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Clearly this na one chance for any man that get married to this one...


After selling and still selling her V-G . . . her personal business.

Hear her, "I will satisfy my man" obviously most women have nothing to offer than sex.

A wise woman, even at 70 she is still adding value but all these girls of nowadays have nothing.

Do they think men want to have sex all the time? Freaking No. . . for men, sex can be tiring.

mercy0008:
Thank you very much.

He got your attention. . . SMH

You should have just laughed and ignore him.

psucc:
I hate the way some Nigerian Pastors behave. Even when they read the bible and preach/interpret the passage, they still contravene its provisions.

Must he gift publicly or do so where witnesses will carry the news home?

The best kind of giving is public giving

Remember, Jesus saw what everyone gave.

Define Witchcraft.

Good one.

Wow!

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Daboomb:
have you ever witnessed where a young man wants to marry a lady?
Why is it that it is the man that brings all the He-goat, Yam, Oil, e.t.c.... and not the woman?
Where does he get those things, if not from the sweat of his brow?
What is the sinificance of those thing, in the olden days?
Do you no tthink they are requested, and taken from, to show as proof that he is up to and ready to marry a wife? (hard work)

BTW: Women only go to their husband's farm to help in the harvest.
Have you watched a Massai family and see the division of labour in it (Men hunting, women cooking it for everyone to eat). Why do they not insist that the women must go hunting with them before thy can feed them?
Thing is, some of you consider feeding your family as a favour, instead of a duty, blessed by God.
You have to be man-enough, not to depend on income from your wife!

If you are still waiting for oyur wife to bring money before you can pay house rent, know that your blessing are yet to arrive and you might be the one delaying it sef, excepting for short periods where sor some unforseen reasons, you have to get a "bail-out" from her.
Mind you, l am not asking "greedy and lazy women" to abuse this responsibility, as some would definitely do.
Each spouse has a definite responsibility they are supposed to carry out in the family, in a manner that assist the other spouse and lighten their burden.

You don't get my point. A man must never depend on his woman but the woman must not be 100% dependent on his man. There are times a man may need a quick loan and does not want to go far to get it.

I listen to a woman sometime ago - she gave a testimony of how she was able to borrow her husband N 1 Million Naira. He needed the money for a quick transaction at 12:15am. Imagine if the woman didn't have?.. Is it a woman that borrowed her husband N 1 Million will be asking him money for Hair and markup or Food ?

Besides, wives of most wealthy men ain't Idol.

Daboomb:
Your response isnot conveying any meaningl.
How can you use "her" singular and then concatenate with "parents" (plural, without being specific?)
Even if my parents live in the village, are you saying my wife must go to farm with them?
Are you referring to my Mum as the "her"?
You guys should try and convey meaning in your post, l assume you are schooled. right?

Pardon,

What I meant is this;

Your great grand parents who when to the farm. Your great grand mother went farming, right? Working along side your great grand father. In this scenario, is it the man that is providing for the family all by himself working in the farm. Has nature not showed us that women are and should be co - provider along side their man.

Mariangeles:
When you truly fall in love, believe me...you'd want to be possessed by her, you'd be angry when she doesn't get jealous when you're around other females... YES, the LOVE of a WOMAN is that powerful!

Jealousy has no link to love, people made it seem it is but it isn't.

Any level of jealousy is dangerous

Ladyhippolyta88:
Be sincere with yourself and tell me there is no difference.

My dear, there's no difference.

If your husband owns a company and you are an accountant or a Barrister by profession wouldn't you join him - instead of him paying a lawyer or accountant?

You'll earn salary. He'll never know there's no salt or rice in the house. He will never know when you are going to make your hair, he'll be wowed cos you showed up with a new beautiful hear style.

In those days when women join their husband in the farms. I doubt there was a time a woman will tell her husband there is not food in the house because she gets everything she needs from working in the farm.

So, tell me - how is that different?

What is the need of having a degree and not use it? Why are you working if not to support the family?

It may smell

Ladyhippolyta88:
Ask the man I quoted maybe he can explain better.And times have changed as far as I am concerned as a woman I am educated and I have choices to make and I am not forced by anyone to be like anybody and I have freedom something I think some women of then didn't have.So to me times have changed and point of correction I am a lady.

Ma'am,

Women who joined their husband in the farm then were not forced, it was their duty - working along side their husband.

You are educated , and you have a choice weather to seat at home doing nothing or go doing something (working). Well, I bet you keep yourself busy.

curvilicious:
A help mete not a full time provider

Exactly. Which means she has to work.

Some women don't know that they can inspire their husbands and can be a very healthy competitor.

There's a lot women don't know about themselves

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Ladyhippolyta88:
You must be living in 1521 this is 2017 and we are almost in 2018.The truth is times have changed.

My brother , time has not changed. They are making it look like that.

Most grand mother joined their husbands in the farm, harvest and keep the family. How is that different from a woman having a good job?

Daboomb:
Some times, l feel like slapping th eheck out of some of our young men of today!
Among their list of "wife material" is that she must be working in a coirporate environment...when they themselves dont even have a job!

Foolish Gigolo, l call them.
Why wont their wife turn them to "collect-wrapper-hold-for-me"?

Everything is so upside down nowadays, it is so annoying.

If your grand Parents lived in the Village and never went to the farm then your know something was terribly wrong with her.

curvilicious:
I get really irritated when i hear men looking for a financially stable woman nd expect to be well respected. You NL men keep saying maybe she has nothing to offer. I can't remember my grandma offering my grandpa financial support. All she used to do was advice him in the right direction nd take care of the home with what he provides.
The Bible didn't call the woman who cannot provide for her family as worse than an infidel but the man.

Na wa o shame on today's men tueh!

Read that verse again in context it was not referring to men.


God created a help mate not a parasite.

Even commissioner of Happiness!

Jman06:
I prefer female soldiers but she has to be very attractive.

I think our lady soldiers should try and create a kind of platform where they can easily interact with single civilian guys, something like a facebook group.

Or do they have such already

Good idea

amakadihot87:
That first soldier has turned to a celeb........whoever knows her should tell her i miss her patronage..........she used to buy footwears from me

Really?

LessNoise:
No need to sugar coat it there's no way you can be close friends with a girl without feeling a tiny winy tin tin Lin something for that girl....when she feels so comfortable to tell u shii bout her sexcapedes means you've been friend zoned

Not with my experience.

LessNoise:
They open up to guys who have been friend zoned (BESTIE)

Not true.

It depends on the guys attitude.

If you are a Listener and Not Judgemental she'll tell you things that will shock your destiny.

Guys,

Who would you marry;

Between a female police and a female soldier ?

merrymaker2:
There is a very close friend of mine who dates a married woman. He is also married bt maybe for one reason or d oda.... The issue now is dt ds woman is always tracking any lady associated wt d guy. On fb, instagrm, checkn his whatsapp..etc. She quarrels wt him ova infidelity and accuses him of dating anoda girl. She doesnt give him a space. We are afraid for him pls. Why is she behaving like ds despite dt she has her husband? And wat can ds guy do to help?

Haa!

funmisticqueen:
i'm cool. How r u

I am sound.

funmisticqueen:
like all the women in your family and daughters from your loins. ode

funmi, hope you are good. ?

Harwoyeez:
aye le oo ibosi ooo.. nothing person no go read for here. what if your parent visits u in school and finds out, what will u tell her should guide u or your answer answers this question

Is your parent a ghost?

They'll inform you of their visiting, wouldn't they?

The dude go hang some place else

Mrbolt555:
so unexperienced on bed. u have to teach them everything. I can't stand them.pls im not your teacher. go and learn then come back.

I can volunteer to help you with the first phase. . .

20K per Virgin

150K when you marry a virgin

Mrbolt555:
From Jesus to Pastors, Human head in church, Tithes, Offerings in church, name it, it's all fvcuking SCAM! I have no religion. Im out!!

You are a failed Sparm !

MhizzAJ:
What is wrong with you Georgnilla

I opened this thread only for me to discover that you've modified the story to 'Okay'
Big thanks to the guy above me who quoted you

You are just doing yourself
You are so unstable...

Hmmm, Unstable.

Something I look for in a woman - emotional stability

rebirthforgoody:
Why is it that some guys don't understand the meaning of" I have a boyfriend

My sister, I wonder Ooo.

I no dey take ear hear em , na u-turn straight!

But someone dude will think she is play hard to get.

Why not switch to normal friend, even dey ask after the said boyfriend.

Even when she dey give you green light self. You quickly bring up the guy abroad.