Last two weeks or thereabout, I read a post from a lady that really touched my heart. The post was touching and emotional. Actually, that post inspired this article.

Paraphrasing the lady said that, it gives her concern that she is yet to settle down in marriage at her age. Those words are really touching and it takes a courageous lady to make such a statement.

Just like this courageous lady, many ladies out there sincerely desire to settle down, they want a man they can call their own, they want a man that will love and care for them. A lot of ladies have this desire but hardly express it for fear of being termed desperate or being used and exploited by guys. There's nothing wrong with this desire, absolutely. Don't feel bad about it and don't allow anyone to shame you because of it.

So, what I intend to do in this article is to show you ways you can attract a good and a responsible man without appearing being desperate. I will be using the advice that Naomi gave Ruth, her daughter in law that made her to attract and marry Boaz, a godly and wealthy man. You will find this advice in the book of Ruth 3 but my emphasis will be on verses 3 and 11 and then I will add other things.

Let me start by saying that, it is not your job to look for a husband as a lady, it's a man's duty. Reason being that only few men appreciate ladies that throw themselves at them. Also so you don't get exploited, devalued and cheapen. A man is a hunter and he values what he got by some effort and sweat.(Prov 18:22) Your own is to position yourself to attract a husband and also to be found.

So, how do you attract a good and a responsible man without appearing being desperate?

1. Wash Yourself
I'm sorry to say this but I'm gonna be blunt, a lot of ladies are dirty, clothes o, body o, everything is just dirty. No sane man will have anything to do with a dirty lady. Don't be surprise if I tell you that, dirtiness has pushed many guys away from many ladies. Dirtiness pisses one off.

So, wash yourself. In other words, be neat. Neatness is attractive. And because of how God fashioned your body as a lady, you shouldn't be joking with being neat. Wash yourself. Be neat.

2. Perfume Yourself
A lot of Christian sisters are on this table. Many of them think that body spray, deodorant, Roll on, perfume, etc., are sinful. Listen, applying the aforementioned stuff are not sin Christian sisters. You will keep going from prayer house to another, fasting and and praying, crying for God to give you husband if this is not taken care of. You want to kill person? God won't even allow it. Are you a member of odour of Niger?

So, my sister perfume yourself, that is, smell good. Body odour doesn't give God glory. I'm not insulting anyone, what I'm saying is that you should smell good.

3. Dress Well
Again many of sisters are on this table. You will see a lady in her 20s dressing like a mama in her late 60s, many of them wear clothes that are doing environmental sanitation as they are walking along the road.

Dear sis, dress well. Look good. Your dressing speaks volume. It can make you look smart, young and old. No man wants to marry or get attracted to an old woman. Stop dressing like an old woman meanwhile you are young. Dress smartly. In short, look good. It's attractive.

This also covers your hair. Stop tying scarf every time, your hair will smell o. Plait your hair and allow air into your hair. From head to toe, just look good. We men are attracted by many things, your hair, dress, etc.

4. Be Visible
Many ladies want to marry but they hide themselves in the secret place of their rooms. You want to marry but attend church, you won't, even when you go, after service piaam you have left, attend functions, you won't, attend wedding, you won't, attend seminars, you won't, attend birthdays but you won't. Don't worry my sister, Angel Michael will send you a husband through heavenly DHL.

Brothers of Jesus told him one day that, a man that wants to be a public figure doesn't hide himself in the secret, therefore they advised him to show Himself to the world.(John 7:4) My sister, show yourself to the world. Stop hiding yourself. Position yourself to be found.

5. Be A Good Girl
Boaz told Ruth in verse 11 that, everyone knows that you are a Virtuous woman, in other words, a good girl. So, my sister what are people saying about you. Be a good girl.

Work on your character. Character is always the beauty of a woman. Beauty without character is like a gold ring in a swine pit. Character attracts more husband to you than anything else. If you like bath 5 times a day, empty a bottle of perfume on your body, wear your Christmas dress but if you don't have character, my sister forgot all na wash.

So, in all your neatness, good smell and nice dress, add character to it. Tell yourself the truth about your bad characters and stop saying that men should accept you the way you are, you fit do am?

Good character can make others to recommend you to others. Good character can open doors for you not just the door of marriage.

6. Be Approachable
Many ladies build a hedge a fire around themselves and the wall of Jerusalem and yet they still expect men to come close, Sister how?

Remove every obstacle and obstruction. Dismantle the hedge of fire and the walls of Jerusalem around you. Stop boning your face, who offend you? Put a smile on your face, it's a sign of welcome to us guys. Smile is attractive. Smile.

7. Pray about it
Bible says that, you shouldn't be worried about anything but rather you should pray about everything.(Phillip 4:6-7)

So, pray about it my sister. The Bible also says that God will grant you the desire of your heart. Ask and you shall find. He will grant you your heart desire.

God is a loving and caring father and no father wants his daughter to marry a bad man. Pray and tell God to send you a good husband.

So, here you have 7 ways you can attract good husband to your.......https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/?m=1

1. Don't take off YOUR PANTIES because he called You Beautiful. Take Them off because He MARRIED YOU.

2. Don't Open Your LEGS because he said You will Make A GOOD MOTHER. Open them because he's Ready to be A GOOD FATHER AFTER Your Wedding.

3. Don't Take Him HOME because he Gave You A Ride or Bought You Ice CREAM and fried rice. Take him home because he treated you like a queen and he is Committed to be the Love of YOUR LIFE.

4. Don't PUSH Him away because He has No MONEY TODAY. Hold Him Close if He is A Man of Vision. To another Woman, He is HONEY and He's Got BRIGHTER Days ahead with A PROSPECTIVE BLOSSOMING FUTURE.

5. Don't Go Punishing Him because ANOTHER MAN Hurt You. All Men are not the Same. A Man who FEARS God doesn't Hurt People. If He Loves You, Give Him a Chance and He may be the best thing that ever Happened to you.

6. Don't Stay up All Night Praying and Wondering Where to Find a Good Man. Work on YOUR CHARACTER, be an ASSET and not a LIABILITY and above all serve God FAITHFULLY with your....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/?m=1

1. Respect.
2. Admiration.
3. Quality sex (in marriage). Some want quantity too (in marriage).
4. Quality food (in marriage).
5. Peace of mind.
6. Support.
7. Prayers.
8. Looking attractive and smart.
9. Honour.
10. Submission.

If you have these 10 keys. You will never experience marital crises. Your bliss is guaranteed. Men love women who have these keys, as in love them, fall madly in love with them.

In courtship, he will respect you for NOT giving him sex before marriage. It shows you are a lady of worth and value. Never give a man sex to keep him, he will lose his respect for you and go for a lady who has self worth and dignity and will never allow any man to mess her up. Even Some argue that ladies who fornicate with their partners still end up getting married to them. Trust, most times is lacking in such marriages, the men still end up cheating on their wives. If a man doesn't fear God to stay off your pant before marriage, why would he fear you, a mere mortal, to keep off other women after marriage?

If you don't respect yourself, no one will. Saying a big, fat NO! to premarital sex is one of the ways you show you have self dignity and self worth. Your husband will honour you and respect you for it!

After saying all the NO in courtship, in marriage, say all the YES and have sex, puuuleeeaaze! Men like women who can flip, "devour", do different styles and turn them around in bed... If you can enjoy sex as much as he does, he will totally adore you, pamper you and treat you like the queen you really are. There is no shame in marital sex, none at all. If you have not been enjoying sex with your man, you are a virgin or non virgin about to wed and wants to enjoy passionate, sweet love making in marriage, read "Sex...Sweet Sex!" It will boost your libido and every sexual experience will be a sweet, passionate, orgasm fikled encounter for you.
Show your man love and he will forever love you like no other.
Men are so sweet!
Permit him to shower his sweetness on.....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/?m=1
© Seun Oladele.

1. TALKING SKILLS
Sexual intimacy is nurtured by emotional intimacy which is achieved through having conversations. Learn to connect with your spouse through communication

2. KISSING SKILLS
You have to be a good kisser, learn how to give pleasure of the lips. Kiss not just the lips but fingers, shoulders, cheeks, navel and neck too

3. CUDDLING SKILLS
Many times love-making starts with a cuddle, your body heat up to each other as you embrace

4. GRABBING SKILLS
The butt, his balls, her breasts; you have to learn how grab your spouse with the right amount of pressure

5. RUBBING SKILLS
Rubbing the skin, the nipples, the scalp, the tummy, the clitoris, the penis is essential. Touch heightens the sensations

6. MOANING SKILLS
Moaning confirms to your spouse you are feeling good and you want more. Be a good cheerleader

7. WHINING SKILLS
When doing doggy style or you are the wife on top, you have to know how to move your waist seductively to make his penis reach different corners in you and give him a pleasant view while at it

8. PUMPING SKILLS
Penetration is an art. Dear husband, don't just pump in, pump in at the right time when she is sufficiently wet and with the right thrust. Harder or softer. She loves the feeling of you entering inside her

9. LICKING SKILLS
Licking the clitoris, penis, nipples, skin, neck can drive your spouse crazy. Be a master in it

10. RHYTHM SKILLS
You have to be in sync with your spouse to know when to be fast or slow. Love making is like a dance for two

11. CHANGING SKILLS
You have to learn when is the best time to switch to a different sex position. Don't switch too quickly when your spouse was getting to enjoy, don't take too much time on one style that your spouse loses interest, becomes dry, loses erection or develops body aches

12. CIRCLING SKILLS
As a husband, as you penetrate inside her wetness, learn to move your waist in circular motions so that your penis hits different angles inside her center

13. HOLDING SKILLS
Learn to hold a climax when you feel you are about to orgasm too soon. Hold it because it is sweeter when it is delayed

14. RELEASING SKILLS
Learn to stop over-thinking and release yourself when the time to climax has come. Feel every part of you tighten in pleasure as you surrender yourself to the intensity of the climax. If you feel like squirting as a wife, let it out. It is a beautiful gush, not pee or.....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/?m=1

© Dayan Masinde

My Wife is cheating on me with my younger brother. Neither of them knows I'm aware. How do I know?

I've been married for 7years now. A years ago, my younger brother relocated to the city where I stayed with my wife because he got a well paying job. He wanted to rent an apartment initially but I told him why not stay at my house pending when he's very settled in town since I'm the owner of the 5 bedroom flat I occupy with my wife and 3 children.

Never did I think that whenever I'm out of town for business or not at home for whatever reasons, they have s*x behind my back. God decided to expose their act when I took her phone one night while she was asleep to receive a file through her Gmail. For whatever reason, after receiving the file, I decided to play around with the phone and curiosity got the best of me and I found myself checking her messaging app and I got the shock of my life.

I'm sure she forgot to delete the message as usual because it seems there were previous ones before that. That sparked more curiousity in my mind and I decided to investigate more. Part of me didn't want to believe such because how will my wife I've always thought was faithful and my blood brother be having sexual affairs behind me? It couldn't be true.

I was at home alone on a weekday when I was sure my wife would have gone to her shop and my brother have gone to work. I planted secret cameras in our matrimonial bedroom and another in my brother's room because I wasn't sure where the sexcapades takes place. The next day I informed my wife of my trip outside the state for few days on a business trip. She seemed sad and told me how much she would miss me as usual and I told her I won't stay too long and comforted her as usual too. I was hoping what I suspected won't be true.

I left the next day, came back 3 days later, I watched the clip without anyone knowing and I couldn't believe what my eyes saw. My wife and brother in his own bedroom making love, not just in one night but for the 3 nights I was away. I couldn't take it but I had to hold myself so tight not to react immediately. I left home to lodge in an hotel thinking of what to do exactly. How do I handle this issue? Why are humans so cruel? I don't trust the both of them because I feel they can even kill me when they find out I know their dark secret

This level of betrayal is killing......https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/?m=1

A man can cheat on his woman and still love her but a woman cannot cheat on her man and still love him. I say this because while men do not have sex with emotions, women can't have sex without attaching emotions to it. This is the reason men simply need a place to have sex while women need a reason to have sex.

Most women who take their husbands to court for divorce are those that cheat on their men. A non cheating woman would most likely never take her husband to court for divorce, unless the man exceedingly abuses her physically and emotionally to the point of killing her.

Men don't equate sex with love. A man can have sex with another woman but still doesn't love her. That's why women who fell in love with married men find it difficult to find happiness in those relationships as they are just being used by those married men. But once a married woman starts sleeping with you, she can even narrate some hidden secrets concerning her husband and she will even tell you why she hates him (her husband).

For men, sex and love are two different things. But for women, sex and love are one and the same things. For men, sex comes first before love (infatuation), but for women love comes first before sex (true love). Therefore, once your woman starts having sex with another man/men, her love shifts from you to that man and she can even start giving that man the best food and love than she gives you.

The fact that your man is cheating on you doesn't mean he has stopped loving you. But I can't say the same for women. Once a woman starts cheating on you, she has fallen for someone else and you people will never live the same again.

If your wife starts cheating, you should be a lucky man not to die in less than 10 years. It has been found that 95% of women who cheat wish their husbands dead. She can even accept poison from the boyfriend to eliminate her husband so that...https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/?m=1

This story is so inspiring 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

It was a very sunny Saturday morning, and our wedding anniversary. I looked at my wife as she got ready to leave the house for work. She is a doctor and had been on call today. It seemed like yesterday she walked down the aisle to me. Wow! We are twenty-three years in marriage today. I smiled at her, she smiled back.

We have this thing we do in our anniversary; its more like a friendly competition, we see who surprises whom with the best anniversary gift. She had won five years in a row; I was definitely going to win this year because my surprise for her would blow her head off.

"So what are you going to do this year" she asked me, coming out clean with the question because she had stealthily tried to find out what my plans were. "Watch and see" I told her. I asked her the same question; she just said "hmmm". I've discovered when a woman says hmmm, she's really got something hot cooking. She picked her bag, kissed my beardy cheek and left. We had plans for dinner by 6:00pm tonight. Then, I would unleash my 'BIG' surprise.

We have been married for twenty-two years and we have no children, or perhaps God had not given us any. Over time we had come to realize that sometimes God says yes, wait or no! And there is nothing we could do to change that fact. He is GOD. Therefore, I had vowed to love Patience with the whole of my being. I had promised to always make her laugh and though we both sunk into lugubrious moods, we would trust and keep hope alive. I would be her husband and her son; and she my wife and daughter. We had just ourselves.

Patience, my wife reads a lot of books and her favourite authors are Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie and Karen Kingsbury and I bet she could kill to meet them in person. Last year I contacted Chimamanda and started making preparations to surprise my wife this year. After much process, I got her to have dinner with us tonight. It wasn't easy at all. My wife was going to faint! The idea that I had won this years' anniversary surprise made me all jumpy and giddy. I was going to prepare her best meal, 'Efo riro, bush meat and poundy'.
I had known what my wife had planned for me. We live in Accra and I had always wanted to visit Nigeria, to Jos. I had told her so many stuff about this place I had grown up in, and especially about the mouthwatering 'Gwete'. I had tried to prepare gwete for her and on so many occasions failed. In fact the last time I tried it looks like 'Acha pudding' with cabbage and biscuit bone. LOL. Anyways, I heard her making plans for us to travel to Jos. I smiled.

Its 5:00pm, I had finished the cooking and all, set the table, lit the scented candles and did all the romantic 'orishirishi' we see in movies. The door opens.

"Awww!" She squeals. I hug her and after small talk she saunters off, mounting the staircase to get ready for dinner. I had showered, shaved and dressed in a crisp white shirt, jeans and sneakers. We are one of those couples that still try to look young even in our aging years. Forty-five minutes later, she comes down in a black dress with silver studs in her ears; she looked breathtaking. Although I could still see the grey that stuck in her hair. As we sat, the doorbell rang. I smiled, my surprise had arrived.

"Baby, get the door please" I said and ran off to get my camera. As she opens the door, she sees Chimamanda and her assistant standing at the door. She screamed! And hugged the smiling guest. We all sat to eat. I watched them both smiling from ear to ear as they discussed so many things especially about her books and all. Its 7:30pm and I can't wait for Chimamanda to leave so I could clinch onto my victory.
Finally, she left. We were clearing the table when I saw the brown envelope sticking out from my wife's purse. I knew it! It was our plane tickets to Jos. Smiling vicariously I picked it up and opened it. I was right, tickets to Jos and also...

I collapsed on the sofa, and I couldn't quench the river of tears that had started to flow on my well shaven face. I was sobbing hard. That after twenty- three years (today) of marriage, God had decided to make me a daddy! My wife joined me on the sofa, we were crying for joy together because after so many years of God telling us to wait, He finally said yes.

My head was on my wife's laps. I could perceive her cologne better. Interrupting our tearful silence she asks me. "So honey, who surprised who, who won this year?" With a mischievous grin, I looked up to her not wanting to carry last this year and said *"Na Godwin".* We both laughed looking ahead. We were going to be parents! God had surprised us both. Although, my wife keeps saying she won.

Inspiration: 'Weeping may endure for the night, but joy comes in the morning". He who calms the storms is able to meet your need
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Carry your woman to the bed when she sleeps off in the sitting room, make her feel like a baby at times.The truth is, every woman wants to be treated like a 2-year-old girl at times, that's why women behave childish or silly at times. (Its a fact, its not an abuse please)👌

You may have an argument with your woman and the next thing is that you will see her putting her bags outside the house, it doesn't mean she is asking for a divorce, she is just being childish, she simply wants you to hold her, look her in the eyes and say “I am sorry for the argument".😇

My Brother, when your woman steps on your feet intentionally or mistakenly, don't let your eyes turn red, just smile at her, if she did it intentionally, she is just playing with you, if she did it mistakenly, its not her fault.🙃

why shout at her over every small mistake? As a man learn to ignore some things, don't be petty. Some men are feminist;😔

Do "hide and seek" with your woman, sing poems for your woman in the garden or inside the house, even if she is teasing you. Call her the most beautiful names, ladies love beautiful names more than shiny golds. ❤️

Assist her in the house chores, don't make her look like your maid. Bath together, wake her up for prayers, swim with her if it's available, cook together, teach her how to cook if she doesn't know how to cook, yes that's my handwriting, she must'nt know how to cook. Cooking is not the ticket to Paradise. It's not only a feminine duty.😊

Use blind folds to cover her eyes and tickle her, scare her at times, call her from work/school, text her, write "I love you" in a small note and put it under her pillow or in her purse or in her bathroom or in her cosmetics box or inside her cupboard.😋

Kiss her always, cuddle her, pamper her and play with her hair. Always tell her, she's beautiful and that you're happy to have her as your partner.🥰

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1. EYE CONTACT
The eyes reveal a lot. If your partner finds you special, you will get lots of eye contact, you will be stared at because you're getting all the attention, you will feel looked at, desired, attractive, searched out, there will be this fire, this affectionate look. But if your partner has become too familiar with you, is bored with you, feels superior to you; you will get a condescending look. Just by studying the eyes, you can tell your partner is mad at you

2. THE TONE OF THE VOICE
Don't just listen when you are being told 'I love you', pay attention to the tone when those three words are spoken. How does your partner talk to you? In a harsh way? Does he/she talk with you or at you? Can you sense resentment? Or is the tone warm, peaceful, non-combative? No matter how much we try to hide, the voice reveals how we feel towards someone

3. TOUCH
When you feel strongly for someone, you will become touchy. Humans have touch sensations because it's part of how we relate. When your partner feels close to you, he/she will not keep hands off you. You will be touched on your elbow, waist, hands, fingers

4. HOW MUCH TIME THE PERSON SPENDS WITH YOU
We allocate time to what is of value to us. If your partner feels deeply about you, your partner will long to spend time with you. But if your partner is indifferent towards you, is tired of you, finds you unpleasant; your partner will avoid you or even make excuses not to be with you

5. THE CONDITION YOUR SPOUSE LEAVES YOU IN
When your partner cares for you, he/she will not part with you when you are not well. He/she will not hang up the phone call when your heart is broken, he/she will not leave the house with you feeling hurt, he/she will not leave your presence until you feel better. But a partner who doesn't care for you anymore will not care about your feelings, he/she will hang up the phone as you suffer pain, he/she will end the day abandoning you in your hurt, he/she will leave the house with your heart broken and unattended to

6. HOW MUCH VALUE YOUR SPOUSE GIVES TO YOUR OPINION
A partner who thinks highly of you will seek your thoughts on issues, he/she will not push you away or silence you

7. THE QUALITY OF THE KISS
You can't fake a kiss. You cannot be mad or thinking negatively about your partner and give your partner an amazing kiss. A kiss will tell you if things between you two have changed or everything is well

8. HOW YOU ARE TREATED AFTER SEX
The pursuit of sexual pleasure can make your partner treat you so good even during a long period of animosity between you two. He/she will treat you special so that you fulfill those pleasures but will you get special treatment after? How someone treats you when sex is not part of the goal or equation reveals their true feelings

9. HOW YOU ARE TREATED DURING STORMS
The words and deeds from your partner when you do wrong, when things get tough, when you ask for help, when you do something embarrassing, when the world is against you, when you hit rock bottom best demonstrates your place in your partner's heart. Fake friends abandon you when things get tough, so does a fake partner because....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/?m=1

Many couples who find their marriage in trouble think that the closeness and fire can be brought back simply by having great sex. Many couples in trouble have had a wonderful sex episode only to wake up and the marriage goes back to coldness. These steps could be a more practical way to get that fire back

1. THANK YOUR SPOUSE
Gratitude opens doors. Thank your spouse for the partner and parent he/she has been. Chances are, coldness crept in because there was little appreciation. Thank your spouse for the small and big things

2. STOP COMPLAINING
Go for about two weeks without complaining and you will see the results. Don't even bring up issues even if they are there

3. APOLOGIZE
You may not think you did wrong, but if your spouse perceives that you did, say sorry. Coldness becomes the norm when people in marriage feel their spouse doesn't care about their feelings, apologizing shows you do care

4. MAKE TIME FOR EACH OTHER
Be in the same room, be in the same place, even if you two will just keep quiet; eventually you will open up. Don't be threatened by the silence. Conversations will not start if you're absent

5. GO PUBLIC
Something about being around people nudges you to be interact with your spouse. Go for a concert, a stand up comedy, a visit to a children's home, a charity walk; form new memories to talk about

6. ASK TO HELP
Ask your spouse if there is any way you may assist; to help with the chores, to help with a task, call your spouse when at the Supermarket and ask "Is there anything you need me to buy?" It shows thoughtfulness

7. PRAY
You'd be amazed how many couples say they want a Godly family and yet they don't pray. Without God, your marriage will lack peace that surpasses all human understanding. Before prayer changes things, it changes us. If you need positive change at home, pray. This praying must be beyond praying for food at the table with the kids because when with children we edit our prayers. Go to your bedroom as a couple and pray

8. PLAY WORSHIP MUSIC
When things are not OK in the marriage the spirit is disturbed, worship music calms the spirit to better nourish the home

9. DO AN ACTIVITY TOGETHER
As your marriage was getting colder, you two drifted apart, find a fun, fulfilling or constructive thing to do together: A chore, a game, an investment, frequent movie dates

10. TOUCH
Go out of your way to touch your spouse, hug, rub the back; it inspires closeness

11. USE LOVING NAMES
Find a loving name to call your spouse: Sweetheart, Darling, Baby and use it often, it automatically warms up the tone of your words

12. GIVE SEXUAL PLEASURE
Finally, having done the above and warmed up to your spouse's heart, strive to give your spouse great sex

13. BE PATIENT
When your marriage is sick and you give it the medicine of love, remember that daily doses of love eventually heals. It will take some time but keep persisting. Love is not an event that.....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/?m=1

©️ Dayan Masinde

Marriage is good when you have a spouse that makes your blood run. Here are ways to tease your spouse and keep him/ her thirsty for you

1. BUY GOOD BRAS
Ladies, men have a thing for boobs. It does not matter how small or big your breasts are, men have a thing for their shape and nipples. Invest in a good bra, find what works for your breasts. No one else gets to see your breasts, so wear a bra that he will look at and want to UnCloth you

2. WORK OUT WITH YOUR SPOUSE
There is something sexy about jogging, push ups, sit ups, sweat, tight sports wear pants that teases the eyes. Work out with your spouse, he/she will see your body movements as you exercise and desire you

3. SHOW THE FULLNESS OF YOUR CROUCH
Gentlemen, wear a nice fitting boxer, the kind that shows your penis loaded inside. She will see you walking around in it in the bedroom and want to strip you. Yes, women love eye candy too

4. FLIRT ONE THE PHONE
When you are both far from each other, send naughty messages to each other. Stimulate your spouse even when distance separates you. Let it be that when your spouse thinks of making love he/she thinks of you. Grown ups think of love making a lot

5. KISS PLAYFULLY
Don't rush the kisses. Play with the tongue, prolong the kisses. Make your spouse relax

6. GRAB HER BUTT
Whether she has a big or small butt; creep up from behind her as she cooks, works or moves about the house. Women love it when their husband hold and touch them confidently in a way that makes her feel wanted

7. TOUCH THE CENTRE OF HIS PANTS
Dear wife, your husband's penis belongs to you. Out of the blue, place your hand on his pants and rub it gently. Even if he is busy, tease him so that he knows he is about to get some good loving once he is done with work or, he can get some of your good loving then get back to work

8. MAKE OUT
So many married people don't make out, they just go straight into orgasms. Create quality time for making out where you kiss as your hands move on each other's body. Rub, touch, feel. Take your time

9. WHISPER FANTASIES
Whisper into your spouse's ear the things you will do for him/her. It's a shame how so many married people text to other people their sexual fantasies yet they find it difficult to tell them to their spouse. Turn on your spouse, not other men/women

10. MASSAGE
Your fingers are one of the most powerful teasing weapons. Let your spouse lie down and massage him/her. Release all the tension in his/her body then touch the erogenous spots on his/her skin. Notice how he/she gets excited then insist that he/she should relax, you are not yet done

11. BEND OVER IN FRONT OF HIM
Ladies, you have something your husband wants behind you. Deliberately position your butt in front of him. Bend, wear tights when with him, show your curves. Show off your butt to him, he doesn't need the butt of the women walking in the streets

12. BE PLAYFUL
Adults also have games. Let him chase you as he sees your breasts jumping up and down. Lay her down and come on top of her and tell her how beautiful she looks. Blind fold him and place his hands on parts of your body and tell him to guess what part of your body he is touching. Play a game of strip poker

13. SLEEP NAKED
As you two talk, the visible and easy to reach nipples, butt, curves, penis and vagina will be a strong tease

14. MAKE NAUGHTY JOKES
Talk suggestively to your spouse

15. BREATHE ON YOUR SPOUSE
Your voice and how you breathe can be such a turn on

16. PUSH UP YOUR BODY ON HIM
When you two are sleeping, position your butt on his penis, allow him to feel your curve

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1. Don't put anyone above your husband. Your husband comes first in the order of your relationship.

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5. Always be the number one fan of your husband. Nobody should be sincere to your husband than you.

6. Never keep contact with your ex. A careless contact with your ex can end your matrimony.

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This article takes a look at the mistakes that many women make about sex in their marriage. Although they are not limited to the following:

1. UNDERSTAND WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS ABOUT SEX IN MARRIAGE
'Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. Let the husband render unto the wife due to benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempts you not for your incontinency.' 1 Corinthians 7:1-5. You must note the following points in this scripture:
* The bible made it clear that your body belongs to your husband.
* You must not deprive your husband of your body. The only time you can refrain from a sexual relationship is when you are fasting. Before the fast you are to inform your husband, he is to be aware of your proposed fasting before you go ahead.
* You are to come together again after your fasting so that you will not give advantage to the flesh over your marriage. Please note that 70 days of fasting is not 70 days without sex except if it is a "marathon" fasting. Fasting is usually From 12 midnight to 6pm, so when you break your fast between the hour of 6:01 to 11:59 satisfy your husband, don't ever engage in long fasting just because you want to avoid sex with your husband, you may end up hurting yourself so deeply.

2. DON'T FAIL TO SATISFY YOUR HUSBAND
One of the roles of a woman in marriage is to satisfy her husband sexually. You need to be bold and wise enough to ask your husband whether he is satisfied. Ask him what you can do to satisfy him, then go ahead to do them.
'Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love.' Prov. 5:19.

3. A SEXUALLY UNFULFILLED MAN IS PRONE TO DANGER.
It is easier to pull down a sexually unfulfilled man. A man who is sexually fulfilled by his darling wife will be more difficult to pull down. A man that is not getting the best of sex at home is a danger going somewhere to happen. Protect your husband from falling. Meet his needs at home and make it impossible for him to fall into error.

4. DON'T GO FOR A DARK COLOUR IN YOUR MARRIAGE.
“Behold, thou art fair, my beloved, yea, pleasant: also our bed is green. The beams of our house are cedar, and our rafters of fir”. Song of Solomon 1:16, 17.
Make sex lively by making your bed GREEN. Ensure your bed is always green. Your bed must not be RED. A red bed is a sexless marriage. A YELLOW bed is a marriage where the husband has to struggle, plead, beg and even fight before having sex with his wife. It is a marriage where the wife had made a calendar for sex at home.
Finally, your bed must not be BROWN. This is a marriage that is full of sexual immorality. You must never allow any other man to sleep with you. It is an unrighteous act. It is unholy and unacceptable to God to allow any other man apart from your darling husband to sleep with you.

5. NEVER DARE YOUR HUSBAND TO GO OUT TO LOOK FOR SEX
No matter what happens, never dare your husband to look for sex elsewhere. Somebody else may cook for him, somebody else may take care of his clothes but you are the only one that is authorized by God to sleep with him. Don't ever allow household chores to sap you of your energy to do what only you can do for him.

6. NEVER COMMIT YOUR HUSBAND INTO THE HANDS OF YOUR HOUSE GIRL
If you allow your maid to be the one that cooks your husband meal, washes his cloth, serve his food and generally care for him, you will be opening your husband to temptations in his own house. It may be very hard for him to escape. Your maid should be your assistant, you should not be the one assisting her. Be like the Proverbs 31 woman: 'She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens'. Prov. 31:15.

7. NEVER EMPLOY A HOUSE GIRL THAT IS MORE BEAUTIFUL THAN YOU
Don't make the mistake of employing a housemaid that is more beautiful than you. She may subtly take over your home. Don't employ somebody that will engage you in a beauty contest. It may look funny but that is one sexual mistake that a whole lot of women are making, please fall for it.

8. NEVER HATE SEX IN MARRIAGE
If your husband is like any other man out there you will find it difficult to enjoy him if you hate sex. As a married woman please bear it in your mind that sex is part of the package of marriage, you can't be expecting peace in your marriage and be a hater of sex. Your husband likes it, it is his need and right. You can't afford not to create room in your heart for it with your darling husband.

9. DON'T COMMIT YOUR HUSBAND INTO THE HANDS OF YOUR FRIENDS
If you are travelling don't tell your friends to come to your house to take care of your children on your behalf. It could be the worst decision you ever made, please don't do it.

10. DON'T DISCUSS YOUR SEX LIFE WITH YOUR FRIENDS
A woman told her friends 'my husband is too troublesome, he will not allow me to rest, he is too sexually active. He wants every night, he is never tired.' That was the information the friend who was sexually starved in her marriage needs to go after her friend's husband. She eventually snatched the man from her friend. Your sex life is a private life, discuss it only with your husband.

11. DON'T ABANDON IMPROVEMENT OF YOUR BEDROOM LIFE
Read good and clean books about sex in marriage and know how to give your husband the best. It will be totally bad not to improve your bedroom life. Don't have a lackadaisical attitude towards sex.

12. NEVER THINK YOUR HUSBAND IS SEXUALLY WIRED LIKE YOU
One big mistake most women make is to think their husband is sexually wired like them. A lot of women wonder why their husbands are always making a-never-ending-demand of sex. Some women refer to their husbands as sex addicts. A woman said 'my husband doesn't think about any other thing apart from sex.' Another one said 'the life of my husband is zeroed down to the bedroom'.
These women failed to understand that their husbands is not different from any other married man. In every animal group, the male is generally stronger than their female counterpart. Your husband is just being normal by demanding for sex.

13. NEVER FORGET THAT MEN ARE WEEKLY PEOPLE, WOMEN ARE MONTHLY PEOPLE
Most women want sex twice or thrice a month, both most men want sex two or three times a week. So, it is not strange if your husband's sexual desire is stronger than yours. That is how God made men, that is how it is in most bedrooms, apply wisdom and satisfy your husband.

14. NEVER FORGET THAT MEN ARE VISUAL, WOMEN ARE HEARERS
Men are moved by what they see, women are moved by what they hear and what touches them. Dress your best so that your husband can see the good in you. Catch his eyes so that he will be moved towards you alone.

15. NEVER REJOICE BECAUSE HE DID NOT CALL FOR SEX IN TWO WEEKS
If your husband does not ask for sex in months, how will you feel? A lot of married women will feel happy or indifferent to it. Many married women even with God will remove the sexual aspect of their marriage.
Sex is what makes marriage different from other relationships. Sex is what makes you different from the other women in his life. So, if he does not ask you out in bed for two weeks you should ask questions. If he does not ask you out in the bed for three weeks you should be worried, maybe he has another solution outside. It is not a testimony if your husband does not bother you for sex for weeks, it may have great consequences.

16. DON'T USE PREGNANCY AS AN EXCUSE
Don't ever use pregnancy as an excuse to deprive him of your body. Pregnancy is not a reason for sexual denial, you are the one that is pregnant, your husband is not pregnant. Look for different ways of having sex as the pregnancy advances.

17. NEVER USE BREASTFEEDING AS AN EXCUSE
Breastfeeding a baby is not a good reason to neglect your husband. Having sex while breastfeeding a baby does not pose any health risk to your baby. Feel free to enjoy sex with your husband and nurture your baby.

18. DON'T USE FASTING AS AN EXCUSE
Forty days of fasting does not mean forty days without sex for your husband. See what the Bible says: 'Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempts you not for your incontinency. 1 Cor. 7:5.
What this scripture says is that you must inform your husband ahead of time when you want to fast. Your fasting must be with his consent. You should make sex part of your fasting plan. You must ensure you have sex after breaking your fast or before you start. If you use fast to deprive of your body for forty days, four hundred days of fasting may not win him back later.

19. NEVER USE SEX AS A PUNISHMENT
Sex is not one way to punish him for his offence. Your body is not yours, it belongs to him according to the Bible. You cannot deny him what is rightly his because you are angry. It is not right.

20. NEVER USE SEX AS A MEANS OF EXCHANGE
You are also not permitted to use sex as a tool for bargaining. It is very wrong to use sex in order to get something from your husband. You are not a prostitute, don't insist on being paid or do something for you before sex. If you do that, he may not see the reason why he can't also pay for it outside.

21. NEVER FAIL TO INVOLVE SEX IN YOUR MARRIAGE
Sex is not just about your husband, don't fail to be involved in it, initiate it often. Be involved during the pre-intimacy and be very active during the actual sexual performance, don't be dry and drab at home. Be his lover girl.

22. NEVER SAY: IS IT FOOD?
Avoid asking your husband 'is it food.' It will make him look like a sex maniac. As a man, his demand will naturally be stronger than your own. Your husband's demand is not strange. Plan to fit into his physiological makeup.

23: DON'T MAKE CALENDAR FOR SEX IN YOUR MARRIAGE
Don't be a calendar wife, don't make calendar for sex in your marriage. Some calendar wives will say it can only take place on Friday or other days fixed by them. Let sex happen spontaneously in your marriage.

24. DON'T FORGET SEX IS PARAMOUNT TO YOUR HUSBAND'S WELLBEING
Sex is paramount to your husband's needs. The first thing he needs is respect, the second thing is sex. Give him your best and make him happy. To a man, sex is not just part of marriage it is the real show. Be wise and handle this wisely.

25. NEVER FAIL TO BE A GENEROUS WIFE
For a man to say his wife is a very, very good wife, she must have been generous in the bedroom. Go the extra mile in satisfying your husband.

26. NEVER BE AN ANALOG WIFE TO A DIGITAL HUSBAND
Study your husband and give him what he wants; the way he wants it. Don't be an analogue wife to a digital husband. Study when his desire for sex is high and stand up to the task.

27. NEVER BECOME UNROMANTIC AND UNINTERESTING
Don't lose your flavour. Don't become uninteresting. It is very dangerous for your marriage.

28. NEVER FAIL TO REMEMBER THAT YOUR HUSBAND IS BORN AGAIN BUT HE IS NOT BLIND AGAIN.
Dress very well, be fashionable but not immoral. Don't take your husband for granted with your dressing because he is born again. Every man desires a very tantalizing lady around him. If your husband is born again he is not blind again; dress very well.

29. NEVER FAIL TO PURSUE YOUR HUSBAND
Don't just wait for him to pursue you, be inviting, be interesting, excite him at times by being seductive to him. Invite him to sleep with you or better still, seduce him. He is your husband and you are doing the right thing, no sin committed.

30. NEVER FAIL TO UNDERSTAND YOUR HUSBAND'S SEXUAL NEEDS AND MEET THEM.
Study your husband as if you will write a book on him. Carefully observe him and meet his needs.

31. NEVER FORGET THAT OUTING WEARS ARE DIFFERENT FROM BEDROOM WEARS
Outing wears are not the same as bedroom wears. Dress up when you are going out; dress down when you come to bed. Don't take that jeans knicker to bed, it is not bedroom compliant. Get good night wears, the one they call 'open heaven'; 'the more you look the more you see.' Put on this one when you are alone with your darling husband and turn your marriage around.
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Married people should avoid intimate friendship with the opposite sex! You read that right, close friendship with the opposite sex should be completely ruled out. Why? It's trickish. Things sometimes get out of hand, emotions explode and stories that touch the heart go viral. Heart shocking stories of celebrities, popular men of God, General Overseers, teachers, bosses, colleagues at work and social media friends often litter the places.

There is a thin line between platonic relationship and emotional entanglement. You don't plan affair, it just happens when rules are ignored, boundaries are over stepped and people start doing things they shouldn't be doing to their opposite sex friends for whatever reason under heaven!

How did the friendship start in the first place? Admiration, respect, preference and likeness. You like something about them, you prefer them, you think about them then make them your friend. You talk to each other, you emphasize the likes, something clicks in your heart and bonds you, you enjoy talking to them because they like you and give you attention.

You plan to meet them one on one, you loosen your guide. You don't mind if they hold your hands or hug you, you begin to hold hands and hug frequently, then regularly then you progressed, he strokes your hair because he likes it, you smiled, no big deal because you are "just" friends. He likes your face, then lips and he gave you a peck. His aim was really the lips but he decided to take things slow, next time it will be the lips and then, you are rolling in sheets totally engulfed in the fire of adultery!

You can't handle close friendship with the opposite sex! I don't know why we are so proud and stubborn in this part of the world, we hate correction. Anytime I speak against close opposite sex friendship in marriage, some naive people keep telling me they can handle it, no big deal until they lose their senses and their spouse boot them out of their lives.

1: The Most Beautiful Women

-It takes holy Spirit only to make a beautiful woman to be in a marriage.

-They are on high demand
-Many beautiful ladies are still single, and you keep wondering what is keeping them

-Most use their beauty as a capital for money making

2:. The Most Educated Women

-A woman having a degree,masters, PhD to have to stay in a marriage, its the grace of God.

-Their qualifications makes them independent.

-Visit offices in the companies, most high ranked women and rich are single,divorced.

3: WOMEN FROM RICH FAMILIES

-Women raised under rich families find it difficult to get married because they want same environment they grew up with it a marriage.
-They want no on to advise them

4: The Most Anointed Women Of God

- Most women with the calling of God have no husbands ,either divorced

-No time to do house works

-No time to care for their husbands

-Their husbands can't advise them because they only listen from the holyspirit.

You will find a man with a phd goes to the village and marries a grade 5 woman,what is he looking for Because that is the one that would understand and respect him better.

Speaking in tongues will never make you a wife, only a submissive woman will stay in a marriage and not the beauty and the like.

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Early in the morning husband wakes up and asks his wife:

Husband: Sweetheart would you like to join me for jogging?

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Husband: Ahh! No o, jogging is good for health.

Wife: That means I'm sick eh?

Husband: No, no, if you don't want to get up it's okay.

Wife: So now you're saying I'm lazy huh?

Husband: Now you're misunderstanding me, I didn't........

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Husband: Woman I didn't say that.

Wife: So I'm lying?😡

Husband: Please🙏 Please🙏 Don't stretch it this early morning.

Wife: Oh, so now I'm a quarrelsome person abi?

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1. Some husbands have the clitoris of their wives next to them each night yet have never played with it to give her pleasure. Discover the wonder that is the clitoris

2. Some wives are too insecure about their bodies that they cannot allow their husbands to see them naked or make love in light. Lady your low self-esteem is ruining your sex life, love yourself

3. Some husbands think that love making is all about penetration. Gentleman, the woman's body has alot of pleasure spots, explore

4. Some wives think it is only the husband's role to initiate and lead on love making so they lay there lifeless in bed over burdening the man. Lady, be a willing participant. It is so sexy when you make moves too

5. Some husbands bore and hurt their wives when they penetrate because they don't sufficiently prepare her. Gentleman, to be a King in bed you must learn the art of pre-intimacy, take time before entering her world

6. Some wives have perfected the art of faking an orgasm yet all they had to do was tell the husband how she likes it. Stop living a lie

7. Some people have been married for years without living out their sexual fantasies simply because they have never told their partner their favourite position. Please, don't suffer in marriage, communicate to your spouse how you like it. Sex has a shelf life, an age is coming when you will not be able to have any sexual activity

8. Some people are so used to masturbation that they don't even desire their spouse. Stop ruining your marriage, give in to your spouse, not to your fingers

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1. Don't turn on your spouse and leave your spouse Hot. Finish what you start

2. Don't promise your spouse sex a certain time only for you to forget or be preoccupied with other things when that time comes. Keep your promise

3. Don't want your spouse to go down on you, but refuse to go down on your spouse. Don't just receive, give

4. Don't think you know your spouse's body better than your spouse. Listen to your spouse's request of how they want to be pleasured

5. Don't be dirty, refuse to shower or keep wearing the same underwear and expect your spouse to look forward to making love to you

6. Don't judge your spouse for wanting a lot of sex from you. Be happy you are desired. Some have a spouse who can't even touch them

7. Don't do fingery things with dirty fingers

8. Don't accuse your spouse of cheating when your spouse introduces new ideas in sex. Why spoil the fun?

9. As a husband, don't think you ejaculating yet she is still Hot means your job is done. There are other ways to satisfy her

10. As a wife, don't lay there dead and inactive as you let your husband do all the work. Participate

11. Don't think every sexual episode together will be exactly the same. Some will be intense, others gentle, others quickies, others long, others average, others explosive. Enjoy them all

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After reading the article I wrote that says 5 SIGNS THAT SOMEONE IS NOT INTO YOU a week ago, a concerned lady sent me a message seeking for counseling.

She told me that her guy loves her, gives her attention, has time for her, cares about her, communicates well with her and gives her lots of gifts and all of that but she's afraid if the love is real.

Consequently, she chatted me up asking me how she would know that the love is real.

I told her that I'm going to write on it so that other people can also benefit from it. In this article, you will learn how to know if the love is real or not.

When someone loves you, you know and you will feel it. There will be evidences to attest to it.

Below are some of the evidences...

✅ ATTENTION

When someone loves you, he or she will give you attention. We give attention to the things that we love.

✅ CARE

When someone loves you, they will care about your well-being. Anyone that doesn't care about your welfare does not love you.

✅ COMMUNICATION

When someone loves you, they will communicate often with you as much as possible. Hearing the voice of whom you love is a delight.

✅ GIVING

The natural outflow of love is giving. When someone loves you, they will give. It doesn't necessarily has to be money but there will be giving.

✅ SPENDING TIME TOGETHER

When someone loves you, they will desire and long to spend time with you. When you love someone, you will desire the presence of the person. Anyone that doesn't like spending time with you, may not love you.

✅ SACRIFICE

The ultimate prove of love is sacrifice. Love is not self-seeking. Love always spends itself at the expense of the beloved. Someone that is not going out of his way once in a while to make you feel good, may not love you. Love is sacrificial.

✅ PATIENCE

When someone loves you, they will patient with you. They will be patient with in your weaknesses, down time, etc.

✅ PROTECTION

When someone loves you, they will try to protect you from harm, they will ensure that you are safe.

✅ KINDNESS

When someone loves you, they will be kind to you. Love is kind. Harshness is a sign of hatred, resentment or anger not a sign of love.

✅ VULNERABILITY

When someone loves you, they will vulnerable to you. They will loose their guard, put down their defence, they will dismantle the barricade and they will show you the weak side of them hoping you don't hurt them.

✅ SUPPORT

When someone loves you, they will support you in whatever capacity they can. They will support your dreams and aspirations, they will support you financially, spiritually, emotionally and otherwise.

✅ INVESTMENT

When someone loves you, they will invest in you to make you better than they met you mentally, emotionally, economically etc. Love builds up.

So these are some of the signs that shows someone loves you.

How Do You Know That The Love Is Real?

✅ Give It Time

I read something from Reno Omokri recently that made a lot of sense to me. In fact, it put what I want to say in perfect perspective for me.

He says, "No mask can be worn forever. Give people time. Their mask will fall. Until then, don't marry or do business with them. Stay loving, but be alert."

You cannot cover pregnancy forever, with time it will be revealed for all to see.

So, give the person time. He says he loves you with all his heart, you are his morning star, sunshine, sugar in the tea, butter in the bread and his one and only woman, there's no problem. Give it time.

When he asks for sex and you tell him no sex until marriage, will he still continue to love?

When you find yourself in a very difficult situation, maybe you are critically ill, will he still continue to love?

She says she loves you, you are her world and you mean everything to her. Without you she cannot live nor survive. You are her oxygen and life-force. There is no problem. Give it time.

When you loose your job or suffer a major blow in your business, will she still love?

When you are broke and unable to provide for her financial needs, will she still love or disappear with another guy?

Don't rush things. Give it time. Time is a revealer. Time will reveal if the love is real or not, with time you will come to know if the person is saying the truth or lying. Love perseveres and love is long-suffering. Stay loving, but be alert.

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WOMEN AND SEX

1. A wife doesn't have to be sexually boring. We need to put off the mind set that a woman outside the marriage is more sexually appealing than the wife

2. Women have sexual needs too. The wife's role is not to satisfy the husband sexually as her needs get ignored, she too should be satisfied. Both are meant to enjoy

3. Most women find the missionary style most intimate because the husband and wife look at each other while doing it

4. A lot of women feel that their husbands are selfish in bed, only focusing on getting to his climax and then forgetting her. Remember her. Please her

5. A wife will struggle to flirt with you and give herself to you if she suspects or knows that you are cheating on her. Faithfulness is a turn on

6. For a woman, pre-intimacy begins by how you treat her before things get sexual

7. A woman who tells her husband no when he wants to make love to her, will push him away and when the time comes when you desperately wants him to touch her, he might find it difficult to rekindle that desire because he was bruised by her

8. You might have a very decent, Godly well-behaved wife but during love making she becomes aggressive, passionate and moaning naughty things. Allow her, it is her marriage, she is entitled to express her pleasure freely

9. Sometimes a woman will want it fast and hard, sometimes she will want it slow and gentle. Study her rhythm and mood

10. Your wife might love doggy style because of how your penis feels when inside her at that angle. Doggy style has different sensations than missionary because of the positioning of the penis

11. Some wives love being in control, she might want to be on top of you or to have you relax as she gives you pleasure. Relax as a husband and let her do you, you don't always have to be the leader

12. A wife's wetness is special, it should never go to waste. Make use of it and enjoy her wetness even if it is a quickie

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HUSBAND: What are you doing?

WIFE: What?

HUSBAND: Do you want me to be unemployed?

WIFE: What do you mean?

HUSBAND: Look, you are rubbing your nipple. That is my job? Don’t do my job. I don't want to be unemployed

WIFE: (Smiling) I was just doing it cause it feels good

HUSBAND: I know it feels good. It is my job to make you feel good

WIFE: I didn’t even notice. I was just doing it as I was reading

HUSBAND: (Moving closer to her) Darling, if ever you want your nipples to feel good, tell me. I will rub them, lick them, suck them, pinch them... anything to make you feel good

WIFE: I love how you play with them. Sometimes I want you to touch them but I don't want to disturb you

HUSBAND: (Sucking her left nipple) You have the right to disturb me anytime you want to feel good

WIFE: (Moaning) Ahh... that feels so good. Why are men so obsessed with a woman's breasts?

HUSBAND: I don't know about other men but I am obsessed with your breasts. How your nipples erect, how they feel in my mouth, the tenderness of your boobs, the scent of your chest, the beauty of their form. You turn me on

WIFE: You turn me on too. Please suck one of the nipples and rub the other

HUSBAND: Tasty you are my Love

WIFE: (Moaning) Oh Baby it feels good. You are not unemployed. Thank you also for not being a husband who masturbates, it is my job to give you pleasure because.....https://www.gistreal.ng/2024/03/5-things-that-can-easily-destroy-your.html

MASTURBATION:

Please don't sleep or go to bed without reading this special message, trust me you will be helped and your life will change for better.
THE GREATEST DEMON ON EARTH.
IF YOU MASTURBATE, YOU WILL BE POOR FOREVER UNLESS YOU ARE DELIVERED.
So take your time to read this. Refuse to end this MONTH the same . Believe me you will never regret reading this, this will answer almost 78% of your questions?
Please whether you are a man or a woman, stop what you are doing and read this now.
Each time you masturbate, you donate sperm to the demonic kingdom.
Masturbation is like having sex in dreams, each time you release, you in-pregnante a demon and as a woman, each time you are masturbating, you are having sex with a demon and sometimes get pregnanted by a demon.
Have you ever wondered how you see yourself with children or breastfeeding a baby in dreams when physically you have non? Those who are married its had to have affection to their partner.
That's the demon or demons you gave birth to. One Sunday during the One on One section, a very intelligent man came to me to complain that he had an accident in 2014 and lost his car, he nearly lost his life but God saved him.
From 2014 he had been applying to get money from the government an "accident grant" but the money was not given to him.
Each time he goes to claim his money he would be told to come today, come tomorrow and this money is over a million Rand.
As I was praying for him, God revealed to me that he had donated all his fortune to the demons, he masturbate 4 to 5 times a day.
When I asked him he agreed and asked me to deliver him, I prayed for him and told him that tonight, you will have a dream, a woman will come to make love to you, catch her and pull out a ring from her, that will be the end of your problems.
3days later he had a dream, his former classmate came to make love to him, he caught her, pulled out a ring from her finger and woke up immediately.
And began to thank God ,around 13:40 hrs the money which where held for along time was released.
That is the God I know ,the God of War, The God of miracles.
Many of you would have been so rich now but because of masturbation, your wealth, good luck and happiness have been donated to demons. You would have been married by now but your feelings are gone because of masturbation.
Listen to me, the enemy has come up with intimacy gadgets, sex objects, to aid masturbation, to steal kill and destroy humanity completely. Do you know that intimacy gadgets is an industry of the devil.
From today I want to help you understand that Masturbation is a spirit – a demon. This spirit of darkness does not come alone, it is accompanied by spirit of lust. Spirit of lust includes lust of eyes, lust of flesh, etc.
It is one of the spirits that takes people to which pornography and all sorts of sexual immorality.
(Pornography is a fuel of masturbation).
It's never too late:
Distance is not a barrier, I pray for anyone
going through this addiction , may the demon that is eating your fortune will divorce you forever in the mighty name of Jesus.
I return your fortunes in Jesus name.
Give no room for the devil to manipulate your life....https://www.gistreal.ng/2024/03/7-ways-you-can-help-your-wife-to-carry.html

"Baby, leave my breast let me watch this movie in peace na, you de rush the breast like say na shawarma wey you thief "

"Don't tell me that oh, when I married you, I paid for my breast too, besides eh, this movie I'm watching is not as interesting as what I am touching "

Oluchi almost choked with laughter

"Okay, just put your hand inside since it's scratching you, ashawo husband like you"

"See you forming good person, when night reach now, you be wriggling like someone under annointing. You that does not allow me to sleep in the night, you de run marathon like all these people for Ethiopia and Kenya "

Oluchi looked at Ken, pretending to be angry.

"So because I de try manage you, you de run mouth ba? No worry, no show for you this night, konji go kill you this night, bet me" she said stretching out her hands.

"If dem born you well make you try am. I will cry till the whole neighbors will wake up and ask what the problem is, I will tell them my wife does not want me to sacrifice to the gods "

She laughed hard again and gave him a mild kiss.

"Oya, see eh, just make me my favorite food na, by the time the meal is ready, I will be done with the movie "

Ken quickly runs to the kitchen and puts on his apron as he proceeds to make her favourite food, jollof rice and fried plantain.

Just then there is a knock on the door and Oluchi opens the door to welcome Jude, Ken's friend.

They exchange pleasantries and she tells him that Ken is in the kitchen.

"Kitchen?" he asked with a surprise look on his face.

"What is he doing there? "

"He is planting mango in the kitchen sink, ofcourse he is cooking " Oluchi said with a smirk on her face. She's never liked him.

"So your husband is in the kitchen cooking while you watch TV?"

Just as she was about to reply him, Ken comes out from the kitchen.

"Ken wassup, I was just asking of you, your wife said you were in the kitchen " Jude said with a grin on his face.

"You make it sound like its a bad thing man, how far na" Ken said.

Jude drags Ken aside

"But bro, this is wrong by all standards, how can you be cooking while your wife sits with the remote, watching TV? This isn't normal. This kind of thing cannot happen in my house na, a whole man like you, do you know how many girls used to rush you back in those days"

Ken wipes his hands on the apron as he shakes his head.

"Jude Jude, why did you come here sef? "

"I came to inform you that we will be meeting later at the club , I called you but you didn't take your calls,now that I have seen you on your apron, I'm not surprised "

"Jude my good friend, first thing first,I am not you and will never be you. What works in your Family might not work for mine and I don't even want it to. My wife cooks everyday for me so what's the big deal in cooking for her just for today? I am always with my wife in the kitchen everyday to help her out, and so you know, I wash my clothes and hers when I have the time and I don't leave her to do the chores alone. She's my wife, not my slave "

At this point Jude didn't know what to say, he just stood there like a dumb lunatic.

"Look Jude, no two marriages are the same, do what you like but don't kill Becca in the process. Have you seen your wife lately? She looks like a frustrated mad woman, so thin and almost invisible and you are here , forming man of the house "

Jude brings out his handkerchief and wipes his face.

"I won't come to the club today, infact, I won't come for a while.My wife doesn't like clubbing that much and since she gave up her modeling career to do business because of me, I need to let go of somethings too. I need to get back to the kitchen, my regards to the boys "

Jude hasten his steps as he walks out of the house.

"My husband my husband, double ration for you this night, correct man wey sabi. Infact you see eh, de go that kitchen, make I do u rush rush inside"😂😂😂😂😂😂

"Baby make I rush off the gas make we no do rough play burn house "

💥Leave people alone and stop forcing your policies on them

💥What works for you might not work for them, don't try to make people live like you except it's to make them better.

💥Marriage is a union of happiness, make your home a playground, not a war zone .

💥Share the chores, don't call her a weaker vessel and still give her all the hard work to do.

May God Almighty gives us wisdom and understanding on how to go about our relationships/marriages in Jesus name
Forget lovelies..I will always say this that this word here 👉 LOVE is s sweet like honey when you are with the right person.e.g Soulmate, better half, best friend.....https://www.gistreal.ng/2024/03/things-i-missed-about-being-single.html

What did you learn from these write up?

Of course, no lady is expected to marry a perfect man (no man is perfect). But as you can see, the above-mentioned qualities are what make marriages some sort of hell. Men who do them don't know marriage at all, and as a lady, if you love yourself, don't ever marry such men, otherwise, you will cry in that marriage every day.


I have said over the years that marriage in Africa is not the way it obtains in Europe and the USA. Here in Africa, the female child is disadvantaged so much.


She isn't having the same playing field as their male counterparts. Here are a few instances:
1) Here, most times ladies are forced to accept and marry men they don't love at all. Whereas in advanced climes ladies marry who they like, love, or want.
2) Here if a lady is married to a beastly man, society encourages her to continue in that unhealthy marriage by enduring the abuses of that man. Wheres in advanced climes, the ladies are encouraged to walk away from unhealthy marriages.
3) Here when a man cheats on his wife, society says it's normal and alright because it's in the men's DNA to cheat. Whereas in advanced climes, the wife whose husband has cheated on her can take legal actions against the cheating husband and demand serious financial compensations.
4) Here if a couple is challenged in the area of childbirth, more often than not, the husband is most likely to either get a second wife, remarry or get a lady out there pregnant in order to have children. This action from some men is an indirect way of saying to their wives that they are the cause of the challenge, and as such should bear the consequences all along. Whereas in advanced climes, when such a challenge presents itself, the couple will do all things medically possible. And if it's unsuccessful, they will either adopt a child or remain like that for the rest of their lives. The husband never blames his wife over the challenge of childlessness because it's their CHALLENGE.
5) Here, because of marriage, a husband sees his wife as more of an acquired possession than a life partner with a valuable contribution to make to their marital experience. Whereas in advanced climes, a wife is an asset, a most valuable contributor to marriage.
The list goes on and on.

As you can see, being married is NOT the same as being happily married.
If you are a lady, please pray hard and let God lead you when choosing a life partner. Don't let the pressures of your parents, siblings, and relatives sway you away from your God-ordained spouse. Don't let your family use you to meet their financial needs or satisfy their selfishness or greed. Should you make a mistake with respect to choosing a life partner, all that your family will be telling you is to ENDURE a bad man in a bad marriage.
Therefore, as a lady, if you are broke or poor, you don't need marriage yet, but a job. You need to get a life of your own, not a husband. Marriage isn't a poverty alleviation program or scheme. Please be guided because it's better to wait long or even longer (if need be) than to marry wrong because...https://www.gistreal.ng/2024/02/5-important-things-you-should-offer-to.html

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Please I need your help and peoples opinion, there is this girl I have been dating for 2 month plus now. When we meet this girl told me that she doesn't have any boyfriend that is why I go for her because me I did not like competing because of girl, but just last week now this girl Facebook get issue so she gave me to try and check from my phone but d thing didn't work later I realize that some message were dropping on my notifications before I notice it's her Facebook that later work because me I don't do Facebook, What caught my attention on the message was "hope that place is still tight the way I leave it" haaa I head ring I click the message, on a normal I no be person wey Dey enter babe message so as I see the thing I just check ooo before see different message say this girl even they have sex for money, having sex with different guy.. So now since then I keep on refreshing for different new messages but I never let her know. And Shinero I been don like this girl before so now I don make up my mind not to tell her but to just turn this girl to sex mate but my conscience no go allow me rest so Abeg I need what to do. Say make I just free her ni or make I just knack her without any feelings again

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