mafunzo: 1. Many ladies of our time will end up singles for life because of media exposure- it is so disheartening how a lady will glue her eyes on a mobile phone from morning to night, only to raise it up to focus on television to watch another celebrity entertainment channel. Tell me, what else will dominate this lady’s mindset aside how to live a fake celebrity life being promoted on television channels?

2. Many ladies now dislike cooking and home chores just because they had been totally brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing the role of women in a family, and due to excessive exposure to modern media that promotes gender-equality in a destructive way that’s aimed at destroying the unique African family setting that made our previous African marriages everlasting and envious to the westerns. Now, with this attitude, how do you expect a Kenyan man to desire to marry when he knows he is only buying more headache and trouble than helper for himself?

3. Modern fashion and craze for gadgets is a great barrier to most ladies finding love and marriage...
for gadgets is a great barrier to most ladies finding love and marriage. How do we explain a single lady whose only desire in life is to acquire the latest clothe in town, the latest mobile phone and pad to the detriment of her woman worth?

The full story here: http://sellinat.com/news/2013/04/13/why-ladies-born-in-the-80s-90s-will-probably-never-get-married/

twaintoy: I do not agree with any of these. There's nothing bad in a single lady loving and buying gadgets.

ocman: A girl must learn not to believe that her boyfriend is responsible for her hair fixing and upkeep. He is not your husband yet neither is he your father.

2. A girl should have graduated from telling lies to being faithful and saying the truth to her boyfrnd or fiance. Meaning, the days of petty lies should hv gone by.

3 A girl should hv learnt one skill or vocation that can help her hold the family when the chips are down financially for her marriage/home. Like making pasteries-cakes, doughnut, buns etc.

4. A girl should hv learnt to disallow her family from choosing whom she is to marry or what happens in her love-life.

5. A girl should have saved up some money while she was in school.

6. The girl should have known that nigeria is hard to survive and should not set his choice of husband to be too high, while neglecting a genuine and honest lover who lives in one room apartment but dreams higher via hardwork and dedication.

Mogten: cos they could afford them! next................

abioila: with d way u talk sum 1 will tink ur are a millionaire

Allenbaba:

Shey you will teach me how to start importation business with 50k?

K@zZ¥:
My Fellow nairalanders, good evening to you. Please i need your help. I've been in a relationship with this girl for the past 4 months. I'm so into this girl. I have strong feelings for her. I LOVE HER. The problem here is this. I don't think she loves me. Just of recent, she got into deep financial problem. I sold some of my stuffs to help her raise half of the money. Thats to show i really care for her. I dnt want her to love me for what i can give her. I want her to love me for me. She has so many guy friends, with this, i was able to work my way to get her. I asked her then (4 months) ago to be my girl friend which she turned down. With that, there's nothing she asks me dat i cant do for her. I even find it hard to refuse whenever she asks for anything. Our relationship is so close that people believe we're dating. I also thought we were dating despite the refusal she gave at first nt until when recently like a week ago, i sent a series of luv text and she called and spoke angrily on the phone that i shld stop sending her love messages. She said we're not dating. Just friends. I was so hurt. It hit me like a bomb. After a while, she called back to appologise for what she said. All i did was play it cool. Her actions contradicts her word. She acts to me like we're dating. Deep in me, i still dnt think she loves me. Please help. What do i do?

Stegomiah: 19 Things Every Female In Her 20’s Should Know (MUST READ)

1. Love and honor your mother. Learn from her mistakes. It will save you a lot of headache in your thirties (30s) and beyond.

2. You are more talented than you’ll ever know. You don’t need to sleep with your Boss/ supervisor to get a promotion at work or better grades at school. Burn late night candles; put extra time to study and practice until you master your skill. Hard work still pays well and does not kill.

3. Women can build a strong support network. Don’t let few ladies with “Pull Her Down” {PHD} syndrome discourage you from cultivating true relationship with your female friends.

4. When a man you meet for the first time babbles about how much he earns working for an oil company and how rich he is, that is a red flag. He is either a married smooth-talker who just wants to sleep with you or he is childish. Walk away from deceit.

5. Make your own money. Start small. Maintain a stable bank account. It will keep you out of trouble.

6. When you meet your Soul mate, don’t forget to wear your most priceless ornament- submission and humility. But while waiting for him, don’t cling to any man to rescue you. Some men these days are also seeking for who will rescue them.

7. Know your body. Look at yourself in front of a full-length mirror at least once a week, naked and after clothed. Know your body and how it works.

8. Life is a gift. But to revel in it, you must be ready to put a lot into nurturing your gifts/ talents and skills. Start early.

9. Teenage ended at 19. Clocking 20 means doing away with childish behaviour. But it does not mean you should forget to have fun. You can catch fun and not be dirty.

10. Learn the basic skills and let yourself grow- from how to keep your underwear clean, cook, socialize, and network to how to drive a car.

11. Don’t do drugs. It kills. Read books, it fortifies. Dance as often as you can, it liberates your spirit, soul and body.

12. Partnership builds bridges. Don’t ever forget that.

13. Eat healthy. Learn to cook for yourself. Don’t rely on noodles alone. The cooking skill will be useful in future.

14. Don’t give up when you fail. Try again and again. Don’t give up on education/ learning.

15. Fear of the future. It is a state of mind you must learn to tame. Don’t let fear pull the carpet from under your feet. The Holy Books tells us that God has not given us a spirit of fear but of power, love and a sound mind.

16. Let go of past hurts. You cannot move forward if you keep looking back. Holding on to bitter experiences and regrets will stale your future.

17. Learn to exhale, love deeply and be kind to others, especially those of low estate, and the lowest of low.

18. You are beautiful the way you are. Don’t compare yourself to others.

19. Prayer is the master key. Have faith in God and always have the courage to use your voice wisely. Dream big today. Fear simply means False Evidence Appearing Real. Enjoy the highs and lows that come with being in your 20s but don’t be afraid to grow older. Live life to the fullest and don’t forget to smile always!

haitto99: i wld be 24 by august,av been dating a girl for 4yrs now,we were class mates in d university i was studying mechanical eng,but i had a problem back in the university,i got expelled in my 4th yr{not cultism} i didnt tell my gf,but was so sure my dad wld throw me out,so i took d opportunity to set up something so dat i wld b independent,now my gf has graduated and now serving,i later told her what happened b4 she went to camp,she has been in and out since then,behaving funny ignoring my calls,shouts at me and so on,fortunately for me God has blessed me,at 23+ i make over 80k in a month at d worst i stay alone my dad does nt want to see me,and av decided to go bak to skul dis coming academic section,nw camp is over she has been bugging me saying she still loves me no mata what and dat she is ready to stand by me through thick and thin,but each time i remember hw she treated me for close to two months i fell bad,we were so close,all along she knew something was wrong but couldnt figure it out,guys what do i do?? shld i be alone and rearrange my life or i plan my future with her,funny am just a yr older dan she is,i dunno if she can wait for 5yrs,she means d world to me,wetin i go do?

freechat: I moved into this neighbourhood just recently. It's a small gated compound with just two flats. The other flat is occupied by a newly wedded couple. I had taken one week off from the office to enable me move my things and settle. But there's something about this couple; they are so noisy when making love - so loud you could think we are in the same room. That is not all, the few days I have stayed at home have been full of temptation, because I have noticed to my dismay that this lady wears very skimpy and offensive stuff outside their flat and doesn't even carry herself as a married woman. Now my question is: should I call the man and talk to him about the noise and all, or should I keep my peace and suffer in silence?

PallyG: 1) You must learn how to plan your long term and short term goals
2)You must learn how to drive a car
3)You must learn how to manage your finance
4) You must learn how to be totally independent
5) You must learn how to speak in public
6)Finally, You must learn HOW TO TOAST A GIRL/ASK A BABE OUT..(very important)

add your suggestion to the list...CHEERS!!!

pobey: Welcome to the 21st Century- a lot has changed.

-Our phones are WireLESS,

-Our cooking is FireLESS,

-Cars areKeyLESS

-Food is FatLESS

-Dresses areSleeveLESS and decentLESS

-Society is CashLESS

-Youths are JobLESS

-Leaders are ClueLESS,VisionLESS and ShameLESS

-Relationships are MeaningLESS

-Husbands are TireLESS and MoneyLESS

-Wives are FearLESS

-Children are MannerLESS

-Ladies go about CoverLESS,careLESS,mindLESS,BraLESS and pantLESS

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lovethokoh: we have take stock of first grade used CAT machines from USA please call now for the prices

lovethokoh: These are the reasons why our women, ladies or girls dress indecently to any place including church services these days.

Indecent dressing is now so common in churches, offices, campuses and every other gathering in this time because our generation have a huge problem caused by phrases like :

"Let them be"
"Leave them alone"
"Look who's talking"
"Live and let live"
"You can't judge me"
"Everyone is entitled to his/her opinion"
Etc

These above phrases have eaten so deep into our generation that you cannot condemn any wrongs again in our time,if you do,you would only be repaid with curses,hatred and condemnation.

In those days, morals were even more of importance than the bible verses,but nowadays,these generation lacks a whole lot of morals that they continuously and unshamefully request for a bible verse to be able to know their rights from wrongs.

When the society is sick, its products become rotten.

NessaFresh: In the bible it was said that Lucifer was thrown down to the face of the earth with other demons. Does this mean the devil is here with us? Is this the reason for the many atrocities here on earth? The Devil cannot operate the way he does from hell. The Devil will only be cast to hell at the final judgement. Do U Have any contradictory view of knowledge or do u have any supportin view to this? Plz share

diamondcrownltd:
this is a follow up article to the first one i wrote at the link below
https://www.nairaland.com/1246933/some-natural-tips-fair-naturally

How To Wear Mascara

There is no doubt that Mascara alters your eye lashes and makes your eyes look beautiful. Eye makeup if worn improperly makes you look messy so be careful while applying it. You can make a huge difference in your look if you apply it really well.

Below are few tips on how to apply mascara –

•Powder under your eyes before you applies mascara. Powdering under the eye will protect from the terrible smudge.
•Shake the bottle in your palms in fact the best way is to roll the bottle in your palms and wiggle the mascara want left to right base of your lashes. Make sure you apply it well starting from the roots to give appropriate volume to your lashes. Pull the mascara out of the lash wiggling that will help to separate each lash. In the end close your eyes and place the mascara wand on top of your lashes and pull the wand out to remove any clumps.
•Always scrape the excess product off the brush. Make sure to remove any extra mascara from the wand before applying. Doing so will help you to stay clump free.
•You can use spoolies which are also called disposable wands. Using a fresh mascara wand every time makes it clump free and defines your lashes. Spoolies are used by professionals.
•For detailing you can always mix match mascaras. For example use lengthening mascara for the base coat and volume for thickening to get a dramatic effect.
•Blink directly onto the mascara brush. Doing so will give your lash ends that extra boost they need.
•Use a warm blow-dryer for a few seconds once you are done to avoid smudging.
Quick Tips –

•If you applying the second coat make sure the first one is dried completely you can use a blow dryer or stand in front of a fan.
•Wait before you blink as it will get all over you lids if it’s wet.
•Staying clump free always scrape the extra mascara in the bottle before you apply.
•Roll the bottle in your palms instead of shaking it as it may accumulate over one bristles of the brush.
•Try Colored Mascaras. You can always mix and match colors. Blue, Burgundy and plum colors are hot this season. You can always use browns instead of blacks for day.
•Use an Eyelash Curler that will give a wider and brighter effect to your lids.

diamondcrownltd: If you are bothered about your complexion, keep this in mind… There are many beautiful women and even bollywood stars who are dusky-skinned like Bipasha Basu, Priyanka Chopra, Kajol and Sameera Reddy…Also, not all white-skinned women are beautiful-looking. So you have nothing to worry…However, if you would like to become two or three shades fairer, then it’s not that hard… These are my grandma’s natural homemade beauty tips that you can use to become fair naturally in weeks of regular use…Am dusky skinned, I tried these and am a shade fairer than what I was before…But I can tell you I never had a complex about my skin, I love being dusky…What with all fair-looking westerners wanting to become dusky skinned like us


Moderator this should be in the front page


Before doing these, wash your face and hands properly.. use a scrub (besan) to wash your face. This will open up the pores of your skin and give you good results.





Also make sure you follow any one of these tips regularly for desired results. And don’t forget to apply on your neck.







Take some oat powder and mix with with one 1 teaspoon curd, 1 teaspoon honey, 1 teaspoon of lemon juice, blend well and to make a paste and apply on your face.

Apply cucumber juice, honey and lemon juice on the face and whole body. Leave on for 10 minutes and have a bath. If you body is tanned this will bring your skin back to it’s orginal shade.

Take a pinch of turmeric, besan, lemon juice, tomato or cucumber juice and make a paste and apply on the face.

Apply the juice of tulsi leaves and orange peel powder on the skin and leave on for 15 mins and then wash.

Apply a mixture of sandalwood paste mixed with curd and extract of lime.






After following these tips avoid too much of exposure to sunlight and use a sunscreen with SPF15 before you head out. And also drink at least 8 glasses of water per day and plenty of fruits this will give a shine from the inside for a beautiful and glowing skin.

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