Kobojunkie:
You are still not making any sense to me in this. Focus!

Again, what the Crux of the message here is that society ought to equally condemn cheating by men and women in order to curb issues of paternity fraud - the child in the in-between is fathered by a man, is it not?

society this society that? you're just so dumb, so the society should go about sealing randy women's vagina with super glue abi?


you're so foolish that you can even detect your own foolishness lol.


na society go care for the bastard child abi? lol

AmazonTopaz:

They clearly understood my post,they all did they are only feigning ignorance and outraged at the obvious truth.

Thank you for having time to answer them because me I nor get time,they will continue to experience paternity fraud until they decide to call a spade or spade

so calling a spade a spade will stop the randy women from opening their legs like Lekki toll gate everywhere? or were they raped?.... you just keep defending your initial foolishness with more stupidity. na your type dangote truck dey kill for road uselessly mtchew

Kobojunkie:
OP is simply trying to get people to accord equal blame to both the man and the woman whose child it is.

Paternity fraud happens when a man and woman engage in affairs and some of these affairs involve men who are themselves married. Until society openly condemns both men and women who commit these crimes, these problems are likely here to stay.

okay so after according the blame to both parties, the jilted man should still rub the useless woman's head and thank her for bringing a bastard home,,,, right? RIGHT?


Cause that's what you and the useless op have been shouting since

Kobojunkie:
The point is hold the man whom the woman had the affair with is should be held equally responsible for the paternity fraud crime.

If society would accord equal blame on the woman and the man, likely a married man, whose child the victim is made responsible, you will begin to see less of these crimes happening.

you are as stupid as the op, so was the woman raped? your useless point only holds water if she was raped abi what happened to saying NO?


everyday on nairaland I see more reasons not to get married, imagine marrying these kind of bitches damn person fit die Young

Lashist:

No...you didn't say cheating is bad...you said other men do cheat constantly which happens for both genders. So bcus of that, a man should not worry if his wife gives him another man's child because other men he doesnt know is cheating around

as in her stupidity is alarming. if I get this one as sister and I find this kind of post from her I'm never speaking a word to her for life.

AmazonTopaz:
Facts,see the way they are outraged.

you are very stupid! is a man supposed to be happy raising a bastard because some men he doesn't know are cheating with 'your kind of women' that can't say simple NO? Abi which kind talk be this sef? if they born your mama well go talk am offline not coming online to talk rubbish. Goat

skywalker240:

Now youre playing from the old book maam

whats good for goose is good for the gander kinda stuff

i mean "men are polygamos in nature, the woman should forgive and safe their homes, so men do same"

dam thats wrong maam.

what's with the 'maam'? that's a useless senseless bitch that should be out in her place, imagine what she's justifying!


abeg make una no dey make all these useless hoes feel important

maynia:


I wish this on your children

I add a big amen to that bros... can you imagine the olosho saying yes she will accept just to look good online to her useless fellow oloshos justifying paternity fraud.

kingxsamz:
I don't understand why this irrelevant post was created in the first place. What point are you trying to prove? Why shouldn't men be angry about paternity fraud? Is anyone justifying the fact that men cheat too?
So why are you bringing it up like you're trying to invalidate men's concern on the issue? Shey make dem no talk again? Are you sure you're okay?

You think you should ask men why they're outraged over the fact that they're being deceived to raise another man's child as their own?
you're actually daft.

she's obviously the most daft female on this site. mehn I thought I've seen it all from Saphiere until this one shows her true self... like wtf I'm sure they no born her well to talk this outside only here on nairaland.

AmazonTopaz:


Yes after all women have been keeping quiet for ages after discovering that their husbands have children outside

Because men have been cheating for ages women have had to endure same and probably trained another woman's child too,They should train the kids after all they are from the loins of their fellow comrade who couldn't control his third leg.
Try to use your brain please.

now i can confirm that you have issues. imagine what someone is spilling out and na person go marry this one. so if it's your brothers too they should keep quiet and accept a bastard child....


I thought is the only one that make this site unpleasant, yours is on another level damn

Elvictor:


Nigeria is a funny country, they blamed Ipob and instigated a propaganda to rope in Ipob but it backfired.
Now, the chicken has come home roost, they are now shifting the goal post from one end to another.

I am not going to point a finger, let the law take it course, we should await the investigation if it will even be carried out.

which law in Nigeria? which investigation in Nigeria? seems you're typing this from Canada.

BabaIbo:
I won't doubt it, it is possible because a lot of businesses made boom sales during corona period.

Some businessmen bought houses, cars, settle their loans/debts/overdrafts etc immediately after the covid boom sales.

I won't mention the amount involved in my case here because of security reason.

All I will say is, it has multiplied over 4 to 5 times in size and it will clock a year old soon.

please support me boss, I have good business ideas but no capital.

IbileIfe:

Mine was started with N100, 000 and the current total worth is more than US$15M.
It is a limited liability company (LLC).
I have two developers in Asia.
I own all the shares, because the other shareholders failed to fulfill their financial commitments.

boss support me to start uber business please, I will pay returns in installments sir

Cokahot:
Stop hating yourself foo l,u are only creating problems,go find someone else to mention,I am worth millions, drop your acct details and let me be your donor.

boss I dey loyal make I drop aza

The25thBAM:
Available??

yes what's your number let me contact you

think about this... what if this op is a DSS online agent, while their foot soldiers cause havoc and burn things, oyigboupdate post the news to frame ipob

Bombs are built to be detonated not stored like naija palliatives

Iamagoodgirll:
So I came across this post in a group

NL guys have you experienced this?, also share your view.

I NEED ADVAISE FROM A MALE READERS:

And no, my story is not made up. It’s for real, actually very real. I am a top executive of a very successful conglomerate my father founded. I resumed the job early this year when I returned from the U.K after completing my MBA.
As a result of my job, I usually find myself frequenting places I ordinarily wouldn’t want to- Ikoyi club, society weddings, conferences, etc. I’m a geek for the most part, and something of a recluse. I would rather stay in my house at the end of day and watch TV. When I became Deputy CEO of the company, I realized that I had to start hanging out at these places to build a social circle, mostly for business reasons. I am not a very sociable person, but with the help of my more outgoing cousins, I have been able to build a pretty decent network of Lagos ‘big boys’ between January when I returned and now.

During a conference in Lagos this year, I was approached by a young lady banker. She was working in the Marketing department at one of these banks, She’s pretty young- about 7 years my junior. I’m 28; this lady is about 21. You know how young these graduates are these days.

Anyway, she walked up to me and started persuading me to consider opening up a bank account with her bank and told me all the benefits of the account, etc. She looked so innocent and desperate, and practically begged me for an opportunity to see me again so that she could convince me. I ended up giving her my complimentary card. I usually don’t just give out my card like that, but I did.
Three days later, when I was hanging out with my new-found friends and my cousins at a bar at one of the Hotels on the Island during the early evening, this girl called me and reminded me who she was. She said she really needed me to open an account, and that she was eager to convince me on why I needed to open an account. My friends noticed I was talking to a girl on the phone. You know how guys are; they teased me and asked me to just play around with her and invite her for drinks.
I asked her to come over to the Hotel, and surprisingly, she said she would be there in 20 minutes. The branch she worked in is on the Island, so she apparently took a Bike and came to meet us. This was about 6pm. The girl came, and my friends all saw her. They smiled and talked among themselves in hush tones, and I talked briefly with her for like 5 minutes and told her I would make a decision on banking with her or not. She was desperate from what I could see, and she was eager to get my account.

When she left, my friends all laughed mischievously and told me in plain terms that I had to sleep with the girl. They went on talking about how all these bank marketers sleep with different men before getting deposits, and insisted that I must not be any different. Now, I’m not a virgin; I’ve had my own fair share of sex in the past, but I’ve never been one to take advantage of a girl. I knew she was desperate as she had a target to meet up to, or something of the sort. But when you’re a guy hanging out with guys, it’s pretty difficult to be the odd one out. All my friends made me promise that I’d sleep with the girl. I promised; I didn’t want to look like some geek. And I’m really trying to feel among these guys.

To cut a long story short, two days later, when I was in my office, this girl called me and tried persuading me to bank with her. As she was talking to me on phone, I asked her jokingly: “What are you willing to do in order for me to open an account with you?”

She hesitated and then she told me: “Anything you want sir.”

Gbam! That was my cue. I asked her to meet me at one hotel for drinks later that evening. I asked my PA to book a room for me at the Hotel. She came to meet me. We had drinks, we chatted. She told me that her bosses had ordered her to deliver N10million to the bank that month, and that so far, she hadn’t gotten anything. Her job was on the line, and she had only just started working there 3 weeks before. I asked her to follow me to the room. She did. I slept with her.

Surprisingly, it turns out she was doing it for the first time. She was actually a Virgin. The bed sheet was stained with her blood and all that stuff, and I was just amazed. I thought being a marketer and all, that she would have been sampled many times. But no, she was a virgin. When we finished, she was shy of looking at me in the eye. We didn’t talk much. I gave her money for a Taxi, and gave her the name of the Finance director of the subsidiary I am in charge of. I asked her to meet him the following day to open up a corporate account. I instructed the guy to open up an account worth a few hundreds of millions- probably enough to meet her target for the next 2 years if there is such a thing in commercial banking circles. I don’t know how these banks work.

Anyway, she called me and thanked me profusely for saving her job. My friends now know I have slept with her, and I have solidified my place among them as a ‘bad’ guy.

The issue is this: I haven’t been able to stop thinking about her. It’s been like six weeks now. I haven’t called her since then, even though she keeps sending me text messages asking after my wellbeing and thanking me for banking with her. She deals directly with my Finance guy so we don’t talk money ever. But I think about her every day. I think I actually have feelings for her, and the idea that I was her first makes me feel like she should belong to me. I’ve never been a Lady’s first. I’m actually going crazy with thoughts about this girl.

Am I crazy? Should I call her up and ask her out? How would that feel? How would she react? Also, considering that my friends all see her as the bank ‘LovePeddler’ would it be a good idea to still ask her out? How will my friends see me? I’m not looking for sex from her; I’m looking for something real, something intimate. I want something that’d last- probably forever.

I’ve never felt this way about any other lady in a really really long time. What should I do?

op help your boy with 5k please

awon oponu in government, make they no unban am na shebi they useless ni

you won't see that olodo futureisfemale (Saphiere ) here

saphiere:
Rape apologist what else can you say?

go and ask your father, the one who raped you and your siblings as kids

dude you disgust from the pit of my stomach, don't quote me in your usual senseless writeup , get a job.

post=105974186:

Incoherent jargons as usual.
Anyways,
Collectiiii....

buhari boys at work una weldone

the zombies will soon fill the thread up

post=105970431:
Awwwww
Beautiful couple.
We are always happy for people celebrating mehn.

From all of us @[color=#006600][/color] : Happy married life Olayinka and hubby.

Grind and Barbecue your boo as you like, na u get ya thingy!

trash trash trash

visit coded runs. com and thank me later

aka ilovedemmanna, Nlpolicewoman will be disappointed he was not chosen hahaha baba dey fight for 30k not ambassador position

BarrSly:
I always hold the possibility of a setup as a lawyer I have been involved in cases where by the kids all of a sudden open up that they were forced to accuse the neighbor wrongly.. most neighbors out of envy setup a fellow neighbor and then start asking for monetary settlement


Ps: the Nigeria that I know, they’ll capture this accused man naked and paste his picture all over the net..

..

of course I thought the same, definitely sounds like something Saphiere and her bunch of inconsequential feminist can do just do make frontpage

post=105937484:
Blackface we love you.
A lot of your songs are evergreen.
You sing for the masses, just like Baba Fela.
Even 2Face came out to say dem agree say na you write African Queen 100%.

By the way,
For all the corrupt swines and children of frustrations telling sane Nigerians that Nigeria was like Dubai during the reign of their corrupt evil and looting party that looted their destiny and that of their children,
This song by Blackface during the years of the looting of your fathers and opolo eye cancer patient mother hiding in UK, that make y'all all wail day and night , pretending to care for the masses, while hiding the fact that y'all running mad cos there is no more corrupt money to steal.
Let this song hit your heart and prick ya conscience.
FvckAllYa!


HARDLIFE BY BLACKFACE.

Blackface Yah man Alabai are you with me.
Marvellous are you with me.
Said it′s a hard life Wey we dey live oh,
eh eh I tire for this kind life

Wey we dey for this kind country

It's a hard life wey we dey live for naija.
Use dem money plane to overseas dem ja.
Hard life wey we dey live for naija Ja ja (naija in Africa) It′s a hard life wey we dey live for naija Use dem money plane to overseas dem ja Hard life wey we dey live for naija, ja ja (naija in Africa).

Na so dem do dem chop our money go.
Dem think sey me and you we no go know (na lie o) See them as dem pass dey go.
Blow their siren from makurdi to otukpo Chakoko Kwa eh See as our life just dey bitter e.
'Cause Our roads e bad.
How can we be glad When the children are suffering Everyday in ah we yard Dem say e go better,
e worse pass as e bad oh.
Money no be dem own Dem put am for dem backyard After dem go say make we no light we jay,
Make we no know sey dem steal our pay.
From here to Bombay,
I say Which kain life we dey today When we dey work and daily no pay,
I say This government e bad oh,
see as dem leave All the students and dem dey keep dem for Their house oh,
It's a hard life wey we dey live for naija,
Use dem money plane to overseas dem ja,
Hard life wey we dey live for naija, ja ja (naija in Africa) It′s a hard life wey we dey live for naija Use dem money plane to overseas dem ja oh,
Hard life wey we dey live for naija, ja ja (naija in Africa).

Nowadays everybody is living in pain,
Work for six months salary go dey in vain,
Dem wan scatter we brain,
Dem pack all the Masses and put dem in a poverty train
Corruption na the order of the day,
And the fuel scarcity e dey bring the country shame (no mind them),
After then dem go tell we what to do When dem take the revenue.
And drink liquor with dem crew,
yuh Fire burn one, all of them wan Embezzle we money,
And dey call we bloody fool,
I say the youth na the time for we To take the lead,
No mislead a black family.
What we need in society,
just for dem to give We the basic amenities,
′cause It's a hard life wey we dey live for naij,
Use dem money plane to overseas dem ja,
Hard life wey we dey live for naija, ja ja (naija in Africa) It′s a hard life wey we dey live for naij.
Use dem money plane to overseas dem ja Hard life wey we dey live for naija, ja ja (naija in Africa).

How can I live in a country Where the light ain't steady Water don′t run and I can't afford spaghetti.
I don′t do deals cos they shady,
When the thieves come to rob Them the cops ain't never ready (oh God),
I would have graduated 4years ago.
And would I graduate now? Only God knows.
The economy of my nation is moving too damn slow,
Nobody cares to know whether you catch a rhyme blow Folks can't afford 3 square meal.
How damn then dem pay their bills?
Pot bellies up there don′t know how it feels With pure raw skills, now I gat a record deal I′ve got to say this from the heart,
OBJ we don't feel you,
As a matter of fact, OBJ we don′t believe you,
You don't know exactly how it hurts when we see you, We don′t need you,
If You gotta step aside please do
We gat death traps on the high way,
You expect us all to live on minimum wage,
Sellers ain't paid, brothers got to buy guns to go on rampage to rob his own way,
Now the youths listen,
We all know how you feel,
We gat no remedy, we got to get up for real,
So put your guns down and use your head,
′Cause someday I believe we'll make this daily bread,
cos It's a hard life wey we dey live for naija, use dem money plane to overseas dem ja Hard life wey we dey live for naija, ja ja (naija in Africa) It′s a hard life wey we dey live for naija, use dem money plane to overseas dem ja Hard life wey we dey live for naija, ja ja (naija in Africa)


God bless you too Sir.

trash trash trash


that's all you can ever write, trash!