, but she too young na.

discoprophet:
If you can't/won't/don't-want-to get her now, free her!

Free her like seriously?
I like her, but she is too young for me

obizzy:
Bros

catch them young

delay is dangerous

boys dey vex. B4 she reach official age (18) boys for don plenty for her matter.

Start nuturing her,get even closer.not "relationship" per say. Relationship at this tender age will distract her, you wouldnt want som1 you love to be distracted academically,would you?

No sex. I repeat! No sex! Control your thing.

Forget age difference, you no go marry your mates.

Talk to your frnd about it and seek his approval. If he agrees and she likes you,carry on!

You can start the dating ish when shes 18 and legal and probably when shes in the uni.

Am glad you understand me. I will keep drawing her closer. I think I got her keys

No sex sha, I don't want to ruin her career. As for her bro, I don't know if he will approve, buh who him epp

SAINTSAMURAI:
YES MY BRO, LEAVE HER ALONE. the reason why u feel attracted to her is because u dnt have oda female friends as u said, i will advice to go outing, meet ladies on social media and in real life, be friend them and b4 u know it u will forget abt her.

Sorry, is like you misunderstood my post (or rather I typed the wrong thing). I do have other female friends, but his one, I have tried to let her go but that attraction is still there. I wanna get along with her, but will wait a little longer before I pour my mind to her

Fmartin:
Personally, if u ar my friend nd u want to date my sista, my friendshp wt u wil b ova. Naa! Too bad

Thats it o But can you blame me? I think I've found underage love

vizkiz:
give her one more year at least. Then let's start from there... 6years isn't too much now we are in 2016 for christ sake!

Forget about your friend, he is going to let the relationship work "if" he knows the kindda person you are (nobody go allow him friend chop him sister just like that )

Thanks. Will wait and keep pulling her closer

maxti:
No comments for you. ............... She is underage!

I know she is underage. My question is, should I wait or go for her? If i should wait, how long?

Decker:
Well, an age difference of 6 years isn't too much. But it depends on the girl. Some girls prefer dating guys way older than them, some like dating guys in their age grade. It's basically all about personal preference, but the thing is, when you love someone, age constraints becomes secondary.

Now, since you said you love the girl, I think you should have her best interest at heart, and right now, what's best for her is to pass her Waec and finish secondary school. She doesn't need to be burdened by any serious relationship now. Besides, she is just 17. I don't know the official age when a girl isn't considered a minor in Nigeria, but in most countries it's 18. So technically, she isn't an adult yet. Personally, I think you should give her some time, at least wait till she is 18 and is done with her Waec and Neco and Post jamb or whatever, and then you can make your intentions known to her.

Thanks for your understanding. I will keep getting in touch and wait for her to at least reach 18. I truly have good intentions for her

SAINTSAMURAI:
@OP u just want to destroy the life of this young lady and make her loose focus on her academics, ure suppose to be the one advicing her against dating, premarital sex, ure suppose to advice her and let her focus on her academics and let her have a better future. ure a bad friend i must tell u, planning on dating the 17years old girl of ur friend. "by the way are there no mature ladies around or ure scared to woo them? u want to take advantage of an innocent child.

Thanks for your input. You just said what's on my mind. Not that i don't have other female friends, I have many female friends, but I can't explain the force of attraction I have for this particular teenager. Note, am not planning to destroy her future as it will not be good for my personality and my friendship with her brother. What do you suggest, I guess I leave her for the main time?

Hi all, I have been following this great forum and today I had to create a topic about something bothering me.
We use to live in Television area of Kaduna state where I attended Kadpoly and there met a great friend of mine who is from Jalingo. We later relocated to this Jalingo and I used this opportunity to visit my friend at their home anytime we are back from school (their house is quit far from ours). He has a young sister who is about 17yrs old and I am about 6yrs older than her. They are wrting WAEC currently. We joke and get along, and she caught my attention . This Eater when we came for break we were just getting along, and she is the type that dreads her brother She fears him like mad.
I use to joke with my friend that I like her, but I haven't shown serious intention.
The thing is that I so much like her and would like to date her, but am am considering somethings:
1. She is my friend's sister
2. I am about 6yrs older than her
3. she is still in secondary school

I have tried my best to get her off, but the truth is that I love her and surely will go for her. But the question now is, should I ask her out now or wait till she maybe finishes secondary school or grow older? Is 6years much for dating her? Please share matured responses.

My main question now is that, should I ask her out now or wait till she is older, maybe around 20+?