I've been happily married for years now but issues started when several years passed and she was unable to get pregnant. We tried all we could and she went for several doctor's appointments to no avail. They kept saying she was fine but yet she couldn't get pregnant. I am the only male child of my parents so of course everyone expects me to produce a child to continue our family legacy. My mom and sister started antagonizing my wife for this and I did my best to support her from their attacks but with time, I started getting fed up with her. I knew the issue wasn't from me because my ex girlfriend had gotten pregnant and given birth to a baby boy for me two years before I met my wife. The only thing was that the baby died at four years and six months. My wife however had told me about the abortions she had in her university days so I knew this was a repercussion of what she had done. I was considering taking my parents advice and getting a second wife when something happened. We were in the middle of an argument one day and I told my wife if she hadn't been wayward and done what she did, her womb wouldn't be rejecting babies. She counter attacked and said I was talking bullshit and might be shooting blanks because for all she knows, the issue could be from me. I laughed in her face and called her silly because why did I have no problem impregnating my ex who was on birth control but couldn't get her my wife pregnant. Out of spite, l decided to get tested and went to the hospital. I couldn't wait to rub it in her face when I was proven right. Well I was in for a surprise. Unfortunately, according to the doctor's, I have some prostrate issues which have rendered me sterile over time. It could have been avoided if it had been discovered earlier but it has developed fully and so even though I could have sexual intercourse, I can't father a child. I was ashamed and didn't disclose this to my wife or anyone. Knowing the fault is from me, I stopped pressuring my wife and asked my mother to stop harassing her. I brought up the idea of adoption to my wife annoyed told her I have decided it will be best if we can get a child from an orphanage since we weren't seeing any signs of a child coming our way anytime soon. She agreed happily. Anyway, I came home from work a few weeks later to see my wife grinning from ear to ear. She rushed towards me with a piece of paper and I read it, and it said she was pregnant. My smile faded immediately. I realized that this woman had actually been cheating on me. She asked me why I didn't seem happy about the pregnancy and l immediately blew up at her and asked why she was trying to pin another man's pregnancy on me. She asked me what I was talking about and I told her that the baby couldn't be mine. She got angry and started shouting at me, telling me I was a horrible human being for saying that. She asked me why I had pressured her into getting pregnant and now that God had finally done it for us, I was trying to accuse her of what she knows nothing about. That was when I dropped the bombshell on her that I am actually sterile and cannot father a child. The situation escalated from there. She started insulting me, calling me a bastärd, all sorts of names and asked how I could do this to her. She mentioned how I had pressured her for years when I knew I was the one at fault. I immediately corrected that and told her I had only known for four months now. She cried and told me it didn't matter because if I had actually told her the truth,she wouldn't have had the affair with the man because she had only started having that affair just three months ago. I told her it doesn't excuse what she'd done and that I would never forgive her. She looked at me amused and laughed. That was when she told me she didn't need my forgiveness. She said I had made the choice easier for her. The man had asked her to leave me and marry him but she had been skeptical. She removed her wedding ring and threw it at me. Then she went upstairs to call him and pack some of her things to leave. I watched her leave without a word. She wanted to come back to take the rest of her things later on but I refused her entry into the house and she told me she'd see me in court. l got a Court summons in a mail the day before yesterday and a letter from her saying her lawyer would be in touch for the divorce proceedings. I have been in a state of shock ever since. I can't believe she'd do this to me and the worst part is her family are aware and in support. How do I begin to pick up the pieces of my life? I know she doesn't deserve my forgiveness but I want her back. I can't start over with someone else. Please advise me.

Good morning, I keep suspecting my girl has been sleeping with my younger brother. both of them are the age mates. Some times I always leave both of them at home, I don't know how true is it . One day I came back to the house and saw a broken part of a condom on the toilet seat. I asked my brother how come he said he didn't bring in any woman. l asked my girl if he brought in a woman she said no. After some time I confronted my girl if she was having something to do with my brother. My girl doesn't like to wear things that reveal her body. but I can see that she can comfortably wear anything in front of my bro even while cooking, that alone aroused more of my suspicions. Though I don't have evidence l just asked her because I needed to clear my mind but at the same time the thought kept coming back . I was expecting us to have serious íssues when I asked her but she didn't even react. At this point I don't know what to do or say. Please I need advice on how to handle this situation. The thought is still in my mind. How do I get through this ?

Why is your woman not happy with you? Why is she easily angry, irritable, depressed, frustrated and very bitter towards you? Why did she lose respect for you in marriage? Why is she so emotionally unhappy, hates s€x and lost her charm?

1. YOU DON'T APPRECIATE /COMPLEMENT HER.

Some men are perfect complainers and critics. They believe praising a woman will make her head swell and misbehave, even when she s slaving to death, they will rather attack, abuse, complain, criticize than appreciate her. If you are that type of man, you can never have a happy woman under your roof. A simple "Thank you"," You are doing a great job", "It's great having you in my life" will do a great magic and turn your marriage around. Learn to appreciate & complement your wife when she goes out of her way to please you. She will be happy and that gloom in your marriage will automatically disappear.

2. YOU DON'T LISTEN TO HER.

Women are communication beings. I mean women love to talk, be listened to and well understood. When you are too busy to communicate with her, too reluctant to look into her eyeballs and let her know she is the most important person to you after God, you will have a frustrated, depressed wife. Women understand you can be so busy and needs time to unwind and think, yes! Women know, but don't make it a habit of ignoring your wife. She needs you to talk to her daily.

3. YOU CHEAT ON HER.

Cheating is the most painful treatment you can give to a woman. Chasing side chicks, having emotional/sexual chats with other women on social media & your neighborhood may make your wife lose her mind. When you cheat on your wife, you have disrespected her, when you cheat on your wife, you have killed her emotionally no matter how much you give to her, when you cheat on your wife, you devalue her. When you cheat on your wife, you make her vulnerable to infection & deadly diseases. When you cheat on your wife, sex will no longer be intimate but a duty. No wife will ever be happy with an adulterous man. Stop it now and work on your marriage or you may end up divorced.

4. YOU DON'T ADMIRE HER.

Some men will look at their very beautiful wife, acknowledge her beauty and attractiveness but to open their mouth and say it is a big problem. Some men need to be taught how to admire their women. Learn to open your mouth and tell your wife she's beautiful daily. No man out there should do that for you, it's your job. Admire her when she makes effort to look good for you. Admire her hair, body and natural endowments. Admire her uniqueness. Open your mouth and tell her. Women need to hear this as often as possible.

5. YOU RUSH IN AND OUT OF S£X.

Just Little or no pre-intimacy will leave her dry and uninterested. Rushing in and rushing out of Vaginàl is a killér of sexual intimacy in marriage. Learn to be romantic. Be patient with her, take things slowly till she is ready for intercourse. Do not pick your trouser and leave her on the bed, Do not roll over and sleep when it is over. Pull her close to your arms. Cuddle & make her feel your warmth embrace. Let her sleep in your arms. There is nothing as blissful as letting your wife sleep in your arms.

6. YOU DON'T ASSIST WITH CHORES.

You sit in front of TV with remote in hand and tooth pick in your mouth while your wife is slaving in the kitchen, with one hand changing diapers, helping your kids with assignment, answering phone calls from clients, sweeping the apartment, preparing for the next day work. That's very bad. Your wife works as much as you do if not more but always come back home to meet dirty dishes & clothes waiting for her any day she returns. Learn to assist your woman at home. Don't turn her to your maid, don't watch her die of stress, don't make her look older than you.

7. YOU COMPARE HER WITH OTHER WOMEN.

That's a shame. If you love her the way those women's husbands love them, she will be more virtuous than them all. Stop comparing your wife with women you don't know their weaknesses. If their husband's tell you their other side they have been enduring you will thank God for yours. Stop being covetous. Work on your marriage and have a better wife.

8. YOU CORRECT HER IN PUBLIC.

Nothing embarrasses a woman more like her husband correcting or shouting at her in a public place. It is demeaning and very babyish. Every form of correction should take place in the house before stepping out and if at all you must correct as a matter of urgency, call her aside and speak to her softly, maturely and discreetly. You will earn her honour for protecting her image, she will respect you more and be happy with you.

9. YOU LISTEN TO YOUR MOTHER AGAINST HER.

This is wrong. You are not joined to your mother but your wife. You are not one with your mother but your wife. Some men don't understand the language of leaving and cleaving. You leave every form of emotional intimacy with your parents and bond with your wife. You should talk first to your wife not your mum when making decisions. Both of you should speak with one voice to your mum. Some men even leave the home running of their marriage to the mother and treat their wife like slaves in her marriage. No woman will ever be happy with you in that kind of arrangement -never!

10. YOU DON'T TAKE FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITIES.

How can a woman ever be happy with a husband who spends all his money on himself, strange women and his extended family members and little or nothing on his wife and children. These men appear nice, very generous, Philanthropic outside but inside, the woman is suffering, hungry and indebted. The rent is in arrears, children are sent home for school fees, debtors are harassed to bless him, but the tears of the wife and children are cursing him. Your wife's curse will work faster than all the supposed blessings you expect from your eye service. Charity begins at home. Your wife and children are more important than others. Take care of them first before taking care of outsiders. When your family is happy, well fed and clothed, they will be happy and bless you. People will bless you for helping you. God will also bless you abundantly.

Learn to put first things first. When your wife is happy with you, your life will run smoothly, doors of favour will open to you and you will increase in health, wealth and prosperity.

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She rejected you when her pussy was still very tight, when her boobs was still standing as tall as the wall of Jericho.

She rejected you when she was at her prime age, when she was still fresh, ripe and innocent.

She was ruthless in making that decision to dump and reject you for the older men just because she feels you are too small and incapable to date her.

She refused to settle down for less and was so intentionally diligent to stand rigid with that decision.

Now she has been used to the point where she has expired, everything that was fresh and lively has deteriorated to the point of no return, she has virgina has been elasticated to the point where Hook's law has been made ineffective, it can't return back.

She has been used, reused, smashed, pierced, repierced, overused, overlap, destroyed and scattered, she has lost taste and is now sour.

Now she has hit the wall and wants to use you has her escape route when you are in your prime.

In her darkness she wants you to be her light,

Bro, run for your life, don't hesitate to reject her.

If she didn't see you fit to date you in her prime, why should you see her fit to date you in your prime??

You deserve better.

Don't be deceived by their cheap emotional blackmail.

Don't be deceived by their fair skin, behind that skin is an old hoe, prostitute, akunakuna.

Its more of when they have hit the wall that the usually get the best organic cream to help cover their old carcass, they want to look more fresh so they can catch a young innocent prey.

It's a trap, look well before you leap.

Women are deceptive.

Don't pity her, she will come with touching story with a teary eyes like Jabi lake. Don't fall for her.

Don't settle for less, in your prime rejects her a million times unless you want to add to her gentile mileage then you can pipe and run back to the younger fresher babes.

1. Know that food tastes sweeter when you eat together.

2. Get to know each other's favourite meal.
3. Find dishes you both are good at cooking, maybe she is good at making stew, he is good at making ugali.

4. Don't come home full. Come home with an empty stomach to eat with family. It hurts when you go out of your way to cook but your spouse comes home rejecting your meal.

5. Build friendship in your marriage, it is difficult to enjoy a meal with someone you are not friends with.

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1. STARE AT HER WITH DESIRE
A woman feels wanted most by how her man looks at her. Men are visually stimulated beings so she will look to see if your eyes tell her 'I want you'

2. LET HER KNOW WHEN SHE TURNS YOU ON
She feels good when she knows she arouses you. If you are near her and with a hard on or thinking about her when you two are apart and find life in your boxer too hard for comfort; let her know. She wants to know she has an effect on you; even after years together she wants to know she's still got it

3. PRAISE HER BODY
Speak it, let her hear you talk so good about her sex appeal

4. NOTICE HER EFFORTS
If she gets a new hair do, a new dress, if she works out; let her know you are paying attention

5. PROTECT HER FROM HERSELF
A woman can sleep feeling sexy then wake up doubting her sexiness. One negative comment from someone can easily make her question her appeal. She might look at herself and not like her body weight, size or shape and she lowers how she views herself. In those times, affirm her beauty and sex appeal

6. RESERVE SPECIAL TITLES, DESCRIPTIONS AND WORDS FOR ONLY HER
Don't describe other women as sexy, hot, beautiful, a turn on; don't comment using such words on other women's photos on social media. Those words are not special if you tell them to other women

7. MAKE HER HUG DISTINCT
There is no problem hugging female friends, you value their friendship. But the hug you give to your woman should be tighter, touchy, most intimate, distinct from the hugs you give to others

8. DON'T DROOL OVER OTHER WOMEN
Discipline yourself not to be throwing your eyes on other women, ogling over other women's cleavage, hips, butt, lips, walking style. Focus on your woman

9. DON'T PRAISE ANOTHER WOMAN ABOVE HER
Never should it be that you seem more intrigued and captured by the beauty of another woman

10. KISS THE PARTS SHE CONSIDERS UNPLEASANT
Almost every woman has something on her body she is conscious about. It could be the size or shape of her boobs or bum, her stretchmarks, or even her love handles tyred up on her tummy. Whatever part you hear her mentioning in an uncomfortable manner, kiss it. Kissing it makes her secure, because deep down she is scared you might not find her as sexy because of that part of her body

11. AVOID PORNOGRAPHY
If you wouldn't drool over other women in the streets, don't drool over other women on the screen. She feels sexy when she is enough stimulation and attraction for you and you don't need to view naked strangers to give you a high. Once you get addicted to staring at porn stars, soon you will start lusting after women physically around you. It will be easy to chase after other women for sexual gratification because you chase after porn stars. Unfaithfulness is bred by lust on screen and in the streets

12. BRAG ABOUT HER IN PUBLIC
She wants you to desire her and elevate her to the highest special place, not just in private but in public too

13. EXERCISE YOUR RIGHT TO SUGGESTIVE ADVANCES
She belongs to you, so feel free to flirt her up, to grab her butt, to stroke her skin, to hold her waist; she feels legitimately yours when you take charge

14. KISS HER ALOT
Sexual attraction is linked to kissing. The more you kiss her the more she feels you desire her

15. TREAT HER GOOD OUTSIDE MATTERS SEXUAL
Don't only say the right things and treat her like a Queen when you are Hot and thinking of sex. Even when sex is not on your mind, treat her like a queen. If you expect your wife to make love to you good in the bedroom, treat her good outside the bedroom. When you are good only when after sex, she feels used

16. LET HER KNOW WHEN SHE TOUCHES YOU GOOD
If there is anything she does right to bring you pleasure, let her know. Don't let her struggle in knowing what to do to please you. When she sees you drowning in her touch she feels powerfully sexy

17. DISCLOSE TO HER YOUR FAVORITES
Do you love her in long tight dresses, bare backs, short dress, high heels, red underwear, thongs, lace, silk; tell her. Make her work easy

18. CHEER HER ON
When she twerks for you, strips for you, lap dances for you, wears lingerie for you; cheer her on, boost her confidence

19. BE FAITHFUL
Let her know she is enough. Have no other besides her

A woman can feel sexy but when her man celebrates her sex appeal she feels even more sexy. Man, she is not sexy for herself, she is sexy for you; fire up her sexiness and you will be the sole beneficiary of it..

1. Engage in pre-intimacy, don't be in a hurry to penetrate

2. Change sex positions when you are about to climax

3. Avoid masturbation. This makes you makes you more engaged in love making with your spouse. Masturbation makes you speed up to an orgasm

4. Train your mind. Your mind controls your sexual organ. You can train your mind to hold an orgasm

5. Have intervals of kissing during love making

6. Relax. Don't be too excited. You are making love to your spouse, not stealing something

7. See love making as an experience, not a rush to an orgasm

8. Learn your body and how it responds so that you steer it to pleasure. Delayed orgasms are powerful

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I've been married for 25 years.

My husband and I never lived together under the same roof all these years.

I lived in the South East and worked there before marriage.

After marriage, I offered to resign from my job and join him in Lagos but he rejected the idea.

He said our family needed more financial support from my job.

My Mother and Mother-in-law advised me not to resign from my job and I believe they saw the future.

I also never visited him in Lagos where he resided and worked.

The only time I attempted to visit him in Lagos led to a rift between us.

He threatened to end the marriage and our families had to get involved to resolve the misunderstanding.

He only visited when he liked and that was when it was time for another baby.

We have 4 children together.

Now 25 years later my husband has retired from his job and has moved back to the South East.

The problem is that we live like strangers.

I don't know him and we have no relationship.

We just spent about 1 week together during each of his visits.

He could be gone for over a year without visiting.

The major issue is that I feel a deep sense of resentment for him.

He returned expecting everything to be all lovey-dovey but he is unrealistic.

We never had any conversations, our relationship was so official.

I never enjoyed the marriage which is the main reason for my resentment.

I got married majorly for companionship but I found myself alone like a single woman for 25 years.

If only I knew this was what he had to offer I never would have married him.

Not only did I not have companionship, I hustled like a single mother for 25 years.

My husband never provided any financial support.

At the beginning he kept playing me around each time I asked for money.

After a while he couldn't play around anymore he told me how he didn't live in the apartment so why should he pay for it?

He said the same thing about food and other needs.

I couldn't believe it.

After a heated showdown, his Mother and my Mother had a heart-to-heart talk with me, telling me to take care of my needs as I could.

I also had to cater to our children's needs after he kept dragging his feet.

I felt like I married myself.

I had a husband yet I was hustling like I was a single Mother.

I felt so much resentment towards him.

After the birth of our fourth child, I stopped communicating with him.

He never communicated, we only talked once I called him.

Funny enough he was fine with us not communicating.

That showed me the state of our marriage.

Our oldest child is 24 and out of the house. The other children are 22, 20, and 18. They are all adults, two are graduates from the university.

The other 2 are undergraduates and out of the house.

So it's just the two of us.

Now he is making small talk trying to communicate with me like we are a loving couple.

No love ever existed between us.

Our families have asked me to forgive like everyone else.

It's always so easy to dish out advice once it's not you.

The truth is that there is no way I can relate to him as a loving husband.

Now he is staying in the very apartment he refused to pay for.

He complains that I don't talk to him and sometimes I don't come home.

What does he expect?

His presence offends me and sometimes I stop by my friend who is a widow.

She lives alone and I have spent some nights with her since our youngest child left home.

We could both do with some company.

He is accusing me of seeing another man.

Did I know what he did in Lagos for 25 years?

It's just irritating how he expects us to carry on like nothing happened and all is well.

I don't know how to get out of this situation.

I'm thinking about getting another apartment and moving out.

My greatest regret is marrying this man.

This is not the life I wanted.

I had to work overtime to ensure that I didn't dislike our children.

I'm losing my mind with the way he keeps acting like it's business as usual.

Expecting me to cater to him like we made all these loving memories all these years.

My heart is so heavy and I don't know how to heal from this because is.....
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Every now and then, I hear a section of single and married men say that they can't be faithful to one wife with the argument that sticking to one woman for a lifetime is like condemning oneself to be eating only one diet or delicacy for life. Although that belief sounds funny to the ears, however, it's not really laughable. It's not! Honestly, many men don't understand what marriage means and its implications. I am never surprised when some men say that anyway. To me, it's simply a sign of ignorance and godlessness.

Marriage is a lifetime commitment to one's spouse. We don't marry to "taste" and "test" other people sexually. Marriage signals or heralds the end of "sexual indiscipline". In fact, according to God's standard, we are supposed to enter marriage in a state of virginity. And those who lost their virginity before marriage, well God doesn't throw you away, alright? However, He commands you to lead a godly life in the area of sex henceforth.

Sex is very sweet. However, as spouses you are the ones to spice up your sex life by making it very active, interesting, sweet, appealing, adventurous and romantic to both of you. Sex life shouldn't be boring, tiring or unappealing. It must be something that both of you should always be looking forward to.

There's nothing "sweet" or "sexy" about a married man having sex with different ladies. It's simply a sign of gross sexual irresponsibility and godlessness.

There's nothing sexual that a husband can't get from one wife. One wife has all the varieties of "soups" or "delicacies", be it onugbo, oha, nsala, eforiro, edikang ikong, ewedu, bongo tchobi, ndole, nkwui, okasi, fried, white or jollof rice, moin-moin, beans, plantains, fufu, eba, semo, etc. If you are looking at sex as a delicacy, then your wife has all the delicacies you need. Just change your mindset and attitude towards her.

I have been married for many years (I am not yet a veteran o). As a man, I also face sexual temptations like every other man out there. But I won't succumb to any of them for anything. My wife is enough, more than enough for me. To enjoy your marriage with your wife alone, you must be contented with her vagina. That's the raw truth many men don't want to come to terms with.

I will be blunt here: no woman is sweeter than the other woman. They all have the same thing under their legs. The only difference between your marriage and the marriages of those who are not cheating on their wives is contentment and the fear of God. No man who has the fear of God will be saying that he can't settle for just one woman in marriage. Truth be told: men who go after other women, generally have LUST issues but they won't admit it.

Now, let me strike the balance here:

Dear men, I would like you to know that women have sexual urges also. Don't think that women can't also say that they wish to try other men's joysticks just as you are always trying other women's vaginas. Who told you that sexual indiscipline is MALE or gender-based only? Whether men or women, we all feel the same way. But for the sake of contentment, respect of one's marital vows and most importantly the fear of God, many of those wives won't behave the wrong way. Dear men, please don't take the sexual discipline of your wives for granted. Because if they start doing what you do, please don't blame them. Cheating is wrong no matter who commits it. Cheating husbands should never be excused for their sexual misconduct.

Dear men, please cherish your wives with all your heart. Treat them like the queens they're. Sexual indiscipline is recklessness, wickedness, insensitivity, gross disrespect to one's spouse and most importantly, godlessness. Like many men out there, I am proudly a happy married man to one wife. Together with my wife we are happy with ourselves, not because we have everything going on well for us, but because we're satisfied and ....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/?m=1


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1. Don't sleep with a woman on the first day of seeing her naked body. Create an emergency and stop.

2. Don't sleep in a woman's house, whether it is your first night with her or the second or the last. Sleeping in her house is losing your power and control.

3. Use a condom on the first s*x attempt. Use a condom every day you have sex until the day you decide to marry her. This is a MUST. Don't compromise on this.

4. The first sex should be during the daytime. This allows you to understand her sexual health and nature.

5. Talk vulgar deliberately. If she responds with vulgarity. End the relationship.

6. No sex messages on WhatsApp or text. No nudes. Your inbox should always be as clean as a whistle.

7. Have a HIV test together as early as possible in the relationship. Remember, this is not a ticket for raw sex. Some tests can turn out negative because of HIV treatment. This is called a false negative.

8. Find out if she is on any medication. Don't be a fool. Ask. Research.

9. If there is malodorous discharge on the condom, reprimand her. If there are traces of blood on the condom sheath, reprimand her. Don't be in a relationship with a woman who does not take care of her vaginal health.

10. Know her menstrual cycle. This will save you from being a slave of the state.

11. Take care of your pen!s. This is your manhood. Don't sleep with anything in a skirt.

Good morning ma'am.

Please, I need your help.

My fiancee and I got engaged 3 months ago.

We have been planning on getting married but a few weeks ago something happened.

My fiancee's best friend and childhood friend called me on the phone when she was out with her to inform me that she was cheating on me with more than one man.

I didn't believe it, but she convinced me by telling me that she had been answering calls from different numbers such as Sweetheart 1, sweetheart 2, and Sweetheart 3.

She told me that she didn't want to say anything but it was unfair to let me marry an unfaithful woman because I didn't deserve that.

Finally, she advised me not to marry her because she was a cheat.

She pleaded with me not to tell my Fiancee that she said anything to me.

After the call, I felt so enraged and betrayed that my fiancee would cheat on me after everything.

I thought about calling her, but I didn't want to create a scene in public, so I waited for her to come home.

At night I went to her apartment full of anger and b.e.a.t her up.

I yelled at her calling her a cheat and a disgraceful, ungrateful woman.

She kept screaming, saying she was innocent.

I told her to keep quiet and took her phone and dialed all those names her friend mentioned and I was shocked that they were all my phone numbers in different networks.

I went through her messages and chats and found out they were all conversations with me.

Instantly I felt like a fool and became full of regrets.

I regretted not going through her phone first before h.i.t.t.i.n.g her.

I got on my knees and pleaded with her but immediately she became full of rage and asked me to get out of her apartment.

I have never seen her that angry before.

I pleaded with her, telling her it was her best friend who told me she was cheating on me, but it got her even more annoyed.

She kicked me out of her apartment telling me she didn't care.

She told me she was glad I acted that way because she had no idea I didn't trust her and I wanted to marry her.

She said I was physically a.b.u.s.i.v.e.

She flung the ring at me and told me she wouldn't get married to me anymore.

Since then, I've been pleading with her and even involved both families, but she's adamant that the marriage is off.

I know I acted irrationally and rashly but it's because I felt betrayed and hurt.

I've been very unlucky with relationships, and when I heard she was cheating on me, it reminded me of past experiences.

Please, how can I convince her that I'm sorry and get her to forgive me?

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#For all the married men and women:

I have said this over and again that marriage is very good but not without challenges. I will be lying to you if I say that since I got married my marriage never had his fair share of crises.

Challenges happen. They are not uncommon or abnormal because they keep reminding us of our imperfections, our humanness. However, a challenge when not properly handled, can graduate or escalate into a crisis. A marital crisis is usually a mishandled challenge.

When challenges happen, they introduce us to who we truly are, to the stuff that we are really made up of. Challenges test the genuineness of our love, the solidity of our commitment, the strength of our character, our patience, tolerance, spirituality, and determination levels. In fact, challenges test our knowledge of what marriage truly is.

Challenges themselves are not sinful, but their poor handling could become a sin. The real problem in a marriage is not the many crises that rock it, but the poor handling of those crises.

When challenges happen in a marriage, the way forward is the way out of it and not the escalation of the issues. As a married spouse, your greatest strength is wisdom. In marriage you don't win by insults, abuses, physical fights, threats of separation and divorce, etc. We win by wisdom.

The functional, happy, blissful, successful and long lasting marriages, are not the ones where the spouses are "angels" in behaviours, but wise. Wisdom makes all the difference in marriage. Wisdom is the secret.

I don't care about how many crises have rocked or are rocking your marriage, wisdom demands that you square up to the demands of your marriage. Please be determined to make it work. You can make it work. It depends on both spouses.

The year is almost eight months gone. Maybe as spouses, there may really be nothing to cherish or look back on as a result of how bad your marital experiences are. Maybe there are lots of let-downs, disappointments, distrust, selfishness, anger or hurts. Maybe love has disappeared and disaffection has set in your home and both of you are contemplating divorce. Please don't.

Marital challenges are not meant to kill us. Rather, when put in the right perspective and properly handled, can strengthen the love bond between the spouses. Unfortunately, Satan keeps deceiving spouses into making the wrong choices and decisions resulting from messed up feelings and emotions, having succeeded in painting them in a negative light. With regards to marital challenges, please never make a decision from the realm of your emotions, otherwise you will regret it. Great decisions are made from a position of strength, not weakness. A decision made from the realm of the emotions, is the one done from a position of weakness.

Dear spouses, this is a new week and, I would like to encourage you to sit your spouse down and have a soul-to-soul discussion with them. Tell them how hurt you're, but that you're ready to have a fresh start, by giving yourselves another chance to love. It's never too late to put things right, to be the good spouse you're meant to be to....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2024/08/i-thought-hes-nobody-but-my-discovery.html

1. HOW THEY HANDLE CORRECTION.

Marriage will require a lot of learning, unlearning and relearning. If the person is not teachable, marriage will be a challenge.

2. HOW THEY ACT WHEN THEY DON'T GET WHAT THEY WANT.

If someone cannot handle disappointments, or they always want things to go their way, that will be a difficult spouse. Take for instance: When a woman starts biIIing you like she’s after your Iife, giving you deadlines to do things for her or the relationship is over, that’s not Iove, that’s enough signs that you’re being usεd. Dυmp her!!!

3. HOW THEY ACT AROUND THE OPPOSITE GENDER.

They are in a relationship but act and behave like they are single and ready to mingle. No boundaries with the opposite sex. Someone who gets overly excited around the opposite gender sometimes to the point of forgetting you even exist or wants to entertain and please others, will bring you unnecessary trouble and make you insecure.

4. HOW THEY ACT WHEN ANGRY.

Anger is a normal human emotion, but how you control it or how it controls you will determine if you're ready for marriage or you need serious help. Does the person become insulting, violent, threatening and rude when angry; or do they control their temper? Marriage will bring some reasons to be angry here and there; can they handle it?

5. HOW THEY ACT WHEN THE CONVERSATION IS ABOUT SEX.

If they get uncomfortable when the conversation is about sex or they get overly lustful; your marriage will have trouble. Marriage should be with someone open minded about sex conversations and also someone who sees it as something special in marriage.

6. HOW THEY ACT WHEN THE CONVERSATION IS NOT ABOUT SEX.

Does the person tune off or show no interest when you talk about other topics? That person is only interested in sex, not a long term bond with you. Be careful!

7. HOW THEY ACT WHEN YOU CAN'T GIVE TIME.

If there are moments you can't answer the persons phone call because you're in a meeting, function or can't reply immediately to their messages but you get back to them when you're done, does the person understand; or become controlling and insecure, wanting to micromanage your time? You are safe with someone who understands that there are other parts and roles in your life that need your attention.

8. HOW THEY ACT WHEN YOU TALK ABOUT GOD.

If the person avoids God's talk, they will not raise with you the Godly family you are praying for. Quote me anywhere, no marriage can enjoy the blessings that comes with marriage if they take away the one who instituted marriage out of the equation.

9. HOW THEY ACT WHEN YOU GO THROUGH A TOUGH MOMENT.

When you are having a bad day, facing challenges or when you are in trouble, does the person console you, comfort you and encourage you; or do they avoid your tough moments, are they emotionally unavailable and belittle your feelings. A good spouse cares.

10. HOW THEY ACT AROUND PEOPLE WITH MORE MONEY AND LESS MONEY.

There are partners who only wants to be with you when it is rosy and all sunshine. When the going gets tough, they run away and look for a new spark or catch. If the person treats people based on their financial status, be careful. You could be about to get married to an opportunist. A good person is consistent in how he/she handles people of different status. If you can’t attract a woman without showing off your wallet, you probably will never find a woman who genuinely.....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2024/08/he-rejected-our-marriage-saying-his.html

The weight of betrayal pressed down on me, suffocating. My husband, the man I'd been married to for 13 years, the father of my children, was having an affair with his own brother's wife. I discovered this horrifying truth two weeks ago, after losing my phone and being given his old one. Facebook Messenger messages, filled with intimate conversations, revealed his infidelity, a betrayal that cut deeper than any knife.

It wasn't a fleeting indiscretion. The messages were filled with passionate exchanges, with my husband actively pursuing this woman, even arranging to meet at his brother's home. His brother, a kind and generous man, was the very person who supported my husband financially, even paying for our children's schooling.

I was devastated. I'd dedicated my life to this family, working tirelessly to ensure their well-being. Now, I was being repaid with this shocking betrayal.

The messages showed that my husband's desire for this woman was intense, even asking for a child to "memorialize their love." When I checked his new phone, I found further evidence of the continuing affair. My heart ached, and my mind raced.

Desperate for guidance, I approached my father-in-law. I delicately inquired if such a relationship was acceptable in their family. He recoiled, stating it was an abomination, something that could lead to a brother's death. He confirmed that his sons and grandsons were aware of this taboo.

So why was my husband, the man who relied on his brother's kindness, engaging in such an act? Why would he do this to a man who had been ....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2024/08/my-husband-is-sleeping-with-his.html

I met my husband at university as an undergraduate.

We started as friends and it grew into something beautiful.

After graduation and NYSC, we got jobs and worked for a while.

A few years later we got married.

A few months after marriage my husband changed.

First of all, he ordered me to resign from my job.

We fought over that for months until I gave in for peace to reign.

A few months after that he began mistreating me.

Any little misunderstanding we have he'll remove the smart card from our cable so I don't watch TV.

Once the cable subscription expires, he'll refuse to subscribe again or order me not to subscribe even when I can afford to.

To make matters worse, he'll lock the kitchen door and take the keys along with him to work, so I can't cook or eat.

Then he'll lock me inside our house so I can't go out to eat.

He did it the first time and started to keep malice.

I decided to apologize for peace to reign.

After I apologized he kept malice with me for another month.

I kept my cool and kept watching.

The next time we had a misunderstanding he did the same things.

He did it a third time and I found out that it's now a pattern.

The next time he locked me inside after a misunderstanding I left before he returned.

I decided to take spare keys to all the doors before we had a misunderstanding.

I took the decoder with me and switched off my phone for over a week.

When I switched it on he had sent me so many angry texts and WhatsApp voice notes.

Once I left I informed my family that I wanted out of the marriage.

My Father advised that I give him some space instead, but I knew I was done with the marriage.

He thre.aten.ed me for a while about ending the marriage, but when he found out I didn't care, he mellowed down and changed his tone.

He reached out to my family to apologize for how he treated me.

He said he didn't know what came over him asking me to return home.

My Father refused saying there's a lot to be sought out.

My Father insisted that I couldn't be unemployed because he didn't invest in me to sit at home.

My husband accepted that I could get another job and promised never to starve me or lock me inside, but I don't trust him anymore.

I never believed he could turn around to treat me the way he did like a common criminal.

Imagine denying me food and locking me inside the house.

Asking me to resign my job was the worst and refusing to provide for me.

Now he is acting sorry and remorseful but it's all a show to me.

He is pleading with me to return home but my Father is as suspicious as me.

My Mum feels that I should give him a chance but I have a bad feeling about returning to him because I feel he'll get worse if I return.

I no longer have any interest in marriage anymore, I just want to know if I'm making a mistake because now I fear for my life.

I fear that I'm no longer safe because of the way he suddenly changed and became remorseful.

I feel it's just an act.

I don't want to make a mistake that I'll regret.

What I don't understand is why you'll marry someone and do all this.

Take away the smart card of the decoder, lock the kitchen, and lock someone Inside the house so that......https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2024/08/how-to-be-faithful-and-naughty-to-your.html

My wife is a CEO, she always hates me for being lazy and wants to divorce me. But she doesn't know that her success is bestowed by me.

"Dustin, here is the divorce agreement prepared by Ms. Nicholson, please sign it."
In the president's office of the Quine Group, Lyra Blaine, the secretary, placed a piece of paper on the table. A man sat opposite her, dressed in plain clothing.
"Divorce? What do you mean?"
"Your marriage with Ms. Nicholson is over. You're not even on the same level anymore. Your existence is nothing but a smear on our CEO's reputation!"
"A smear on her reputation?" Dustin frowned. "Is that what she thinks of me?"
Dahlia Nicholson and Dustin Rhys had been married for three years. After Dahlia's meteoric rise to success, she was about to abandon Dustin as a burden and filed for divorce. Unbeknownst to her, everything she had ever achieved was actually bestowed by him.
Back when they first got married, he was the one who helped them when they were at their rock bottom. Now that they became rich, Dahlia Nicholson was ready to kick him out.
With the sound of the door opening, a pair of enchanting high heels came into his view.
"You're finally here."
Dustin felt complicated when he saw the beautiful woman. They had been married for three years, during which they treated each other with care and respect. But this was how it ended. He still didn't know what he had done wrong.
"I'm sorry for being late, I was caught up with something else."
Dahlia Nicholson sat down. Her expression was as impassive as ever.
"You certainly are busy, if you need your secretary to help you deal with your divorce," Dustin said.
Hearing this, Dahlia frowned slightly. However, she did not explain herself. Instead, she said, "Since you're here, let's end it on a pleasant note. You can have the car, the house, and 8 million dollars as alimony. How does that sound?"
At that, she placed a card on the table.
"Do you really think our relationship can be measured by money?" Dustin asked because....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2024/08/how-to-make-your-marriage-win-win-union.html

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So the thing is I'm also working though for a private company and we are set to be married end of this month.. I tried to talk to my boyfriend if he can allow me to continue working even when we get married but he refused and he said I should resign because he doesn't want a distance marriage.. the thing is I'm the one who supports my family and my fear is if I stop working maybe he won't be able to support them with his meagre salary.. this has really disturbed me and I only need honest advice from people on this platform….should I marry him or look for someone else who would allow me to keep my job and continue....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2024/06/my-boss-wants-to-marry-me-because-of.html

Dating or marrying a high maintainance jobless woman will leave you broke, useless and depressed most especially when you don't have a good multiple streams of income.

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Be wise.

Know how to differentiate a liability from an asset.

You see a woman who is jobless, no value, no skills, no hand work, nothing nothing, very lazy as hell.

Her sole objective in life is to do anything just to get men's attention so she can find food to eat.

Her survival is hugely dependent on men who sleeps with her for financial rewards.

They are called slay Queens, you see them live a loud life meanwhile, they have no job to account for the sponsorship of that life style.

Dating such women is catastrophic, and fatal disaster to your financial life.

Be wise,

To such women, relationship is a poverty alleviation scheme, they are always ready to date the highest bidder.

Their loyalty is always pledged to the highest bidder.

Dating such as a broke young man will always make you miserable because their love for you will be determined by the depth of your pocket.

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The pressure she will continue to put on you just for you to fulfill her demand can make you go insane.

They are highly manipulative, they will do anything just for you to give them all the money they need in life.

They don't care how you get it, your struggles or anything all that matters to them is that you MUST meet ALL there needs.

They will hardly compromise their standards.

Very highly entitled bitch.

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Beautiful lady with huge boobs and charming appearance.
Is she irresistible to you as a man?

1. When you fall in love, make sure it's with someone who treats you the way you deserve.

2. Love someone who wants to know everything about you, from your favorite color to your childhood memories, and how you survived all those years.

3. Love someone who can make you laugh, kiss your forehead, and see past your flaws.

4. Love someone who listens to whatever is on your mind, protects you, and always reminds you how lucky they are to have found you.

5. Love someone who you can't stay mad at for long because you miss talking to them, who knows every freckle on your face, every stretch mark on your thighs, every scar, and every tear.

6. Love someone you can plan your future with, and most importantly, someone who respects and believes in God.

7. And lastly, don't forget to make them feel loved in return.

Take my advice: Love isn't just about how you feel; it's also about how you make each other feel. Choose wisely and remember to cherish and nurture the love you.....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2024/06/the-red-pill-gospel-every-man-must-know.html

In a world that often echoes with the sounds of chatter and clamor, there exists a silent symphony performed by those who choose to listen rather than speak. Quiet people, often misunderstood and overlooked, possess a depth of wisdom and intelligence that transcends the need for words. Contrary to popular belief, the quiet ones are not devoid of thoughts or intellect; they simply choose to express themselves in a different tune.

Imagine a garden blooming with diverse flowers - each unique in its color, shape, and fragrance. The same analogy can be applied to the individuals we encounter in our lives. Just as not all flowers bloom boldly and loudly, not all minds operate with constant noise and commotion. The quiet ones prefer to bloom in their own time, each petal unfolding to reveal the intricate beauty within.

Observing a quiet person is akin to watching a river flow steadily and gracefully. Beneath the calm surface, profound currents of thought and reflection run deep. While others may mistake their silence for ignorance or lack of intelligence, the truth is far from it. The quiet ones possess a keen sense of observation, an ability to decipher nuances that elude the casual observer. Their minds are like libraries filled with unspoken knowledge waiting to be discovered.

Do not make the mistake of underestimating the power of the quiet souls. Their silence is not a sign of weakness, but rather a testament to their inner strength and resilience. In a world that often values noise over substance, the quiet ones offer a refreshing oasis of peace and contemplation. They are the unsung heroes who listen intently, speak purposefully, and act with measured grace.

Next time you encounter someone who chooses to listen more than speak, take a moment to appreciate the symphony of their silence. Engage them in a conversation, and you may be surprised by the depth of their insights and the richness of their inner world. Quiet people are not stupid; they are simply orchestrating their brilliance in a melody that speaks volumes without saying a word.

In a society that often celebrates the loudest voices, let us not forget to honor the quiet ones who add depth and nuance to the cacophony of life. Embrace the beauty of their silence, for within it lies a treasure trove of wisdom and intelligence waiting to be unveiled. The silent symphonies are waiting to be heard; all we need to do is.....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2024/06/8-causes-of-boring-marriage.html

It's possible for any man to ask for sex in a relationship, but is left for you as a lady to know that sex, can't keep him..(Sex isn't enough)

There are two major factors ladies complain about sex in a relationship:
√ After giving him my body he left me..
√ He left because I refused to have sex with him..

NOTE: Both those who gave and those who refused to give are complaining...
( Whats the difference)

Ladies Listen, Sex isn't enough, its not the only thing you can offer a man.
If You Don't Have Anything To Offer A Man Outside Sex, Please remain Single...

A man can't stay with you because his having sex with you....

Relationship is not buying and selling.
There are much to life than Monkey style, Doggy style, Missionary style, Apple and juice style, step pillows style, etc ...

Are you sound intellectually? Spiritually? Physically? Mentally? Emotionally?

Men love intelligent ladies...
Men love ladies with ideas..
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Sex is very.....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2024/06/dear-ladies-sex-is-not-enough-please.html

1. When you go to bed clean and not stinking of sweat or odour. By maintaining good hygiene you excite your spouse to have sex with you. Cleanliness heightens sexiness

2. Sleep is the highest form of trust; an adult to close ones eyes and be powerless and safe in bed with another adult. A spouse who feels comfortable sleeping with you, trusts you

3. The quickest way to destroy the marriage bed is for your spouse to suspect you are cheating. It is not enough to be faithful, your spouse must also perceive that you're faithful. Desist from doing things that make your spouse perceive you are cheating even though you're not: Things like keeping secrets, or being extra friendly to people of the opposite gender

4. When you come home early, you will have enough time to spend with family which will lead to good sleep. Don't give your family the exhausted and hurried you

5. Make time for intimacy and special time with your spouse. Don't let life rush you to the point your marriage is surviving on quickies and hurried sex. Allow yourselves ample time to make love

6. Get in to the habit of telling your spouse "Good night" and "Good morning", preferably with a kiss. These words are simple but crucial. When you just sleep or wake up without concluding the day or starting the day right, it shows disregard to your spouse's feelings. The two greatest moments that define a marriage is how each day is started and concluded

7. Dress for comfort but also dress to arouse and excite your spouse when in bed. Don't look good when you go to work and in public and then fall short to the one person you should visually stimulate

8. Develop a habit of making out. Yes, married couples need to make out too. handle her breasts, kiss, touch, grab each other, kisses on the skin

9. Before your spouse sleeps, find out how he/she is emotionally

10. When you notice your spouse is exhausted, allow him/her to rest and talk when you're both fresh tomorrow. Show that you understand. Just because what you wanted doesn't happen today, doesn't .....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2024/06/19-facts-about-sleep-sex-and-intimacy.html