if you are an engineer, then forget that 80k job and go for your masters joh, if you are not then consider the online distance learning option,

I need a 2004 toyota camry, if you have one for sale pls contact me at: lucida_ng@yahoo.ca.
I hope the price would not be out of this world.

Interesting topic!!!
Well as for me, i don't believe it is a bad idea for couples to make love before marriage,
It helps both of you better understand your sexual compatibility, or whether you have to call it off before you both make the greatest mistakes of your life.

as long as e concern babe, boiz go just rush like mad, 9ja style.
british babe, take am easy joh!!!
u no know where red light district dey?

@ gabongee,
i gbadu u

@ denex,
good call.
word of caution to all, i suppose.

honestly speaking, some of us are already aware of the "supposed" risk that you have just mentioned but are still going ahead to bare our minds,

it is meant to be an interactive but candid exercise so that we can all draw positive insights from the learnings and ideas of others, while we share ours with them,

i suppose there is some truth in what you have mentioned though and i implore all of us to share our personnal experiences with a little bit of class and style, and not freak out for fear of retribution,

why lead a double life? there is no gain , in the long run.

Wow!!!

I strongly believe in One Man - One woman at a time.

Monogamy can't be the cause of infedility, there are sevaral underlining causes - all steming from a lack of communication both verbally, sexually and in all other manners amongst the couples in question,

Come to think of it, if you really love your woman, would you want to spoil the fun by bringing in another woman

Long distance relationships are usually a challenge, but sometimes it can be very interesting.
if u have a choice, try to cut the long distance out, eventually, because long distance relationships are truly not sustainable in the long run.
but i think what really matters is communication,
some people may even live in the same state but do not see or talk to each other often, no be dat one bad pass.

i have experienced both kinds, long distance and short.
what works best for me is a relationship where we both live within 5km max, nothing more!!!!
otherwise, i no dey!!

Well, na normal thing for guys to cheat, so i no need to tell u before u go understand,

anyway, it still doesn't make it right,

Well, me i don decide to dey take the antidote so that i no go backslide again,

ANTIDOTE:
""""Only date people you adore, care for and respect, one that is truly your friend, and not just becuase of dat bakassi or boobs or sexy lips, sexy figure"""""

""""Make sure the feeling is mutual"""""

Otherwise """""ABORT relationship""""""

Else """"Heartbreak!! Cheating!!!! Late Nights!!!""""""

no long thing!!!!!
signing off

Hi PTBNaija,
i lke the way ou put the word "recreational sex", wow!!!
From a personal point of view, abortion s bad, but sometimes it may appear to be the way out in some circumstances instead of ruining the future happiness of both parties concerned.

Another male friend of mine, who has a beutiful fiancee, who he loves so much went and got another girl pregnant, Right now he is in a very difficult siuaion because the lady in question is not ready to do an abortion, He realises that he could lose his fiancee if she finds out and it troubles him the more,

He said it was supposed to be a fling and he was drunk and didnt know what he was doing, now he got himself in so much troubl and needs guidance.

Should he compel the girl to have the abortionor should he leave with the fact that there is a baby on the way that could ruin his relationship with his fiancee. He says that if he is able to convince this other lady to have the abortion, then he maynt let his fiancee know what had transpired at her back, but if the girl insists n keeping the baby, he would have to tell her and hope that she doesn't leave him,

One thing i know for sure is that he is very confused and needs guidance, This is a typical case where PREVENTION is certainly better than CURE,
Please comment.

my case is really amazing, i have proposed twice @ two different ocassions, two different spots to the same lady, the second one was more to reinforce my locve for her,

first instance: over the phone, felt it wasnt romantic enough, sent her like 50 love text messages and she was like, what's happening here and i poppoed the question,

second instance: at eko hotel meridien, lovely outing for lunch, afterwards we went chilling by the pool side, she looked really pretty in her new dress and new hair do, really loved her perfume,
as a guy man, me i still look good too,
anyway, i sang äfrican queen" for her, at least she was the queen of my life,
told her i wanted to spend the rest of my life with her,
pulled out a rose flower and popped the word once again,
this time around she really liked the surprise,
i was really glad, because she means the world to me,

right now we are planning the marriage stuff, u would agree with me that it takes a lot of planning,
please wish us well.
i really love her

this is getting really interesting, i am greatly impressed, ride on guys!

congrats on ur job.
but u know, babe4real is kind of right,
working @ access bank is quite challenging
not to worry, it will sharpen your mind and make u dogged for your next assignment
best of luck

@tfk,
u see, good things do come to those who wait.
best wishes, n when u want to give out loans, be sure to give me a holla.
just might be interested.
cheers

@ red woman,
i love the way your name sounds.
welcome on board,

thanks all for your contributions thus far, my friend is getting over it and it helped her a great deal to know how other people felt about the issue too.
thanks once again.

just visit him at odd hours and periods, u will know,

@ all nigerian men are real and practical that is why they seem to be less unromantic,
but part of love is getting to appreciate and care for your woman, therefore nigerian men are getting to learn the romance stuff.
an ex-girlfriend of mine recommended watching indian movies, at first, it seemed like a boring activity but over time i got to love it and believe me it has boosted my romance life,

with regards to making a proposal to your wife to be, i think it is an interesting thing to do.
every man worth his salt should be delighted to do it,
the styles may differ,
nigerian men have come of age are now making proposals to their brides,
some are even doing it retroactively, kind of, to make up for lost time, that is for the married folks,

we don dey change oh!!!!!!

@ all,
having a GET 2 gether tonite, somewhere in Lagos, (shout out goes 2 all those presently in lagos 9ja.)
guaranteed to have plenty of "wild"' chicks and "rude"' bobos,
just in case u may be interested in a little "royal s_x rumble" l8r tonite,
after lights out, give me a holla, will be up on this thread for the next 15 mins,
cheers all,

wow!!!!
new to nairaland oh!!
never begin miss anyone yet but this place na the bomb sha,
make una keep it up.
guess i am already missing all the sweet sissies in the house.
guess u gals must be really pretty, love u all.
cheers

@ All,
I loved Henry sha, but Henry or no henry i remain a GUNNER for life,
It remains arsenal for life.

@ kuwena,
please elucidate, what are your reasons?