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sisipelebe:
I saw it coming, burnaboy is too small to defeat this woman. Burna you'll definitely get there someday.

Shatap prophetess!!!


Naso u dey 'see' reach?

whatdowomenwant:
This is a true story sir.

K

What a load of sour milk crãp!!!



And you have the temerity to invite lalasticlala?

Queenellahrose:
I’m writing with so much pain in my heart because my only child is giving me lots of trouble. She is 14. Ever since I had her, I cannot conceive again. My husband and I went trough lots of tests we are all okay and perfect so we had to accept that God wanted us to have one daughter for now and we are still believing God for more children. Where do I start we are Nigerian leaving outside of Nigeria (African country) for the past 8 years we also took along my husband niece who is now 17.

My daughter was a very nice and obedient child working hard at school and has always been making us proud but everything changed when she turned 11 years. She started getting in trouble at school, my husband and I are always called for meeting about her not working well and fighting with her classmates and she gets punished almost everyday. We as parents had heart to heart talk. She had made clear that she doesn’t like school and want us to enrolled her at music and dance school. She was only 12. Me and her dad were against it. we had convinced how important education and all we want is the best for her to finish school to have a better job and she can do her music and dance too later.

She was okay and we kept encouraging her and praying for her, things started to get a little bit better even school complained become less. Three week ago I usually leave the house at 6am for work, hubby leaves before me and the kids were still at home getting ready for school and around 11am I received a called from the police asking if I’m mrs o and chi mum I said yes I started panicking because I thought maybe she had an accident or something, the police officer asked me to come at the station.

I rushed there and what I heard broke my heart in pieces. He explained to me that my daughter and niece and other girls were caught at a hotel with boys smoking, drinking and having sex. Actually somebody called the police because they had noticed that under age children entered the hotel which is an offence so when the police came, they had arrested all of them and took them to the station requesting them to give parents details and that’s how they contacted me .

I was ashamed and couldn’t controlled my tears. I wept bitterly because when I thought my two girls are angel in fact they were doing the unthinkable. I bailed both of them and I just hated them I didn’t even talked to them to avoid beating them badly, but later when hubby came I didn’t hide anything from him. He was so angry that he flogged them mercilessly, I felt bad for them but they both deserved it. We took their phones away, tablets and TV in their room and they are banned from going outside apart from school and when they both get back from school they will eat and go and spend the rest of their day in their bedroom until nighttime.

My husband blamed me for everything saying it’s all my fault those girls are becoming bad. The truth is he is the one that has been spoiling them with expensive phones , tablets and designer clothings and pocket money. I was against him pampering them so much because I knew it will come to this but he has always told me he works hard for his children to have better things and now they had become bad, he has put all the blames on me forgetting that it’s all his faults.

We are not in talking terms for three weeks and he is not eating my foods anymore. The whole things just gives me headaches and sleepless night, it’s almost 3am I can’t sleep my head wants to explode with too much thinking.

You are here for advice and yet you play the blame game effortlessly. Everyone was guilty in your story,except YOU.

That's a monumental red flag. So I dont believe you.


NEXT!!

lewis512:
The more I try to understand this the more I put you at fault , glad you know you are a weak man and what have you been doing to help yourself in such situations, what if all the kids you think you have are not yours ? What if you are infected with serious STDs ? Think about it na , reporting to pastors and all the sorries won’t cure all of those I believe

That guy is fuqin with you. He ain't real neither is his story bro

Margy:
See op... if you are truly in love with your wife, and you are sure you are the father of those kids, and your wife loves you but can't stop flirting.... and even after counsel she hasn't changed. And you truly want your family to work.

Take this advice!.. when having a heart to heart talk with her... boom.. do a blood covenant.. who ever flirts..cheats or in any sexual mood with any person...madness straight.. make sure the blood is flowing plenty during the covenant.. i swear.. this will put fear into her!

Which lady wanna be mad��

Mtchewwww... Rubbish advice.

HarunaWest:
Mr Man.. You married a flirty lady.. She can't and won't stop..
(In Posterity)
Truth is me I flirt as well, if my wife cheats, fine I go vex buh I won't send her packing as far as say e no much..From the post so far, you haven't been really faithful to your wife as well so it seems your feeling guilty sending her packing.
Meanwhile change her phone and SIM cards, restrict her movement, put tight measures in place.. Forget pastor and prayers it won't solve any problem.. You might even be shocked that pastor sef is eyeing your wife too.
You have to ask her what the problem is, have a heart to see art talk, ask her if she's still in love with you or not so you guys will know what to do. Marriage isn't by force nowadays, fvck till death do us part..That one na old slogan.. Speak to your wife.

Are u not reading all the 'talking' he has been doing with her??

I hate all the 'sit her down and have a heart to heart' talk. Is she a baby ni?

This shiit is not real.


No sane man will talk like this.

So I'm going with superstory

bukatyne:
1. Husband was very selfish sexually. He knew he was not performing optimally yet was fine because he was satisfied. In his words, the wife was very good/sweet. He is also egoistic: instead of him to see how to improve their sex life if he was still interested in the marriage or walk away, he decided to kill his wife because 'she exposed him.'

2. Since the wife knew sex was important to her, she should have married the first guy. But no, she married a financially stable man who wasn't good in bed and started wailing aka having her cake and eating it. Since the husband is open to giving her mouth action, I believe with better engagement, she would have gotten him to be a better lover. But in her usual character, she is all about now and not willibg to invest in anybody. Guy 1 was good in bed but poor: dump him. Guy 2 was rich but poor in bed: dump him. Guy 3 now is good in bed and yet to determine him pockets. I am sure she would have dumped him if after a few years he was not rich or comfortable. She is a classic fair-weather wife. Something even tells me that it was the husband's money she was using to maintain the corper and corper shun was only singing marriage to eat aunt's money and body. She did not even tell him she was married, she said she was separated.

3. Corper Shun, not much to say. You were sent to serve your father's land, you decided to serve other men's wives. Keep wasting your strenght on a married woman. Your reward is coming soon.

An advise to virgins: As you already know, there are some very selfish men who hunt virgins because they are poor, selfish, inadequate lovers.

Please read up on sex. There are very good books on and offline.

The fact you have never had sex does not mean you wouldn't know when a man is bad or not.

I detest selfishness especially in marriage.

Nice analysis...
Couldn't say it better.

madridguy:
“I have told him that no matter how he tries to make life comfortable for me and the kids, I won’t be happy until he finds a way of satisfying me sexually. I felt bad any time I engage my married friends in discussion and they tell me how strong their husbands are in bed.

This is the issue, many married men this days believe everything is all about leaving their house 5 AM and returned back by 12 AM, traveling from New York, to Taiwan, Japan to Paris, PH to Abuja looking for contract and have totally forgot their wives at home, some will even be saying for the past 2 months now have never open my wife wrapper believing all what their wife wants is money, expensive gift items, royal dinner forgetting body no be firewood and their wife no be robot.

While Mr. Audu Abaa neglected his health, he failed to attend to his 2 seconds issue on bed, wife stepped outside and someone else his giving her seriously.

The koko be say, women like that thing pass money. My brother, maintain your weapon of mass destruction with good exercise, good food, good fruit and water.

Shut dafuq up!


Are u not a man? Be simping NL girls because of likes u hear?

What happened to the woman helping him with herbs and the rest? He is a good husband and provides. If he doesn't,she will still complain. What else is he supposed to do,to satisfy a woman who is that Hot.

She could have helped him but she chose to cheat. If na man do am now, hellfire would rain now here.

Alaye,stop being a hypocrite abeg.

KrazzyAndy:
Yen yen yen no go hustle make your own children attend such school

Your own children nko?


Remove the log in your own eyes first

KrazzyAndy:
Bross did i say it's relating to the topic I'm just saying my mind bout what i saw in the video left for to keep shut if you don't have any reasonable thing to say

What I said was reasonable but I guess your medulla was kinda too overloaded and diced up to understand me.

KrazzyAndy:
Look at most of the students the oldest person there should be about 17 and they're all carrying iphones not 7 not 8 BUT x and 11
My brother my sister HUSTLE OHHHHH!!!!!

How is that related to the topic?

Kennedy02:
Today fixed game is ready now

Play it alone and hammer naaaa

Lol...even killers now dedicate their houses to God??


Religion and brainwashing sha