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If he commands so much influence as he claims, why is he not free already. These ipob /NDA should go and find work abeg. Nigeria as it is has a handful of problems right now. Let's work together to make the country better.

Seems like this thread was created for halfricanadian and uckenety

God will punish this man for putting the daughter through this kind of emotional trauma.

Ask4Info:
You can't give your money to any girl because you ONLY DO GUYS. Bloody Gay.
Hungry boys forming rich.

Don't mind him.

DanielGb:
Rapmoney the intelligent guy.
Always on point.

Some guys won't understand this
some ladies won't accept it. they know why anyway.

Money is a means to an end.
A lady who is attracted to you seek your time. He wants the hunger or desire in you to always want to be so close to her or hear from her.

WARNING: Be careful of been friendzone. Make your intentions known to her.

Caring is just the part you show her how much you love her.

but Waite,
She is still a girl friend. Be clear about that. only if you have make the decision to marry her.

Why spend heavily on her.
Save yourself the worry, soap opera drama and music video bullshit. She ain't gona stay if you don't do two things

1. Have Something doing.
A business or Job or something you are Passionate about or make do with it. It doesnt have to be profitable.

She want to be part of the Adventure.
Ask Her.

2. Desire to be there for her. Pay attention to everything about her.

Did I mention money. No!
You only need to spend on her when you feel she merit it.

Spend on her only when she deserve it.
To the guys
MAKE HER DESERVE IT BEFORE YOU SPEND.

An Example:
A Lady friend of mine ask me why I didn't call her. I simply answered: " On watsapp, you don't reply my IM. So why should I call you?"

She gave excuses but, she change. when I notice she change. I call her.

Its simple.
The ladies see every potential man and a man a superior being. Admit it or not. Enough of Equality bullshit.

Be Her Leader.
Be the superior being.
not as a dictator but as someone who gives to her when she deserve it.

Bing**
Zing**

*claps* good job

abimic:
I actually thought the brain behind your moniker stems from you being a singer like luckydube, thought u had gone for project fame u know .. .. .. .. And may fills in Mabel if I'm not mistaken.

Yea. Maybel.

Well it's only natural for her to get jealous. I mean, see as they shift am for one corner as if she wasn't even there.

abimic:
Lol.. .
Happy Sunday. .. .. .
Yea, bribing the op won't be much of a thing, we can keep him hopefully where he belongs. .. . ..... What's the logic and brain behind your moniker... ... .. ...??

Well, I'm a lucky child (not like anyone is unlucky sha) a lot has happened in my life to prove that. Then the "may" is the initial of my name. That's it. Why do you ask?

Rapmoney:
You dor run come here too, abi?

You dey stalk me?

Roman736:
A healthy diet low in refined carbohydrates is important, as this will regulate your blood sugar levels!!

OK. Not bad.

murphyibiam15:
the comparison u used did not make any sense na

Whatever!

jamalnation:
:PTake 2 tea spoon of koju herbal mixture with peak milk every 12 hours

Lol nah your own prescription sure pass.

Roman736:
It is an ovary syndrome my friend...

Haha. "Ovary" syndrome indeed.

Frankiss44:
OP this your English for the subject fit make monkey laugh fall down from tree oh.. You murder English nor be small.

Why not leave the English and focus on the subject.? Abi English will fix this country ni?

CircleOfWilis:
u get time to waste with this guy...Dey eveb ask PCOS?

Nna.. I want know if he's really a Dr nah. But it's obvious he's just a troll.

Like seriously... What do these people take "us " for? If they can't handle this country, why not honorably resign and let capable hands and brains take over?

Wow. But I don't like it.

Roman736:
THE BEST treatment for PCOS is a healthy lifestyle.
That is all my friend.

Busted. Dr indeed. My friend go and find job.

How do I treat PCOS? and what are the risks to my health as a woman? Oya Dr leggo....

Lukmann1:
why will she also posted such important detailed of hers on Facebook. who do that now and days. These shall service as a lessen with others of her types.

Are you for real? This is not the first time I'm seeing this type of "thing 'from you. Na WA o.

murphyibiam15:
wen did u now become 'God' men shud pay tithe

And that's the only thing your eyes could spot there abi? I told you, you have comprehensive issues. You are one of those nairalanders that judge a thread by just the heading without reading through it all. But then, what can I do about it...?

abimic:
Well, u wouldn't blame guys though as most spoke from scattered dirty experiences, the op's topic read INVESTING, which literarily could be huge commitment in no small measure from the giver to the receiver.. . Things we do for God, spend on ourselves can't be equated with spending on a lady as this is even different from being philanthropic. Infact, some don't spend on themselves but their ladies, not as if such guys are even living fine but wants to please their ladies by all means. Most ladies are after comfort, not ready to push through the thick and thin, so except the guy is very buoyant financially be it via parents or personal struggles, a guy would move speedily closer to his goals without a girl he lavishes on than the other who spends on a girl that never cares about him. Be it marriage or relationship, there should be spending decency so as not to go bankrupt. By the way, it looks like u would like meat a lot,na to just arrange u isiewu!. .. I hope op won't say this boy plan spending already

Lol. I now understand your position in the matter and its not entirely bad, I just hope that's where the op is heading to with his topic. Well as for meat, I like meat a lot and don't worry about op. I know how to bribe him. Lol.

abimic:
Very funny response Nne, well, individual differences matter though. Still, if the relationship was heading the right way, the lady would even advice the guy to channel his energy and money more on what would enhance their future except if the guy or girl was from a wealthy home, then such could be needless, but if the lady demands now and then or sees spending on her as the guy's responsibility while she hoards hers, then such would be a drawback to the guy's growth financially and career wise esp if the guy is a fresh grad as misplaced priorities are sucking his money. It's best a guy invest in his future and any lady he so desire can be his than spend on a lost lady, lose his focus then settle for a minion... .. ...

See, I'm not saying a guy shouldn't invest in his future. I can't even stand a guy with no future ambition. If I'm dating a guy I should know his financial status and I'm not saying ladies should be demanding from their guys, no. But if once in a while the guy feels like changing my wardrobe, buying me birthday presents and so on, that he shouldn't do it cos it's suicide mission. No that's an absurd thing to say. Note that while he's doing these things, I on my end would also reciprocate in the little ways I can. That's the spice of every relationship. It shouldn't be a one sided thingy. The op is making it sound like if a guy spends on her girl it would automatically make him broke and render his future useless. That's not fair. People should think well before poisoning other people's minds. It's just like saying that when you pay your tithe you'd become broke or when you buy clothes to wear or anything that has nothing to do with investment.

Beamborla:
You can give without loving but you can never love without giving. If indeed you love the 'she' in your life, giving would come naturally without any negative thought attached to it and vice versa .


However, there is a wide gap between giving out of love and unforgivable stupidity. Both parties fall victim of this...the masquline gender feel the heat more.

Nne. Daalu.

murphyibiam15:
hungry poor girl

Congratulations!, you've just been ignored.

And some guys will be saying men shouldn't spend on women. Mtcheew

murphyibiam15:
u must be a broke ass bae to demand for all those stuffs u mentioned above...if u had them why be a Berger ??

Hey! Who said anything about begging.? It's either you have comprehensive problem or you are one of those broke ass niggas. Which ever one you are, just fck out of my mention.

Rapmoney:
Keep shut! How much have you invested on that relationship of yours you claim to cherish since you are now a rich girl?

Shut wetin? Abeg you ain't got the right to shut me up on top my own mb. Back to the matter. Women have their own contribution in every relationship. If you have money, give if you don't simply tell your girl "nne see, I'm broke" and if she can't handle it. She walks. Don't poison other guys minds by appearing as a relationship councilor abi wetin you dey for sef.

From the above write up... Are you for or against women. Cos I don't get the first to 3rd points.

benedictnsi:
my sister.... Thats a simple question ooo but d answer dey scarce for google .....upon say since d history of nigeria, na dem produce president pass....... Yet they are one of d poorest tribes in West Africa.


Their situation is just a riddle for d gods

Lol. Watch how they" will come for both our heads now.

And I'm supposed to learn something from her dress sense. Mtcheew

Only broke guys reason like this. So doing shopping for someone you are courting. And giving her some spending tips once in a while is now a crime. Shaking my head for the op.