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Ladymeenah:
After 7years of being a guest, I finally joined nairaland. Welcome me guys.

U stay in ibadan like me eh?
Ur already my NL sister o! Hope u Sabi pound yam?

kestolove95:
no NL has any of dix qualities

I do! Try me!

IamShiningStar:
nne I wonder oo! how some people think ehnn, especially my naija peeps dey baffle me oo! So you must be compensated for doing good or helping out a friend in dire need? oooh! odikwa egwu oo!

note/ they are best friends for Pete's sake! the guy helped her knowing fully she may turn down his proposal or may not. And you heard the man said he can never regret giving her life, marriage or no marriage! And some folks are here talking what I don't know!

Naija folks really have a long way to go in learning how to love for real without expecting anything in return!

The question is....
Can u do such??
Hypocrite!!!

HajimeSaito:
Let me school you a bit on this.

"Love" does not even enter into the equation here.

If he was so confident about his "love" then why did he wait until after donating his kidney before declaring it to her? It's so obvious that this idiot of a man gambled with his kidney. He thought that by giving her his kidney he could hold it over her as a form of emotional blackmail to pressure her into marriage.

As for you saying that I could never do such a thing, you're absolutely right. I would never use my kidney as a bargaining tool. A girl must give me her heart before I part with something as valuable as my kidney.

U know nothing about sacrifice much less love! So keep ya diatribes to yasef!
A girl(a hoe actually) saved my life(u don't need d details)...she was gentle n caring n a far cry from what I knew of hoes! I would have married her in a heartbeat even if she was alive n proposed to me..but she passed on sadly! Her saving my life was key to making me even like her a little....

Ur second paragraph sounds reasonable enough but then only a woman truly knows who has her heart..ain't dat cute?

kimbraa:
You mustn't date every girl you come in close contact with in form of friendship. That's so guyish! Most of you need growing up.

*Rolling eyes*

Follygunners:
We sabi una type.

U dey mind her

kimbraa:
Oh! You modified.

First off, from the story, they've been friends but the dude caught feelings along the line while the girl dearly loved their friendship. Giving his kidney was what a true friend would do and what she owes him in return is appreciation for giving her life back.

Secondly, from her response, she doesn't love him but like him 'cause if she did, she won't have said she wanted to think about it as she values their relationship more than marriage.

You should understand something. That you gave a lady something out of your own volition, no matter its worth doesn't mean the second you propose she has to say yes. Saying yes when there's no love will be compensating the guy for what he did and marriage where the love is unrequited is the worse marriage anyone should go into. Love is the basis on which any marriage would flourish and then we will look at compatibility in other areas. And don't forget it's a life time commitment.

I assume you're old enough to understand this.

N I assume ur old enough to get my point without this epistle to d friendzoned!! I already told u my mind on d issue!!!! N I don't need lectures on how the mind of a woman operates..Adios!!!

HajimeSaito:
So she just HAS to marry him because he donated a kidney

Nope!!!
But her reply was brutal n somehow
N don't fvvking say 'because of a kidney'..he saved her life!!!
U talk like this cuz u ain't experienced dat stuff before!!!
Think about the level of love that will make a man part with his kidney n give someone he is not related to!!!
Something I know u will never do...not in this life!!

kimbraa:
What's the hypocrisy in what I said? Someone did something to save someone's life out of love, and that automatically means she should say "yes" to his proposal? Why do most of you think rendering help automatically gives you a pass to someone? SHM.

Ok..
Hope u can render that kindn of help to a guy n stomach your rejected proposal!!!
If u can? Then case closed!!!

kimbraa:
I don't understand people. Is she meant to compensate him with marriage if she doesn't see a future with him now simply because he gave her his kidney out of his own volition? Well, she said she was going to think about it, and she has every right to say "yes" or "no". The guy is matured enough sef.

SMH for u!!!
U can be so hypocritical at times eh!!!

On d story!!!!
I swear I have never seen this Kain of SAVAGE friendzoning!!!
It was so Savage it completely nonplussed me!
See d excuse she gave sef!!!! Without him u are DEAD!!!
As for dat guy I no know wetin to talk....d girl no even get ya time since d mid 1990s n yet u no move ON N to endure such Savage clapback after ya proposal is even making me hurt on ya behalf!!!!

Cuteamigo1:
if its android go to settings, more, mobile networks, prefferd network type and there you have it.

I only have 4G,3G n 2G sub-options in my mobile network modes option.....so

Cuteamigo1:
if you still intend to use glo, go to you internet settings and change the network type to wcdma only. it more stable than the other options. many people dont know this and thats why they complain about glo.

On a phone
Can't find those options!!

amar3664:
i am 34 years old and married to a woman who is 29 years old, my wife has divorced her husband before marrying me 1 year ago..she has a 4 years old son from her ex husband..we had been in relation from last 2 years,now i live with my wife,her son and our servant ..servant does all the household work..once in a month i go for offical tour to.other cities for 2-3 days,i have asked my wife to.come along with me for tour along with her son,but she never goes with me citing reason that her son studies will get hampered,i told her what if u feel alone at house while i am on tour? then she says she will talk to me over phone in night while she feels alone, then i said u need not feel alone,as our servant will also be there in house,so u need not be scared,then she jokingly said that she will hold servant and sleep with him ,if she feels alone,what are chances that she might Bleep him in future..why did she said like that..

Werey!!!!!

asamaigho:
how do I change my VPN to able to register on letv account.cos I want customize.

Ask d gurus in d house...me never reach dat side!!!

asamaigho:
I found out it was an apn issue,i changed d apn and now everything is perfectly OK..

Aiit!!!

asamaigho:
i have done that earlier yet its not working

It should work!!!!

asamaigho:
google apps like YouTube ,playstore, ,chrome won't open with mobile data my leeco s3 snapdragon version, but will open only with wifi..

Go to system tools n then downloads...change to no limit!!!

Then go to dual SIM n mobile network...then data management..then traffic control n connection setting. Tick all boxes for mobile data...

Should be aiit then!!

dingbang:
Only if the man is giving her proper sex.

Lolll

oseiwe:
pls, what concerns Nigeria with winter?

I taya oooooo