1. Women naively believe what they hear.

The way to a woman is through her ears. For a man to sleep with a woman, he says what the woman wants to hear:

“You are the most beautiful woman I’ve ever met. You are so smart, focused, and intelligent.”
This way, she doesn’t feel like he’s taking her for a fool. And whoops, she falls into his trap!

2. Women believe in love.

Outside marriage, men are just cheaters (irresponsible men). For men, there’s no love gained or lost. After sex, a man walks away with zero feelings. The game is over. She’s left confused and wounded. Women don’t easily slow down after intimacy.

3. Women are more emotional by nature.

The woman’s body releases volumes of oxytocin during intimacy. This is the hormone responsible for bonding. She naturally gets emotionally attached to the man she slept with. And the more time he takes with her, the more attached she becomes.

4. Women are nurturers by nature.

Women unconsciously nurture relationships the same way they nurture babies. Women foster and nourish whatever comes their way including grownup men.

5. Sex for women is an act of submission.

When a woman sleeps with a man, she totally trusts him. In sex, a woman surrenders her life, will, and body to the man to do with her as he wishes. That’s why women get broken to pieces when relationships break down.

Remember: Pre-marital sex is rampant anywhere especially in the younger generation, Sex is a part of their exploration of happiness with the opposite sex. Many single mothers experience sex without Love. Then later on they will realize the bad effects and result of being pregnant. I hope and pray to all our young generation to make Sex as a Sacred Act of Marriage. And not in a way of amusement like.......https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2024/06/14-sex-skills-you-should-have.html

If you don't want to grow white hairs before you get married, here are the things you need to do to attract your man and get married on time:

1. SMILE: Men love smiling women. No, not the one that begins and ends with the mouth, the one that starts from the eyes. Genuine, loving smile attracts people, creates friendship and unlock doors! Learn to smile at people baby, women who lack men's attention rarely smile. They are always cold and look as if they are carrying the problem of the whole world on their head! Some of these ladies even frown a lot! Look, everybody has a problem, no man wants to add another person's problem to his own. Be a genuinely happy person and show it by smiling at people. Men will find you irresistible and seek to know you more.

2. BE HUMBLE: Humble women don't lack suitors! One way to stay single for a long long time is to be proud and cocky! Proud women are a big turn off! If you always roll your eyes at people, segregate yourself from the company of common people, talk down on anybody and you are practically rude because of your class, money, car, social status, job, etc, you will stay single forever! Be humble! Learn to accommodate all class for people. Learn to serve others. Learn to use "sir" when talking to men. Some men may tell you it doesn't matter but secretly, they love it. Men love it when women address them with respect. Learn to be respectful and submissive to authorities.

3. BE CONFIDENT: Confident women are attractive any day any time. Knowing who you are, pursuing your dreams, vision, passion and goals makes you a confident person worth investing in. When you know your reason for being here on earth is far more than getting married, punch out few kids and stay locked in the kitchen forever, you approach life with a positive mind set, you are energetic and confident in who you are, you have a good, sound self esteem and men are irresistibly drawn to you.

4. BE FRIENDLY: Ladies who keep to themselves hoping some Prince Charming will find them are not ready for marriage. Be friendly! Being friendly is different from being desperate and cheap. Go out. Attend positive programmes, conferences, seminars, workshops, symposiums and serve in your local church. Enjoy meeting people and getting to know them purely for friendship not for marriage. A man can smell it a million mikes away if you are desperate and chasing him. Just be yourself. If you are just being friendly and he thinks you are cheap, that's his headache! Don't let that stop you from being friendly to people. Smile a lot, meet people and be a happy person to have around.

5. BE GENEROUS: Stingy women who can't part with anything don't know what marriage is about. Be generous to people. Be generous with what you have. Be generous with your smile, your love, your talent, your service, your money, your prayers, whatever you've got that can bless lives. Generous women are men attractors, they never lack admirers.

6. BE FORGIVING: Forgive all your EX, forgive the guy who abused you or rape you, forgive all who disappointed you in the past. Practice advance forgiveness, forgive people before they hurt you, more people will offend you. If you find it difficult forgiving people, you will grow bitter and people will move away from you especially men. Release the man who promised you marriage but disappointed you and married someone else. Actually, you were not meant to be. If you had married him, you may have been divorced or dead! Thank God for it and move on. If you don't release that man you may never find any man to marry! Men will unconsciously move away from you and you will be singe and miserable for the rest of your life!

7. BE INTELLIGENT: Men like intelligent women. Know when, how and where to talk. Don't be a dummy upstairs. Know what is going on around you. You shouldn't be a naive, empty-brained, beauty queen. Your face may get you into the marriage, your brain will determine how long you last. A man likes a woman who can give intelligent answers to questions and contribute meaningfully to discussions. If he asks you, "Why is Nigeria in the mess we are in?" And you scratched your head, looked at the ceiling, bite your finger and say, "I don't know" Your brain needs revival!

8. BE NEAT: Dirty ladies are not good marriage candidates. Some ladies look great outside but if you see where they step out, you will remember world war 2! Very dirty, disorganized and rough to say the least! No sane man wants to marry a dirty woman. Learn to be neat. Take good care of your underwear, learn to shave. Keep off the body and mouth odour. Deal with the eczema and pimples, do your hair on time or comb it well. Always appear neat and presentable.

9. LEARN HOW TO DRESS WELL: Wear something that fits you, not what is in vogue. Get a good tailor who can sew clothes that fits your body shape. Learn about your body shape and wear something that flatters your figure. Straight ladies need clothes that flatters the waist line. There are some clothes good on hourglass not good on pear, apple shapes will look great in shirts and suits, pears will look great in gowns etc. I'm not saying you can't wear different kinds of clothes, just wear the ones that fit you. They make you sweet to look at and simply irresistible!

10. LOVE YOURSELF: You can't love others if you don't love yourself. Celebrate yourself. Accept yourself the way you are, you are simply the best. Don't envy anybody. Not everyone's got what you've got, celebrate your uniqueness. Men love ladies who love themselves. Don't envy someone else's looks, love what you have. Don't wish you have a fuller chest, heavy bum, sexy nose or longer hair. The man God created for you needs someone exactly like you and will fall in love with you just the.......https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2024/06/how-to-make-man-admire-you-chase-you.html

1. As a lady, you are at least 23 years old and the man is at least 25 years old.

2. You have a job/ business that can take care of you, your wife and at least a baby.

3. As a man you have your own apartment and you pay all your bills by yourself.

4. As a lady, you can take good care of yourself and another person without any stress.

4. You love children and hope to have yours.

5. You enjoy cooking and do house chores without being told.

6. You can live at least a thousand miles away from your parents.

7. You can make major decisions about your life and face the consequence.

8. You are no longer under the control and command of your parents.

9. You do not yield to peer pressure. You do what needs to be done regardless of what anyone feels.

10. You are sexually responsible. You know how to say NO to premarital sex and mean it.

11. As a lady you have a good relationship with your dad and you are submissive to authorities.

12. As a man, you love your mum, sisters and treat women generally with respect and dignity.

13. You know how to make and multiply money.

14. You are spiritually sound. You pray and receive answers to your prayers. You know how to hear God.

15. You are generous. You give with pleasure.

16. You have a healthy sexual desire.

17. You know exactly what you want in life and you pursue it daily to attain it.

18. You have a strong desire to love, bond with and help another person be all what God wants them to be.

19. You do not have destructive bad habits.

20. You are in full grip of your emotions. You are not hot tempered, lustful and possessive!

These and more are the signs you are ready for marriage. Marriage requires all round maturity: physical, social, financial, mental, emotional, psychological. It is not compulsory you must marry at 25.

Wait till you are mature or your immaturity will destroy your marriage. I see it happen all the time because the......https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2024/06/7-simple-things-that-can-bond-family.html


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© Seun Oladele

SEX EDUCATION 👌🏼👌🏼👌🏼
What is pussy locking?

Don't think pussy locking is when you close your vagina 😜. Pussy locking is the ability to make your pussy hold your hubby's penis tight during sex....🤪...

Let's go...

Pussy locking is the process of drawing your pussy in internally, while your husband's dick is inside of you, with your legs widely spread out, Locking your pussy will make your pussy wrap his dick so well that it drives him crazy, and he will be able to use his dick to touch all the walls of your pussy, lock up your pussy and allow his dick grip on.

The easiest way to learn and understand pussy locking is when you are urinating and try to stop the urine halfway, you know how you hold the urine in with your pussy, that's what pussy locking is. It's also known as kegel exercise! now, try doing exactly that when your husband's dick is inside of you, your husband will never get tired of fucking you.

This method also helps people that have a loose vagina to feel the dick, no matter the size. You don't need to close your legs for your pussy to be tight, because it won't, you will just be fooling yourself😂 biko spread your legs and lock up your pussy for maximum pleasure..🙄🙄🤪🤪🕺🕺

Most of the time when the penis is inside the vagina, if you still notice any looseness, withdraw and use cold water to wash up...I mean a very cold one😍

It makes the vagina shrink in size...

And it reduces the level of secretions that comes out from the vagina....you will still be wet but at a moderate level...👍👍👍

Pussy locking is very necessary during sex because......https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2024/06/married-women-sex-is-food.html

1. Many women dress up for the public but they don't put as much effort to dress up for their husband in bed. Lady, your number one audience is your man

2. Many women complain that their husbands don't sex them good, yet they do not express what they want their husbands to sexually do to them. Lady, your man doesn't read minds

3. Many women are shy in bed, largely because of their low self esteem making the husband feel as if he is forcing a sexual encounter with her since she comes off as disengaged in the act. Lady work on your self esteem, it directly affects your sex life

4. Many women do not praise their husband's performance in bed even when he is good. Lady, the more you talk well about his penis, the way he touches you, the way he licks you; the more he want to please you. Work on his ego

5. Many women belittle their husband, talk down at him with disrespect and then expect him to give great sex. Lady, when you undermine him and talk to him as if he is not man enough because he doesn't earn "enough money", he has failed in his goals a few times; be sure he will not be so interested in making love to you

6. Many women are inactive during sex because they think it is the husband's role to lead in sex. So she lies in bed, lifeless, passive and bored expecting him to do all the sexual heavy lifting. Lady, men too want to be sexually made advances on: both of you giving, both of you taking

7. Many women think that complaining and nagging will get a man to do the right thing. What they fail to realize is that it only leads to the man repelling the woman, he will struggle to desire to kiss her and touch her. She will drain him. To get a man to do what you want, inspire him, compliment him for the good he has done so far, show him how him doing right makes you smile because men love to be the reason a woman smiles. Then in bed, he will pursue you because he feels safe with you

8. Many women though they do not have sexual intercourse with another man, they are emotionally unfaithful. They engage another man or men in intimate discussions and chats as they wonder why the husband is angry at this. This makes the husband feel put off

9. Many women complain that the man is talking too much about sex, they tell him off. When the man tones down on the sex talk, the woman complains and becomes insecure doubting whether he still finds her sexy

10. Many women use sex as weapon. During an argument, they employ silent treatment as a tactic denying him his conjugal rights. Soon, the man gets used to living without her sex and suddenly she is the one who desperately wants sex just to prove to herself all is well in their marriage but the damage is already done

11. Many women do not observe good hygiene. When the weave stinks, armpits smell of sweat and the vagina area not well maintained; he will struggle to have sex with her. Lady, stay clean

12. Many women, especially conservative or Christian women view sex as dirty or of the world and so they don't fully release themselves in it, even in marriage. This is perhaps because they grew up being told "NO SEX" that they fail to realize sex is Godly and God's gift to nourish and sweeten their marriage. Lady, God created your body for pleasure with your spouse

13. Many women are rigid when it comes to sex, "Don't do this, I can't do that" - making sex an uphill task. Lady, relax; allow your body to be explored

14. Many women don't know how to say no to their husband. Lady, even when you feel you are not in the mood for sex because of your monthly periods, you are sick, your mood is low or you're tired; don't just brush him off. If you will not give him sex still make him feel loved. Cuddle with him, kiss him, have an intimate pillow talk, tell him you love him, tell him he will get some hot sex when he wakes up; do not make him feel ignored

15. Many women think that the best thing they have to offer is great sex and so they do not work on themselves, their attitude, their character, their dreams and individual progress. They only concentrate on getting tips on how to be sexy, how to twerk, how to squat, how to keep the vagina tight and not content to grow their mind, their business, their spirit. Eventually the man grows tired, drained and feels empty with her. A man needs more than a few hot minutes in bed

16. Many women compare how their current sex life is with the sex life they had with an ex or exes. Lady, the old is gone, the new has.....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2024/06/14-sex-skills-you-should-have.html

I prefer to make love to my husband than have sex, making love is "haaawwwt". Every part of you is involved from the crown of your head to the sole of your feet and the shivers that go through the body at the peak is highly electric! I just pray this guy won't kill me with sexual bliss one day!

Anybody can have sex but making love is very scarce because it involves lots of work, I mean hard work!

You don't just jump in bed and pounce on your spouse. No one will enjoy sex that way. Real sexual intercourse that results in roof breaking orgasm for the woman begins with MIND LOVE MAKING. Until you and your husband begins to make love to each other's mind, you won't enjoy sex!

Learn to enter each others world. Talking and understanding is the key here. Don't just complain your husband is screaming and yelling at you, understand why he does so. Men cry, they just don't shed the tears. They will rather scream, yell or shout at you than confess he is hurting badly and needs you to put your loving arms around him, sooth him, love him, kiss him, cuddle him and make love to him. Men yearn for understanding as much as women do.

No woman is frigid in bed; had Jesus been married, his wife would be the hottest, sexually turned on female in the world. Jesus sure knew how to make a woman feel loved around him. Mary Magdalene couldn't help it, she poured a highly expensive perfumed oil on his feet and wiped it with her hair. Every woman is a tigress in bed! Forget the scarf she ties in church and the tongue she blasts on the pulpit.

Once you can make love to her mind, understanding her thought, feelings, emotions, words, strengths and weaknesses, she will become the hottest, sex star you have ever seen, experienced or even heard of in your entire life. The power is in your hand to turn your wife to whoever you want her to be in bed. If she aint enjoying love making, it's your fault brother.

Singles, sex is strictly for the married. I never get tired of preaching that.

To enjoy loving making in marriage, marry a man who genuinely loves you understands you, respects you, honours you and will do anything in his power to ensure you are happy and enjoy life including sex with him IN MARRIAGE.

As a guy, marry a lady who totally adores, cherishes, understands, loves, respects you and will do anything to ensure you are a happy and at peace living with her. Marry a lady who finds you completely attractive and would eagerly make love to you IN MARRIAGE.

Marriage is more than sex but sex is part of marriage or else we won!t have joysticks and vaginas. We must all enjoy sex in marriage, yes, we must!

Singles save sex for marriage. Hold unto your virginity/sexual purity and never lose it for anything in the world. Your spouse will celebrate you for keeping yourself for.....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2024/06/my-first-time-to-have-sex.html

SEXUAL SECRETS OF WOMEN THAT WANT TO SNATCH YOUR HUSBAND WHICH YOUR RELIGIOUS LIFE HAS NOT ALLOWED YOU TO DO.

Lots of women are losing their husbands to strange women out there and most women are yet to know what these men see in these women that make them get glued to them even though they know that these women are more expensive and most are full of sexually transmitted diseases.

Hi wives, you need to know the sexual secrets of these faceless women, sorry they are better than you in the bed, you need to step up to match up with them and beat them in their dirty games. Take your time to read this and get your husband back, these are their secrets:

1) THEY UNDERSTAND THE SEXUAL WEAKNESS OF MEN: They understand that one of the weaknesses of most men is sex and they make good use of this. Wives are careless about this, instead of using sex to create intimacy with their husbands; they use it to create animosity, anger, and bitterness between them and their husbands.

WHAT TO DO: Use sex as a tool of love to create intimacy in your marriage, don’t use sex to destroy your marriage, use it to build it.

2) THEY KISS LIKE MAD: In a report, most married men reported that their wives hate kissing; they said it is difficult to get a decent kiss from their wives. Strange women are experts in this area they use kissing as a weapon.

WHAT TO DO: Don’t turn kissing into wrestling in your marriage, stop being local. Kiss your husband even when he is not expecting it.

3) THEY USE KILLER UNDERWEAR: A man said he hates to see his wife in panties because according to him, she always looks like a wrestler. Lots of wives are like this, they are fond of wearing pants whose colors are different from their bras, looking like a rainbow, dirty pants, outdated underwear, a bra that looks like tarpaulin, wearing boxers that are meant for men, wearing knickers and tying of wrapper to bed. Strange women are creative in this regard they are fond of using neat, sexy panties and....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2024/06/what-men-and-women-need-to-know-about.html

Over the years I have been telling lovers that a healthy relationship is one where the two partners involved demonstrate their love to each other through a strong commitment. Therefore, a one-sided love is not part of the deal. Today I write to expose you to 21 signs that show that they don't love you at all:

1. They are not committed to you in any way.
2. They are still double-dating.
3. They don't appreciate your show of care.
4. They don't appreciate your company and friendship.

5. They are irritated by your presence.
6. They don't call to ask about your wellbeing even though they've not seen you or heard from you for a long time without giving you any cogent reason.


7. They are shy and ashamed to introduce you to their parents, siblings and friends.
8. They don't discuss a marital future of the two of you with you.
9. They only see you as a sex....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2024/05/21-signs-that-show-they-dont-love-you.html

If you want more money from your man or you want to turn your stingy husband into a super generous, lavish giver who never says NO to your demands, here are the simple things you can do to pratically turn your husband into an ATM machine that spills out money at your beck and call:

1. DO NOT WASTE HIS MONEY: No man likes to see his hard earned money wasted on frivolities. If you don't to how to keep money, he won't give to you.

2. LEARN TO MULTIPLY MONEY: If you are a good investor who knows how to turn #500 into #1000, your husband sees you as a good investment, a great asset and a wife worth spending his money on -he knows you will multiply it.

3. YOU ARE GENEROUS: Especially to his family members. He knows you won't hoard his money so he is very eager to give to you.

4. YOU ARE NOT TOO DEMANDING: He knows you are not selfish; he eagerly gives to you.

5. YOU PRAISE HIM: Praise turns a man on like no other. If you want your man to lose his senses and empty his pockets, just praise him -it works like fire!

6. GIVE HIM SEX: See, sex is important to your man. Just as you need money to look good, he needs quality sex to feel good. When you give him sex exactly how, when, where, for how long and anyway he wants it, he will empty his bank accounts for you. When a man gets sweet, delicious, hot and satisfying sex from his wife he becomes possessed with her love. He lost sight of other ladies and will do anything to please her including breaking his bank account to make her happy. Give him delicious sex for one week and make your request, he can't say no.

7. YOU ADMIRE HIM: If you genuinely tell him you admire the way he works hard for you and takes care of his family, he will give you more.

8. YOU RESPECT HIM: A man can die for a woman who treats him like her father, king, hero,President, Emperor, Lord and the captain of her heart. His money automatically become yours.

9. YOU ARE OBEDIENT: That gives him peace of mind. He can entrust his entire account to you because he knows you won't spend money on anything he does not approve.

10. YOU ARE HONEST: One of the ways you can tell your husband he is stupid and blind is to inflate school fees and price of things -nothing enrages a man like his wife taking him on a fool's ride. Honesty makes you trustworthy, lies make you undependable and unreliabe. Learn to be truthful and honest, he will entrust his money in your hands.

11. MAKE HIM YOUR LOVER: Love him like mad, like crazy. Fall madly in love with him. Make your husband your super lover, boyfriend and hearthrob. Lavish love on him, love him wastefully. Be hot, romantic and passionate. When a man is genuinely loved by his wife, he entrusts his very life including his account in https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2024/05/this-truth-will-make-things-easy-in.html

THE TRUTH ABOUT SEX MEN DON'T WANT YOU TO KNOW

Because they know you will condemn them, see them as sex freaks, call them dogs and give them unprintable names but that does not stop a man from being a man or do you wanna marry a woman?

To have a full blast, blissful relationship with a man, you must understand what makes him a red blooded male! If you do, your man will not only love you but go crazy for you every single day of his life.

1. Men are very sexual.

2. Men are are very visual. An average man thinks sex at least 8 times daily. That is the least. Men are bombarded with sexual images all day from bill boards adverts to pictures on social media to scantily clad ladies in church. Because they are visual and sexual, they take in images that create sexual pressure seeking a form of release.

3. Men are excited about female body parts.

4. Breasts and buttocks get men turned on.Tight fitting clothes around the chest region and bosom region can drive a man crazy!

5. Men's ego in marriage is boosted when their wives respond to their sexual advances. Rejecting a man sexually is rejecting him.

6. When a wife pursues her husband sexually, she boosts his self esteem by 50%.

7. A woman who moans during sex gives her husband 80% ego boost on his sexual performance.

8. Sex is not food to a man, it is the air he breathes. He can't live long without it.

9. Beauty is useless to a man if it is not available for sex.

10. A sexually hot woman is very beautiful to a man no matter how unattractive or shapeless others see her. To the man, she is his Madonna, the queen of his sex kingdom, the one who rules, dominates and controls his entire universe.

11. A tight vagina does wonders on the penis than any man will tell you.

12. Men love sexual adventure.

13. It is not the size and shape of breasts that matter but how they are packaged and presented to the man.

14. Men love to suck breasts. Carrying the breasts away is like slapping him.

15. Men like a woman who loves sex.

16. 60% of the reason he is marrying you is because of sex.

17. Men love sex.

Men are wonderful. Men are sweet. Men are awesome.

It is not the fault of a man he is very sexual. God created him that way. When a man is completely loved, cherished and honoured for who he is and what he is made up of, he will love you, adore you and cherish even if....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2024/05/how-to-handle-sexual-attraction-in.html

God bless you. Cheers!

WHAT EVERY WOMAN NEEDS TO KNOW

1. Your biggest enemy is yourself. That enemy is the one who makes you overthink, develop a low self-esteem, make you emotionally unstable and give you ulcers. Love yourself from the inside first before you expect love from the outside

2. You are not in a relationship with a man until you both clearly state it. Don't get carried away by the idea of love with a man simply because he spends time with you or treats you special

3. If you are in a relationship or marriage, demanding your man to spend time with you will not make him do so. A man willingly spends time with you because you give him peace and he enjoys your company. Attract him the same way you peacefully and warmly attracted him when he was pursuing you

4. Mr. Right is the man who offers a conducive environment for you to be the best you. Choose your environment well

5. Your husband will never find you if you keep fooling around with other women's husbands

6. Mr. Right can also hurt you. The difference is that Mr. Right hurts when he hurts you, he apologises, owns up to his short comings and makes effort to love you better. Love is a learning process

7. Silent treatment will not solve anything. If your man hurts you, learn to speak your hurt and teach him to love you better. The best couples have mastered the art of conflict resolution

8. Most men don't mind being corrected. What they do mind is the tone with which you correct them. The world has been harsh towards women for years, but tone down your defensive mode and learn to communicate effectively with respect and love. You two don't have to fight and argue to look like you are addressing issues

9. A man who is not serious about you will avoid accountability, will operate in grey areas and will hide you. You will never go far with him. Serious men like being kept accountable, they take pride in what they commit to and are not afraid of responsibilities

10. Getting pregnant for a man will not make him serious about you. Men are serious about a woman because they have a personal vision that includes her

11. If you are not a woman who knows herself, relationships and marriages will bring you drama. Your self awareness is your personal responsibility

12. If you do know yourself and you get married to a man who doesn't know himself, he will frustrate you. Be careful in him being lost he doesn't make you lose you. When marriages go bad, the reputations are heaviest on the woman

13. Just because you have a relationship with God or you marry someone who has a relationship with God does not mean your......https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2024/05/25-things-every-woman-needs-to-know.html

1. Play with her bréasts, don't play with her heart.

2. Open up her heart, don't open her old wounds.

3. Keep her secrets, don't keep secrets from her.

4. Béat up her problems, don't béat her up.

5. Help her to make good judgements, don't judge her.

6. Spread her legs alone, don't spread sexual diseases to her.

7. Fool around with her, don't make a fool out of her.

8. Laugh with her, don't laugh at her.

9. Sûck her nîpples, don't sûck life and joy out of her.

10. Make her scream in bed when making love, don't make her scream out of frustration and depressiôn.

11. Silence her storms and battles, don't silence her voice and opinions.

12. Make her møan in pleasure, don't make her mourn the death of your love.

13. Relieve her stress, don't give her stress.

14. Spánk her bûtt cheek, don't slap her face cheek.

15. Surprise her with gifts, don't surprise her with lies.

16. Make her wet between her legs, don't make her eyes wet with tears.

17. Be by her side, don't sideline her.

18. Make love to her doggie style, don't be a dóg that cheats on her like a community penîs.

19. Make other women jealous of her by how you love her, don't make her jealous.

20. Keep a record of all the good she deliberately does daily, not the wrong she unintentionally does occasionally.

21. Don't insult her stretch marks, stretch her vision so that she leaves a....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/?m=1

1- When a woman is angry, over half of what she says-she doesn't mean.

2- The most difficult time for a woman is when she is away from the man she truly loves.

3- A woman is not like 'detol advert', if you don't take care of her... Others will.

4- It takes time for a woman to trust a man, its hard to change when she does, but if you mess-up, you might just forget it.

5- A woman is such a school you will never graduate from.

6- Your wedding certificate with her is not a "driving licence", its just a "Learners permit"

7- She can be very bitter now, and a very sweet angel later on, it all lies in your approach.

8- A woman hardly forget things, she remembers hurts more, avoid making her hurt.

9- A woman can be highly secretive... Most times when they prove hard to men, they go to their closet and friends to cry.

10- All women Love to be begged. men often miss out on this.

11- All women have a unique character like salt, their presence might not be noticed but their absence makes all things tasteless.

12-if she loves you she can do everything you ask of her as far as it makes you happy, so never force her to love you.

13- If a woman truly loves you,even to ask money from you she will be shy and most especially if she loves you she can never leave you to spend unnecessarily!...that's what makes them special....

If you find a woman who loves and fears God, cherish her for life and never let her go.. She will do you good for the rest of your.....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2024/05/10-dimensions-of-marriage-beyond-sex.html

Dear husband, you can make your wife the most loving, romantic, admirable and beautiful woman on earth.

Ask her what you can do to make her happy. This is the most important question you will ever ask your wife.

Spoil her with your love. Pamper her.

Treat your wife with dignity.

Don't be her headache. Don't be her pain

Make her happy. Never let her regret getting married to you.

Never compare her to anyone living or dead

Never cheat on her.
There is nothing you desire from side chic that your wife does not have. Don't put your life in danger because of momentary sexual pleasure from side chic

Never beat her no matter what she does. Your wife is not a goat. Real men don't beat women.

Understand her love language and give it to her. Either it can be words, gifts, touch, actions, etc. If it is words, then frequently tell your wife you love and appreciate her. If it is action: regularly do things that she appreciates

Never allow any member of your family to insult her or make life difficult for her.

Be gentle and tender with her.

Make her your priority. Be 100% committed to her.

Pray for her always.

Play with her. Never create a hostile environment for her.

Listen to her. Drop your phone and be attentive to whatever she has to say.

Forgive her no matter her offense. Love forgives

Support her vision. Never bury her dreams because she is married to you.

Encourage her. You should be her number one encourager

Protect her from every physical and spiritual attack.

Satisfy her sexual needs. Never deny her of your body.

Always tell her she's beautiful.

Celebrate her always both online and offline

Spend money to beautify her.

Treat her like your beauty queen.

Give her gifts constantly.
Buy her new sets of undies: buy her bags, shoes, clothes, creams, perfume, chocolate, fruits, cakes, ice cream, shortbread biscuits or snacks for her.

Women’s love for shoes, bags & clothes are incurable no matter how spiritual they are! Don’t wait for your wife to demand for them

No gift is too small or too big for your darling wife.

Your Marriage Is What You Make It To Be!

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Somebody asked me if long distance marriage can work without sex, no, it cannot work without sex. I don't know why people just like to be deceived into something that simply doesn't work!

Healthy couples have sex an average of 3 times a week. Stress, advancement in age, sickness or body ailment may slow it down to once a week or much more less, couples still have the comfort of each other's bodies and can do other things to douse the sexual fire!

Long distance marriage creates sexual tension, it doesn't douse it!

Some couples do sex video, masturbate, go very dirty and whatever they can do to relieve the sexual tension but it doesn't cure anything, it simply adds petrol to the fire!

Until a man have real sex as in real intercourse in flesh and blood, he will be restless and sexually unfulfilled and will be very sensitive to women, in plain language, he will face more sexual temptation he may be too weak to handle!

Same with women.

Some of the women I counseled who cheated on their husbands were in long distance marriages.

By all means, stay close to your spouse. If it is completely unavoidable due to work, do all in your power to move and go live with your husband wherever he is. If that is not possible, find ways to see physically at least monthly and have as much sex as you can before he travels back. If once in a month is still not possible, meet at least once in 3 months.

One of the reasons we get married is because of hot, steaming REGULAR SEX! Don't let any religious fanatic tell you otherwise! Paul said its better to marry than to burn! It is a "crime" to be married and still be burning!

Not everyone in long distance marriages cheats but the struggle for sexual purity is always high! They have to battle hard to stay sexually sane and not sin!

Help your spouse overcome sexual temptations with ease by being physically available always to douse their sexual fire and relieve every sexual tension in their.....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2024/05/how-to-know-if-love-is-real.html

Last two weeks or thereabout, I read a post from a lady that really touched my heart. The post was touching and emotional. Actually, that post inspired this article.

Paraphrasing the lady said that, it gives her concern that she is yet to settle down in marriage at her age. Those words are really touching and it takes a courageous lady to make such a statement.

Just like this courageous lady, many ladies out there sincerely desire to settle down, they want a man they can call their own, they want a man that will love and care for them. A lot of ladies have this desire but hardly express it for fear of being termed desperate or being used and exploited by guys. There's nothing wrong with this desire, absolutely. Don't feel bad about it and don't allow anyone to shame you because of it.

So, what I intend to do in this article is to show you ways you can attract a good and a responsible man without appearing being desperate. I will be using the advice that Naomi gave Ruth, her daughter in law that made her to attract and marry Boaz, a godly and wealthy man. You will find this advice in the book of Ruth 3 but my emphasis will be on verses 3 and 11 and then I will add other things.

Let me start by saying that, it is not your job to look for a husband as a lady, it's a man's duty. Reason being that only few men appreciate ladies that throw themselves at them. Also so you don't get exploited, devalued and cheapen. A man is a hunter and he values what he got by some effort and sweat.(Prov 18:22) Your own is to position yourself to attract a husband and also to be found.

So, how do you attract a good and a responsible man without appearing being desperate?

1. Wash Yourself
I'm sorry to say this but I'm gonna be blunt, a lot of ladies are dirty, clothes o, body o, everything is just dirty. No sane man will have anything to do with a dirty lady. Don't be surprise if I tell you that, dirtiness has pushed many guys away from many ladies. Dirtiness pisses one off.

So, wash yourself. In other words, be neat. Neatness is attractive. And because of how God fashioned your body as a lady, you shouldn't be joking with being neat. Wash yourself. Be neat.

2. Perfume Yourself
A lot of Christian sisters are on this table. Many of them think that body spray, deodorant, Roll on, perfume, etc., are sinful. Listen, applying the aforementioned stuff are not sin Christian sisters. You will keep going from prayer house to another, fasting and and praying, crying for God to give you husband if this is not taken care of. You want to kill person? God won't even allow it. Are you a member of odour of Niger?

So, my sister perfume yourself, that is, smell good. Body odour doesn't give God glory. I'm not insulting anyone, what I'm saying is that you should smell good.

3. Dress Well
Again many of sisters are on this table. You will see a lady in her 20s dressing like a mama in her late 60s, many of them wear clothes that are doing environmental sanitation as they are walking along the road.

Dear sis, dress well. Look good. Your dressing speaks volume. It can make you look smart, young and old. No man wants to marry or get attracted to an old woman. Stop dressing like an old woman meanwhile you are young. Dress smartly. In short, look good. It's attractive.

This also covers your hair. Stop tying scarf every time, your hair will smell o. Plait your hair and allow air into your hair. From head to toe, just look good. We men are attracted by many things, your hair, dress, etc.

4. Be Visible
Many ladies want to marry but they hide themselves in the secret place of their rooms. You want to marry but attend church, you won't, even when you go, after service piaam you have left, attend functions, you won't, attend wedding, you won't, attend seminars, you won't, attend birthdays but you won't. Don't worry my sister, Angel Michael will send you a husband through heavenly DHL.

Brothers of Jesus told him one day that, a man that wants to be a public figure doesn't hide himself in the secret, therefore they advised him to show Himself to the world.(John 7:4) My sister, show yourself to the world. Stop hiding yourself. Position yourself to be found.

5. Be A Good Girl
Boaz told Ruth in verse 11 that, everyone knows that you are a Virtuous woman, in other words, a good girl. So, my sister what are people saying about you. Be a good girl.

Work on your character. Character is always the beauty of a woman. Beauty without character is like a gold ring in a swine pit. Character attracts more husband to you than anything else. If you like bath 5 times a day, empty a bottle of perfume on your body, wear your Christmas dress but if you don't have character, my sister forgot all na wash.

So, in all your neatness, good smell and nice dress, add character to it. Tell yourself the truth about your bad characters and stop saying that men should accept you the way you are, you fit do am?

Good character can make others to recommend you to others. Good character can open doors for you not just the door of marriage.

6. Be Approachable
Many ladies build a hedge a fire around themselves and the wall of Jerusalem and yet they still expect men to come close, Sister how?

Remove every obstacle and obstruction. Dismantle the hedge of fire and the walls of Jerusalem around you. Stop boning your face, who offend you? Put a smile on your face, it's a sign of welcome to us guys. Smile is attractive. Smile.

7. Pray about it
Bible says that, you shouldn't be worried about anything but rather you should pray about everything.(Phillip 4:6-7)

So, pray about it my sister. The Bible also says that God will grant you the desire of your heart. Ask and you shall find. He will grant you your heart desire.

God is a loving and caring father and no father wants his daughter to marry a bad man. Pray and tell God to send you a good husband.

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1. Don't take off YOUR PANTIES because he called You Beautiful. Take Them off because He MARRIED YOU.

2. Don't Open Your LEGS because he said You will Make A GOOD MOTHER. Open them because he's Ready to be A GOOD FATHER AFTER Your Wedding.

3. Don't Take Him HOME because he Gave You A Ride or Bought You Ice CREAM and fried rice. Take him home because he treated you like a queen and he is Committed to be the Love of YOUR LIFE.

4. Don't PUSH Him away because He has No MONEY TODAY. Hold Him Close if He is A Man of Vision. To another Woman, He is HONEY and He's Got BRIGHTER Days ahead with A PROSPECTIVE BLOSSOMING FUTURE.

5. Don't Go Punishing Him because ANOTHER MAN Hurt You. All Men are not the Same. A Man who FEARS God doesn't Hurt People. If He Loves You, Give Him a Chance and He may be the best thing that ever Happened to you.

6. Don't Stay up All Night Praying and Wondering Where to Find a Good Man. Work on YOUR CHARACTER, be an ASSET and not a LIABILITY and above all serve God FAITHFULLY with your....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/?m=1

1. Respect.
2. Admiration.
3. Quality sex (in marriage). Some want quantity too (in marriage).
4. Quality food (in marriage).
5. Peace of mind.
6. Support.
7. Prayers.
8. Looking attractive and smart.
9. Honour.
10. Submission.

If you have these 10 keys. You will never experience marital crises. Your bliss is guaranteed. Men love women who have these keys, as in love them, fall madly in love with them.

In courtship, he will respect you for NOT giving him sex before marriage. It shows you are a lady of worth and value. Never give a man sex to keep him, he will lose his respect for you and go for a lady who has self worth and dignity and will never allow any man to mess her up. Even Some argue that ladies who fornicate with their partners still end up getting married to them. Trust, most times is lacking in such marriages, the men still end up cheating on their wives. If a man doesn't fear God to stay off your pant before marriage, why would he fear you, a mere mortal, to keep off other women after marriage?

If you don't respect yourself, no one will. Saying a big, fat NO! to premarital sex is one of the ways you show you have self dignity and self worth. Your husband will honour you and respect you for it!

After saying all the NO in courtship, in marriage, say all the YES and have sex, puuuleeeaaze! Men like women who can flip, "devour", do different styles and turn them around in bed... If you can enjoy sex as much as he does, he will totally adore you, pamper you and treat you like the queen you really are. There is no shame in marital sex, none at all. If you have not been enjoying sex with your man, you are a virgin or non virgin about to wed and wants to enjoy passionate, sweet love making in marriage, read "Sex...Sweet Sex!" It will boost your libido and every sexual experience will be a sweet, passionate, orgasm fikled encounter for you.
Show your man love and he will forever love you like no other.
Men are so sweet!
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© Seun Oladele.

1. TALKING SKILLS
Sexual intimacy is nurtured by emotional intimacy which is achieved through having conversations. Learn to connect with your spouse through communication

2. KISSING SKILLS
You have to be a good kisser, learn how to give pleasure of the lips. Kiss not just the lips but fingers, shoulders, cheeks, navel and neck too

3. CUDDLING SKILLS
Many times love-making starts with a cuddle, your body heat up to each other as you embrace

4. GRABBING SKILLS
The butt, his balls, her breasts; you have to learn how grab your spouse with the right amount of pressure

5. RUBBING SKILLS
Rubbing the skin, the nipples, the scalp, the tummy, the clitoris, the penis is essential. Touch heightens the sensations

6. MOANING SKILLS
Moaning confirms to your spouse you are feeling good and you want more. Be a good cheerleader

7. WHINING SKILLS
When doing doggy style or you are the wife on top, you have to know how to move your waist seductively to make his penis reach different corners in you and give him a pleasant view while at it

8. PUMPING SKILLS
Penetration is an art. Dear husband, don't just pump in, pump in at the right time when she is sufficiently wet and with the right thrust. Harder or softer. She loves the feeling of you entering inside her

9. LICKING SKILLS
Licking the clitoris, penis, nipples, skin, neck can drive your spouse crazy. Be a master in it

10. RHYTHM SKILLS
You have to be in sync with your spouse to know when to be fast or slow. Love making is like a dance for two

11. CHANGING SKILLS
You have to learn when is the best time to switch to a different sex position. Don't switch too quickly when your spouse was getting to enjoy, don't take too much time on one style that your spouse loses interest, becomes dry, loses erection or develops body aches

12. CIRCLING SKILLS
As a husband, as you penetrate inside her wetness, learn to move your waist in circular motions so that your penis hits different angles inside her center

13. HOLDING SKILLS
Learn to hold a climax when you feel you are about to orgasm too soon. Hold it because it is sweeter when it is delayed

14. RELEASING SKILLS
Learn to stop over-thinking and release yourself when the time to climax has come. Feel every part of you tighten in pleasure as you surrender yourself to the intensity of the climax. If you feel like squirting as a wife, let it out. It is a beautiful gush, not pee or.....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/?m=1

© Dayan Masinde

My Wife is cheating on me with my younger brother. Neither of them knows I'm aware. How do I know?

I've been married for 7years now. A years ago, my younger brother relocated to the city where I stayed with my wife because he got a well paying job. He wanted to rent an apartment initially but I told him why not stay at my house pending when he's very settled in town since I'm the owner of the 5 bedroom flat I occupy with my wife and 3 children.

Never did I think that whenever I'm out of town for business or not at home for whatever reasons, they have s*x behind my back. God decided to expose their act when I took her phone one night while she was asleep to receive a file through her Gmail. For whatever reason, after receiving the file, I decided to play around with the phone and curiosity got the best of me and I found myself checking her messaging app and I got the shock of my life.

I'm sure she forgot to delete the message as usual because it seems there were previous ones before that. That sparked more curiousity in my mind and I decided to investigate more. Part of me didn't want to believe such because how will my wife I've always thought was faithful and my blood brother be having sexual affairs behind me? It couldn't be true.

I was at home alone on a weekday when I was sure my wife would have gone to her shop and my brother have gone to work. I planted secret cameras in our matrimonial bedroom and another in my brother's room because I wasn't sure where the sexcapades takes place. The next day I informed my wife of my trip outside the state for few days on a business trip. She seemed sad and told me how much she would miss me as usual and I told her I won't stay too long and comforted her as usual too. I was hoping what I suspected won't be true.

I left the next day, came back 3 days later, I watched the clip without anyone knowing and I couldn't believe what my eyes saw. My wife and brother in his own bedroom making love, not just in one night but for the 3 nights I was away. I couldn't take it but I had to hold myself so tight not to react immediately. I left home to lodge in an hotel thinking of what to do exactly. How do I handle this issue? Why are humans so cruel? I don't trust the both of them because I feel they can even kill me when they find out I know their dark secret

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A man can cheat on his woman and still love her but a woman cannot cheat on her man and still love him. I say this because while men do not have sex with emotions, women can't have sex without attaching emotions to it. This is the reason men simply need a place to have sex while women need a reason to have sex.

Most women who take their husbands to court for divorce are those that cheat on their men. A non cheating woman would most likely never take her husband to court for divorce, unless the man exceedingly abuses her physically and emotionally to the point of killing her.

Men don't equate sex with love. A man can have sex with another woman but still doesn't love her. That's why women who fell in love with married men find it difficult to find happiness in those relationships as they are just being used by those married men. But once a married woman starts sleeping with you, she can even narrate some hidden secrets concerning her husband and she will even tell you why she hates him (her husband).

For men, sex and love are two different things. But for women, sex and love are one and the same things. For men, sex comes first before love (infatuation), but for women love comes first before sex (true love). Therefore, once your woman starts having sex with another man/men, her love shifts from you to that man and she can even start giving that man the best food and love than she gives you.

The fact that your man is cheating on you doesn't mean he has stopped loving you. But I can't say the same for women. Once a woman starts cheating on you, she has fallen for someone else and you people will never live the same again.

If your wife starts cheating, you should be a lucky man not to die in less than 10 years. It has been found that 95% of women who cheat wish their husbands dead. She can even accept poison from the boyfriend to eliminate her husband so that...https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/?m=1

This story is so inspiring 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

It was a very sunny Saturday morning, and our wedding anniversary. I looked at my wife as she got ready to leave the house for work. She is a doctor and had been on call today. It seemed like yesterday she walked down the aisle to me. Wow! We are twenty-three years in marriage today. I smiled at her, she smiled back.

We have this thing we do in our anniversary; its more like a friendly competition, we see who surprises whom with the best anniversary gift. She had won five years in a row; I was definitely going to win this year because my surprise for her would blow her head off.

"So what are you going to do this year" she asked me, coming out clean with the question because she had stealthily tried to find out what my plans were. "Watch and see" I told her. I asked her the same question; she just said "hmmm". I've discovered when a woman says hmmm, she's really got something hot cooking. She picked her bag, kissed my beardy cheek and left. We had plans for dinner by 6:00pm tonight. Then, I would unleash my 'BIG' surprise.

We have been married for twenty-two years and we have no children, or perhaps God had not given us any. Over time we had come to realize that sometimes God says yes, wait or no! And there is nothing we could do to change that fact. He is GOD. Therefore, I had vowed to love Patience with the whole of my being. I had promised to always make her laugh and though we both sunk into lugubrious moods, we would trust and keep hope alive. I would be her husband and her son; and she my wife and daughter. We had just ourselves.

Patience, my wife reads a lot of books and her favourite authors are Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie and Karen Kingsbury and I bet she could kill to meet them in person. Last year I contacted Chimamanda and started making preparations to surprise my wife this year. After much process, I got her to have dinner with us tonight. It wasn't easy at all. My wife was going to faint! The idea that I had won this years' anniversary surprise made me all jumpy and giddy. I was going to prepare her best meal, 'Efo riro, bush meat and poundy'.
I had known what my wife had planned for me. We live in Accra and I had always wanted to visit Nigeria, to Jos. I had told her so many stuff about this place I had grown up in, and especially about the mouthwatering 'Gwete'. I had tried to prepare gwete for her and on so many occasions failed. In fact the last time I tried it looks like 'Acha pudding' with cabbage and biscuit bone. LOL. Anyways, I heard her making plans for us to travel to Jos. I smiled.

Its 5:00pm, I had finished the cooking and all, set the table, lit the scented candles and did all the romantic 'orishirishi' we see in movies. The door opens.

"Awww!" She squeals. I hug her and after small talk she saunters off, mounting the staircase to get ready for dinner. I had showered, shaved and dressed in a crisp white shirt, jeans and sneakers. We are one of those couples that still try to look young even in our aging years. Forty-five minutes later, she comes down in a black dress with silver studs in her ears; she looked breathtaking. Although I could still see the grey that stuck in her hair. As we sat, the doorbell rang. I smiled, my surprise had arrived.

"Baby, get the door please" I said and ran off to get my camera. As she opens the door, she sees Chimamanda and her assistant standing at the door. She screamed! And hugged the smiling guest. We all sat to eat. I watched them both smiling from ear to ear as they discussed so many things especially about her books and all. Its 7:30pm and I can't wait for Chimamanda to leave so I could clinch onto my victory.
Finally, she left. We were clearing the table when I saw the brown envelope sticking out from my wife's purse. I knew it! It was our plane tickets to Jos. Smiling vicariously I picked it up and opened it. I was right, tickets to Jos and also...

I collapsed on the sofa, and I couldn't quench the river of tears that had started to flow on my well shaven face. I was sobbing hard. That after twenty- three years (today) of marriage, God had decided to make me a daddy! My wife joined me on the sofa, we were crying for joy together because after so many years of God telling us to wait, He finally said yes.

My head was on my wife's laps. I could perceive her cologne better. Interrupting our tearful silence she asks me. "So honey, who surprised who, who won this year?" With a mischievous grin, I looked up to her not wanting to carry last this year and said *"Na Godwin".* We both laughed looking ahead. We were going to be parents! God had surprised us both. Although, my wife keeps saying she won.

Inspiration: 'Weeping may endure for the night, but joy comes in the morning". He who calms the storms is able to meet your need
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Carry your woman to the bed when she sleeps off in the sitting room, make her feel like a baby at times.The truth is, every woman wants to be treated like a 2-year-old girl at times, that's why women behave childish or silly at times. (Its a fact, its not an abuse please)👌

You may have an argument with your woman and the next thing is that you will see her putting her bags outside the house, it doesn't mean she is asking for a divorce, she is just being childish, she simply wants you to hold her, look her in the eyes and say “I am sorry for the argument".😇

My Brother, when your woman steps on your feet intentionally or mistakenly, don't let your eyes turn red, just smile at her, if she did it intentionally, she is just playing with you, if she did it mistakenly, its not her fault.🙃

why shout at her over every small mistake? As a man learn to ignore some things, don't be petty. Some men are feminist;😔

Do "hide and seek" with your woman, sing poems for your woman in the garden or inside the house, even if she is teasing you. Call her the most beautiful names, ladies love beautiful names more than shiny golds. ❤️

Assist her in the house chores, don't make her look like your maid. Bath together, wake her up for prayers, swim with her if it's available, cook together, teach her how to cook if she doesn't know how to cook, yes that's my handwriting, she must'nt know how to cook. Cooking is not the ticket to Paradise. It's not only a feminine duty.😊

Use blind folds to cover her eyes and tickle her, scare her at times, call her from work/school, text her, write "I love you" in a small note and put it under her pillow or in her purse or in her bathroom or in her cosmetics box or inside her cupboard.😋

Kiss her always, cuddle her, pamper her and play with her hair. Always tell her, she's beautiful and that you're happy to have her as your partner.🥰

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1. EYE CONTACT
The eyes reveal a lot. If your partner finds you special, you will get lots of eye contact, you will be stared at because you're getting all the attention, you will feel looked at, desired, attractive, searched out, there will be this fire, this affectionate look. But if your partner has become too familiar with you, is bored with you, feels superior to you; you will get a condescending look. Just by studying the eyes, you can tell your partner is mad at you

2. THE TONE OF THE VOICE
Don't just listen when you are being told 'I love you', pay attention to the tone when those three words are spoken. How does your partner talk to you? In a harsh way? Does he/she talk with you or at you? Can you sense resentment? Or is the tone warm, peaceful, non-combative? No matter how much we try to hide, the voice reveals how we feel towards someone

3. TOUCH
When you feel strongly for someone, you will become touchy. Humans have touch sensations because it's part of how we relate. When your partner feels close to you, he/she will not keep hands off you. You will be touched on your elbow, waist, hands, fingers

4. HOW MUCH TIME THE PERSON SPENDS WITH YOU
We allocate time to what is of value to us. If your partner feels deeply about you, your partner will long to spend time with you. But if your partner is indifferent towards you, is tired of you, finds you unpleasant; your partner will avoid you or even make excuses not to be with you

5. THE CONDITION YOUR SPOUSE LEAVES YOU IN
When your partner cares for you, he/she will not part with you when you are not well. He/she will not hang up the phone call when your heart is broken, he/she will not leave the house with you feeling hurt, he/she will not leave your presence until you feel better. But a partner who doesn't care for you anymore will not care about your feelings, he/she will hang up the phone as you suffer pain, he/she will end the day abandoning you in your hurt, he/she will leave the house with your heart broken and unattended to

6. HOW MUCH VALUE YOUR SPOUSE GIVES TO YOUR OPINION
A partner who thinks highly of you will seek your thoughts on issues, he/she will not push you away or silence you

7. THE QUALITY OF THE KISS
You can't fake a kiss. You cannot be mad or thinking negatively about your partner and give your partner an amazing kiss. A kiss will tell you if things between you two have changed or everything is well

8. HOW YOU ARE TREATED AFTER SEX
The pursuit of sexual pleasure can make your partner treat you so good even during a long period of animosity between you two. He/she will treat you special so that you fulfill those pleasures but will you get special treatment after? How someone treats you when sex is not part of the goal or equation reveals their true feelings

9. HOW YOU ARE TREATED DURING STORMS
The words and deeds from your partner when you do wrong, when things get tough, when you ask for help, when you do something embarrassing, when the world is against you, when you hit rock bottom best demonstrates your place in your partner's heart. Fake friends abandon you when things get tough, so does a fake partner because....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/?m=1

Many couples who find their marriage in trouble think that the closeness and fire can be brought back simply by having great sex. Many couples in trouble have had a wonderful sex episode only to wake up and the marriage goes back to coldness. These steps could be a more practical way to get that fire back

1. THANK YOUR SPOUSE
Gratitude opens doors. Thank your spouse for the partner and parent he/she has been. Chances are, coldness crept in because there was little appreciation. Thank your spouse for the small and big things

2. STOP COMPLAINING
Go for about two weeks without complaining and you will see the results. Don't even bring up issues even if they are there

3. APOLOGIZE
You may not think you did wrong, but if your spouse perceives that you did, say sorry. Coldness becomes the norm when people in marriage feel their spouse doesn't care about their feelings, apologizing shows you do care

4. MAKE TIME FOR EACH OTHER
Be in the same room, be in the same place, even if you two will just keep quiet; eventually you will open up. Don't be threatened by the silence. Conversations will not start if you're absent

5. GO PUBLIC
Something about being around people nudges you to be interact with your spouse. Go for a concert, a stand up comedy, a visit to a children's home, a charity walk; form new memories to talk about

6. ASK TO HELP
Ask your spouse if there is any way you may assist; to help with the chores, to help with a task, call your spouse when at the Supermarket and ask "Is there anything you need me to buy?" It shows thoughtfulness

7. PRAY
You'd be amazed how many couples say they want a Godly family and yet they don't pray. Without God, your marriage will lack peace that surpasses all human understanding. Before prayer changes things, it changes us. If you need positive change at home, pray. This praying must be beyond praying for food at the table with the kids because when with children we edit our prayers. Go to your bedroom as a couple and pray

8. PLAY WORSHIP MUSIC
When things are not OK in the marriage the spirit is disturbed, worship music calms the spirit to better nourish the home

9. DO AN ACTIVITY TOGETHER
As your marriage was getting colder, you two drifted apart, find a fun, fulfilling or constructive thing to do together: A chore, a game, an investment, frequent movie dates

10. TOUCH
Go out of your way to touch your spouse, hug, rub the back; it inspires closeness

11. USE LOVING NAMES
Find a loving name to call your spouse: Sweetheart, Darling, Baby and use it often, it automatically warms up the tone of your words

12. GIVE SEXUAL PLEASURE
Finally, having done the above and warmed up to your spouse's heart, strive to give your spouse great sex

13. BE PATIENT
When your marriage is sick and you give it the medicine of love, remember that daily doses of love eventually heals. It will take some time but keep persisting. Love is not an event that.....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/?m=1

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Marriage is good when you have a spouse that makes your blood run. Here are ways to tease your spouse and keep him/ her thirsty for you

1. BUY GOOD BRAS
Ladies, men have a thing for boobs. It does not matter how small or big your breasts are, men have a thing for their shape and nipples. Invest in a good bra, find what works for your breasts. No one else gets to see your breasts, so wear a bra that he will look at and want to UnCloth you

2. WORK OUT WITH YOUR SPOUSE
There is something sexy about jogging, push ups, sit ups, sweat, tight sports wear pants that teases the eyes. Work out with your spouse, he/she will see your body movements as you exercise and desire you

3. SHOW THE FULLNESS OF YOUR CROUCH
Gentlemen, wear a nice fitting boxer, the kind that shows your penis loaded inside. She will see you walking around in it in the bedroom and want to strip you. Yes, women love eye candy too

4. FLIRT ONE THE PHONE
When you are both far from each other, send naughty messages to each other. Stimulate your spouse even when distance separates you. Let it be that when your spouse thinks of making love he/she thinks of you. Grown ups think of love making a lot

5. KISS PLAYFULLY
Don't rush the kisses. Play with the tongue, prolong the kisses. Make your spouse relax

6. GRAB HER BUTT
Whether she has a big or small butt; creep up from behind her as she cooks, works or moves about the house. Women love it when their husband hold and touch them confidently in a way that makes her feel wanted

7. TOUCH THE CENTRE OF HIS PANTS
Dear wife, your husband's penis belongs to you. Out of the blue, place your hand on his pants and rub it gently. Even if he is busy, tease him so that he knows he is about to get some good loving once he is done with work or, he can get some of your good loving then get back to work

8. MAKE OUT
So many married people don't make out, they just go straight into orgasms. Create quality time for making out where you kiss as your hands move on each other's body. Rub, touch, feel. Take your time

9. WHISPER FANTASIES
Whisper into your spouse's ear the things you will do for him/her. It's a shame how so many married people text to other people their sexual fantasies yet they find it difficult to tell them to their spouse. Turn on your spouse, not other men/women

10. MASSAGE
Your fingers are one of the most powerful teasing weapons. Let your spouse lie down and massage him/her. Release all the tension in his/her body then touch the erogenous spots on his/her skin. Notice how he/she gets excited then insist that he/she should relax, you are not yet done

11. BEND OVER IN FRONT OF HIM
Ladies, you have something your husband wants behind you. Deliberately position your butt in front of him. Bend, wear tights when with him, show your curves. Show off your butt to him, he doesn't need the butt of the women walking in the streets

12. BE PLAYFUL
Adults also have games. Let him chase you as he sees your breasts jumping up and down. Lay her down and come on top of her and tell her how beautiful she looks. Blind fold him and place his hands on parts of your body and tell him to guess what part of your body he is touching. Play a game of strip poker

13. SLEEP NAKED
As you two talk, the visible and easy to reach nipples, butt, curves, penis and vagina will be a strong tease

14. MAKE NAUGHTY JOKES
Talk suggestively to your spouse

15. BREATHE ON YOUR SPOUSE
Your voice and how you breathe can be such a turn on

16. PUSH UP YOUR BODY ON HIM
When you two are sleeping, position your butt on his penis, allow him to feel your curve

May your sex life be enjoyable. But remember, all these only work when you treat your spouse well when sex is not involved. How much your spouse finds you sexy depends on how you treat him/her because...https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2024/04/sex-does-size-of-mans-penis-matter.html

1. Don't put anyone above your husband. Your husband comes first in the order of your relationship.

2. Don't deny your husband attention. Sexual and romantic attention is important.

3. Don't meddle into the matters and issues between your husband and his family members. Let him invite you into the matters deliberately.

4. Sacrifice for your children. The office of a mother is an office of progressive and consistent sacrifice.

5. Always be the number one fan of your husband. Nobody should be sincere to your husband than you.

6. Never keep contact with your ex. A careless contact with your ex can end your matrimony.

7. Don't discuss your husband and home with people carelessly. Gossip about your husband with people is a door for intruders.

These are commandments by Papa Zion to help women guard their treasures. Wisdom is the....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2024/04/vital-needs-that-must-be-met-in.html