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Romance / Virginity And Sex On The Wedding Night by LoveUdie: 2:05pm On Jan 17, 2023
Countless virgins have been cajoled into premarital sex on the excuse that sex on the wedding night will be painful and boring and your husband will see you as a disappointment.

First sex will be painful whether before or after marriage. Engaging in it before marriage makes it many times painful because (1) The guy sleeping with you is in a hurry to give himself pleasure and wouldn't want to waste his time being gentle with you. (2) You are torn apart with guilt which makes it double painful -you know you shouldn't be doing it. (3)Your self esteem drops far down as you realized the consequence of what you have done and the regret that you have lost it forever. (4)You are plagued with the fear of unwanted pregnancy and STDs (5) You live in fear of losing the guy.

Sex on the wedding night may give you pain but pleasurable pain and not all virgins even experience pain with their first sex. With good books, godly counsel and genuine love for each other, you can both be taught the process to take to make sex as painless as possible. If at all, you experience pain, it won't be excruciating pain rendering you incapacitated for months. You only have one pain, the pain of breaking the hymen but you gain your pleasure soon afterwards.(1) The pleasure of having waited till your wedding night. (2) The pleasure of giving your husband pleasure (3) The pleasure of winning your husband's pride and trust forever (4) The pleasure of having a solid, sky rocketting self esteem (5)The pleasure of expecting pregnancy without worrying whether your womb has been damaged by the multiple abortions you did before wedding. (5) The pleasure of having no past lover to compare your spouse to. It helps you to thoroughly enjoy sex with your hsband. (6) The pleasure of climaxing easily -you have no hang ups....

Yes! The pleasure of waiting far outweighs the momentary pain you naturally experience with your first sex. Waiting for sex till marriage pays...https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/
Jobs/Vacancies / List Of 10 Jobs You Can Do Without A University Certificate by LoveUdie: 1:33pm On Jan 17, 2023
In a country such as Nigeria, there are different kinds of jobs that do not require a university degree before you start doing them. These jobs range from entry-level positions to skilled trades and can be found in different industries existing in the country.


Here is the list of those jobs you can have access to without a university certificate.

1) Retail Sales Representative. Retail sales representatives work in places like stores, warehouses, and shops, as well as helping customers find products and providing information about the products and their prices. They go through training after being employed, and anyone can comfortably do the job.

2) Customer Service Representative. Customer service representatives are the personnel that interacts with customers to provide information, resolve issues, and process orders on behalf of the organization they are working with. You are given the training after being employed by your...... https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2023/01/list-of-10-jobs-you-can-do-without.html
Romance / Things Women Must Admit by LoveUdie: 6:28am On Jan 15, 2023
1. Most Men cannot have sex exclusively with just one woman, for the rest of their lives. You can ask God why

2. Men are created with varied intimate appetite, some men can do without sex for a year, some cannot do without sex for 2 days. take it or leave it

3. A man who's madly in love with one woman can still have sex with other women but still love his 'woman'. hate me if u like

4. Some of the best husbands have concubines or mistresses, these extra marital affairs play a role in keeping the man sane and free of intimate tensions, especially during mid-life crises. believe it or not (am against men dat are infidelity personify)

5.If your man is just having sex with some sweet sexy teen or babe, WORRY LESS. But, if your man starts making midnight calls, pinging and exchanging text messages with another lady at odd hours, BE VERY WORRIED. I don't agree with this one though *winks*

6. Before you choose your man, ensure he believes in AIDS, STD and protected sex.

7. Most chronic wife beaters are faithful husbands, they hardly have extramarital Affairs.

8. Most 'extra' loving husbands have concubines, these concubines keep the man abreast on new ways of making women happy.

9. Your man's mistress or concubine is most times not interested in you or your home. She has already seen your pictures and those of your kids via your hubby’s phone. She and your hubby just have a intimate understanding or partnership which helps both deal with peculiar individual issues.

10. As a woman, if you go all out in a bid to catch your husband red-handed cheating, you WILL succeed. Then what next? If u listen hard to your domestic servants in their private discussions, u will certainly hear them insult you, so why listen?

11. Judge your man by his responsibilities towards you and the kids, and NOT by who is giving 'doggie style' to him in the office or....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2022/12/10-things-women-love-about-sex-but-are.html
Business / List Of 7 Lucrative Businesses You Can Do Online To Earn Big Profits. by LoveUdie: 9:17am On Jan 13, 2023
As a Graduate resident in Nigeria, one of the mistakes you shouldn't be caught doing is believing you can make millions from your monthly salary received from the government or private companies.

It's important to know that there are Skills that will give you unimaginable profits rather than being just a salary earner. Many of these jobs are done online right from the comfort of your home, and the great news is that they are done as part-time jobs or.....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2023/01/list-of-7-lucrative-businesses-you-can.html
Jobs/Vacancies / 22 Wealth Creation Tools You Must Have In Order To Make Money Online by LoveUdie: 11:37am On Jan 10, 2023
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Jobs/Vacancies / List Of Lucrative Business You Can Begin At Home With Zero Capital. by LoveUdie: 12:10pm On Jan 07, 2023
There's nothing more satisfying than realizing you can sit at home and acquire or make great money for yourself without going through much pressure.
These strategies I will examine here will not make you rich quickly yet can make you live more easily and consistently have some cash in your.....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2023/01/list-of-lucrative-business-you-can.html

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Romance / Before You Get Married, Think About These Things by LoveUdie: 8:31pm On Jan 01, 2023
1. HAVE SOUND VISION FOR YOUR LIFE
You are more than a cook and baby factory. You are on a earth for a purpose. What is your vision, what is your mission? What is your reason for existence?

2. HAVE A SOURCE OF INCOME
If you have no job or business you are doing and you are looking for an ATM man to dump all your financial responsibility on, you will end up a leech, not a wife, a sucker, not a giver, a liability, not an asset, a burden not a burden bearer! Get a job!

3. TAKE CARE OF YOUR BODY
Some ladies are in their twenties and they look close to their graves, why? How many children have you had? Why are you not firm, smart, healthy and attractive? If you have health issues, darling, pray for healing before you get married. With faith you will be healed. If you eat junks, stop the trash and eat healthy food. Too much sugar, red meat, chocolates are not good for you. They are waiting to affect your body in future.

4. LEARN HOW TO ADDRESS A MAN
You don't talk to a man like your errand boy or primary school mate. You talk to him as your head with respect and honour. If you can't respect a man and regard him as the leader in your relationship, forget about marriage darling or you may end up divorced.

5. LEARN HOW TO COOK
See, men don't joke with their stomach. Learn to cook different types of food and soup. Routine food eventually becomes tasteless and uninviting. Men love adventure. Children love adventure. Cooking different types of soup/ food make your husband stay at home and have no need wandering into bukaterias, cafeterias, eateries etc where daughters of Jezebel may seduce and snatch him from you!

6. LEARN ABOUT SEX
Not by practicing for God's sake, you are not yet married. Few months/weeks to your wedding, learn about your sexual anatomy, sexuality, reproductive organs, genitals, etc. Be familiar with your body and prepare for quality sex IN MARRIAGE. I get too many chats from naive, ignorant brides and it gets to me. Some even stay off sex for weeks or months on end after wedding. What's the meaning of that nonsense? If you know you will masturbate or fornicate if you will learn about your sexuality then wait at least 2 weeks to wedding and read! Take a mirror and look at your vagina, labia minora, labia majora, clitoris, vagina entrance, some say if you look close enough you will see your hymen. Each part has its functions in marriage. Get EVERY WOMAN and read. It will help you understand your body better as a woman.

7. BE A PRAYER MACHINE!
A woman who cannot pray is not ready for marriage! Your husband has a great destiny to fulfil, you have a great destiny to fulfil, your children has a great destiny to fulfil and the devil won't fold his arms and watch protect your family by soaking them in prayer! If you are a lazy spiritual bum as a single lady, your prayer life will end up a sorry case after marriage!

Before you become a wife, prepare well so you do not end up a failure or become a.... https:///www.allsinglesandmarried.com

Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!
© Seun Oladele, 2019.

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Autos / Take Notes Of These Insurance Policy Act Before Buying Insurance by LoveUdie: 4:10pm On Dec 31, 2022
The Insurance Agency Act is the essential regulation overseeing all governmental consolidated or enlisted insurance agencies in your country and also....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2022/12/insurance-companies-act.html
Romance / Best Sleeping Habits For Married Couples: by LoveUdie: 1:29pm On Dec 29, 2022
1. Wear something easy to remove, comfortable and sexy. Make the work of your partner easy to peel off your clothes to reveal the naked you. Yummy lingerie, loose boxer. Sleep naked for best results
2. Brush your teeth to encourage kissing
3. Don't carry work to bed
4. Minimize the use of phones or laptops. Your partner needs attention, the bedroom is sacred
5. Move the baby to a separate room (if your finances allow you to and you have a home of more than one bedroom) when the baby is of age. The child might have been conceived in the bedroom but is not meant to live in your bedroom that is an exclusive island for two
6. Gentleman have that one spot besides her lips you kiss each night; whether it's her forehead, fingers, shoulders, back or butt. Lady, stroke him with your gentle touch, your fingers speaking love
7. Make a habit of praising each other's body, it makes you both comfortable and relax. Talk those bedroom matters
8. Pray together before you sleep, and when you wake up
9. Apologize and forgive if any wrong was done during the day. Don't sleep with a grudge or anger
10. Read your partner's body language. If you or your partner desires to make love, then rise to the occasion or wet up to the occasion; whether night or morning glory
11. Have pillow talks, open your heart and lips and talk intimate stuff. Say how you feel; are you troubled, grateful, broken?
12. Cuddle up when you feel sleep is fast approaching, drown into sleep as your bodies intertwine
13. Tell each other how much you mean to each other. Your partner never gets enough of your affirmation
14. Incase one of you farts, laugh about it (some farts are unstoppable)
15. Cover your partner incase you wake up in the middle of the night and find your partner outside the duvet/ blanket
16. Kiss your partner when you come back from peeing in the middle of the night
17. Hold your partner close and pray when your partner wakes up terrified by a nightmare
18. Give a goodnight and goodmorning kiss
19. Spend some few minutes of love in bed even when the alarm wakes you up
20. Carry the love you have for each other even when you leave the bed
© Dayan Masinde

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Romance / How To Break Out Of Spirit Of Porn And Masturbation. by LoveUdie: 3:17pm On Dec 28, 2022
The works of the flesh worked into a habit by consistent engagement are usually confused by many as being demonic. There is no demonic habit, every habit is the product of continuous engagement.
Now beyond dealing with sin, you have a habit to break, and you must also deliberate it and start disengaging by refusing to follow the thoughts and impulse that always precedes the behavior.

I see many people crying out for help to deal with pornography and masturbation, having become bond slaves to the habit, and much-preferring deliverance. Truth is, they have a habit to break, and dismantle.
1. Clean out every porn from your phone.
2. Clear out porn in your mind by speaking to the thoughts every time it arises, and start feeding your mind with wholesome pictures, avoid movies totally while regaining control.

3. Whenever the temptation hits, go out to a public place. If you can not sleep alone, get someone to sleep in the same room as you. Deny the flesh the privacy it needs to trip you. Sleep on the living room sofa, just don't give your flesh the opportunity or privacy it needs.
4. Take your fellowship seriously. Attend all of your church's public meetings, including prayer meetings. Get a good center reference Bible, markers, pen, and jotter, and. Take note copiously in church. Become more responsible as you participate in church meetings and training.
5. Deliberately set a standard for the kind of entertainment you expose your mind and thoughts to. Avoid lewd, lustful entertainment, and anything that stirs you up sexually, the same applies to places and people.

6. You may take an internet fast for as long as is necessary if you find you are always drawn to porn sites.
7. Starve anything and everything that feeds the porn and masturbation habit. Do not seek common grounds, go to higher grounds.
8. In extreme cases, get an accountability partner to pray and share scriptures and strategies for sexual purity for at least thirty days. Just pray together for at least an hour in the Spirit.
9. Play teachings whenever you are alone. Don't let your mind idle. Takes notes of the teaching and pray for as long as you can after the teachings. SOW TO YOUR SPIRIT.

10. Recognize and acknowledge the person and presence of the indwelling Spirit in you. Become very conscious that God is with you, and your body is his temple.
11. Demonic influences are easier to get rid of, than habits. So you must persist, and take it one day at a time. If you can win one day, you can win every other day.
12. You should consider marriage if you are ready spiritually, physically, materially, and financially. It makes no sense to have all it takes to marry and remain single, while you "burn."

13. Avoid anyone who is sexually loose, and constitutes a source of weakness/temptation. Persons whose presence exploits you sexually, and induces the need to masturbate to release the tension in your loins.
14. Engage yourself in work! If you are unemployed, go out and acquire a skill, learn a craft. Pick up an activity that engages your mind and your hands. Don't ever be idle for any reason. Be creatively, and productively busy.
15. In your journey back to sexual sanity, restoring your capacity to control and tame your flesh, do not despair at any lapse. Keep the journey on, and know that you are forgiven, but you have to work out your salvation in this area with all diligence.

16. Don't pay attention to Satan's condemnation. As you work and walk toward recovery. Keep up your spiritual momentum. Pray in the Spirit, even though you feel unworthy, and very stained, just keep at it. Don't drop out of the church.
17. Don't just stop watching porn, start cleansing your imagination and thoughts of porn stored in your memory by watching teaching and worship videos.

Every time you are tempted to watch porn, watch short teaching instead, or a worship video. Do this with the same commitment you gave to watching porn.
You will begin to notice that the porn that has written itself into your imaginations and thoughts will become displaced and replaced with words of life.
When you format a storage device, you can still recover everything from the memory, but when you format and store new data, the new data will replace the old, and can ever be recovered! That's how to erase your mental hard drive of every porn you have watched and.....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com
Romance / 10 Things Women Love About Sex But Are Afraid To Tell You by LoveUdie: 1:25pm On Dec 26, 2022
So you won't see them as cheap, ignore them, disregard their feelings or outright reject them (rejection hurts like hell!) This can make a woman break down emotionally, become frigid, hate sex and see herself as worthless.

Sexual rejection from a husband can make a woman see herself as less desirable and ruin her self-esteem by 80%! One of the ways you can boost your wife's self-esteem is to make her know she is super hot, super sexy, and sexually desirable to you.
Why is your wife cold in bed and doesn't respond sexually to you? Why does she hate sex? Why is she frigid? It could be because you don't know these 10 things and she is sick or afraid of telling you. Get to know them now and set her loose from all the.....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2022/12/10-things-women-love-about-sex-but-are.html

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Romance / The 3 Stages Of Marriage That Are Unavoidable To All by LoveUdie: 12:04pm On Dec 17, 2022
I usually advise couples especially those who married young or those whose courtships were very short (I do not encourage short courtship) to wait at least a year before having a baby.
Marriage is more than punching out babies! Marriage is friendship, companionship, partnership, and helping each other build your future. You can put the baby on hold, build friendship, and set a solid foundation for marriage. I waited almost 2 years before having my first son. It was a beautiful stage of my married life. I never really wanted it to end but of course, you have to move to the next stage:

2) CHILD-BEARING STAGE: There is joy in parenting. There is an ecstasy in knowing you can impregnate your wife and that you as a wife can carry a baby in your womb. That feeling is something I can't describe. You feel happy, you feel complete. You feel like a real man, you feel like a complete woman. However, childbearing comes with lots of responsibilities and if not handled with wisdom will throw the family into crises. From the day the child is born, your role expands, and your.....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2021/06/3-stages-of-marriage-that-are.html

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Romance / She Wants To Test My Penis Before Accepting To Marry Me by LoveUdie: 8:01pm On Dec 11, 2022
I WILL TEST HIM BEFORE I MARRY HIM!

Some guys have told me it is not only guys who ask for sex in relationships.

Some ladies also ask and end the relationship if the guy says NO!

Some ladies are professional penis testers!

She wants to know if his penis is working in perfect condition, if it is big enough and if the guy has the capacity to go ten rounds in bed!

So there goes minister of public penis performance!

She has tested almost every guy she dated till she lost count! When she got tired, they got tired or both, she gets "born again" and bring the little remaining part of her, probably worn out, used, non elastic, un pleasurable and second hand left over into the marriage to an innocent man who had been keeping himself for years!

You have no business testing any penis before you get married!

You don't need to have sex with him to prove his potency!

You don't need to seduce his destiny to destruction to know how good he can perform in bed!

Ask God to give you a potent man and He will.
Be honest in your conversations and your partner will be honest with you.

If he has sexual problems, he will tell you, both of you can see a marriage counselor and you will be taught what to do.

If you are both best of friends, sexual chemistry will be high for each other and love making IN MARRIAGE will be passionate!

You don't need to have sex with all the men that come your way to prove sexual compatibility.
That makes you a LovePeddler not a good wife material.
Stop disgracing yourself little sis.
Words go round.

Very soon men will avoid you or refuse to marry you because you have slept with all the men that came into your life!

It does not dignify!
May you not lose your dignity!
May your own soul mate locate you!
Romance / I'm Having Sex With Him Because He Gives Me Money... by LoveUdie: 7:48pm On Dec 11, 2022
She sent me this:

"Good evening Ma, ma please keep my identity hidden. Ma, please I am from a single parent home and I don't really have much resources to care for myself. Ma, I met this guy and he is very nice and he gives me cash but he wants me to be friends with benefits with him. I have to sleep with him Ma, he has a girlfriend who is pregnant for him but I am having feelings for him and the money he gives me helps me a whole lot as a student. Ma, he offers good advice and he is very nice and if I stop being Friends with him I don't know if I will ever a guy such as him or if I will ever get the kind of assistance I get from him. Ma, am confused sooo confused...If I try God's way and cut him off how will I get money to take care of myself?

Ma, it's very confusing and I don't know what to do my mum can only afford 1meal a day and can't pay for my textbooks and stuffs I don't have financial assistance from anywhere."

Hmmm....she wished to end the relationship but wants to know how she can survive and eat daily. Will God buy her the text books and give her food if she follows Him?

Advise desperately needed my people. No insult please!

Help this lady out of her confusion! How can she survive without giving out sex in return for money or ..... https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com
Romance / Are You Missing Your Lover? by LoveUdie: 1:52pm On Dec 10, 2022
Have you ended an unwanted relationship yet you are missing your lover terribly? You are human, naughty things often happen to human beings.

Like a flash, you remembered those heart to heart talks, the sweet nothings, compliments, admiration, praise, help etc and your soul long to have that experience back though the relationship is wrong and you know it will ruin you if you go back? Like I said, we are humans and unplanned things sometimes happen!

Perhaps it is the sex you missed, the romance, the cuddles, the touch and hugs, you are human, it is understandable.

Not withstanding, you must call your head back home! Temptations start with ideas, thoughts and imaginations, that's where you defeat it. You don't allow it to take root, you uproot it immediately! You get up from your couch, settee or sofa, pace around, pray in the spirit, say some positive words into your life until every evil thought leaves you.

If you are missing your lover boy/mistress terribly as a married person, deal with it. That is not the time to run towards your lover but towards your spouse!

Learn to face reality. This relationship won't do you any good that is why you ended it, don't go back to your vomit.

Pre-marital sex and extra-marital sex are some of the most damaging things you you can do in your relationship! You create soul tie that keeps haunting you years after the relationship has ended. It is the reason you are missing the sex and cuddles. Avoid illicit sex like plague! Never be caught dead in it!

Fill your mind daily with the word. When your mind is renewed you will not entertain sin and lust.

You will not fall into sexual temptation in Jesus' name. God bless you. Cheers!

© Seun Oladele (a repost).

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Romance / Re: Man Depressed After Being Dumped By A Lady He Sponsored Through School (video) by LoveUdie: 4:04pm On Dec 06, 2022
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Romance / What Do You Call This Type Of Relationship? by LoveUdie: 3:42pm On Dec 06, 2022
You are legally married and you are this close to the opposite sex, it is not friendship, it is not mentoring, it is not a partnership, it is not business, it is not counseling and prayer, it is LUST! Let's call a spade a spade and stop confusing emotion up and down!
You are lusting after that man/woman. You have crossed all boundaries in your mind and you want them in bed!
You are going to ruin your marriage for good, sorry, for worse!
Your life will end up broken, damaged, and shattered!

Same for singles who are engaged yet close to their EX or keep an intimate, close friendship with the opposite sex!
Singles who get to this level with the opposite sex are playing with the devil and he will hurt you badly! That guy is dangerous, don't you dare play with him. Satan is not nice, okay?
Say NO to all tempting environments/relationships.
Say NO to pre-marital and extra-marital sex.
Say NO to the devil.
Don't waste your spiritual life.
Don't waste your courtship.
Don't waste your future.
Don't waste your destiny!
© Seun Oladele, 2019; updated, reposted, 2022
Romance / How To Enjoy Love Making With Your Partner by LoveUdie: 2:08pm On Dec 06, 2022
You are having sex if you only join your sexual organs. You are making love if your spirit, soul, body, affection, tenderness, respect, honor, and admiration is involved in the sex! You are renewing your love over and over again when you affectionately pour all of yourself into your spouse!
The reason for so many cheating and sexual affairs is most couples, about 90% are having sex, not making love and sex alone does not satisfy. Just going in and coming out does not satisfy! Using your spouse's body as a sexual release does not satisfy you!!! Orgasm in itself alone does not satisfy!
What really satisfies is the fact that you are wanted, needed, desired, admired, deeply respected, appreciated, honored, and celebrated. When you feel this way with each other you want to express yourself at the deepest level, you want to make love over and over again, you are renewing your love!
Only your soul mate can make you enjoy sex! Only God's will for your life can really bond with you. You only feel secure around a person who gives you peace and Only the will of God in marriage can give you peace. When you have peace, joy, and spiritual oneness in marriage, sexual enjoyment naturally follows!

All sex outside marriage is abuse! Every pre-marital sex is an abuse of your body, you are not making love, you are making trouble! You are creating a disaster! You are playing with fire! If you eventually marry your partner in crime, that sex won't last because you ain't in love, you married out of lust! Love is patient and willing for marriage to have sex; lust steals sex from you without paying the bride price. You are seen as a sex object before marriage, you will continue to be a sex object after marriage!
Marrying God's will is the best choice you will make in your life. Don't let the devil cheat you out of God's will due to impatience and desperation!

Peace is an acid test of God's will. Amos 3:3 is a sign you are flowing together!
Learn self-control before marriage. Keep your virginity till marriage. Stop having sex. Marry a spouse who celebrates, honors cherishes and totally adores you. You will enjoy making love over and over again. I hope you understand and that you also......https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com

God bless you.
Cheers! By Seun Oladele
Romance / 10 Signs Your Partner Is Secretly Unhappy by LoveUdie: 12:21pm On Dec 06, 2022
Secret unhappiness can gradually wreck a relationship; it’s important to be observant of when your partner is secretly unhappy, as it’s best to resolve issues when it first arises.
If you are observant, there are so many signs your partner lets out when he / she is secretly unhappy.
1. GIVES PHONE MORE ATTENTION
When your partner spends more time on his / her phone and gives it more attention than you, it’s a sign that your partner is secretly unhappy with you and is using the phone as a short-term replacement for you.
2. BECOMES QUIETER
This is another possible sign that your partner is secretly unhappy. People let out this sign when they are secretly unhappy or when are up to something. If your partner cuts communication with you drastically and become quieter, then it’s a sign your partner is secretly unhappy.
3. GIVES SHORT ONE-WORD RESPONSES
This is more like a defence mechanism people use to avoid talking about a subject or to show disinterest. When your partner starts giving short one-word responses then it’s a sign your partner is secretly unhappy.stale
4. SEX BECOMES STALE
Sex can also be an indicator for secret unhappiness. When your partner becomes unresponsive to sex or avoids sex totally then this is an obvious sign that your partner is secretly unhappy. Sex needs a huge amount of connection to be enjoyed, but when there is no sexual connection, it could be as a result of your partner being secretly unhappy.
5. CUTS OFF COMMUNICATION
A couple in harmony communicates well; however, when communication gets cut off immediately, it’s a sign that your partner is secretly unhappy. Communication can rarely go hand in hand with unhappiness.
6. BECOMES LESS AFFECTIONATE
When your usually romantic partner becomes less caring, less affectionate and less loving, it’s a huge indicator that something is terribly wrong, and your partner is secretly unhappy.
7. SUDDEN CHANGE IN BODY LANGUAGE
Body language can also show everything. If you are observant enough, you would notice a change in your partner’s body language. Change in body language could be shown in the reaction and communication of your partner, facial expressions expression and overall general behaviour. A change in body language from positive to negative could be a sign that your partner is holding some grudges in mind.
8. BECOMES DISRESPECTFUL
This is also another probable sign that your partner is secretly unhappy. When your partner becomes rude and disrespectful to you all of a sudden, it could be as a result of a grudge or a secret unhappiness that’s troubling his / her mind.
9. KEEPS THINGS FROM YOU
When partners are comfortable and happy with each other, they would tell each other things and rarely keep secrets; but the same cannot be said when one partner becomes unhappy secretly — this could make your partner withdraw and keep things away.
10. IS DISTRACTED
When your partner becomes distracted and pays less attention to you; rather than spend time with you, such a partner would spend time doing less important things. Distraction could be as a result of budding unhappiness in the relationship.
These signs show that your partner is secretly unhappy, and it’s best to solve this little crisis at this beginning stage, before it escalates and harm your relationship or... https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com
Romance / Re: What Is That One Thing That Might Make You Cheat On Your Partner? by LoveUdie: 5:09pm On Dec 03, 2022
Kollins11:
When I think about king Solomon i always want to cheat more.

I mean.. If king Solomon can have 1000 women to himself (700 wives and 300 concubines) then why can't Collins have over 2000 women to himself too.

The way I go cheat on wife/girlfriends eehh! na only death go fit stop me. Even God no fit deliver me.

By the time you face a terrific life issue then you will run to God to deliver you.
Cheating is dangerous bro.
Even King Solomon later regretted all his cheating lifestyle before he died

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Romance / 12 Ways To Make Your Boyfriend Fall In Love With You by LoveUdie: 3:19pm On Nov 28, 2022
Getting a guy to be with you in a relationship is one thing, but knowing how to make him fall in love is a different thing. There are reasons why you fall for a certain person and once you understand the rules of attraction, you’ll be the master of making guys fall for you.
Now, if you are not sure how to make your boyfriend fall in love with you, just follow the tips below and you might soon get the desired results.

Smile and be happy.
As much as possible, don’t forget to enjoy yourself and let it show. The happier you are, the more your boyfriend will be drawn to your positive vibes. Flash a genuine smile often, be enjoyable and outgoing, laugh at his jokes, and be optimistic. Guys generally love girls with a sense of humor who can make them feel good

Be kind and considerate.
Always say “Thank You” in every little thing he does for you, compliment him, give him time, or lend him a helping hand. Showing your kind personality will increase your boyfriend’s affection for you.

Give him physical touch.
Physical touch is the most important part of love. Your touch would be incredibly exciting for the guy you love. Give him tight and long-lasting hugs, and passionate kisses, or hold his hands in public. This will not only make your guy happier and feel loved, but it will also lower his anxiety, improve his mood, and relieve his stress.

Ask him about his day.
Asking your boyfriend how his day went shows how much you care about him, but listening to his response proves how much you love him. This only serves as a simple reminder to him that someone cares about both the big and small aspects of his day.

Be a woman who appreciates him.
A guy simply wants you to appreciate all his efforts for you. That’s really not a lot to ask. So, if you want him to see the best in you and fall hopelessly in love with you, the one thing you can do is to appreciate him and don’t ever take him for granted. As much as possible, compliment him, show him respect, encourage his outside interests, thank him, give him time, and remind him about small imperfections but focus on his good qualities.

Accept him just as he is.
If you want your guy to fall in love with you, accept him whole for who he is right now. Do not treat him to some kind of project that needs to be fixed. Instead, just accept the fact that he is not perfect, he commits mistakes, and he has flaws.

Show your affection.
Sometimes, you have to show your love and adoration for someone through your gestures. You can do this by making a point to really listen to him, doing something kind for him every day, making time no matter how busy you are, verbally affirming that you care for him, supporting him, and by remembering that physical touch can say a lot (same as what I’ve mentioned in #3).

Bring out the best in him
Guys want a girl who can encourage them to go for their passion. When you bring out the best in him, he’ll feel amazing and he’ll want to be around you. Focus on his strength, intelligence, wisdom, and courage, and believe in him more than he believes in himself.

Make yourself look beautiful
Looking your best will give him the attention that you need to make him fall in love with you. Most guys act on what they see. So, be aware of what you’re wearing, whether your hair is nice or dry, and if you are dressed appropriately. Just do your best to look as good as you can, no matter where you’re going. Your guy will definitely love you for that.

Be yourself.
Take your mask off and let him know that you accept yourself as you are. Your boyfriend wouldn’t want to see the fake you. Besides if you do end up with that person for the rest of your life, he’ll eventually going to see the real you. So, if you want him to stay madly in love with you, be yourself right from the start. Your authenticity breeds deep intimacy, which is something both guys and girls crave.

Try to be the best version of yourself.
In connection to #10, being true to yourself will make your boyfriend fall for you because of your honesty and humility in accepting your flaws. It will also give him the confidence he needs to trust you. However, if you want him to constantly fall in love with you now and forever, don’t just be contented with being who you currently are, especially if you have negative habits and attitudes that might exhaust his patience in the future. Instead, show him that you are making efforts to grow as a person for your boyfriend and for your relationship.
If he loves you, he will surely accept you for who you really are despite your flaws and differences. However, if you want him to love you more and make your relationship last longer, strive to make yourself truly better. It will definitely make your boyfriend realize that you are not just thinking for yourself, but you are also thinking for him and the future of your relationship.

Just love him.
Last but not the least, just love him from the bottom of your heart. Love naturally attracts love. So no matter what you do to make him fall in love with you, you can never succeed if you don’t fall in love with him first. You don’t have to expect your boyfriend to fall in love with you in return. So just give your pure and tender love to him and it will naturally trigger his hidden or unreleased love for you so that.....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com
Health / Best Ways To Boost Your Immune System And Make It Stronger. by LoveUdie: 2:53pm On Nov 22, 2022
Numerous items on store racks guarantee to lift or support invulnerability. In any case, the idea of helping resistance really has neither rhyme nor reason deductively. Truth be told, helping the number of cells in your body — resistant cells or others — isn't really something to be thankful for. For instance, competitors who participate in "blood doping" — siphoning blood into their frameworks to help their number of platelets and improve their presentation — risk strokes and other illnesses such as....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2022/11/best-ways-to-increase-your-immune.html
Romance / Sweetest Sex In Marriage. Strictly For The Married Couples by LoveUdie: 4:00pm On Nov 21, 2022
I've always said it and I'll keep saying it, 80% of sex is about communication. Don't just pounce on your wife and hammer away, communicate. I'm sure you must have heard about "Love Language", develop your own sex language. A code that is only understood by you and your wife.

1) Have a way of hinting to Her about sex. Those days when we just got married Mrs. O and I use to have a sex language.
The moment I tell her, "there's going to be a crusade tonight oh". She understands. Then she will sometimes say, "You and crusade are you not tired?"
I'll respond like, "Souls must be won into the kingdom, and the kingdom of God must be populated oh"
She'll say, "I hope you have prepared your message"
I'll say, "I'm working on it, I'm not satisfied with the number of souls won the last time, we must win more souls and....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2022/11/sweetest-sex-in-marriage-strictly-for.html

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Romance / Help Me! My Wife Kneel Down While Serving My Food by LoveUdie: 1:14pm On Nov 21, 2022
I have been married for 6 months now. Since we got married, My beautiful wife kneels down when she greets me even in public☹️. She serves my food kneeling down. This looks odd to me sir. I have told her with love to stop that village habit but she said that's how she's been trained!
Her parents are happily married for 40 years and that's how her mother still relates to her father.
Me, I grew up in a home where my father and mother hug each other while greeting
What can I do to stop her from doing that? I love my wife. I want a friend as a wife so that......https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2022/11/5-ways-to-emotional-mentally-spiritual.html
Romance / 4 Signs That Show The One You Seriously Love Doesn't Love You by LoveUdie: 5:48pm On Nov 17, 2022
1) THEY DON'T MAKE YOU A PRIORITY. When you love someone, you don't give them attention in your SPARE TIME, rather you SPARE TIME for them no matter how busy your schedule is.
When everything and everyone else comes before you, their family, their job, their career, their friends, their hobbies....... Smell the coffee.
They don't love you enough as they claim.
2) THEY DON'T MAKE COMMUNICATION A BIG DEAL. Someone who loves you wants to talk to you, hear you, DAILY.
That someone can do without hearing from you for as much as a day or worse with no reasonable reason is a sign that they aren't as into you as you or they think.
3) THEY ARE ONLY THERE WHEN THEY NEED YOU. You are willing to do anything to make them happy, but you'll find out they aren't equally willing to do the same for you.
They'd make excuses why they can't do this...... Why they can't do that, why they can't be there, why they can't give you... That you should try and understand... That's a lie, they.....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2022/08/4-ways-to-build-foundation-for.html
Romance / Confused People's Syndrome by LoveUdie: 1:32pm On Nov 17, 2022
"I love you truly, but I had a girlfriend before I met you, I don't love her, please accept me, it's you I love, I'll soon break up with her"
What figure speech is this?
Please counsel any Person who tells you this kind of nonsense that they need to go for deliverance.
You love me but you're already in a Relationship, so what should I do? I should be dating you with 50 other People.
Confused People Syndrome (CPS)
And some ladies will accept such a proposal, and be waiting for their uncle to break up with his girlfriend so they can inherit him.
Dear Lady,
Be Wise
If he has any issues with his girlfriend, he should sort them out. Everything is not solved by waking out. Even Marriage has issues
If the relationship is past sorting out, he should end it BEFORE starting another one, that's what responsible people do. It's simple courtesy and respect.
Disrespect and Disloyalty a Lifestyle.
If he can't respect his current girlfriend and is willing to double date you and her, why do you think he'll respect you should you become his girlfriend tomorrow?
Don't be the girl a guy cheats on his girlfriend with.
(C)Musa Gift
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As for me and my house, we shall not be side chics and second girlfriends. We will not shame God and our....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2022/11/5-ways-to-emotional-mentally-spiritual.html
Romance / 3 Lies You Should Not Allow To Influence Your Life. by LoveUdie: 1:03pm On Nov 17, 2022
1) You need to be Fair in complexion to attract Suitors.
This is a lie from the middle belt of hellfire.
Many ladies have resorted to bleaching their beautiful God-given black, melanin-pumping glowing skin just to become fair.
You see some of them, the fingers/knuckles and legs look like that of Esau, and the face will look like that of Jacob. You think we don't know. Continue....
Dear Black Beauty, you don't need to become White as SNOW, just look good and GLOW, combine with plenty of sense and character, and the proposals will FLOW.
Black is Beautiful. Fair is Beautiful. Be You.
2) You need big breasts and big behind to attract Suitors.
This particular Lie is from the Logistics department of Hell.
"One Man's Salary is another Man's Tithe."
Some like slim/small (portable) ladies, and some like chubby/big ladies.
Even If statistics show that majority of Men love chubby/big Ladies, are you going to Marry Majority of Men?
You will only marry ONE Man.. ONE!!!
So the preference of the Majority shouldn't be your headache.
What you need is a man that is IN-LOVE with you, not a man IN-LUST with you. So why do you feel those should be your selling point?
3) You need to show some flesh.
Nope.. Indecency is not the Way out.
You don't need to do an advert of your body before someone will pick interest in you for Marriage.
Garri doesn't do an advert, yet it sells.
Don't walk about half-naked because you want to attract suitors, are you looking for someone to seduce or someone to love you?
Dress decently, we know you got it. Cover it.
(c) Musa Gift.
***************
Dear Lady.
Resist inferiority Complex.
Love Yourself, Be Happy, Be You.
Dress Decently.
Don't forget, Jesus Loves You so so much and you maybe....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2022/11/5-ways-to-emotional-mentally-spiritual.html
Romance / 3 Lies You Should Not Allow To Influence Your Life. by LoveUdie: 12:55pm On Nov 17, 2022
1) You need to be Fair in complexion to attract Suitors.
This is a lie from the middle belt of hellfire.
Many ladies have resorted to bleaching their beautiful God-given black, melanin-pumping glowing skin just to become fair.
You see some of them, the fingers/knuckles and legs look like that of Esau, and the face will look like that of Jacob. You think we don't know. Continue....
Dear Black Beauty, you don't need to become White as SNOW, just look good and GLOW, combine with plenty of sense and character, and the proposals will FLOW.
Black is Beautiful. Fair is Beautiful. Be You.
2) You need big breasts and big behind to attract Suitors.
This particular Lie is from the Logistics department of Hell.
"One Man's Salary is another Man's Tithe."
Some like slim/small (portable) ladies, and some like chubby/big ladies.
Even If statistics show that majority of Men love chubby/big Ladies, are you going to Marry Majority of Men?
You will only marry ONE Man.. ONE!!!
So the preference of the Majority shouldn't be your headache.
What you need is a man that is IN-LOVE with you, not a man IN-LUST with you. So why do you feel those should be your selling point?
3) You need to show some flesh.
Nope.. Indecency is not the Way out.
You don't need to do an advert of your body before someone will pick interest in you for Marriage.
Garri doesn't do an advert, yet it sells.
Don't walk about half-naked because you want to attract suitors, are you looking for someone to seduce or someone to love you?
Dress decently, we know you got it. Cover it.
(c) Musa Gift.
***************
Dear Lady.
Resist inferiority Complex.
Love Yourself, Be Happy, Be You.
Dress Decently.
Don't forget, Jesus Loves You so so much and you maybe....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2022/11/5-ways-to-emotional-mentally-spiritual.html

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Romance / The Crimes Many Married People Commit Against The Success Of Their Marriage. by LoveUdie: 2:09pm On Nov 16, 2022
1. Turning too many people for marital advice thereby becoming confused
2. Treating visitors more warmly than family members, making family members feel unfairly treated
3. Respecting the Pastor, Bishops, celebrities, and public figures more than they treat their spouse

4. Praising other children more than their children; speaking harshly to their children while speaking with a loving tone to other children
5. Working so hard for the family yet forgetting to spend quality time with the family they are......https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2022/11/the-crimes-many-married-people-commit.html

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