₦airaland Forum

Originalsly:
No doubt. ... OP be aje butter!!... not used to much physical activities ... not even sports .... and suddenly... all his sleeping muscles have to be working in top gear ... why wouod they not pain him? Even if one is used to hard work in Nigeria ... it will not be easy for him to manage hard work in the US/Canada. The difference is working continuously until you get the set 10 or 15 minute break ... then back at it again ... continuously. ... especially for hourly paid workers. Others can learn from this thread .... this situation is verrrry common .... harder for those who arrived with different expectations.... unprepared. He will endure ... like most... or will cop out. Him thinking about asking for refund are me laugh! He need to manage that job until he finds a better one. Despite all he complained about the job ... it was nice for him to say he was lucky ... he is working and after months his friends are still trying to find jobs. After all .... all you need to do is go prepared to work hard.... do two or even three jobs ... one to take care of the bills and the other to manage yourself and save.

OP winter is the worse for everything... Spring is here ... summer soon ... all conditions will get better.

This is serious. Even our brother in the neighbourhood who travelled some years back and everyone is seeing now as big boy codedly complained to some people that he's still working day and night. Not easy

Tadadobe:
Watch them storming this place trying to discredit this guy's frustration as "stop discouraging people from going abroad". People don't discuss what they're going through in abroad because they're scared of being judged. Nigerians will tell such person that he's where they're slaving hard to come and he dare complain

The reactions of Nigerians at home to the plights of Nigerians abroad whenever they express the kind of hardships and challenges they are facing abroad is at sickening and frightening level! I dey tell you. Nigerians at home would bully and judge them that they wouldn't even be able to defend themselves

justwise:
Stories like this is far too common now, people leaving Nigeria with little or no money to survive abroad, then we have threads like this people complaining that abroad is hard and Nigeria is better but they will never book the next available flight back to Nigeria and allow us to hear word

It is a dilemma for them. They would have spent every kobo they had to get there. So, relocating is not an easy option for them even if they wanted to return. But the only thing is that, if they had known, they might not have taken that route.

Ablemed:
When I was telling one of my guy here ion believe in travelling abroad to have or live a better life, he thought I was speaking from the place of drunkenness.

I believe I will make it and I'll make it Big in Nigeria and only travel out for vacation, irrespective of whatsoever anyone got to say/think

Imagine me unable to raise around 400k (medicals, lottery fees, flight) for me and my wife to process our USA visa lottery that we won back in 2013!
I'm still in Nigeria and I know my income today without even putting in my time. Today, I will pass the opportunity to relocate abroad to my kids, not for me anymore.

This one has seen reality. Where are you guys, team "come back home and let me use your spot"?

Eriokanmi:
They don't feel like ageing or dying , considering how huge their wealth is, lol. Steve Jobs, the founder of Apple Computers and Electronics spent a huge part of his wealth on sickness so he wouldn't die. He still died eventually. Are they wiser than God?

There are a million reasons one can die, which anti ageing pills can't prevent. These people have neglected the power of God, thinking only their inventions can make them live long.

There are some things people wouid do and God would compensate them for...with long life and sound health. See what Bill Gates is doing today globally with a huge percentage of his wealth. Musk had been accused severally of not donating to human development despite his huge wealth. If he goes to south Africa today, they may mob him cos he doesn't even remember them.

One of the religious brainwashed mofos

NaijaOlosho:


Tinubu may have booked 100 cartons already

Yes, daddy

Naira20:
Lies.
Your two wives are not Christians.
No Christian woman goes to become a second wife.

Those women are either churchgoers or you kidnapped them like Jihadist do

You should get out of your father's rented house once in a while to familiarise yourself with realities.

Well, he outlast him to begin with.

lildush:
You people don't know the implications of letting dis drug lord become d leader. Of a sane county like Nigeria.. who will Eva take us serious again? See this.. Nigerians will suffer home and abroad..if to Japa is ur only option. To stay alive.. dat too will cast. So wats next?

See this one already predicting doom for his own future! We have given the job to the most qualified and most prepared candidate

Philgafauto:
The same ones. They are uneducated, crude and violent.

The same Yoruba Muslims that I belong to or another one?
My families are educated, refined and peaceful. If Yoruba Muslims violent, SW wouldn't enjoy this kind of relative peace.

mrvitalis:
U don't need 25% in 25 states in a run off

Rerun is between the candidate with the highest votes and the one with 25% in 25 states even if he doesn’t come second in the general election.
Which category did your candidate falls into?

Okorietitus:
Northerners will be laughing themselves to stupor in corner. Imagine the insults Northerners got from Igbos for 8 years under Buhari.

Tinubu never enter, Yorubas don dey return am wotowoto for Ipobs claiming to be Obidients.

When last did you hear Falz or Macaroni say anything again? They have seen how stupid they were to support a tribal bigot like Obi and his Ipob co-travellers.

Falz, Macaroni, AY, Correct Bro and the likes just no get sense at all. But on a second thought, I think they're just capitalising on the presence of Obidients on social media to gain followers.

Klington:
We've always known that the white headed Prof is a CORN artist working for the druggie of iragbaji

What did you expect before? To support your supreme monkey with croaked voice?
Yes, daddy

Legitisreal:
the werey is yet to touch my life o

I need Lagos millions

You should ask Obi about his mad friend who always gave him advice to touch your life

Ofunaofu:
But Obi flogged Tinubu blue black in lagos State

That's because there are too many baarstards in Lagos state

I don't know why, I just don't like that lady since day one she came to limelight.

Mikagrace:
It’s not about feelings it’s logic. She’s not married to this man, he can decide to run away when she’s 8 months pregnant.. what security/assurance does she have from him? Pregnancy /child bearing.. the burden will always fall back on the mother. Is the fiancé financially stable? Africans believe in giving birth to 4 kids that they cannot take care of, that’s why most families are stuck in generational poverty. You see all these single mothers that you see carrying their child from one place to another? It’s usually one guy that sold them a dream with words and nothing more, and ran away. Before you carry a child to term for any man, make sure you are married, financially stable with good prospects, if not the chances of you suffering is high.

Why didn't she ask for marriage when the man said that he would accept the pregnancy? Have you asked her to know that the man actually didn't ask her to marry him?
Life itself is a risk. Those who got pregnant with no man taking responsibility even sometimes decided to keep it but you're here making a weak defence for a woman whose man was even ready to take the responsibility.

SisterAnn:
Do the needful and stop disturbing us.

SMH

I fear you. Telling a depressed fellow human being to commit suicide.

JohnBullMySon:
When did we start deporting from state to state in Nigeria?

Some of these governors don't even know the law.

Ask Obi who started it as a governor

North4Obi23:
Beautiful one from Makinde. As for moment we're laughing at APC fools.

Losers laughing at winners? Your weed must be strong

Perewenkle1:
There are no perfect marriages, anyone who tells you their marriage is best or better is lying to you.
1. Love one another but remember that it takes one person to keep marriage going.
2. Never share your problems publicly or with anyone.
3. Keep your mom, mother or mother in-law or father in-law away from your problems including your pastors unless you tried all and failed.
4. Never carry your anger more few hours.
5. Share the house bills
6. If you have children love them and avoid Nigerian private school syndromes.

Okay, how do one avoid this? Care to explain or give insight?

Kobojunkie:
You forgot to define "thriving marriage". I mean Osinachi's marriage was thriving until the point that it cost her her life . So, explain what you mean abeg so we understand what exactly you are asking us of.

That wasn't thriving, they were just able to hide the truth/abuses from the public or third party.

Zonefree:
Any man under the age of 45 coming here to say he's enjoying a thriving marriage with his Nigerian wife is telling a big fat lie!

I don't understand what you meant by this, honestly speaking. Are you talking about Nigerian women as bad wives? Or Nigerian men under the age of 45 incapable of enjoying marriages?

Philgafauto:
Tinubu destroyed yorubaland and we deserve it. How we elevated a tout and drug lord in our politics still beats me but we deserve it.

Now all the work of Obafemi Awolowo has been destroyed. And its our muslim population who destroyed us because they want a muslim Nigeria. It is well.

The same minority Yoruba Muslims or another people?

mrvitalis:
APC is really scared of Peter obi ..he gave them right without financial warchest now imagine him with much more financial support

So, he's not a millionaire anymore? And which party had much more financial warchest during the last presidential election? Were not you all praising Buhari and mocking Tinubu like he could only win by buying votes?

APC know there would be a rerun reason they are starting now to demarket Obi

Even if there will be rerun, how will that involve a third place holder with no 25% in 25 states?

kcnwaigbo:
How exactly is he dull.What exactly is wrong in asking oyedepo to help him get christian votes

Has Christians vote now made him president?

KingsCity:
He did the right thing even if he asked for Christian votes

Yeah, and he's now the Nigeria's president elect. Lol. The only thing he did was that he exposed Christians as minority in Nigeria

GeneralPula:
Omo..

Nah Pandora voice be that o..

I don't like the man, so I never listened to his voice before. But this voice that I heard in that audio recording is a terrible voice for any man to have.