Some ladies are gullible because they get carried away with sweet talks by the so-called lover. Below are some reasons, why a lady is taken to bed cheaply defiled:

1. We are getting married soon syndrome: A guy will put pressure on a lady with the talk and false hope of getting married soon. Don't fall cheaply; let him wait.

2. If you love me, show it: Sex before marriage is fornication, not a show of genuine love. True love waits, and it does not disobey God. It does not hurt/harm the other party.

3. Other ladies want me. You better keep me with your body. The moment a guy senses desperation in a lady, he uses it against her to take advantage of her. Only God can keep you both in the relationship.

4. Every lady is doing it to keep her man: If everyone is doing it, dare to be different and stand for righteousness. Don't lose out eventually.

5. We need to test our sexual compatibility: Another lie oh! It's not about testing, it's about waiting till the right time when you get married and obey God.

6. Sex is my weakness; you need to help me: You are not the doctor for his ailment. Your body is not the medicine. If he tells you this, he needs help, deliverance, and therapy.

7. Having sex with you will make me stop porn: Porn addiction is big enough not to talk of pre-marital sex. He needs help, prayers, and therapy to come off it. Don't be deceived.

8. I can't marry you if I don't test you sexually: Let him know that you are not a piece of meat to taste oh! If he loves you, let him wait.

9. I don't want to lose you; having sex with you is a form of covenant. Hey, girl, don't try it. He is a sex hunter. Beware.

10. I can't stand your beauty without touching and having you in bed. He needs self-control. You should dress decently and stop tempting him.

11. If I have sex with you, my money also belongs to you. Make God your provider, the guy shouldn't be your sponsor. He who pays the piper dictates the tune. Work and be content with your financial capacity.

Ladies, God isn't happy when you disobey His instruction. Pre-marital sex/fornication is a sin to God regardless of your excuses. Heb 13:4.
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Written by Yomi Adewale

On our way out I noticed her bra strap was popping out of her beautiful dress and I called her attention to it. The only way I could have known that it was not right for her bra to pop out of her dress is because I know how ladies wear that kind of dress.

"Don't you have a tube?" I asked. Because I know the best way to wear the dress is with a tube bra that doesn't come with a strap (I can't remember what it's called.

What do we do about it now? Okay hold on let me pin the strap to the dress and hide it.

So I got a pin and handled that department very well like I have done it before. Or maybe I have, remember those times as little boys when Mom will call us to help her zip up her dress, or hook her bra strap behind. Hehehe, we had no idea there were very good rehearsals for marriage. Sometimes mom will give us her eye pencil to go and sharpen. I remember when my mama used to give me her wig to brush. Those times I used to think, "What? I am not a girl". But far from being of help to her, it was training in disguise. For the brothers that didn't experience this, I don't envy you at all.

Okay so I handled her bra strap popping out with a pin like a pro and I saw the happy, impressed look in her eyes. Before then she asked me if I can cross her bra behind to make it look like a design, I said "yea, I can even zigzag the bra behind if you want." Dont try me, I'm a BRATOLOGIST 🤣😀🤣😀🤣

Guys, I just want to share some VERY weird but necessary skills you need to learn to be a great help to your wife as you walk toward marriage.

#1... Learn some simple bra hacks, like me, a pro.🤣🤣 learn to cross multiply a bra🤣🤣. These are things the Bible won't tell you but I know the Lord approves of this knowledge. Most men do not even know how to hook and unhook a bra, that's very bad bro. I think it's the first thing you should know how to do as a husband. Got sisters? They can teach you. Don't have one? Don't worry relax, you will learn it by divine knowledge.

#2... Learn how to sharpen an eye pencil. This is not like the normal pencil you used to sharpen in nursery school with a sharpener. This one requires some extra professionalism. Learn it, it's very key. When you're running late to go out your wife cannot be applying makeup and looking for how to sharpen her eye pencil at the same time, you can collect it and help her out to save your own time. I'm speaking from experience as a husband.

#3. Learn how to wash a woman's panties. Listen don't make your face, there is nothing nasty or unscriptural about this. Don't let our culture mess you up. TWO SHALL BECOME ONE FLESH - including washing panties and boxers. Your heavily pregnant or nursing wife will not have the strength to do her business herself most of the time. She will just soak it in the bathroom and leave it there, and you cannot be walking past it when you can easily bend down and help her out. And mind you, they don't wash women's panties the same way men wash boxers like a sponge. The same hands that remove it can also be washing it sometimes. Learn it. How do you learn this? Start washing your boxers regularly, when you are used to cleanliness it benefits your wife.

#4... Learn how to style a woman's hair, or at least simple ways to pack it. Some of us are just zero in this department, we cannot help a woman pack her hair and ribbon it. This comes in very handy in marriage, when your wife will turn to you and say "Baby please help me use this ribbon to pack my hair." You'll just be there looking, your own is how to scatter it when you want to disturb someone's daughter.

#5... Learn how to fold women's clothes. So very important too. Well, some men are not even interested in helping their wives wash Or iron their dresses, let alone interested in folding and arranging. Women are not the only natural arrangers of the home, men can be too. Learn how to fold a dress neatly. It's important.

#6... Learn how to tie a scarf. This one is ultimately important uncle. You cannot survive your wife's disturbance in marriage if you don't know how to tie a simple hair tie. Women can worry with this, "Honey hold it here, roll it there, pin the gele here, shock it in here." It can be very tiring, yet so much fun. So start opening yourself up to it.

Footnote: SOME of these things can be learned over the internet. Sometimes when I am scrolling through my news feed I see videos teaching how to apply foundation, simple bra hacks, zip hacks, how to tie a quick scalp, etc. And I take my time to watch and learn from them. I put in the effort because I want to help meet my wife too. Sometimes I tag my bestie in it. Note that you must go practice with a woman first, the internet is a wide library of resources. Make sure you're disciplined to run away from porn sites that also pretend to teach these things.

Okay, so ladies which skill am I forgetting? Add it here for the bros to learn, and be fast.

1. Build open and honest communication: Effective communication is the cornerstone of a successful marriage. Establishing a solid foundation of open and honest communication with your partner can help you navigate challenges and deepen your connection. By using active listening and expressing your thoughts and feelings clearly, you create an environment of trust and understanding.

2. Cultivate emotional intelligence: Emotional intelligence refers to the ability to understand and manage your own emotions and empathize with others. Developing emotional intelligence can enhance your ability to be compassionate, patient, and supportive in your relationship. It can also help you navigate conflicts effectively and build a strong emotional bond with your partner.

3. Invest in pre-marital counseling: Pre-marital counseling can provide valuable insights and tools for a successful marriage. Seek out the guidance of a professional counselor who specializes in pre-marital therapy. They can help you explore various aspects of your relationship, discover potential areas of growth, and equip you with effective strategies to address challenges.

4. Nurture a strong friendship: A strong friendship sets a solid foundation for a lasting marriage. Prioritize spending quality time together, engaging in shared activities, and nurturing common interests. Cultivating a genuine friendship will help you create a supportive and enjoyable marital bond.

5. Develop conflict resolution skills: Conflict is a natural part of any relationship. Learning healthy ways to resolve conflicts can strengthen your marriage. Practice active listening, compromise, and finding win-win solutions. Remember, conflicts can be an opportunity for growth and deeper understanding if approached with empathy and respect.

6. Understand and respect each other's needs and boundaries: Each person in a relationship has unique needs and boundaries. Take the time to understand and honor your partner's needs and limits, and communicate your own as well. This fosters a sense of respect and consideration, creating a safe and fulfilling partnership.

7. Practice financial transparency: Money matters can be a significant source of conflict in marriages. Foster financial transparency by openly discussing and sharing your financial goals, values, and habits. Create a budget together and establish a system for joint financial decisions. Transparency and collaboration can help build trust and prevent financial stress from undermining your relationship.

8. Continuously invest in self-growth and personal development: A thriving marriage requires personal growth from both partners. Commit to continuous learning, self-reflection, and personal development. By investing in your growth, you become better equipped to contribute to the growth of your relationship.

Remember, preparing for marriage is an ongoing journey, and these practices can help you lay a strong foundation for a fulfilling and long-lasting partnership. If you'd like to explore more topics related to relationships, marriage, or self-improvement, feel free to ask!
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1. WHERE ARE YOU GOING TO LIVE AFTER WEDDING? Compulsory! So the guy won't drag you to his friend's house or something worse! Discuss the type of apartment: a room, room and parlor, a mini flat, 2 bedroom flat, 3 bedroom, duplex, complex, whatever, talk, thoroughly. Don't forget to discuss how the rent will be paid. If he has built his house and you are moving in, excellent.

2. WILL YOU HAVE BABIES IMMEDIATELY OR YOU WILL WAIT? Discuss thoroughly. If you will wait, find out the best family planning method that will suit your body. Not all injections and pills are suitable for you. Withdrawal is not advisable for first-time sex on honeymoon likewise condom. First sex should be done with abandon and also get used to each other's bodies, especially as virgins. Singles who are sexually active right now are digging their marital grave. If you are already having sex like mad and taking family planning pills as a single lady, it is a big shame and a disgrace to womanhood. Marry with dignity. Save sex till your wedding night.

3. HOW WILL BILLS BE PAID?
Who will pay the rent, take care of bills and groceries? Is it the man? The woman or both of you? At how much percentage if it is a joint responsibility? 50/50? 80/20? 60/40? Discuss.

4. WILL ANY FAMILY MEMBER LIVE WITH YOU AFTER THE WEDDING? Discuss. Who and who will live with you? Why? For how long? Can you cope with having a family live with you immediately after your honeymoon? Can your type of accommodation allow such? The opposite-sex sibling shouldn't live with you after a honeymoon in a room apartment. It is more dangerous if it is the wife's very mature younger sister. Use your head!

5. WILL YOUR WIFE WORK OR STAY AT HOME AS A FULL-TIME HOUSEWIFE? Discuss. It is not good for anyone to stay idle. Eve was idle when the serpent came to deceive her! Many local gossips and over-talkative, quarrelsome women are idle. If she can't go to work, she can do business from home and make some money for herself.

6. WHAT IS YOUR VISION? This should be the number one on the list. Very important. If she wants to be a world-renowned neurosurgeon and you want her to assist you in your full-time ministry. You are looking for serious trouble. Your vision should tally. Don't make the same mistake some great men of God made, talk!

7. WHAT ARE YOUR YEARLY GOALS? You should set goals every year and work towards achieving them. What are your yearly goals for the next five years? Discuss.

8. HOW MANY PERCENTAGE OF YOUR INCOME WILL YOU SAVE MONTHLY AND FOR WHAT PURPOSE? Talk!

9. WHICH CHURCH WILL YOU BE ATTENDING AFTER THE WEDDING? Is the guy's church, yours, or another denomination entirely? Thoroughly discuss and agree.

10. WHO ARE YOU? Empty yourself. Your family background, past mistakes, bodily defects, etc so somebody won't die of shock in marriage when certain revelations begin to swim in torrents. Many never recover from the shock! Some divorce from honeymoon and never reconnect for life!
So, there you go!

There are more important things to discuss but these are the major ones time permit me to share.

Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

© Seun Oladele

They had finished making love.

Silence and calm had returned to their bedroom after moaning and swinging off the bed.

He, her husband, held her so close.

He could feel her breathing.

Then she started crying.

"Honey, what is wrong? Did I hurt you? I am sorry" the husband pleaded holding her tightly.

"No no no! These are tears of joy" said the wife with tears falling down her cheeks.

"Oh! I am that great in bed?" asked the cheeky husband.

She squeezed him with a hug and curled herself on him and said "You are great to me"

He kissed her forehead.

She passed her finger on his back and said, "In my past, sex brought me a lot of pain. I have been used and abused and left feeling like a sex object, I have dated men who got tired of me and dumped me as soon as they got my body. Men who I thought were making love to me, only to find out they were sexing other women, I wasn't special. I got so used to thinking sex equals emotional pain and emptiness, and then you came along"

He kissed her chin.

"You were not shy about finding me sexually attractive as you got to know me, but you made it clear that you are after more than just my body, you wanted to know me for who I am beyond my skin. Years later, here on our bed I feel loved. You have been gentle with me, you have taken care of me through the years, and you've become my best friend. This is special to me as it is to you... You know me. I am naked before you; not just physically, but emotionally and spiritually too. It is so easy to be physically naked but it takes a special kind of love to be emotionally naked. I trust you with me, all these years, you have proven that I can let my guard down and let you love me"

"I love you," he said then kissed her.

"You are beautiful inside and out" he added.

"Look at you, turning me on again. Men think that what turns a woman on is the size of the penis, money, dirty words, or a built body; but actually what turns a grown woman on is special treatment. Because you have shown me you are not just about sex but my well-being, I can't help but find you sexy. You have made me so free with you that I am not ashamed of my sexuality, you have taught me secrets about my body as I learn me with you. Orgasm is sweetest when you are moaning for the man you not only love but who also loves you"

"I love pleasing you. I love making you smile" he told her, kissing her fingers.

"I am so Hot right now," she said.

"Darling, but my Big Man is down right now, you already climaxed him. Give me like thirty minutes to get hard again, or do you want me to go down on you?" he asked.

She said. "I am so Hot for your embrace. Just hold me, you are a man in whose arms I feel safe"

They held each other close till they slept. May you touch not only your spouse's body but more so, your spouse's heart.
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© Akello Oliech and Dayan Masinde

1. Neglecting Red Flags: A blinding dating relationship can lead to ignoring important warning signs or red flags that should not be overlooked.
2. Lack of Objectivity: Being blinded in a dating relationship can hinder objectivity, making it difficult to see the true character and compatibility of your partner.
3. Loss of Self-Identity: It is possible to lose sight of your own identity when caught up in a blinding dating relationship, as aspects of your life may become solely centered around the other person.
4. Unhealthy Attachment: Becoming too dependent on a partner in a blinding dating relationship can lead to an unhealthy attachment, potentially compromising personal growth and self-sufficiency.
5. Toxic Patterns: A blinding dating relationship may prevent the recognition of toxic patterns or behaviors within the partnership, leading to potential harm or abuse.
6. Isolation from Loved Ones: Falling into a blinding dating relationship can lead to distancing oneself from friends and family, resulting in isolation and a lack of support.
7. Limited Growth Opportunities: Being consumed by a blinding dating relationship may hinder personal growth and limit opportunities for individual development and fulfillment.
8. Unrealistic Expectations: When blinded, one may develop unrealistic expectations of the partner, leading to disappointment and dissatisfaction in the long run.
9. Loss of Boundaries: Blinding dating relationships can undermine personal boundaries, resulting in a lack of self-care and jeopardizing emotional well-being.
10. Codependency: A blinding dating relationship can foster codependent tendencies, where both partners rely excessively on each other, compromising their individuality.
11. Inability to Resolve Conflict: The inability to see potential conflicts clearly and address them in a blinding dating relationship can lead to unresolved issues and an unhealthy relationship dynamic.
12. Stifling Personal Ambitions: When consumed by a blinding dating relationship, personal goals and ambitions may take a back seat, limiting personal fulfillment and growth.
13. Financial Dependency: Blinding dating relationships can lead to financial dependency on a partner, resulting in vulnerability and potential exploitation.
14. Loss of Perspective: A blinding dating relationship can distort one's perspective on life and compromise decision-making abilities.
15. Disregard for Personal Well-being: The intensity of a blinding dating relationship may overshadow personal well-being, leading to neglect of mental, emotional, and physical health.
16. Limited Social Exploration: Immersion in a blinding dating relationship may restrict the opportunity to explore and build a diverse social network outside of the relationship.
17. Unbalanced Power Dynamics: Being blinded to power imbalances within a dating relationship can subject one to manipulation or control by the other person.
18. Fear of Being Alone: Fear of being alone can drive someone to stay in a blinding dating relationship, even if it is not healthy or fulfilling.
19. Loss of Personal Freedom: Being consumed by a blinding dating relationship may restrict personal freedom and autonomy, potentially leading to feelings of suffocation or entrapment.
20. Incompatible Long-Term Goals: A blinding dating relationship may hinder the recognition of significant incompatibilities in long-term goals or life visions, which can lead to heartache and disappointment down the line.

It's important to note that these dangers should not discourage one from dating but highlight the importance of maintaining a healthy and balanced perspective in relationships. Awareness, communication, and self-reflection are key to navigating the perils that can arise in dating dynamics.

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Step into the vibrant world of Dating Forum, the Android dating application that revolutionizes the way we explore and experience love. With Dating Forum, it's not just about swiping and superficial interactions; this app creates a dynamic community where genuine connections are nurtured, and meaningful conversations flourish.

Dating Forum sets itself apart by providing an inclusive space for individuals to engage in thought-provoking discussions about relationships, love, and personal growth. It's a refreshing departure from traditional dating apps, as it encourages users to explore the depths of connection beyond mere appearances.

Navigating the app's user-friendly interface is like wandering through a bustling marketplace of ideas, a forum where hearts converge in the pursuit of genuine connections. There's a sense of camaraderie and support, as users share insights, stories, and advice with one another, creating a powerful network of individuals seeking meaningful love.

What truly stands out about Dating Forum is its emphasis on communication and a shared learning experience. Whether you're seeking a long-term relationship, friendship, or valuable insights into the world of dating, this app provides a platform for engaging, enlightening, and soul-stirring conversations.

Dating Forum's intuitive features, like topic-based forums and group discussions, enable users to navigate the ever-evolving landscape of relationships with confidence and camaraderie. It promotes open dialogue, encourages diverse perspectives, and fuels personal growth through shared experiences.

While Dating Forum may not boast the vast user numbers of other dating apps, it excels in cultivating a tight-knit, supportive community. Here, users can connect with individuals who share similar values, interests, and a genuine desire to build meaningful connections that transcend societal norms.

In summary, Dating Forum is not just an Android dating application—it's a gateway to a captivating world of authentic connections and profound conversations. It's an invitation to share your experiences, gain insights, and ignite a spark with people who genuinely understand your journey.

If you're ready to delve into the depths of connection, embracing the power of meaningful conversations, Dating Forum awaits your extraordinary presence. Discover the joy of exploring love through dialogue, and let your heart take flight in the vibrant halls of this unique dating app. Source>> https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=instalovechat.games

SoulMingle is unlike any other dating site I've encountered. It's a digital haven where the pursuit of love is elevated to an art form, and genuine connections are celebrated. From the moment I entered SoulMingle's virtual realm, I felt an air of enchantment and possibility.

What sets SoulMingle apart is its emphasis on fostering deep, meaningful connections that nourish the soul. The site is thoughtfully designed to facilitate thought-provoking conversations, creating an atmosphere where individuals can truly get to know each other beyond surface-level attributes.

One of the most refreshing aspects of SoulMingle is its emphasis on authenticity. The platform celebrates and encourages users to embrace their unique qualities, quirks, and passions. This dedication to genuine self-expression and acceptance creates an environment where individuals can be their true selves and attract like-minded souls.

SoulMatch, SoulMingle's innovative matching algorithm, took me by pleasant surprise. It goes beyond superficial preferences and delves into shared values, aspirations, and deeper dimensions of compatibility. The result is a more enriching and potentially life-changing connection between individuals who resonate on a soul level.

Navigating through the site is a breeze, with an intuitive interface that guides users on their quest for love. I particularly appreciated the emphasis on meaningful communication tools and features that foster deeper connections. From soulful chats to interactive forums, SoulMingle encourages users to engage in conversations that transcend the ordinary.

Another highlight of SoulMingle is the vibrant, supportive community it harbors. As I engaged with other users, I discovered a sense of camaraderie and a shared belief in the power of authentic connections. It is a space where kindness, respect, and empathy thrive, creating a sanctuary for individuals seeking genuine love and companionship.

While SoulMingle may not boast the vast user base of some mainstream dating sites, the quality of the connections forged makes up for it. Each interaction feels purposeful and intentional, and the potential for truly meaningful relationships is palpable.

In conclusion, if you're looking for a dating site that embraces the depths of human connection and celebrates the magic of love, SoulMingle is undoubtedly worth exploring. Prepare yourself for a journey of self-discovery, breathtaking conversations, and the potential to find a soulmate who will embark on the beautiful adventure of life with you.

Remember, no matter what stage of your journey you're in, SoulMingle is there to spark the flames of connection and guide you toward a love that transcends the ordinary.
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Self-proclaimed relationship expert Blessing Okoro, popularly known as Blessing CEO, has revealed that Nigerian men cheat for fun and not because they don’t love their wives.

Blessing made this known during an interview on Arise TV.

She also claimed that men cheat because of the distractions they face in their marriage.

Okoro further stated that most men cheat out of ego and because the country does not have laws backing infidelity in marriages.

In her words: ‘’A lot of men cheat for ego, for fun. Not because they don’t love their wife or their wives are not curvy, it’s just lawless in the country that gives them the confidence to cheat.

“The fact is, if the law states that men who cheat will be jailed for 20 years, you’ll see that men can be faithful.”
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Blessing CEO

Men are also attention seekers just like us. The difference between our Hubby and us is we make our attention-seeking more obvious to our partner but for them? They don't know how to show it, all thanks to "being a man".

Let me share some things most husbands secretly desire from their wives:
1. Come to the door when your husband comes home. Many wives are too glued to their phones that when the husband walks in the door you hardly ever notice his entrance, that is not right Aunty. Imagine you come home after a long day and hubby doesn't even look your way twice, says a lazy welcome, or asks how your day went, there's going to be violence that night. Sadly It's the same way men feel too.
Aunty, going forward from today, drop your phone and come to the door. Share a hug with him, a kiss, or a connection that communicates your care, whatever works for your marriage. A man has been through a lot all day, the first thing he wants to come home to is his peace. But it hurts a man when he walks in and his peace is pressing her phone to pieces, or glued to the TV.

2.. Get your husband involved in your marriage. Most men are not lazy or disinterested in the happenings in the home, Many women have conditioned them that way. Send him a text to please stop by the store and get you something you need in the house.
More like;
"Honey we are out of water, can you stop by for a pack of water?".
Your husband is not playing romantic with you because you are not pushing him to get involved in the home so that we can loosen up.

An ideal man won't mind; "babe we are out of sugar, can you please?".
Yes, I know you can send your help to get it, but that's the problem with your wives. Most of you have allowed house help to kill your marriage for nothing. Simple things like this are meant to bond you and your husband you have allowed the maid to steal them from you. How will you create memories together when the maid runs everything?

3.. Men want their butt to be smacked too, not just women. Some of you have been married for 99 years but you don't know the texture of your husband's backside; Soft or hard? Because you don't smack it.
Most women treat their husband's body like a shrine, they only go to play with his temple on some specific days, and many of you have a timetable for touching your husband.

Aunty, touch him in passing, men want physical touch too, they won't say it openly. Play with his hair, and his chest, and jump on him for no reason. This is why many marriages are so boring because your husband's mind has not been conditioned for pre-intimacy outside the bedroom. Your husband can be at home for a whole day and not anticipate that you will smack his butt or jump on him, so he is not even prepared to receive any vibe from you, let alone give you any.

4.. Invite him to help around the house. Men want to help, trust me, Aunty. Intentionally Bring the waterleaf to the sitting room to pluck together, we do this with wisdom ma. Call him to help you move something in the kitchen, and when he comes, use one gist to keep him for a while. Ask him to help you check if the Meat is steaming, or if the water has dried up in the rice.
Men want to help, but the secret is that they don't want to be forced to do it or get the impression that they must do it. Use wisdom woman of God.

5.. Men desire to see you genuinely care about his family, honestly.
Let us start with the minor things; which of his siblings are you close to? Do you have their numbers? How little do you know how his siblings are fairing, or even their endeavors? Do you check up once in a while?

Call his parents to check on them behind his back. Send them a little something if it is within your capacity, and let him learn about it from their testimonies to him.
Many husbands are too busy to keep up with what's going on in their immediate family, it will be good for him to get to know about some of the things going on in his sister's life from your communication with her.

"Babe, did you know that Mariam just got a new job? We spoke today."
That is one definition of peace to any man.
See, I'm not asking you to do eye service, I'm only encouraging you to push yourself beyond to enjoy harmony in your marriage. Read more at.... https://www.gistreal.ng/?m=1

Written by Allison Hyacintho

WHAT EXACTLY IS AN ORGASM?

Orgasm can be defined as the peak or climax of SEXUAL excitement. Married couples should make it an objective to drive their partner to this peak during sexual acts.

The following steps will help to build up the excitement that would help you reach Orgasm.

1: Look nice, smell nice, and be clean. Stop carrying dirty pants around, learn to understand that vagina hairs need to be shaved or trimmed. It's so annoying that some ladies smell badly inside there which comes as a distraction.
You may choose to wear (nightwear, bra, or panties.

Take note that every man is Attracted by what they see.

2: Chose a nice and comfortable place to help you have undistracted sex. Eg. Hotel, living room, bathroom, bedroom, floor. Etc

3: Adjust the light to what suits you---- Darkness, dim lights, or bright lights.

4: pre-intimacy should begin with spontaneous endearing conversation accompanied by loving pats, hugs, and kisses.
Sir, pre-intimacy is a must, women are more moved by what touches them, what they see, and what they hear, unlike men that are been moved by what they see. Therefore, don't Rush your woman as if she is running elsewhere.

5: Gradually learn to UnCloth each other. Do you know a woman finds it Romantically rewarding, if her husband is the one that will gently UnCloth her? Just as a man feels happy if the wife is the one that will tell her husband, my king, I want you to see me. stop rushing her as if someone is about to catch you in the act. Even God knows you are doing it and he has no trouble with what you are doing.

6: The husband must continue Stimulating the woman's clitoris until she is high before penetration. Eg. He may gently start handling the clitoris with his tongue or finger. kissing and caressing her lips, thighs, buttocks, clitoris, labia, and other parts of her body until she is sexually excited. This will signal an increase in vaginal lubrication to enhance penetration and sweetness.

7: The wife should also continue Stimulating her husband's penis by rubbing and caressing the penis especially the cap or the tip and gently touching his tentacles.

PLEASE NOTE: Orgasmic Excitement in women is slower and last longer than in men. The women's Build-up during orgasm can be compared to the heating of an electric iron, whereas that of the man can be compared to switching on an electric bulb. This is why you need to take your time and not rush her.

8: At a point where the husband judges that his wife is at the height of her cloud 8 now he can penetrate. Do you know that one of the most pleasurable things during sexual intercourse is the woman's feelings about the man's penis entering her vagina? Not intimacy gadgets or as men are fooled to Believe that toys are far better than the real penis. Oh, my Goodness, you need to know the benefits of the pre-fluids that come out from a man's penis before entering.

9: Talk to each other and express your feelings during the act.
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By Dr. Ikemsinachi.

After reading the article I wrote that says 5 SIGNS THAT SOMEONE IS NOT INTO YOU a week ago, a concerned lady sent me a message seeking counseling.

She told me that her guy loves her, gives her attention, has time for her, cares about her, communicates well with her, and gives her lots of gifts and all of that but she's afraid the love is real.

Consequently, she chatted me up asking me how she would know that the love is real.

I told her that I'm going to write about it so that other people can also benefit from it. In this article, you will learn how to know if love is real or not.

When someone loves you, you know and you will feel it. There will be evidence to attest to it.

Below are some of the evidence...

✅ ATTENTION

When someone loves you, he or she will give you attention. We give attention to the things that we love.

✅ CARE

When someone loves you, they will care about your well-being. Anyone that doesn't care about your welfare does not love you.

✅ COMMUNICATION

When someone loves you, they will communicate often with you as much as possible. Hearing the voice of those you love is a delight.

✅ GIVING

The natural outflow of love is giving. When someone loves you, they will give. It doesn't necessarily have to be money but there will be giving.

✅ SPENDING TIME TOGETHER

When someone loves you, they will desire and long to spend time with you. When you love someone, you will desire the presence of the person. Anyone that doesn't like spending time with you, may not love you.

✅ SACRIFICE

The ultimate proof of love is sacrifice. Love is not self-seeking. Love always spends itself at the expense of the beloved. Someone that is not going out of his way once in a while to make you feel good, may not love you. Love is sacrificial.

✅ PATIENCE

When someone loves you, they will be patient with you. They will be patient with your weaknesses, downtime, etc.

✅ PROTECTION

When someone loves you, they will try to protect you from harm, they will ensure that you are safe.

✅ KINDNESS

When someone loves you, they will be kind to you. Love is kind. Harshness is a sign of hatred, resentment, or anger not a sign of love.

✅ VULNERABILITY

When someone loves you, they will be vulnerable to you. They will lose their guard, put down their defense, they will dismantle the barricadeanyy will show you the weak side of them hoping you don't hurt them.

✅ SUPPORT

When someone loves you, they will support you in whatever capacity they can. They will support your dreams and aspirations, they will support you financially, spiritually, emotionally, and otherwise.

✅ INVESTMENT

When someone loves you, they will invest in you to make you better than they met you mentally, emotionally, economically, etc. Love builds up.

So these are some of the signs that show someone loves you.

How Do You Know That The Love Is Real?

✅ Give It Time

I read something from Reno Omokri recently that made a lot of sense to me. It put what I want to say in perfect perspective for me.

He says, "No mask can be worn forever. Give people time. Their mask will fall. Until then, don't marry or do business with them. Stay loving, but be alert."

You cannot cover pregnancy forever, with time it will be revealed for all to see.

So, give the person time. He says he loves you with all his heart, you are his morning star, sunshine, sugar in the tea, butter in the bread, and his one and only woman, there's no problem. Give it time.

When he asks for sex and you tell him no sex until marriage, will he continue to love?

When you find yourself in a very difficult situation, maybe you are critically ill, will he continue to love?

She says she loves you, you are her world and you mean everything to her. Without you, she cannot live nor survive. You are her oxygen and life force. There is no problem. Give it time.

When you lose your job or suffer a major blow in your business, will she still love you?

When you are broke and unable to provide for her financial needs, will she still love or disappear with another guy?

Don't rush things. Give it time. Time is a revealer. Time will reveal if the love is real or not, with time you will come to know if the person is saying the truth or lying. Love perseveres and love is long-suffering. Stay loving, but be alert.

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Written by Samuel Okolie

Many youth nowadays engaged themselves in a relationship without proper investigation or test and most of them get their fingers burnt along the line.

It is always a painful experience after much investment of resources, most especially your time in such a relationship. However, there is a compatibility test that needs to be carried out to avoid such a painful experience.

WHAT IS COMPATIBILITY?
It is the ability of two or more people or things to function or work together without friction or problem or conflict.

It is the ability to relate, connect, gel, and agree between a man and a woman or a guy and a lady in a relationship.

The essence of this test is to see whether the both of you can live the rest of your life together as husband and wife in marriage which starts with a relationship.

This test is critically important because if you fail to carry out the test, the reality will dawn on you in marriage and you will have yourself to blame for your misery.

I pray that as many who are planning to go in or those of us who are in a relationship will not miss it in JESUS' name. Our relationship and marriage will be heaven on earth in JESUS' name. We will marry right and our marriage will glorify the name of the Lord in JESUS NAME.

AREAS FOR COMPATIBILITY TEST IN RELATIONSHIP

1. SPIRITUAL COMPATIBILITY:

Do two walk together unless they have agreed to do so? Amos 3:3. This is the utmost compatibility test before you say yes I do.

It is a no-go area for you if you are not compatible spiritually. Are you of the same faith? Do you both fear, love, and serve God genuinely? What is their reaction when it comes to the things of God? Are they slothful or fervent in spirit? Do they possess the fruits of the spirit?

By their fruits, you shall know them. We have many sexual predators looking for innocent sisters to destroy their destinies and fulfillment in life.

We have brothers who pretend to be what they are not to get in the thighs of the sisters, BEWARE beloved! If his or her confession is not what they practice, run for your life.

Ask about their view on physical apparel like trousers, necklaces, chains, make-up, attachment, earrings, etc.

Are you of the same view about those things? If you are the type that can’t do without those things and he has a different opinion, be surprised when he starts giving attitudes, disagreement starts coming in and no matter how you dress you can’t be appreciated.

Agreement of those things are either through doctrine or personal conviction?

Ask why they are wearing or fixing or using those things. Is it a personal conviction or through doctrine?

The better you agree on that thing, the better for you to live together in peace and harmony.

If she can’t do without a trouser don’t expect her to change in marriage. Some wicked brothers allow sisters not to put on trousers during courtship but in marriage they allow the sister to go through hell. Sisters, beware of such brothers.

Seek the Lord in prayers for his will for your marriage life and not your life.

Imagine, this person is who you want to spend at least 50 years with. You must get it right.

Don’t be lost in love no matter how caring he or she is, ensure he or she is God’s will before you go into that relationship.

2. PURPOSE COMPATIBILITY:

This is another vital area you must not joke with. You know you are an evangelist and anytime you mention evangelism in her heart, she always diverts your attention to other things or grumbles.

My brother if she can’t accept the purpose of God for your life, she has no place in your future and vice-versa.

You know you are a sexual puritan crusader and anytime you mention sexual purity in his sight, he gets pissed off and say we are all sinners and God is faithful.

Sister, watch that dream killer and destiny. If you are not both purpose-driven, you will be sexually driven into many sins.

You know you called to liberate people with music by taking them to the spiritual realm for freedom, blessing, fire, and refilling and he says music is not my kind of thing, why not go for professions like medicine, accounting, engineering etc, My sister beware, he is looking for a business partner and not a marriage partner.

This is the major reason why you need to discover who you are before you venture into a relationship.

Purpose compatibility is driven by God

Purpose compatibility is goal-oriented

Purpose compatibility is fulfilling

Purpose compatibility is clarity

3. GENOTYPE COMPATIBILITY:

The rate of Sickle cells in the world is alarming and it is a result of people’s negligence and ignorance.

What is the purpose of being in a relationship for more than 3 years and discovering that you are not compatible medically?

Please, do not suffer the unborn generation because of your ignorance or loss of love.

I believe in miracles and power but wisdom is profitable. Faith that can’t heal a headache can’t change genotype.

You have nothing to worry about if only you have strong conviction by GOD to proceed and tie the knot with her.

We have many types of genotypes and AA is good to go with any of those genotypes but NO to AS vs AS.

Don’t as a result of the feelings you have for him or her destroy your unborn generation.

4. INTELLECTUAL COMPATIBILITY:
What is the essence of being in a relationship with him or her and you can’t engage yourself in meaningful conversation?

If you can’t see any sense from or hear his or her opinion about certain issues, you will continue like that in marriage and your marriage will be boring because it will be SOLE PROPRIETORSHIP instead of PARTNERSHIP.

What is your view about marriage, childbearing, companionship, pre-marital sex, responsibility?

If you are saying A and he is saying Z you have to watch it. Your reasons and view on certain issues must be similar.

Engage yourself and don’t neglect intellectual compatibility

5. EMOTIONAL COMPATIBILITY:

How do you and what do he feel about you?

Check whether is it lust or love.

Is he always excited about your presence?

Is she always happy to see you?

How does he or she react when you are emotional?

Do your temperament traits complement each other?

How do you react to things around him or her?

6. FINANCIAL COMPATIBILITY:

Two spenders can’t make a good home. It is either ONE is financially intelligent and ASSIST the other to be or BOTH are financially intelligent.

Finance has destroyed a lot of homes today as a result of being money squander.

One of the important aspects of marriage is money “ego” YES OR YES.

Two lavish spenders are no savers

Two lavish spenders will suffer their unborn children

Cultivate the habit of financial intelligence and your finance will experience an increase.

Two resources put together are better than one or none. Please, be financially compatible.

7. PHYSICAL COMPATIBILITY:

If you have issues with her or his height, shape, eyes, legs, etc beware.

Physical compatibility means you are in love not in lust with her total package and vice-versa.

Most areas youth of now always are missing it or placed has their priority is physical appearance.

He must be TDH means Tall, Dark, and Handsome.

Please see beyond the physical, you can be deceived by the container unless you check the content of the container.

The beauty of a woman or lady is in her character.

Physical compatibility is good because that is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.

His or her look must be new to you every morning.

You both grow daily, work and stress yourself.

NOTE: The look will fade away but the real him or her will stay with you in marriage which is the most important.

I know you like guys with 6 packs but ensure it doesn’t lead you to 6 feet in the ground.

I know you like busty ladies, but ensure it does not later burst your buddle.

Even curvy and T-bottle ladies, hmmm you like them but ensure it will not let you experience hell on earth.

Physical compatibility is good but sees beyond the physical and embraces the content in the container.

I see us making great homes
I see us depopulating the kingdom of darkness
We are light and we shine forth
Our relationship is blessed
Our marriages will be fruitful
Our marriages will stand the test of time
Make Jesus Christ the foundation

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AKINDELE OLUWASEUN, 2020.

Okay guys you might be wondering, your wife keeps saying "Honey you're not romantic " and you'll be wondering what she means, seeing that you buy her all she needs, and you perform your conjugal duties to her anytime she needs it, but she keeps saying you're not romantic. What does she mean?

1. A romantic husband looks at his wife differently. There is this cute way he looks at her that makes her melt. She might catch you staring at her when she is in the kitchen cooking, or when she is having a bath. There is just something about the way romantic men look at their wives.

2. A romantic husband is a listener. I mean your wife will literally " worship" you if you give her a listening ear. It makes her feel wanted and valued, it makes her feel precious. When your wife comes to You about an issue bothering her, and you pay rapt attention, and you hold her hands as she is speaking, if she ends up crying, get closer to her and... https://www.gistreal.ng/2023/07/how-to-be-romantic-husband.html

If we should ask this in a better or clearer way, the question will be, "Is it okay for Christians to have MouthAction in marriage?" Since sex is meant to be done or experienced in marriage, that is after legal marriage. We do hear that married couple can do anything with each other after marriage, as long it's within their matrimonial home, so is MouthAction okay for us as children of God?

The answer is sex is fine and blessed in marriage but the oral of it is wrong and evil. Why? Because sex is meant for sexual activity by sex organs, and oral is meant for oral activities by oral organs; when you now exchange it, using oral organs for sexual activity and using sexual organs for oral, it means you are directly working against the natural order and creation of God. MouthAction is evil passion of working against the order of God, it's a deliberate turning the cause of nature upside down. Such habit exposes lives and marriages to demons, delusive pleasure and destruction at the end.

MouthAction was originated by Satan for people to dishonor the cause of God and to dishonor their bodies."Therefore God also gave them up to uncleanness, in the lusts of their hearts, to dishonor their bodies among themselves" Romans 1:24. MouthAction is of same category of sin with homosexuality, that is the gays and lesbians. In reality, MouthAction and homosexual are the same before God, who work against the natural cause. "who exchanged the truth of God for the lie, and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever. Amen.For this reason God gave them up to vile passions. For even their women exchanged the natural use for what is against nature. Likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust for one another, men with men." Romans 1:25-27

If you have been involving in MouthAction, you urgently need to repent and ask the Lord to forgive and purge you with His precious blood.

1 John 1:9-10, "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. 10 If we say that we have not sinned, we make Him a liar, and His word is not in us."

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Some are pits well-designed to swallow your destiny!

There are some places your semen must not enter. Once it enters there, Bros! How many ears do you have? Your own is finished! I reject that for you in Jesus' name!

One man asked where all his resources were going as he was not making any headway in life. Inside all the demonic vaginas he was fooling with of course!

Virgins are not stupid! They are wiser than all the men trading their joysticks on the altar of sex put together. A virgin has a glorious destiny untempered with! Satan respects them. God honors them. Their wives cherish and respect them. If they don't joke with sin and are focused on God and destiny, they shall be super great in life!

Some men are so addicted to random sex that their wives call them "community penis" not community leaders or life changers! Community penis! Free international semen donor!

Be known for something great in life not the number of girls you have deflowered, or murdered through abortions, or the many children you fathered and rejected!

If you are into different women and you are not making any headway in life if you now combine alcohol and cigarette or one of the above. You need help. Seriously! You can't go far in life! Cry out for help! You can't continue like this. Age is not on your side, biko! Soon you will be 40, 50, 80, 100! Then bye-bye!

Stop this game-playing brother! Your soul is too precious to be wasted on the altar of strange women!

Stop wasting away!

Repent. Get connected to your maker!

Ask Jesus to help you! Accept Him as your savior, helper, and restorer! And it shall be well with you!

You shall be free! In the name of Jesus!!!
Be blessed!
Thanks for reading. God bless you and... https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2023/06/dating-advice-building-meaningful.html

© Seun Oladele

PC: The Windows.

I have this profound relationship with my second son and love to lie together with my baby all the time. He sleeps extremely near to me while I sleep next to my hubby. It wasn't amusing when my one-year-old son (at that time) unexpectedly woke up one early morning and instructed his dad (in his 1year old language) to remove his hand from his mummy's arm.

My husband burst into laughter at the surprising outburst and maintained his hand on my arm. Baby kept whining and complaining, angrily woke me up (he thought I was napping), and briefed his dad. I laughed and clarified the best way I could that mummy is daddy's belonging and first love and can show admiration to her willingly. All answers fell on deaf ears! Admitting Dad and Mum are not going to budge, he changed roles and sandwiched himself between my husband and me, and held mute!
Smiles...he is more grown now, more self-reliant, and does not throw such blowups again.

Though children are adorable and so lovely, they can kill affairs and passionate lovemaking in marriage if permitted. The childbearing phase in marriage is a challenging one that needs wisdom to govern.
My first son likes to speak to his dad at the same time he is conversing with me. We have to teach him to allow grown-ups to finish speaking before talking.

When the children have not come, it is only you and your partner. You have all the time in the world to date him or her, have a loving moment together, get passionate, be romantic, and look into each other's eyeballs without a timetable for as extended as you want with zero distraction, but now that the infants have come, the attention is divided and you are so confusing about who to give most of your time. You occasionally feel regretful for giving your husband additional attention than the children and vice versa.
The key here is BALANCE. Learn to balance attention and admiration between your husband and the youngsters so that one does not unseat the other.

Here are the 10 keys to balancing affection between your spouse and the kids.
1) Whenever your spouse is not at home, spend time with your kids, and give them all the concentration, love, and admiration they need, when your husband is back home, switch to him for the affection he needs from you. You will always give them concentration but let them know your husband is the monarch of the house and .....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2023/06/you-need-to-read-this-challenges-in.html

1. When you are taken you will be very attractive to others. Learn to keep boundaries

2. Every marriage has its challenges, the secret is to use those challenges to grow together

3. You may be ready for marriage but if you marry someone who is not, you will be greatly frustrated. Don't be loving the wrong person the right way

4. There is more to life than marriage, pursue your purpose even as you do life as a team

5. When you see you two as one, you will not see each other as competition

6. Find activities to do together as a couple. Love is built on activity

7. Be careful who you listen to. Some people are not happy to be in their marriage or their singlehood and don't want you to be happy in your marriage

8. Marriage has different seasons. The together season, the conflict season where you both try to find your space in it and conflicts often arise, the trial season where you two will face reasons to quit, and the stronger together season where you two emerge closer than ever before through joint victory. Know which season you are in

9. If you don't prepare for children, children will come and diminish the love and focus you two had for each other. Many marriages suffer when parenting begins

10. Someone is watching your marriage and learning from you. What are you teaching them?

11. All the issues in your life that you did not deal with in singlehood, will bring issues in your marriage

12. Just because your parent's marriage failed, doesn't mean yours will too. Just because your parent's marriage flourished, doesn't mean yours will either. Take personal responsibility

13. Do not give your spouse so much power that he/she makes you lose your values, lose your sleep, live a miserable life, and kill your dreams. Insulate yourself from your spouse when he/she turns negative

14. Any marriage can survive any fall as long as the two are willing to forgive, change, work on making sure love is perceived, rise and move past the fall

15. When you start to focus on the weaknesses and shortcomings of your spouse, you will be swayed by temporary distractions

16. Money, disagreements, and decisions are easy to deal with when you two have friendship as the core of your marriage

17. Intimacy is more than having sex. Connect deeper beyond the orgasms through touch, hugs, cuddles, kisses, and great conversations

18. Your parents might mean well but they might ruin your marriage when they act or say based on their bias, prejudice, favoritism, tribalism, backwardness, bitterness, chauvinism, past hurt, or misinformation. They had their life, you build yours. Discern what advice to take or not. So the... https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/?m=1

© Akello Oliech and Dayan Masinde

He woke up in the middle of the night and found his wife sleeping next to him in bed.

He looked at her, she looked peaceful.

Yesterday, they didn't make love despite them sleeping naked. But it is not a big deal.

It's not that he doesn't find her sexy; it's just that they have outgrown sex.

They have reached that place in their marriage where sex is not a must have each night. They have reached a deeper level of intimacy.

A deeper level of intimacy where just holding each other close as their skin touch and converse brings pleasure to the soul. Yes, they have graduated from pleasure of the body, to pleasure of the soul.

Some nights they make passionate love, they sweat it out as he goes inside and pumps through her wetness. But other times they talk, laugh, chill and listen to music, smile, share the same air then sleep.

He looked at her.

She turned in her sleep.

He covered her revealed shoulder with the duvet.

She looked so comfortable.

He thought of the many men out there who are destroying their own marriages chasing after sex with other women. This world has billions of women; that means billions of butts, boobs and vagina. He is too mature to chase after other women, he has his Queen right next to him and no woman compares to her.

He wondered, what is the big deal about sex that makes people destroy their own homes for a few minutes of body pleasure. He thought of how our generation has made a big deal out of orgasms no matter how the orgasm is got; that we have forgotten the depth of love.

There is something higher than orgasms at any cost; there is love.

There is an unspeakable joy that comes with knowing you are faithful to your spouse. There is indescribable pleasure that comes with not just making sweet love to your spouse, but also being faithful to your spouse. There are people in this world who live for more than sex, those are the kind who are faithful in their marriages. The true test of an adult is when he or she masters sex and not sex being their master.

He looked at his beautiful wife sleeping and thought, she is more than a sexy body; she is his wife, his companion, his best friend, his confidant, his prayer partner, his co-worshiper, his Queen.

He kissed her on the forehead.

She opened her eyes to find him looking at her.

"I love you" he said.

She snuggled up inside his arms and said, "I love you too"

He stroked her soft skin as she fell deeper into sleep. He dozed off too - a couple that holds sexual intimacy as something special; a couple that has graduated from the pressure, complication and confusion of sex.

A healthy sex life doesn't mean that sex must happen every day, every time. But that sex is part of intimacy and a blessing through faithfulness; that sex is something that comes with no pressure, something peaceful.

There is so much to love beyond sex.

Love your spouse through sex and beyond sex.
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© Akello Oliech and Dayan Masinde

One of the greatest ways women hurt the men they love is with their words. Here are a few examples of words you might be speaking to your man that hurts him.
1. "Why can't you be like..."
The moment you start comparing your man to other men or the husbands of other women is the moment you crush his self-esteem and make him insecure. If you want your man to be better, address him without bringing other men into the picture. Do this by appreciating what he is currently doing as you make suggestions for improvement
2. "My friends were right"
Once you demonstrate that you talk badly about him with your friends and your side with your friends. He will begin to withdraw, doubting your loyalty, wondering what gossip about him you engage in
3. "Pastor says that"
It is good to listen to the counsel of your pastor but not to the point where your pastor overrides your husband
4. "You always/you never"
Don't speak in a manner that suggests your man has never done anything right just because you want to prove a point to him. Address specific issues, don't conclude everything about him. Don't say "You never do anything right", or "You always mess up", if that were the case, you two wouldn't even be together in the first place
5. "What kind of man are you?"
Many women say this especially when the man is struggling financially, the pressure for a man to always have money is so much and it hurts him even more when you kill him with his words instead of appreciating his effort and encouraging him. Pulling him down will not motivate him
6. "What do you even do in this house?"
These are words especially spoken by a proud woman who does the most in the house financially. When she is mad at him, she reminds him that she is the one who does the most. This kind of talk, instead of inspiring him to continue being a partner, makes him wonder "Why don't I leave you if you see me as a burden and not a partner with different strengths and weaknesses than you". If he leaves, she will regret longing for his company, even though he does not earn more than her
7. "I don't even need you"
Once a woman starts saying these words either to win an argument or because she is scared of being vulnerable, the man slowly loses motivation to do anything with and for her. Men love being where they are needed. Love is not for independent people who are self-sufficient and with walls around them, love is for interdependent people who would rather do life with someone
8. "Who is that you are with?"
Some women are possessive, they interrogate and micromanage their men. They call their man fishing for information, not to have a conversation. They tell their man, "Hand over your phone to the one you are with I confirm if you are lying". Whilst some men do lie, sometimes it is just the woman's insecurities that drive her man crazy no matter how much he tries to assure her
9. "You will not understand"
Some ladies tease their man with a problem they are going through, then when the man out of care seeks to find out about the problem in order to be there for her, she shuts him out saying he will not understand. The man might plead with her to open up, but if she does this often he will just give up and let her be. He can't force her
10. "How many times do I need to tell you this?"
Sometimes you will ask a man to do something and you might have to remind him, people are different. But if your way of reminding him doesn't speak love and respect and instead you scold him like a child, he might do what you want but slowly pull away from you and ......https://www.gistreal.ng/2023/06/these-truths-will-make-things-easy-for.html

© Dayan Masinde

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Every now and then, I counsel a lot of people: married and singles. One thing I have observed some have in common is the wrong choice of a spouse, that is, the married ones, married the wrong persons while the singles already in a love relationship are involved with the wrong persons.
Honestly, counseling isn't always easy. Most times, the counselees only want to hear nice stuff. They don't want to hear that sweet-bitter pill called the TRUTH.
Today, I will say it loud and clear here. I am sorry you have to deal with it and probably live with it till you go to glory.
A lot of people are in the wrong marriage while so many are in the wrong love relationship. While some knew what they were doing, others were simply victims of circumstances. While a love relationship can be remedied (because they're not married yet), on the other hand, such marriages are irredeemable, insolvable, and irreparable not because God can't fix it, but because you did what you were not supposed to during your search for a life partner.

More so, remember that whatever God has joined together let no one put asunder. One just has to live with its consequences for life. Except in the case of chronic cheating/ infidelity, domestic violence, and other types of violence or torture, marriage is for life. For those still single, you must prayerfully and patiently trust God for a life partner, and your choice and decision at the end of the day must "synchronize" with God's will.

Now let's look at the 13 signs that show you married the wrong person or are in the wrong relationship already:....https://www.gistreal.ng/2023/06/common-mistakes-people-make-during.html

A broken marriage can be an incredibly challenging and lamentable experience. When a relationship that was onetime filled with love and joy becomes damaged and strained, it's essential to find ways to overcome the complications and rebuild what has been lost.

In this article, we will examine the best techniques and procedures to mend a broken marriage, fostering open communication, reestablishing confidence, and reigniting the flame of love.
1. Recognizing and Accepting the Problems.
Understanding the signs of a broken-down marriage.
To overcome a broken marriage, it is compulsory to recognize and accept the signs of distress. These signs may comprise regular arguments, absence of communication, emotional distance, or a failure of shared interests. By identifying these problems, couples can start the technique of healing and restoration.

2. Acknowledging private contributions.
Both partners ought to take responsibility for their efforts and assistance in the broken marriage. This self-reflection permits individuals to achieve insight into their conduct and make crucial changes. By owning up to missteps and accepting fault, a path toward a solution can be paved.

3. Seeking Professional Help.
The role of marriage advisors.
Marriage counselors are taught professionals who specialize in supporting couples to navigate through challenging moments. Seeking their advice provides a secure and supportive environment to handle the underlying issues resulting in a broken marriage. These specialists offer helpful insights and realistic tools for rebuilding the relationship.

The benefits of therapy sessions.
Therapy sessions provide a medium for open communication and facilitate effective dialogue between partners. A skilled therapist can help reveal deep-rooted feelings, improve dispute-resolution skills, and offer strategies for rebuilding trust and intimacy. Attending therapy together demonstrates a shared responsibility to work through the challenges.

4. Improving Communication.
Active listening and empathy.
Sufficient communication is the cornerstone of a healthy marriage. Active listening involves giving undivided concentration to the other person, understanding their attitude, and responding with kindness. By fostering a non-judgmental and compassionate atmosphere, couples can rebuild trust and understanding.

5. Effective expression of emotions.
Speaking emotions healthily and constructively is crucial for settling conflicts. It's significant to use "I" statements to convey feelings rather than blaming or condemning the other person. By expressing emotions truthfully and respectfully, couples can work towards discovering common ground and resolving differences.

6. Rebuilding Trust
Transparency and honesty.
Rebuilding trust requires an affirmation of transparency and honesty. Both partners should be ready to share their thoughts, feelings, and knowledge openly. This transparency aids to create a safe space where trust can be rebuilt and nurtured.

7. Demonstrating responsibility and consistency.
Consistency is fundamental when rebuilding trust. Efforts must align with words, and promises should be maintained. Consistently showing up, being reliable, and...https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2023/06/29-best-ways-to-overcome-broken.html

Is there a marriage in this world where both partners are hundred percent (100%) transparent with themselves? Is there a marriage where some problems (even the tiniest issues) aren't invisible? To what degree can a spouse open up on personal or marital issues?

Please let me start by saying that this is not an encyclopedic treatise on the subject concern; it's just a basis, and I will be sharing more on this from time to time. So today, let's discuss the TRUTH and FACTS. Let me commence with the TRUTH of God's word first.
Frankly speaking, marriage should be a place of full clarity, a place of no enigmas. That was what God had planned marriage to be when he said both shall become one flesh. They were to accomplish oneness in their partnership just as God and Jesus Christ are. They were to be bound to the point that keeping things away from the other partner would be virtually impossible. That's the idea of the standard and perfect marriage. No enigmas whatsoever. No mysteries at all....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2023/06/here-is-gospel-and-bitter-truth.html

I intended to respond to as many possible salient queries about relationships, marriage, and family matters.

1) Is marriage compulsory for everyone to marry?
The answer is No. Although God wants everyone to walk down the aisle, matrimony is by choice, it's optional to mankind.

2) Does God's will assure success in marriage?
The answer is No. Marriage is like a bungalow and God's will is like a foundation for the house called marriage. A solid foundation independently doesn't make a solid house. The other edifice fabrics should be of quality too.

3) Should I marry someone I don't love or admire?
Here is the answer. Love must start a relationship or marriage as its foundation otherwise such marriage or relationship will not last.

4) In a relationship, can the two lovers make love to each other outside of marriage?
Lovemaking isn't for boyfriends or girlfriends or fiance and fiancée kind of relationship but the exclusive reserve of the married ones only. Lovemaking outside wedlock is a sin to God in heaven the creator of all things visible and invisible.

5) Does lovemaking strengthen a love relationship?
Commitment and sincere efforts do, not lovemaking. An uncommitted lover will still leave despite making love to you for years or days.

6) In a married man's life, who is extensively significant, his wife or his mother?.......https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2023/06/13-relationship-and-marriage-frequently.html

Strengthening your relationship with your significant other is a consistent process that requires effort, open discussion, and mutual approval. Some recommendations for making your relationship stronger and more meaningful are listed as follows:

1) You are to first establish confidence and honesty to formulate a solid bond. Communicate with each other openly and forthrightly. Put your confidence in your partner and show them you can be counted on by always sticking with your word and protecting their solitariness.

2) The resilience of any relationship can be delineated back to its foundation which is good communication. Seek to give attention to your partner, share your feelings truthfully, and show kindness and wisdom at all times. Retain consistent communication and a trusting atmosphere to share sincerely and honestly.

3) Be thankful; inform your partner how much you value and admire them frequently. Acknowledge their actions, appreciate their qualities, and thank them for altogether impacting your life. A simple deed of thankfulness, a handwritten message of gratitude, or a sincere comment can go a long way toward boosting a relationship.

4) Spending time together in a meaningful way is significant for formulating a stronger relationship. Date nights, weekend travel, and other shared goals should...https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2023/06/10-ways-to-deepen-love-bond-between-you.html

1. Sudden dislike for your husband and wife without explanations.
2. Leave the gas on when you have left home.
3. Falling in love with your Married neighbor, sneaking into flats and apartments for sex.
4. Overspeeding on a Nigeria road. This one is classic.
5. Gathering materialistic people to yourself when you have money. Deluding yourself that you have true friends because you have money or clout, instead of proving people who love and you can trust.
6. Arguing with a Nigerian police officer over the #50 bribe.
7. Hating the sex life in your marriage without telling your partner.
8. Overworking without feeding well. Losing sleep and self-medicating.
9. choosing to deliver your baby in a poor hospital, spiritual maternity center, or with a quack doctor.
10. Having a Pastor who opines God is not involved in your physical life apart from salvation in Christ...https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/search/label/Marriage

Revd Harrison Ayintete

Building a strong and healthy relationship requires effort, understanding, and effective communication. When you're in a new relationship, getting to know your partner better is essential. One way to foster a deeper connection is by asking thought-provoking questions. In this article, we present a list of good relationship questions to ask a guy in a new relationship. These questions will not only help you learn more about each other but also strengthen the bond you share.

1. What are your long-term goals and aspirations?
Understanding your partner's aspirations can provide insight into their ambitions and values. It also allows you to align your goals and see if you have compatible visions for the future.

2. How do you handle conflicts or disagreements?
Conflict resolution is crucial in any relationship. By discussing how your partner handles conflicts, you can gauge their communication skills, willingness to compromise, and ability to work through challenges together.

3. What are your love languages?
Love languages are the different ways in which individuals express and receive love. Knowing each other's love languages can help you understand how to show affection and support in ways that resonate with your partner.

4. What are your favorite hobbies or interests?
Sharing common hobbies and interests can strengthen the connection between you and your partner. Learning about their passions allows you to engage in activities together and support each other's personal growth.

5. How do you prioritize your personal time versus time spent together?
Understanding how your partner balances personal time and time spent together is important for maintaining a healthy...https://www.gistreal.ng/2023/06/10-good-relationship-questions-to-ask.html

Losing weight can be a challenging journey, especially for women who are looking to shed those extra pounds. With so many diet plans and weight loss strategies out there, it's easy to feel overwhelmed. However, by incorporating some simple yet effective tips into your lifestyle, you can achieve your weight loss goals and improve your overall well-being. In this article, we will discuss 20 quick weight loss tips specifically designed for women.

1. Setting Realistic Goals
1.1 Determine Your Ideal Weight
Before embarking on any weight loss journey, it's crucial to determine your ideal weight. Consult with a healthcare professional or use a BMI calculator to get an estimate. Setting a realistic and achievable goal will help you stay motivated and focused.

1.2 Break Down Your Goals
Breaking down your weight loss goals into smaller milestones can make the process more manageable. Aim for losing a certain number of pounds per week or month rather than focusing solely on the end result. Celebrating each milestone will keep you motivated along the way.

2. Mindful Eating
2.1 Listen to Your Body's Hunger Cues
Pay attention to your body's hunger and fullness signals. Eat when you're hungry and stop when you're satisfied. Avoid emotional eating or eating out of boredom.

2.2 Practice Portion Control
Be mindful of portion sizes. Use smaller plates and bowls to control your portions visually. Opt for balanced meals that include a combination of protein, carbohydrates, and healthy fats.

3. Balanced Diet
3.1 Include Lean Proteins
Incorporate lean proteins like chicken, fish, tofu, and legumes into your diet. Proteins help you feel fuller for longer, stabilize blood sugar levels, and support muscle growth.

3.2 Opt for Whole Grains
Choose whole grains such as quinoa, brown rice, and whole wheat bread over refined grains. Whole grains are rich in fiber and essential nutrients, providing sustained energy throughout the day.

3.3 Incorporate Fruits and Vegetables
Fill your plate with a variety of colorful fruits and vegetables. They are low in calories and high in vitamins, minerals, and antioxidants. Aim for at least five servings per day.

3.4 Limit Processed Foods and Sugary Drinks
Minimize your consumption of processed foods and sugary drinks. These products are often high in calories, unhealthy fats, and added sugars, which can hinder weight loss progress.

4. Hydration
4.1 Drink Sufficient Water
Stay hydrated by drinking an adequate amount of water throughout the day. Water helps boost metabolism, reduce cravings, and flush out toxins from the body.

4.2 Replace Sugary Drinks with Water
Swap sugary drinks like soda and juice with water or herbal tea. This simple change can significantly reduce your calorie intake and promote weight loss.

5. Regular Exercise
5.1 Engage in Cardiovascular Activities
Incorporate cardiovascular exercises into your routine, such as brisk walking, jogging, cycling, or swimming. Aim for at least..https://www.gistreal.ng/2023/06/20-quick-weight-loss-tips-specifically.html

Dating can be a thrilling journey filled with excitement and the possibility of finding a meaningful connection with someone special. While some relationships may remain casual and short-lived, there comes a time when you might want to identify a serious dating relationship. Recognizing the signs of seriousness can help you determine whether your relationship has the potential to grow into something deeper and more long-lasting. In this article, we will explore various indicators that can help you identify a serious dating relationship.

1. Commitment and Communication

Commitment is an essential element of a serious relationship. When both partners are committed to each other, they prioritize the relationship and invest time and effort into making it work. A serious relationship involves a level of exclusivity where both individuals are emotionally invested and seeks to build a future together.

Effective communication is another vital aspect of a serious relationship. It involves open and honest dialogue, active listening, and respectful expression of thoughts and feelings. In a serious relationship, partners are comfortable discussing their needs, desires, and concerns, fostering a strong foundation of trust and understanding.

2. Mutual Respect and Support

Mutual respect is a fundamental characteristic of a serious dating relationship. Partners treat each other with kindness, consideration, and admiration. They appreciate each other's individuality, opinions, and boundaries. Respectful communication and behavior are the cornerstones of a healthy and serious partnership.

Furthermore, supporting each other emotionally and practically is a sign of seriousness. Serious partners are there for each other during both triumphs and challenges, offering a shoulder to lean on and providing assistance when needed. They create a safe and nurturing environment where both individuals can rely on one another.

3. Shared Values and Goals

Shared values and goals contribute to the strength and longevity of a serious relationship. When partners align on core values, such as honesty, trust, and loyalty, they establish a solid foundation for their connection. It is essential to share similar beliefs and perspectives on important topics such as family, career aspirations, and lifestyle choices.

Additionally, having shared goals for the future demonstrates a level of commitment and seriousness. Whether it's building a life together, pursuing mutual dreams, or supporting each other's individual ambitions, aligning goals fosters a sense of unity and purpose. https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2023/06/important-question-and-answers-on-how.html