Business › Re: Youwin 4th Edition Is Here by luvablesam(m): 7:47pm On Dec 18, 2014 |
xdream: Good. Would be easy to work with you! Thanks Sir, so where do we start? |
Business › Re: Youwin 4th Edition Is Here by luvablesam(m): 3:17pm On Dec 18, 2014 |
xdream: What's your business sector? Education |
Business › Re: Youwin 4th Edition Is Here by luvablesam(m): 1:32pm On Dec 18, 2014 |
I need a mentor in writing my own business plan
Any past winners here? |
Family › Re: Married As A Second Wife For Child-Bearing by luvablesam(m): 11:24pm On Dec 13, 2014 |
SAMBARRY: Adebayo salami will buy this
next Who d hell is 'Adebayo Salami' n. How does he relate to the story? @OP.. Its wat u signed up for. By d way,dunt be too smart. I put it to u dat, u went into d marriage for ur own selfish reasons(u needed help to finish school and u were broke after ur sis threw u out) n now u wanna leave cos u achieved ur aim. He didn't use or lie to u @ OP, U lied to and used Him. |
Romance › Re: Time To Marry: Meet Your Spouse Here (season 2) by luvablesam(m): 12:58pm On Dec 07, 2014 |
Interesting Thread.... I really like the bold steps taken by the OP to create such a thread. I pray u all find ur partners really.
However I really wud like to call on the ladies to please do away with our 'so-called traditional values'
1) Don't wait for any man to Ask for ur hand, if u see an attractive dude on or offline n u like him enough, please walk up to him n signify interest. Time waits for no one. I hate the 'people would call me a slut' syndrome. Its so not cool.
2) All I c here are Brothers applying. Where are the single ladies? Signify, who knows u mite get lucky. Be woman enuf to say wat u Want. Simple!
My advice doh |
Literature › Re: Intellectual Property Removed At Owner's Request by luvablesam(m): 10:03pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
standd: I also wanted us to discuss who to blame on this thread but changed my mind cos the ish is so twisted that, meeting Ella and speaking with her one-on-one would make one blame her. But then, she seemed to be wired to believe she is s sex object. To be used and misused. It is sad, really. Yes, people might try to derail the journey of some others but I feel its only for a while, people always continue their life journey if they re-focus on their goals. I still she is even still to young to realize wat she has done to herself yet. Who shld we really blame? |
Literature › Re: Intellectual Property Removed At Owner's Request by luvablesam(m): 9:32pm On Dec 06, 2014 |
Hmmmm.. A wise advice says : 'never envy the rich cos u don't know the source of their wealth.
That apart, who shld I blame for ella's misfortune?, her Mum for being irresponsible, or the uncle who took advantage of her at a young age or maybe herself.... Its just a sad story really.
I hope she regains her health 1 Like |
Celebrities › Re: Bruce Jenner Cuts Off Penis, Replaces With Artificial Vagina? by luvablesam(m): 9:17pm On Dec 05, 2014 |
Spicylate: not suprised. kinda saw it coming. Staying with the 'kadarshains' brings out the worst in people. Ask Lamar |
Agriculture › Re: YOUNG TRAINEE FARMER'S INITIATIVES W.A.B.I by luvablesam(m): 12:26pm On Dec 02, 2014 |
dyttt: Sam, its not my project Am just here to help post
All u need do is just indicate interest How? I sent u a mail. Reply sha |
Agriculture › Re: YOUNG TRAINEE FARMER'S INITIATIVES W.A.B.I by luvablesam(m): 12:14pm On Dec 02, 2014 |
Dytbabe, I am interested. How do I hookup with u? |
Family › Re: My Family Issues! by luvablesam(m): 8:52pm On Nov 30, 2014 |
I can c a 'termite' on the thread already(always giving more advice than it truly is capable of). A man or a woman should tell a partner about the visit of family members, failure to which the untold partner has d right to walk them(family members) outta de house.
Simple logic.
@op , talk to ya wify. Simple |
Education › Re: I Need Help: I Cant Read by luvablesam(m): 10:54pm On Nov 29, 2014 |
Try reading interesting stuffs first for a habit then go on ot other stuffs wen u develop more interest in reading. Or better still, since u are a uni student convert ur phone into a recorder n record everythin a lecturer says in class. It would help cos u wud wanna make references when you. Find things u don't understand from the recording |
Family › Re: Sex With More Than 20 Women Reduces Risk Of Prostate Cancer by luvablesam(m): 9:40pm On Nov 29, 2014 |
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Celebrities › Re: Shocking DNA Result: Two Of Femi Kuti’s Five Children Are Not His by luvablesam(m): 12:51pm On Nov 28, 2014 |
PrettySpicey: So, he so easily returned them. Did he not love them unconditionally enough?
Poor kids! They are going to be so hurt, so broken. They just lost their father... the only one they knew.
Their mother should have known better!
So sad! They would probably kill their Mums when they grow up. Such a shame |
Family › Re: Sex With More Than 20 Women Reduces Risk Of Prostate Cancer by luvablesam(m): 12:31am On Nov 28, 2014 |
coogar: my point rings true then.... that's exactly the reason introverts only seem to attract retired pröstitutes & ex-club girls. True Kinda maybe not prostitutes but instead very wild girls. Meanwhile guys shouldn't take church girls too seriously doh |
Family › Re: Sex With More Than 20 Women Reduces Risk Of Prostate Cancer by luvablesam(m): 12:23am On Nov 28, 2014 |
coogar: don't be jealous of our fabulous lives.... men aren't really designed to be chaste - that exclusive rights belong to you womenfolk. this is why nature gave you have a doughnut looking hymën to keep you in check. unlike you, i have nothing to restricting me from sowing my wild oats.
there's no effing way any extrovert dude would end up with a runs babe. runs babes know who they are after - the nerds! the extrovert dude's wealth of experience would help him sift through the debris & even if he misjudges, there's a big chance at least one of his friends knows about the escapades of the runs babe. anyhow you look at it, the guy that is out there sowing his wild oats always wins. Brother, introverts are way freakier than extroverts, ask ladies. @ topic, I wonder why all the 'to n fro' fighting? If a couple of freaky straight scientists came up with some thesis about Veejays being an 'anti- cancer' apparatus for Men, please just let d thread be or better still have some fun with d topic n let there be peace. Some threads should just be for the fun of it. People shouldn't see every family section topic as an outlet to their unending frustrations. @picka its been a while. |
Family › Re: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by luvablesam(m): 10:34am On Nov 27, 2014 |
chaircover: My dear there are a lot of things that can make a marriage terrible. . . .a lot We hear a lot about breasst cancer and lung cancer, but all the other cancers can kill too if left untreated.
If you ask warring couples, abuse and infidelity is not always the root cause of their issues.
A man who gambles all the family funds or a man who refuses to work but sit at home for years waiting for his big break, while his kids are being chased out of school for lack of school fees is a man who will give his wife sleepless nights
A man who is always at logger heads with landlords and employers leading to the family being constantly being evicted and the man is always being sacked is a headache to the wife.
Sexual incompatibility nko? another cause of strife and sleepless nights. The guy wants it 2 times and the wife wants it 4 times? or the husband wants her to wear red in bed and she wants to wear blue 
A man who nags nags nags and can never see anything good in his wife too is a headache. I have a collegue, always complaining about how her husband is always embarassing her with his lewd and vulger language outside.
This afternoon I was in a self service restaurant and there was this man, partner and their kid in the queue in front of me. The server was serving another customer in front of us all. I guess it was taking too much time (which it wasnt) and this man just suddenly slammed his tray down and angrily walked off. The son was shouting dad dad and running after him. The woman just stood there with her hands to her face before eventually walking away.
A lot of things can go wrong and make life unbearable in the marriage for both parties. ive seen and heard a lot of stories. . . . A lot of things are happening my sister, May God help us all. |
Family › Re: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by luvablesam(m): 10:34am On Nov 27, 2014 |
chaircover: My dear there are a lot of things that can make a marriage terrible. . . .a lot We hear a lot about breasst cancer and lung cancer, but all the other cancers can kill too if left untreated.
If you ask warring couples, abuse and infidelity is not always the root cause of their issues.
A man who gambles all the family funds or a man who refuses to work but sit at home for years waiting for his big break, while his kids are being chased out of school for lack of school fees is a man who will give his wife sleepless nights
A man who is always at logger heads with landlords and employers leading to the family being constantly being evicted and the man is always being sacked is a headache to the wife.
Sexual incompatibility nko? another cause of strife and sleepless nights. The guy wants it 2 times and the wife wants it 4 times? or the husband wants her to wear red in bed and she wants to wear blue 
A man who nags nags nags and can never see anything good in his wife too is a headache. I have a collegue, always complaining about how her husband is always embarassing her with his lewd and vulger language outside.
This afternoon I was in a self service restaurant and there was this man, partner and their kid in the queue in front of me. The server was serving another customer in front of us all. I guess it was taking too much time (which it wasnt) and this man just suddenly slammed his tray down and angrily walked off. The son was shouting dad dad and running after him. The woman just stood there with her hands to her face before eventually walking away.
A lot of things can go wrong and make life unbearable in the marriage for both parties. ive seen and heard a lot of stories. . . . A lot of things are happening my sister, May God help us all. All I saw in ur very long write-up was very strange, the Man this, the Man that!. Don't women have faults too? Or are they 'sin less' in relationships Interesting and strange |
Satellite TV Technology › Re: Free To Air Satellite Tv General Thread by luvablesam(m): 9:36am On Nov 27, 2014 |
Guys I have a 2.4meter dish laying fallow somewhere n I wanna install it now, I just wanna know wat d best stations are,that I can nail with it |
Literature › Re: my heart beats for Vengeance- stories Of a sexually Abused Lady by luvablesam(m): 11:18pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Wat a story... Any man that falls for u deserves what he would get. You had really been unlucky with men. You just armed me more reasons I keep to myself.
What a way to have grown or live.
I apologise on behalf of any terrible Man u must have met while growing up. Am deeply sorry honestly 1 Like |
Literature › Re: Intellectual Property Removed At Owner's Request by luvablesam(m): 10:40pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Hmmmm...this story makes me remember a story I heard five years ago...really touching..wonder y people spoil others lives .. Maybe I rather should pitch my tent on this section of nairaland.
Weldone Standd |
Family › Re: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by luvablesam(m): 1:50pm On Nov 23, 2014 |
Wendy80: My point exactly, not making excuse for Ur hubby oh. But I think ur work takes a greater part of u and he might be lonely too. Yea,we men easily get bored too. Staying in a different town or country is a different ball game all together but when a couple stays together n wify works 12 straight hours!!!, hubby would surely be lonely. |
Family › Re: Counselling: Strictly For Couples And Intending Couples! by luvablesam(m): 9:32am On Nov 23, 2014 |
Babymumsy: I need advice on these issues pls: I feel so lonely in my marriage cos hubby hardly gists,247 with his bb chatting and studying football sites. I just put to bed,I have to take care of my baby and also go to work 8am-8pm.I have to work and work endlessly,no time for any quiet time or to meditate.Hubby doesn't want househelp or daily help.is ds not slavery? Having sex has also become an issue cos wen I ask,he makes me feel lik a prostitute.with the defence dat its a form of contraceptive,how do I handle all dis? Is this what marriage is supposed to feel like? I feel ur pains n I can guess how u feel. That not witstandin,how d hell would u work 12hours as a young mum? Don't u feel he is lonely too, that's y he chats n checks out those soccer sites?. How was he before u guys married, was he a talker?, were u guys even friends before u married? Plenty factors could be responsible. Talk to him about it, let him kno how u feel about things. With God, things would workout well. Btw, do u think he still finds u sexy? |
Literature › Re: Which Books Are You Currently Reading? by luvablesam(m): 10:32pm On Nov 17, 2014 |
Reading 'Rat Trap' by Craig Thomas |
Family › Re: Marital Issues by luvablesam(m): 9:08pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
Some stories are just hard to believe really. Hardly any Man would forgive a woman that cheated during pregnancy. The child would either kill her when he/she finds out later in life or her conscience would. Oh my gosh! Terrible stuff |
Family › Re: Sriously Need Someone To Talk To by luvablesam(m): 4:54pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
Hmmmm.....how come those that are so good at making comments on every thread on the family section to increase ratings never do the following:
1. Never create threads to complain about their own lives or relationships or are they too perfect to have issues?(Some don't even create topics at all or if they do,then it has to be in religion section)
2. How comes they never decide Not make comments on the first page of every 'hit topic' on the family section? Or is it that (a) They aren't even in relationships and thus not in a position to advice? Or (b) Do the leave their spouses hanging and rather prefer to be here in other to be seen,thereby causing the same problems they set out to profer solutions to here in their various homes?
are u expert advisers for real?
@ OP,I wonder y u have brought such a topic here when really in your heart of hearts you cud solve your problems urself
@ some please shun hypocritism, its Killing family section slowly |
Family › Re: I know My Husband Is Cheating On Me by luvablesam(m): 12:02am On Nov 16, 2014 |
Tell him u aint comfortable with him chatting with another woman late at nite.
Its that simple! |
Family › Re: I Am Fed Up With My Marriage by luvablesam(m): 11:59pm On Nov 15, 2014*. Modified: 2:44pm On Nov 16, 2014 |
You don't need peoples advice here really. Just give him more reasons why u shld work. Please neva listen to other women's gist cos its mostly filled with painted lies. |
Family › Re: My Husband Says I Am The Cause Of His Problem by luvablesam(m): 9:39am On Nov 14, 2014 |
cococandy: Maybe you should start saving by yourself. No matter how little you're able to put away,it will be worth something eventually. Don't fight him anymore about what he did with his last month income. The more you fight the more he puts up resistance. Like they say,communication is the key. He needs to understand financial responsibility and team work. Not leaving it all for one person. at least if he took on extra debt apart from the house loan ,he should have let you know seeing as it is something that affects you both. None of you should be in the dark when it comes to loans and debts incurred by the other party which may affect the home finance.
If he won't man up and live up to his responsibility,do the much you can henceforth making sure you don't touch the money you put away for saving and the one you need to provide the basics for your kid and leave the rest for him. If he's fine with folding his arms and watching his home fall apart before his eyes,then good for him.
As for beating you up. Hmm. I don't know but I will never knowingly advice a woman to ignore such a thing or pray about it. It happened once so it can happen again. What are you going to do? Try not to provoke him into beating you up again or learn karate to defend yourself? 'Man enuf to his responsibilities' how madam? A man that says a woman is the cause of his problems is surely frustrated and YES u 'might' actually be a part of his problems. Who takes a loan to pay for Rent? A man hardly suggests such or aint I right?, wouldn't it have been better if u lived in a less expensive part of town and buy a small car to ferry u to work? Or u are the 'Am all class' kinda chic? In your One year of marriage,how much have u contributed,financially or morally? Y wud u lock a mans shirt in the heat of an argument? Or u actually wanted to beat him abi? You are lucky he didn't slap you into another nationality like I would have done if I was in his shoes(I don't subscribe to physical abuse anyway). Woman you are already thinkin of who takes the child when u can sort out your selves in a matured manner. Men: The easiest way to loose a woman to another is thru physical abuse. Its a NO NO. |
Family › Re: Should I Confront My Wife? by luvablesam(m): 1:38pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
princesstemi: you dnt need ask u just ave to let her knw what u see and u dnt like it and u dnt want that to happen again no be fight matter bro na one on one chart in a calm voice the woman will apologise and stop d dirty act, we women are not fool we only react when some men believe dey can do and say whatever de want cos dey are d head I will stop here. Thank you Doesn't mata. there is no confrontation in a relationship without raised voices. |
Family › Re: Should I Confront My Wife? by luvablesam(m): 12:46pm On Nov 13, 2014 |
princesstemi: you are right but is better u ask than keeping quite cos dat makes u misbehave and act on what u see but when u ask her it's free your mind. That is nt nagging depends on how you ask her How would u ask,pls explain?. Do u know when u ask someone to explain situations every single time,they usually come forward prepared every single time. So wats d need? |
Family › Re: Should I Confront My Wife? by luvablesam(m): 11:03am On Nov 13, 2014 |
princesstemi: if u screen munch her chart and keep for her to do more dirty things to use against her in feature that shows u don't lover her. Cos if you do you will caution her and call her to order as you. Said bro I won't be using anytin thing against her in the future,I would just be ' fe de records'. A man that nags and complains always wud just make a woman frigid,over cautious and timid at times. Love doesn't mean I shld say 'I saw u greet bro tango too intimately' everytime I see her talk to a man. Love waits till the right time. |