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AdorableSapphir:
I once had a funny experience a long time ago.
There was this guy then in my Church. Fine big boy. His Parents are very rich. He was every ladies dream man. Some sisters even claimed it was revealed to them that he's their husband and all that. But the guy, being a guy man, ( Yankee product but very spiritual bro) declined the sisters and say na me him want o. So we got talking after the senior pastors approval to start courtship.

Then one day, I asked him what he does for a living and bro said he works with NEPA. Ha! My heart just dropped. You know... With the way NEPA is being regarded less in the country and how people curse and bash them from time to time. The thought just made me lose interest; not totally but it affected the way I saw him from them. I ended up calling off the relationship over a light matter.

So I think to a large extent the nature of ones job can affect dating. But it shouldn't be, really.
What you both are already married and something now happens along the line that leaves him with no option but to take up that kind of job you dont fancy, what will you do? Dump him? No now.

Someone works abroad with NEPA and because of your close mindedness,you dumped a relationship approved even by your pastors and GOD??

Who made most Nigerian babes like this? So material minded and shortsighted. See the very sîlly excuse you gave to dump a man who would have made you happy.

I just taya for you sha

BRATISLAVA:
That's wonderful. In the population of the entire world you are the first one. Congratulations.

Everyone else is assertive too, if that's what alpha male means.

U again?



Goan make my breakfast,NOW!!!

Bola146:
Answer you for what ? I don't understand

Lol...you have forgotten me so soon?



Its alright sha

Angelfrost:
Ever heard of "pulling your punches"??! What if the guy had slumped and died??!...

I am not supporting the actions of the other guy here. But, resorting to violence knowing fully well you have a devastating advantage over the other person is akin to criminal...

Don't you know a trained boxer's fists are weapons that can kill??! Some judges will equate them to a club, and convict him of aggravated assault.

He pulled his punches or the other guy would have died.

So if I know taekwondo and I was wrongly accused of stealing and was about to be burned,I should wait meekly when I have weapons to save myself? All is fair in love and war bro. Know that.


He didn't just attack that dude. He was attacked and defended himself. Separate logic from emotions

Lmaoooo....


Strive?


Alpha male is 90% inborn,you can't wake up and decide to be one.

The 10% left can be learned but you will never be an alpha male with that.


How do I know? I was born as an ALPHA.

Angelfrost:
Well, there is a reason why boxers are not allowed to fight bare-knuckled... That idiot should be arrested, indicted for assault, and banned permanently from the profession!!!

And the guy who harassed and even punched him nko? He should be given a medal?

Actions have consequences. The boxer only defended himself.

Better get into the gym and learn a fighting skill, it could save ur life one day.

tunene66:
WAEC 1 JAMB 1 but for my ICAN finals 6

Is that why ur moniker has 66?

Well....15 times

Bola146:
Na wa ooo.. na so sucide be like buying gala everywhere what is really happening....

This is so sad!!!


On a lighter note:

You better answer me quick too...or I will....

sharone21:
One day YOU too will have a daughter that a man like YOU will do similarly to....Karma is a BITCH.

Lol,you don vex...


Stop with the karma nonsense. If that shiit really works, Yusuf buhari go don die since

iammiracle1:
I think you mixed it up, its his original gf that is from a wealthy family, but its true op should have immediately taken her for test, moreover she has a bf herself what of if they're trying to fleece op together or pin it on him because they see he has small change? Inside life sha, all this could have been jejely avoided if he had a little restraint

The side chick has a sister in Canada. That's why I said her people get money o


At the rest,you may be right

BENEAMATA:
this is not the garrison general ! later una go follow dem say no freedom of speech in north korea . you're talking street sense , he is being spiritual , why the profanity ? is he/she exposing something you're trying to hide from the OP ? what light are you beaming into the young man's life LUMINOUS ?
or should i say (IL)luminati .

Lol,dont take me too serious jare

daewoorazer:
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Yea right, if na me, na me go look for doctor wey go do the procedure sef as per street level...
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That's why I'm saying he made a serious mistake. He didn't see the pregnancy results and when she agreed to collect 100k(after billing him 150k o), she was just threatening upandan. Street niggas would damn her and her tantrums. Notice how she came back to beg when he ignored her? She agreed to go and guyman no follow her to the clinic. He was busy signing NDA upandan. Where Dafuq is he going? Nigerian Defence Academy or what? He should have followed her to finish the job.

Now the girl has him by the balls and he is scared. I understand him sha.

I still dont believe that she is pregnant. For a girl whose people already agreed to take care of the baby and all,they seem pretty intent on fuqin his life up. Canada Aunty even had to call him herself to deliver the coup de grace.

Nawa o

daewoorazer:
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Calm down babanla

Na the main gf get wealthy folks
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I get u babanla

The side chick get sister for Canada na(from the story)

All na big mudafucking bobo to milk the guy!!!

Hostingserver:
OP, first I would want to know if you are genuinely sorry for your actions,or you down because kasala wan bust.
Alright fine,let's agree you bleeped up real good.
If you want to commit more mistakes please don't make the mistake of not telling your woman.
She is your woman for God sake, tell her.
Yes U seriously need to let her know.
You have messed up big way already, you will only be making matters worse by keeping it away from her because she would definitely find out someday and the heartbreak will not just be about you impregnating another girl but that you could keep such away from her.
Trust me,she will not kill you nor leave you and even if she leaves you, just move on,real women hold on especially when the man is genuinely sorry.

And please if you want to tell her, don't be alone with her o,we don't want to read of another beautiful lady sentence to great beyond.

Another bla bla bla!!!

Always emotional,never logical.

Amdoyin:
You definitely don't want to lose your girlfriend. Is it? Are you sure the side chick is pregnant?? Have you taken her to the hospital on your own to confirm if she is trully pregnant . I guess there is no pregancy anywhere, she only wanted to milk you dry since she knew you are financially buoyant. How on earth will she demand 150k to terminate a pregnancy and the fact you sent 100k and some forces still spring up called for concern. Tell your girlfrd the whole scenario and ask for her forgiveness, if she loves u, she will sure 4give you and help fight the fight. Calm down and tell the lady to go give birth. Call her bluff... You will never hear anything from her again. Note: your girlfrd might gaga with you when she's informed of the mess, if she does, stick to your decision with the belle lady. You need peace of mind jare...

Somebody with sense!!!
Thank you for using ur logical reasoning faculties bro.

Everyone just dey use emotions dictate shiit!!!

iammiracle1:
Why shut him up? He speaks the truth sometimes we play games with our destiny and it shouldn't be so, OP obviously has a bright future by hooking up with a vindictive girl like Lola who doesn't even know what she wants how do you think his life would be? Can you live comfortable knowing you have a kid somewhere you ain't been a father too? What if if Lola pushes it up a notch by been a pest, stalking and disgracing him all around? How many young, vibrant girls want to marry a man with a kid (not a celebrity)? Its rare, same thing happened to my snr coz all the young girls he hooked up with only ate his cash and ran, he ended up with an older woman who in turn maltreated and demeaned his first child, today he is in pains if only he made better choices...

How hard can it be for him to disappear na?

You keep talking as if he is the only one to blame? The girl knew the consequences yet she went ahead, for someone with wealthy folks like that,she is asking for 150k to abort? Did u notice how she stepped down when he was stubborn? She knew he was weak minded that was why she was manipulating his ass by threatening him,even after collecting his 100k?

Why are you folks not opening ya eyes to see?

If he had damned her and her shiit, she would have stopped disturbing him.

My advice?

I dont even think she is fuqin pregnant!!!! Let her bear the audio child first naaaaa.

djon78:
You can say what you like, the only thing saving you is God's grace. The day that grace expires. Your calamity will definitely come.

Lmaoooo.....

Puhleease bro...so the grace on our evil politicians are still fluid I guess? And everyone suffers for that?

Be logical biko.

eni4real:
Check your DM

Smooth mudafvcker!!!

djon78:
As in eh. The guy has set himself backward but he doesn't know it yet.
He may never come across a decent woman again in his life time.
His only savior will be grace and mercy of God.

He sold his birthright for a meal of porridge.
And this is a very big warning to people.
Whenever good thing is coming your way, the devil will bring temptation to make you loose that good thing.
And from his narrative he thinks this is a laughing matter not knowing that forces that fight over our destinies wants to play lottery, baba ijebu, Kalou kalou with his destiny. And he is playing into there hands

His redemption starts with

1.tell your fiance the truth

2.never abort that baby

Every other thing depends on this two outcome on whether God will have mercy on your evil and wicked soul

Bla bla bla


Shût dafuq UP!!!

mkoabiola:
Tales by moonlight

Finally,someone sees the light.

Look at those guys yelling 'expert advice' upandan without even reading the damn story well.

IcraveLove:
I won't be sorry if it happens, he deserves it.

What's wrong with y'all


That girl ain't pregnant!!!


What kind of geh bargains for D&C from 150k to 100k?

Why on earth would she wanna keep the damn pregnancy when she has a bf?

Think,mama,think!!!!

Its all a fuqin scam and y'all can't even SEE it!

Who else loves his 'I'd rather have you for lunch' Convo part?


Dude is smooth like hell