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Wonderboy01:
OGa ADe we Alpha males dey watch ball

Update and call the SIMPson family ,, we go con look live scores for AMVA

Who tell you say you be alpha male?

siofra:
Why do they pretend like they don't like false lashes on ladies?

Ever since I fixed it on Saturday, I've not been able to rest.

I get at least 10 toasters a day.

But online all of them pretend to hate it. Why

They were only toasting you because they felt they would be able to bed you easily. Most of the time. Na olosho dey rock this thing

I feel You jur

ajailer:
Hmm, una just dey mislead ppl anyhow. In the very first place, if your lady no do some funny moves wey u no understand, I bet u many guys naturally won't start monitoring as guys naturally are trusting being by default until they now see d need to be otherwise.

Girls naturally are silly beings by default and they put up all sorts of drama to a guy's face expecting him to overlook their cheating cos they believe they are smarter than guys.

Conclusion: if a woman does not act funny, guys generally do not have time monitoring their partner's phone or movement. So if you now notice funny moves from a lady, do you as the guy keep a blind eye to it or you will just expect her to change until one day they will tell you that your 30 y.o boy u laboured all the years for to make sure turns out good that you are not the real father?

Op is a confused personality with not much woman experience.

Look, somebody that’s billing you like mad. That’s collecting a lot of money and stuff from you. Someone you’re investing on heavily with the hope that you have a future together. Will you be happy to know that she’s cheating? You’re naturally prone to always check up on your “Investment”
You might say you don’t give women money or all that. But someone you actually have feelings for. Someone you really like and would like to keep. Tell me, would you not check up on that person?

Look at it that way.

MadeINchenzen2:
Guys that will always be in control of a ladys attention, respect and loyalty are the ones that does not give half a concern about what she does, where she goes, or who she's flirting with.

You can both be dating... but try to give her as much space to explore all her fantasies. Stop asking her useless questions that gives her the impression you are insecure...

when a lady knows you are insecure, you give her the impression that indicates she deserves a better guy than u !!! And trust me, it's a matter of time before she abandons that relationship.

Perhaps she thought she was dating the hottest guy in campus, but your insecurities has explained to her that you actually do not have the guile and guts to carry yourselves as the number one trending guy in campus... your insecurity will automatically put her on a mission to find the coolest and hottest lady's guy in campus and date him after dumping you.

She loves the fact that you feel insecure, she enjoys seeing you miserable like that... sweating on your balls to keep her all for yourself... you are the newest clown in the circus

You always call her phone to ask her whereabouts, you always want to know where she went and who was the guy she was talking to, you want to see who she's chatting with on Facebook or WhatsApp.

My guy stop all that and give her space... focus on other things and give yourself more attention. The less questions u ask, the less attention you give her... the more respect you command, the more attractive u will appear to her.


Be wise

Righteousness2:
These are some real mind blowing risks! But the Greatest risk on Planet Earth is to Live this life without JESUS Christ.
It is a Grievous, Calamitious and Dangerous risk!

It does not Matter who you are or what you have.
If you Don't have JESUS, you are living a very risky life. And if you Depart without JESUS, you have Wasted your Life

The Jews are living a risky life right?
I know you might trash the Hinduists and Buddhist but tell me about the Jews. Bc if you don’t know, They don’t worship Jesus. According to them, he is just like their relative so why will they venerate their relative.

jesusjnr2020:
Should A Christian Also Read The "Sixth And Seven Books Of Moses"?

I recently saw a thread where someone offered the sixth and seventh books of Moses for sale in this section, and something that happened to my friend after he was given the seventh book of Moses immediately came to mind.

This is not hear-say but a true story about what happened to my own friend after he was given the book by his cultist' friend, so it's not a book I'd advise any Christian to read or have anything to do with.

It's satanic!

God bless.

Lovely write up. I like your thoughts on this because it’s a really interesting topic. But meanwhile, I’d like to ask; have you heard of Kabbalah?
You know what a sephiroth or sefira is?
Urim & Thummin is just like Ifa.
People will say Jesus has come and everything has changed so all these things are not needed again. But till this very day, there are still practicing Jews in Israel that use these methods and it works. Do you mean the Jews are serving the devil?

These things are what some pastors deal with behind the scenes and do wonders and works.
But if you get to know details and discover you can always help yourself and also relate with God directly. Your propensity to go to church might reduce. Offering and tithes too will reduce.
So (some) pastors do all they can to discourage you from venturing into anything like that that can give you this knowledge.
Another problem is many people misuse power. So I don’t blame the knowledgeable ones from hiding it from the public.
Bottom line is your point might be valid.
At the same time might be invalid
I wish everyone was an objective thinker bc there is always 2 sides to a story.

I hope you have a wonderful Sunday.

Lalami3232:
Software development na blood money oooo. I paid 300K to learn just Java at NIIT back then. I would advise youths to go into it because it's the only business you can start up without need a capital in 9ja. It's the only good job you can get in 9ja without needing a BSC. Though I've left Java sha, but the experience I got from Java gave me advantage to learn JavaScript (React and Node), Python (Django) etc.
Instead of you to go do ashawo or yahoo, go learn programming and thank me later. If you no fit get access to materials, I go help to give you some. It's my little way of taking menance from the street

I don talk am before and I go talk am again "the day I go mistakenly born girl pikin eeh, I go ******"

Boss abet help with the info oo

backbencher:
Good.

While I would state that he is innocent until proven guilty, I would also candidly hope that he is sentenced for the crime of assault because what he did was wrong. Even if he was 'hit by the mug' as many of his defenders state, he should have left the office and gone to the police, and it would have been the lecturer in court as the accused. Instead he attacked, and thus stepped into the trap that the advesary had laid for him.


Also, I would like to once again state my sadness at those who think that their lecturer should be assaulted because of 'mistreatment' In life you will meet a lot of pompous, crude, and need I say evil people. If you can react to them normally without losing your temper, you show great maturity, and great self control. Wishing violence on one's lecturer is the beginning step on a road you would not want to take.And how you react to the rude and pompous lecturers in your school is a preparation for how you would do it in the workspace. If you can handle it without losing your cool...you would make it in the workplace and in life. You would make it as a leader when you have to handle competing egos.

And again, this was not a case of mistreatment. The student was not being asked to leave the university, nor was he being 'unjustly marked' . He missed his SIWES and was being offered a second chance to do his SIWES...which meant an extra year in university.(He also had some carryovers , but that's another story.)

As has been said many times, we also need some more compassion from our lecturers, more help for struggling students, more clarification of certain university policies, better mental health help for problem students, and also ultimately, more funding for our universities.

Again, what this guy did was wrong. And the case is not looking good. He had been pestering his lecturer for ages, he had refused to bring proof of the illness that he claimed that stopped him from doing SIWES, and then he got upset when he was told he had to repeat a year. The lecturer did the right thing by telling him the truth....and he lost his temper for being told that he had to repeat a year. All I would say is how we respond to setbacks in life shows us the kind of person we are. And I don't think I have much sympathy for someone getting angry over an extra year ...to do the practical aspect of his course. The guy was not ready to learn how to handle his failure...and that's a big deficiency in my book.

Good morning.

The lecturers story is too long.
The guy said he was locked up for the period of the siwes and appealed to the woman to do something then she got mad and threw a mug bla bla bla. I don’t support his action in any way but maybe they’re trying to exaggerate what he actually did

Wannabe slawormir

Boogyman557:
HOLLY GRAM DAT AINT RITE. SO SORRY MAN.. D COUNTRY IS SO FVCKED UP BIG TIME.. SAME REASON I TRUST NO 1. SAME REASON I HIGH ON MY KUSH 24sc. WTF MAN

[quote author=Vinnie2000 post=10338639

My Brother..
It's possible..
You can look@a Guy, and Say wow 'Dat Guy is Sexy'..
It does not make you Gay or weird!!
Just dat some Nigerians reason things Anyhow..
Personally, I find the Following Guys, Sexy Guys..
*D'Banj
*Cristiano Ronaldo
*Ramsey Nouah
*David Beckham..
These Guys are 35 or 40+ But They are still Trimmed and Sexy..They still maintain dier Six Packs!!.[/quote]Bro abeg... This is very unnecessary

PillarToPost:
This photo has been trending on Facebook and I decided to bring it here to have the views of Nairaland ladies.

Ladies, is it a Yah or Nah?

Let's hear you.

A cupboard/something like a wardrobe and a rug would transform the whole place

Sammmyyyy:
I write this, sequel to a thread I read here a few days ago (precisely on Valentine's Day), on why people should preserve themselves and remain virgins till marriage.
After seeing the thread, my mind swayed right directly to the sayings of some men on this forum, on the opinion that marriage only favours the woman and not the man; then I tried connecting the dots.

That same day, my mind led me back to around a year ago while I was still serving. I rented a self-con, next to a young bar attendant of around 28 years, let's call him Kay. It was a twin flat, so we shared the same veranda and our rooms were very close.
This guy had a very young, charming, moderately rich, perfectly shaped, extremely slender, dark girl staying with him. Let's call her Joy. I'd later discover she was in 200L studying nursing but couldn't go home during the Corona, so, lied to her parents she was held in the school hostel instead.

In all honesty, I do not know her age, but my instinct told me she couldn't be more than 19. I even tried spying on her facebook account but couldn't get her exact age.

Guys, not to bore you, Kay and this girl, Joy, have sex more than they talk to each other. There is no day, no single day, I will not hear her whimpers in my room. It is not exaggeration if I say that no day passed without them having sex. They copulate so much that, at a time, the girl's walking posture changed. Her legs were not as free and slender as they used to.

Not just the sex. This girl spends anyhow for Kay. I got to later discover that she's the only child of her rich parents, so they never allow her lack anything.

In fact, I also learnt that the iPhone this guy, Kay, uses was bought by Joy as a birthday gift for him.
This guy would copulate roughly with the girl before leaving for work in the morning and roughly again when he comes back at night. Even midnights weren't left out as I occasionally would need to put up my speaker's volume just to distract me. And surprisingly again, this girl must cook for him before he comes back, from her own money.

Another shocking thing about this was, I have witnessed on more than 4 occasions, whenever we sit outside to gist, especially on weekends, this guy would say it openly that he cannot marry her, and that she should go and cook the rubbish she was making for him in her husband's house. That only her future husband deserves salty rice, hard beef, blah blah blah and not him. The girl too would just sit there, laughing sheepily.

I have also witnessed on one or two occasions, where this guy would throw this girl out at night on frivolous grounds. On one night after he had thrown her out and I had begged that he please allow her in, I heard their faint chatters on how that he wasn't enjoying her again, and that he needed something tighter, hence suggested sodomy. (I lie you not.)

At a time, I couldn't stand the excruciating agony Kay was putting this girl through that I wanted to sit her down and talk some sense into her, but it'd have been a waste. This girl is completely in love, or shall I say, foolishly in love, with him.

This act continued so long, until I finished my service there, packed my things and left the state.

My good people of nairaland, I can categorically say that this guy, Kay, milked this girl financially and sexually. Trust me, that girl has no sexual sweetness anymore. I just feel sorry for whoever her future husband will be. You know after you bite into a sugar cane and then spit it out after squeezing and enjoying its sweetness? That's what Kay has done to that girl.

....

Now, where's the connection?

Imagine if a girl like that who, at her tender age, has wasted her sexual prowess gets picked by a God fearing virgin man of God and is given an exorbitant bride price to pay?

Back in school, I have witnessed girls get laid with as low as Sharwarma and Vanilla ice cream.
Imagine a lady loses her virginity for ordinary meat pie and Bigi Chapman, and when the time for marriage comes, the prospective suitor is given over 200, 000 to pay as bride price.

Well, as for me. I have never messed anyone's child up.

And God is my witness, if she isn't a virgin, I will never drop a naira as pride price. Even a kobo like this, I will not pay.
The only reason I will marry a non virgin is if she'll pay my bride price, then I can reconsider.

In all honestly, I can say that marriage favours only the woman and not the man.

You will wait for 600 yrs

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Boomboclaaaat

Hmmmm......that is like one hell of a hot moda fuckker

Temperature is the degree of coldness or hotness of a place ....

I wonder how Qatar go be

Chief.. I sent you a dm

Gamechanger45:
This year's jamb right from the registration and so forth has been something else. And after all the delay one will think the jambite will read there eyes out. But all we keep seeing now is fuel price and seat numbers. BTW, what's jamb marking scheme like this year?!!

CCTV cameras might have detected examination malpractice from candidates and deducted 100 marks from total score