₦airaland Forum

buttchick: I'll pass.

What are u scared of,heartbreaks? 99percent of the reasons y we fail is cos we dont try...Thats y lesbianism is thriving....Other girls tel straight girls that guys would always HURT them.....


I have bin hurt before buh did dat ever stop me?nah...

buttchick: The unstiff Zulu guys, ... what am I supposed to do with Nigerian guys?

Date or marry one. nothing wrong about dat

buttchick: @topic: Simple, naija gurls are a bunch of pretentious sissies. What's up with that? And Zulu guys ain't that fine anyway. But... the other side of them are fabulous!!!! I just love them.

u love who? the Nigerians or d Zulu guys?

Kinkybraids: Well these are great characteristics and im not disputing them but all I'm saying is that many Nigerian men who date SA women arent thinking long term or marriage as he knows he will go back home at some point to take a Nigerian wife. I strongly believe that if a South African girl dates a Nigerian man she should know its just for fun or to experiment but it mostly likely wont lead to marriage especially if he isnt based in SA. Im just being realistic...it saves a lot of heartache

Also the Stereo types about South African women (which are not true in all cases) dont really give SA women points in the marriege department when it comes to Nigerian men... or other foreign men

Yea ,stereotypesabout pple exist which are not basically true buh d thing is this;


Never get into a Relationship with the wrong perspectives about a person(in this case,that naija men dont wanna marry d S.A gurls they date).

The truth is this,Naija is too tight or uncomfortable for a non-nigerian to cope with esp if the guy is just startin out in his career.This is a big thing Nigerians consider of a non-west african girlfriend .@FACT!!!

Naija men are good...

Its no biggie,so far u love the person enough....Wonder why people find it hard to.

Kinkybraids: lmao ... Dont get me wrong I only mentioned the good things but I learnt many lessons from the Nigerian man

1. Men cheat...and they dont see it as cheating (especially Nigerian men...No offence)

2. A Nigerian man will say anything to get what he wants and you will believe him again...and again ( until you get use to being disappointed)

3. Dating A Nigerian man as a South African is a waste of time... You may have all the good qualities and constantly have his back because you wanna see him succeed but when he leaves he might call you a few times then forget about you

4. Nigerian men love beautiful women so just get use to him always flirting...

5. I learnt this lesson from a friend dating a Nigerian guy... Some Nigerian men are not afraid to buy you off to get rid of you when ish hits the fan...so they can be very selfish and cold ( well he was anyway)

Get the idea of dating/marrying as a "waste of Time" as u put it out of your head.....Thats not true. In as much as i cant hold fort for anyone,i would like to state clearly that Nigerian Men(NOT SCAMS)are faithful,keep to their words,good lovers,companions and Fathers(ALL FACTS!!!!)

However Nigerian Men Flirt(i agree just a bit).

Never Date a "Traditional, Traditional" Naija Dude, He is too closely knitted to his roots to want to spend a life time with a non-Nigerian Chic...



Remember however that a Nigerian Man would never giveup on u or his kids no matter the situation

When a man commits a crime,the writeup is SPECIFIC but when a woman commits a crite the Phrases are GENERALIZED to make it sound subtle...

For Example....."My Boyfriend is a brute. He 'kicks me',punches me' and at times 'bangs my head' on the wall"

Buh when a Woman is reporting herself, she says 'I Hit my Boyfriend'. Where as, Bros is in a Hospital Somewhere...

Take note people...

@OP ,Be nice to say i slapped him back, not ONLY that buh also punched n kicked him tooo.....

My advice is simple....Run(like some cohorts would advice) and spare bros some beatings later on in life

My First REAL GF was five Years Older than me. I loved the idea n she loved me in turn. I hated Girls i was older than back then,They sounded like broken CDs(SKIP,SKIP) ...Reasons we broke up was her family pressure ....They really wanted her to marry ASAP. So i let her go. ...

Moral of the story na- Its Up to u et ur Partner to focus on ur relationship.....Older or Younger, get the best from your lives....Simple...Never mind what people say,Ignore them cos they will fade away....

pickabeau1: That issue is some medevial ish

No one will listen to each other

They will stop and start and stop and start

The tin tire me o.....i dont support terrorism buh i want palestinian freedom...e dun do....isreal shld stop the blockade

Can i come in? btw wat do u guys think abt d hamas Vs Isreal ish?

Guy,u messup big TIME.....Ah check ur CV or na cover letter n i jus c say na 'paperweight' d tin carry....

Check out ur scores....

Swag ......Nah(wetin happen to using ur chrismas cloth 4 advert) 2nd picture spoil every....guy u fall tins with am...

English .......Too basic(na essay u dey write?u cum dey make typos ontop sef) u for vet am plenty times before u post.

Tatics.....OFF(Na scolari tactic wey him use for dis last worldcup wey make them sack am na im u dey use)......There was NO NEED for the 'abroad based chic' criteria....things dun rof cos of that....U wud have had dat in mind in SELECTING after u got PMs from eligible Bachelorettes......

Make them no say i dey spoil u....av said TOO MUCH....ur rating dey drop seriously...act like sharppoo abeg...

Marriage is not as hard as it is. If u meet someone 'SUPER NICE' dun let 'em go cos of the fear of d unknown. Just go ahead n take a dip

desire7: Is the woman in question ur sister?

Nah....refered to you as ma sister

desire7: Oouuch! He is going to break that woman's heart,that's More than stewpid!

Ma Sista,felt bad for him(doh whe wont understand)

desire7: It baffles me as well,it has been the major reason why so many young women choose to stay in marriages and relationships dispite the frustration ,sadness, maltreatment et all they are faced with.

Its strange Madam,i had d same discussion with a friend who came visiting at work today.....He sleeps with a single mum yet he says he cant marry her.isnt dat stewpid?

kulyie: So which one is the right profession for me? Hmnnn?

The one u find happiness doing aka ur hobby aka event/party planner....


hmmmmmm..means tot i wont see d username kulyie again...good to have u back.

kulyie: Anyway luvable sam me I like the work of event planning and organising parties.i feel happy and excited doing it and it's almost like I get paid for doing my hobby

Kulyie!!!!!!!! Tot u left NL? hmmmmm....Anyways @u....if u aint in the event planning buisness already,then i must say u are in the wrong profession....

for me,teaching,counselling or ownin a ranch wud av been perfect, cant imagine teachin(their salaries scare me), Counselling(The UN/Releifweb wont recruit me YET) and Ranch owning(needs millions to venture into).....Dats y i still do wah i do.

softsparkyy: Yeah and something like NGO. I like helping people

NGO gjobs aer so hard to come by these days except u start ur own n Nigerians have trust issues internationally.

Thread would be interesting....@ question :NONE....Them no dey try

Would really have loved counselling too

I think a dignifying exit from the WorldCup for Brazil would have been against Chile in the second round


My Honest Thought

This is not a typical Family topic as people
would expect. Its something i have always pondered over in a long while

Let met put this question to all NAIRALANDERS,like i did to some friends a while back.

" If all JOBS paid the same SALARIES,which
Profession would you have taken to?
Answers expected PLEASE.Am just curious.

@Me, i would have loved to be a teacher

This is not a typical Job/Vacancy topic as people would expect. Its something i have pondered over in the last 4 Years.

Let met put this question to all NAIRALANDERS,

" If all JOBS paid the same SALARIES,which Profession would you have taken to?


Answers expected PLEASE


@Me, i would have been a teacher

Dont know why most guys find it repulsive marrying a qoman with a kid from a previous relationship. The African Character is questionable sometimes.....



I Av missed Nairaland

Not Again......I hope this is not true....,How can we use Mexico to prepare for Argentina

@I no like this one at all#

waleadex: Everyday no be xmas jare...na off-day e be for them!

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Which kain yeye off day is dat Its simple...my guys(p-square) don't know How to sing live....They performed woefully because they weren't allowed to mime.....

I was truely ashamed...as their fan....

No Nigerian poliTHIEFcian or buiz man wud ever buy any of those aircrafts,dats if the plan ever materializes into action(Talk is cheap)....They would wana roll with trusted brands......Bombadier,airbus,boeing et al.....

I pray d dream comes to pass

OMG....D biggest heart break of the night.....P-SQUARE....Those guys just can't sing ....SHAME......AWFUL...

The wackest football awards ceremony I av ever watched...

Stage...............Basic...no extra stuff to spiece it up(More like a european award show in The 80's)

Sitting style.......... more like a street bar setting

Guests................More like a PDP rally...Almost every guest is a politician

Awards..........More like Naija football award ceremony.. Naija dey win everything..SHOW FAIR PLAY ABEG



Ratings so far for me...2 outta 10

Y won't she?Infact I plan to buy two cars soon n I would ask her to pick first after which I would still give her the privelage to swich or drive mine anytime she feels like it.....

Y would I marry someone if not to show the person dat she is numero uno n I love her unconditionally? Cars or no Cars....

No be Juju oooo, na pure Love.

@dont get it twisted#

Let me act like a blues fan for a sec(doh am a red in my veins) and chant along.....

"HE SCORES WHEN HE WANTS"