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RomanceRe: Confused by lukmond(op): 11:49am On Dec 05, 2008
@izeek, thanks plenty, your words of advice is enough to make me see reason

@smoooooooth, i asked for advice from matured people not immature whimps and for real u do sound like my boyfriend, do you really think i will enjoy making a mistake and regretting it, pls if u have nothing meaningful to say get lost,



zignor:

He want your pussy if you don't know tongue tongue tongue




@izeek and smooooooooth . . .you guys have said it all, neverthless, she will not hear sad angry
thank you for such display of confidence.
RomanceRe: Confused by lukmond(op): 10:52am On Dec 05, 2008
@izeek, that definitely makes sense, thanks.

thanks moyoola,all i really want is a matured man that will not treat me like his agemate but like his baby who he needs to take care of.a confident man who will love and trust me to make the right decisions when he's not there, a man who will make and keep me happy.a man who i will relate with like a brother,a friend and a lover,
RomanceConfused by lukmond(op): 10:37am On Dec 05, 2008
I met this guy recently.he's everything i've longed for in a long time.he's serious and fun at the same time.he said he likes me and i think i like him too.problem is,he has a girlfriend,i don't know how for how long and i have a boyriend whom i've dated for a long while.5yrs to be precise.my boyfriend is all i've ever known.my bf is 4yrs older and acts very immaturedly while this other guy is 9yrs older, am fond of my bf cos am used to him but i also know that in a lifetime relationship(marriage)i need a man who can handle situations like a man,a man who has confidence in himself, am confused cos am not sure wat this new guy wants from me even when he has a girlfriend and i have a boyfriend, okay i asked him and he said,sometimes we don't end up with people we've given the boyfriend\girlfriend title,that what will be will be, now my fear is i don't want to get hurt cos there's a tendency of me getting to really like this guy and what if we are let to make a choice at the long run won't be hurt by his decision?
FamilyRe: Moving To Separate Rooms After Many Years Of Marriage by lukmond: 12:21pm On Jul 04, 2008
from Esss
This is a result of what I've been saying ever since. Love has an expiration date, and for most marriages that date is after over 100 sex bouts, 3 - 8 Kids and co-existing for over 15 - 25 years.
At that point the only thing keeping them togerther is formality and lack of any other choice. It's almost like they can't stand the sight of each other.
So my advice is to milk the cow while you still can, because a few years from now, that milk might just go sour. (and turn to yogourt)
right on spot, love u dearie kiss kiss kiss
spoilt:
I could never sleep in seperate rooms from my baby. he's just too cuddly and warm. tongue
hnnmmmmm, lipsrsealed
CultureRe: Do Yoruba Men Easily Leave Their Childless Women? by lukmond: 10:05am On Apr 16, 2008
tpia:
@ izatrini:

as people are telling you, this man of yours sounds like a yahoo yahoo kind of person.

try to do some background investigation [b]and open your eyes: [/b] he probably already has children elsewhere, from some other women, even assuming his tale about a childless wife is true.

I'm sure you're not the first woman he'll have bamboozled with his sob story, and you most likely wont be the last either.

he may be making you feel "special", but rest assured he's had lots of practice all around town. cool
yes o, open your eyes and close your legs madame lady, am actually shocked and embarassed that u can bring this ur topic here.i wonder what sort of advice u want.
[sup][sub][s]person wey call u ashawo no make mistake at all[/[/s]sub][/sup].
Nairaland GeneralAlmondjoy Is Becoming A Nuisance On This Forum by lukmond(op): 4:22pm On Apr 14, 2008
[s]YES i don talk am finally, [/s]
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Tell Of A Nairalander You Have Met And What You Think Of Him/her? by lukmond: 1:43pm On Mar 12, 2008
i for like meet am too but i dey fear aj
FoodRe: Operation: I Must Get Fat! by lukmond: 5:26pm On Feb 22, 2008
how come nobody is really saying anything about this gamine's picture.
i magine that face on a fat body!!!!!!hha na wa for una sef.
RomanceRe: My Boyfriend Is A Drug Peddler! by lukmond(op): 9:26am On Feb 12, 2008
hot chic:
The point is not really in waiting but the question is will the guy change when he's out of jail.Such business brings fast money and i am not sure if leaving it will be that easy,how did he find himself in such situations.This is not about staying with him when things are bad but about thinking twice and see if you really know this guy.It seems your girlfriend doesn't know who the guy is.Its obvious from your post that there are so many things she's just getting to know and i wonder how many informations of that nature are still unknown to her.Tell her to think twice.
This makes alot of sense.thanks.
RomanceRe: My Boyfriend Is A Drug Peddler! by lukmond(op): 9:09am On Feb 12, 2008
@hotchic, Thanks alot.that makes a lot of sense.
RomanceRe: My Boyfriend Is A Drug Peddler! by lukmond(op): 4:44pm On Feb 11, 2008
tboy1:
Thank u bro, I thought it was only me seein all this silly advise sum people r givin her 'stay wit him'. Yeah right, if they were in her shoes will they stay with him, i mean he's a drug pusher and probably has no intention of stopping.If the situation was d other way round , do u think he's stay and wait 4 her?If he truely loved her, why did he not tell her what he really does?[/b]Why did he not tell her bout the house he's building a house?[b]Why did he ask her 2 marry him [b]AFTER he was caught, why not before?[/b]
If the girl was my sister, i would simply advise her not to stick wit him.
my sentiments exactly.
RomanceRe: My Boyfriend Is A Drug Peddler! by lukmond(op): 2:13pm On Feb 11, 2008
Nautillus:
@Topic
So you are really telling the house that your friend is in a relationship with a "Drug Dealer" who has been caught and is in "Jail"most probably not the 1st time
and she's actually considering marriage??!!!! and you are looking 4 advise??!!!

SERIOUSLY??!!!
now u are making me feel very stupid.but thanks anyway.guess i should have given her a hard slap the moment she mentioned it.

eyebeekay:
which dirty 3 years, naija dey do that 1?, abeg pull her ears now
my dear i've tried all the pulling,preaching and otherwise.at first i thought it was the normal missing of boyfriend and wishing that he didn't do it but when she mentioned marriage i almost fainted. shocked shocked, it's been over 6months he was caught and he's not in naija prison.he calls her sometimes and she goes to see him and for god's sake she's always crying over him mostly at night.
RomanceRe: My Boyfriend Is A Drug Peddler! by lukmond(op): 12:20pm On Feb 11, 2008
talk2sulta:
If the girl really loves him,she can continue with his business and wait for him to come out. cheesy
I think thats the best way to show how caring she is.If eventually she is caught and the guy is released,maybe the guy can also wait for her.that is what true love is all about. wink
that's funny.i think i'll tell her this one and just seat back to watch the expression on her face.she needs to be realistic.who knows what the guy would have done if he were in her shoes.of course hin for don leave am run.

Omonunu2u:
How many years will he spend in there,
am sure the house will like to know huh.
she said he got 3yrs but i don't think i believe her.me think it's more than that.
RomanceRe: My Boyfriend Is A Drug Peddler! by lukmond(op): 10:52am On Feb 11, 2008
sylvao2000:
@poster------ story that touch, l feel so sorry for her but l will advice she stay by him am sure he will soon be set free and have his life and business back online, he must be a big boy drug dealer and am sure she being enjoying the money with him.
shocked shocked shocked:-O.u are asking me to support her to stay with this guyhuh?and for some of u that will think she's there for the money,this guy kept a low profile.i've seen him several times and he's not extravagant.he drives a nissan primera and my friend only just found out that he's building a house somewhere only after he was caught and he told her about it becos according to her he feels he can trust her since they are going to get married, am just worried for that girl.
RomanceMy Boyfriend Is A Drug Peddler! by lukmond(op): 9:52am On Feb 11, 2008
My friend is on my neck for advice so i need help from u guys pleease.her boyfriend was was caught while he was trying to smuggle srugs to europe through one of the neighbouring african countries.he confessed to her afterwards that he's been doing it for long.for the records they've been dating for like a year and 4months.he told her that he imports belts and shoes from italy.now the problem is she's just too much inlove with this guy and she tells me a part of her wants to wait for him to come out of jail.to make it worse after he was caught he asked her to marry him and she said yes shocked shocked, she goes to see him in jail once every month.am very scared for her and most times when she cries at night she calls me to console her.i really need to tell this girl that this whole thing is bad for her but i don't know how to since she acts like he's all she lives for.
RomanceRe: What Do I Do? by lukmond(op): 1:45pm On Jan 25, 2008
amsky:
why do you want him out of your system?are you married or seriously hooked?is he married or dating seriously also?
you may want to delegate matters that concern him to your colleagues in the office if you do not have to deal directly with him.
if you are married or engaged,then think of qualities that sweep you off your feet in your partner that he lacks. its just a crush,but a crush that isn't handled properly can lead to so many unpleasant memories.that i KNOW. if you still are not satisfied with this,i'll tip you some more smiley.
cheers.
am not married neither am i engage.he's single as well.am just not the type that will show make the first move.i passed his file to another colleague.but i still get to see him every time he comes.he asked why smone else is handling his account and i said there were changes.he still stops at my table to say hi.

jkpretty:
You can't just easily forget people like that, since your mind is there it'll keep going back there. I think u shld get to know him. while getting to know him, be careful not to show any interest, just look forward to picking out the baddies u don't like about him, then its done. Just like fallen out of love is easier when you're with that person than when its already over. wink

But hey, be careful lest u keep seeing the goodies in him undecided
u are very correct.i know it's no easy to let it go cos i've tried.i'll just be on the look out for his bad sides though i doubtif he'll exhibit them in my office.he's very reserved,talks very little and acts very maturedly.that is actually the attraction.his goodlooks is a plus. wink
Nairaland GeneralRe: Embarrassed Day Of Your Life? by lukmond: 1:04pm On Jan 25, 2008
D__D:
this shld go down as the most embarrasing day of your life.
NOW U HAVE EMBARRSED HIS DAY. cry cry

@POSTER I HOPE,FOR YOUR SAKE,THAT THIS UR ENGLISH IS AS A RESULT OF SLIP OF FINGER OO[sub][/sub]
Nairaland GeneralRe: Embarrassed Day Of Your Life? by lukmond: 10:40am On Jan 25, 2008
jkpretty:
Embarrased day huh Imfact right now i'm embarrasment embarassed
why maketh thou such blunder?teacheth thou not your teacher how to speaketh engris. shocked shocked

tngtech:
Hey guys/ladies, what is the most embarrassed day of lives.?
please disgraceth me not on this public forum. cry cry.
RomanceWhat Do I Do? by lukmond(op): 10:26am On Jan 25, 2008
Hello everyone,i have a problem which i really don't know what to do about.i have a huge crush on my client shocked shocked. Okay now before u crucify me,i haven't told him and i haven't given out any impression.infact,i can't tell him cos am not the type that will ask a man out or indicate interest in a man first.to make matters worse he comes to my office now almost everyday.what i want u guys to do for me is to please tell me how to get over this attraction.i don't need tips on how to get him hooked,i want tips on how to get him out of my mind.

silly suggestion are also welcomed as that could cheer me up.but on a serious note i need to get this guy out of my system.
Christianity EtcRe: Why Is That Cross Or Pole So Important To Christians by lukmond: 2:42pm On Jan 24, 2008
you are not making sense,
CultureRe: Gwam! Gwam! Gwam! by lukmond: 11:04am On Jan 10, 2008
ezigbo anu ohia ka o bu
CultureRe: Okosisi by lukmond: 9:56am On Dec 04, 2007
oo nwannem ifyalways,o di kwa egwu ooo, simple question and he gave a simple answer.kama o ga asukwanu kpom ka o di bazie o dere kwa ogologo akuko a na aga.i wonder if he's trying to confuse the boy.

@alfangco biko jiri ya nwayo.
RomanceRe: Would You Marry A Man That Raped You Two Years Ago? by lukmond: 10:50am On Nov 27, 2007
@poster are u the raper or the rapee
CelebritiesRe: Can You Tell Us D Nigerian Artise You Think Dat D Dred-lock Hair Style Doesn't Fit?? by lukmond: 11:43am On Nov 19, 2007
aysometin:
Pat Attah
sooooo true,
TV/MoviesRe: BBA: Is Richard Wiining A Sign Of The New Africa? by lukmond: 12:57pm On Nov 12, 2007
hnmm,this guy,u have a very weird way of thinking.
ComputersRe: Is It Okay To Read Your Wife's E-Mails? by lukmond: 12:57pm On Nov 09, 2007
diva_naija:
undecided wel. . . am kind of confused here since a lotta peeps r soo against the readin yr spouse mail thing.

I for one if married wil most def let my man hav my password if it so pleases him cus am an open person.Now if it were the boyfriend/fiancee who can dump u anytime then that's a differnet story cus he ain't got no right.

Ma sister is happily married n her husband checks her mail 4 her n vis versa cus most times she forget to do that.I don't see anything wrong wit readin yr wife's E-mail unless maybe she's got some surprises she doesn't want u to kno about lik mayb she's planing to invite Micheal Jackson over for yr birthday?? undecided



hnnmm,my dear even husbands dump their wives,

@poster she's not up to something maybe u are the one being mischievious.like the saying goes,,"one who kills with the sword is afraid of the sword lying harmlessly behind him",

Jus me and what i think.
Jokes EtcRe: A Wealthy Owerri Man In Usa by lukmond: 11:54am On Nov 09, 2007
omen:
Guys, this is damn serious. However, i used a fictitious name! So no Okuchukwu there.
na ur type dey make me get running stomach
Jokes EtcRe: The Dog & Calabar Man! by lukmond: 11:51am On Nov 09, 2007
Bestglo:
make you first donate so that we go dey follow
am in short supply of laughs.i don laugh the laugh finish for another thread,
Jokes EtcRe: The Dog & Calabar Man! by lukmond: 11:17am On Nov 08, 2007
Abeg make una donate laugh for this guy,
Jokes EtcRe: A Wealthy Owerri Man In Usa by lukmond: 11:14am On Nov 08, 2007
what in the name of God is the meaning of the above junk??haa na waa for some people ooo

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