Blaxilexi : well said my friend

Arizona:
we are what we say there fore let us speak our minds in wisdom.
no women you love an choose to marry is a liability, like wise men.he who finds a virtuous women obtaineth favour from the Lord.
Education is accessible any day anytime,but a women who chooses to care for her family a women who chooses to invest her time in building a home
that women is a gift from GOD and what this world lacks.

men an women, avoid being fooled by the materials of this world!they offer temporary pleasure an instill greed,GODs laws never change thou we may evolve.
as a women i am his helper, not a replica but his help. there are certain things men will never do as well as we women do lik wise we women will never be men.
Personally i don see myself staying home an doing nothing, cause in all honesty men are attracted by the idea of a women who does things for herself, be it its financial mental physical etc men are creatures of power, all types of power pleases them. having said that, i myself are a sucker for development, its very gratifying to able to achieve your desired goals But if it come priorities my family comes first, and i can gladly give up anything for that.

I for one enjoy being independent but that comes with a hefty price for family women.
the most crucial stages of a child is between 1and 5 or 8. during this time kids must have all the support an love an grooming both parents can offer.
Being from south Africa, children suffer the most here and ultimately become troubled adults, an that affects society entirely.

Being a wife and mother is already one gigantic job description, then to add on being a career women? some departments will suffer and in most cases its the family home that does.one doesn't see thee effects immediately but in the long run they become impossible to hide and ignore.
personally i love the good things in life and i know to obtain them one has to work, however id rather have my own little establish eg.a hair salon or a clothing shop, things that have the potential for growth over upcoming years then to work a stressful job that consumes alot of your time and under paying.

the perks of having your establishment, get to give ur husband all thee attention he needs when its time to play wife, the kids to are well taken care of, there is just no such thing as being a super women. thats as real as santa clause a fiction. its either u are career women an u stay away from the home front or your a family women thats content with investing time between the family an a little establishment

this sounds lik a fairytale not all women can be that desperate unless u work at a brothel

u neeed a female proper beating. WALK OUT OF THE BOX FOR A MINUTE AN EVALUATE THIS SITUATION ul realise how sick u r

buy her collogne convincingly insisting that it does justice to her persona.

find out why his divorced first

OH my word, u shud be having it in such way that u loose count every wednesday of the week.
lead that women not into temptation.

does everybody here thinks its either beauty or brains? 4me
PERSONALITY? wel iv only dreamt of marrying a guy with an awesome persona. men like that weather intelligent or not hav a great formula to success
their aura is almost addictive.these are the kind of people u create job titles for in your company even if theres no need really. THEY MAKE THINGS HAPPEN
spot them in trend setting gear, magical smiles, kind gestures eg, SEAL! the man is carring a million dollar chunk ass scar on his face, an sometimes i think his purple in complexion but his married to a women crowned sexiest in the world. if u wanna marry a partner, marry a confident man or women. if they are not educated they make it regardless, if they are not pleasing to thee eye, the confidence creates the illusion that they are.

thats so interestin dam an its true

im still tryin to figure out wat the issue cud be here? is it that shes a house girl? i hope not

i doubt she was a virgin from the begining an now that her cover is newly blown she comes up with some shit so she wont get caught, don no of a women whose been with a man three years then mistakenly give it to somebody else by mistake. PLSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

i think some of you guys are being harsh here, granted the lady has done some mistakes but the fact that she's remorseful an considers intimacy so highly shows u that shes far from bein a loose canon. the only hazard i see standin in your way is yourself, you cant forgive yourself, u let your conscious drive u to dating other men. u need to decide dear do u want an still love your ex? do u deserve him if you answer yes to these all these questions, tell him everythin ask for forgiveness an move on. if he takes u back thank GOD n work on rebuildin the trust don forget to repay him as well by being a wife that he'l b proud off.if he doesnt forgive u SOOOOOO wat, life proceeds, ul hav to work on ur guilt an becoming a lady incharge of her decisions.don

dont let people judge you we very good at pointing fingers an we excel in that.
anyway infuture weather u choose to sleep with a million men or u convert into a nun, make decisions you can live with, ones that dont take away the beauty in u.as for your ex m sure he;l forgive you after all the man does adore even after soo long

i always get approached by the ugly ones at times they are broke but vey educated an will be established eventually.
they are very ice an they do treat me good, the one hot guy i dated i fell inlove with but he was really broke not educated an treated me lik shit.
u see cause of that, il hav ugly any time over fine boys

anyone who protests for this kind of stuff has some serious time on their hands

tell the women before finding yourself wedded to her, thats normally wat happens with lies like that, if ur willing to date her while u dont love her, the same reason u justified that action is the same way ul find urself walkin down thee aisle with the same women u apperantly don love

two men at the same time an uv even managed to keep them for this long interestin anyway these to me are totaly differnt u cant compare oil with water or even mix both its to dangerous. u call also predict the future make a decision based on qualities that are untouchable,lik is he family orientated, patient undertsandin does he make u laugh is his love unconditiona despite the financial state because money is soo valueles u can pick it up on the street an wen u die u live it behind soo its uwise to base ur decision on it

forgave her cuz i love her and i tot dat she will change.i will give her d bleep of her life before breakin dat heartless heart.

i don think thats neccesary as jaybee said what will u gain from tht,? infact i bet u it wud hurt u more to hurt her then it will her.
so if u quit, do it like a man she will live to regret loosing us human beings we are soo un appreciative but once we loose somethin only then are our eyes opened, its stupid really but take heart an do things with a clear mind

no one understands how u feel for this women but u. before i can even begin talkin i must give u the respect u deserve for being so patient an forgiving. those traits are a gift from GOD an no one can take them away from u dont apologise for being blessed with them. having said that wat ur lady is doin is totally wrong on all levels,not only is it harmful to u but it is as well to her. its such a set back as it breaks the trust an places so many insecurities active in the relationship. dont let ur decision to quit this relationship be influenced by other people, u shudnt even be here talkin bout this soo publicaly with people who'l even confuse u further with their own opinions of the topic. i for one know the irony of lovin someone who treats u lik a fool its an unpleasant experience but  i assure u one day this very women will wake up to respect u for the kind an big heart ur carrying.

i pose a question isn;t it the same affair we hav with our LORD the same GOD whose faithful kind mercyful an forgives us with no fail everyday of our lives?
who are we then not to forgive an be faithful hopefu that GOD repays us wth blessings. goodluck friend with your decision making

personally i think u shud be able to see a digger by her actions however i must confess some can be very pretentious.
1listen to her dialogue i mean wat shes more interested in ur big job or how uv been.
2 ask her wat brought the sudden interest.
3make moves on her, the provocative kind,if shes to willing then u no theres somethin she wants
look m not sayin shes after somethin but truth b told if a lady wants she wants u an no ex boyfriend cud stand in the way of that esp if its been as long as 6months

well dear lady from my experience naija man are a differnt breed all together, an it takes a certain women to handle the lot
try standin ur ground and it will be u he'l be standin on soooooooi suggest u shud date zim guys, they none for they submissive nature
GOODLUCK with this

hello friends my name is lufuno makananesa search me on fb, the picture with a baby on a bashd window thats my profile,
jus so u no, m in SA, lookin forward to makin friends with sound minded people, u no the kind u rarely come across these days?

lets all be realistic here, money doesnt buy love nor does love pay the bills. as a women u shudnt compromise on security as its an important factor in any relationship WHY IS IT IMPORTANT? cause love just blossoms wen its accompanied by comfort but it shud be coming from both sides, its soo frustrating takin care of 2 an carrin the load by urself another thin is ladies men respect an independent women it may not even be much but as long as u earn ur own he allows u to make decisions as well. but be warned not too go out there lookin for easy wealth cause thats just as bad as prostitutin urself infact its the same thing.never ask for things u cant even cater for self how can u want a black berry wen u cant even afford it for urself. it is self debasing to always be on the receiving end , to the extent of having ur monthly toiletries catered for surely theres somethig wrong with that!

i use to think money a part of me still does, but m inlove now an i wish we cud make it together

mobo ur soo angry an negitive dont influence the guy rather advise him. mayb uv never been inlove but this guy is and wen u truly love a soul nothing else matters. u soo bitter so much that u gloat bout sleepin around with many partners. m not sure if ur aware but there is a new black man out there a responsible man that protecte an respects his women be it mother daughter sister or wife, a man who understands that keeping to one partner teaches discipline an self respect. my dear friend you make your partner who u want her to be, sure she may make mistakes or succumb to pressures, but is it not the same love tht led u to spoil her an be soo kind to her that shud drive u to trust her? an in the event that she is getting up to mischief her conscious will deal with her. acts of kindness an love are nevr in vain. i wish u luck

hey look i personally think ur hurting urself why do such a thing to someone u love? i for one am in a relationship with my nigerian boyfriend an he chats up women on the internet lik fire he does so much and says all kinds of things to them some times even in front of me i use to take offence but now it doesnt bother me cause i no wat we share wat we hav, m the one that lays in his bad m the one that knows wat he likes, what he hates and what awesome love we make. another thing im on the internet as well, most of the time its lies i talk and when ever they want to hook up i never pitch. stop this hey,before u loose wat matters most to you.

guys m a south african lady an from my point of view, all cultures have curvy ,succulent etc women. the difference with us southys we are aware of our gifts both physically and mentally. something so sexy bout a women who understands her worth an is never ever willing to settle for less. consider as well that men are just visual beings u cant expect ur men to ship here an remain celibate and blinded when there are numerous blossoming confident, intelligent, classy independent, sleeq women parading the streets. did i mention just how sexually inclined we are. niger ladies if a man is yours his yours an nothing can change that, but if u start doubting urselves that there is such a gigantic turn offf.