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Peaceadebu:
So early morning like this person don experience heartbreak ����

Peaceadebu:
Calling your present girlfriend an Idiot? Guyyyyyyyyyyyyssssszzzzzzzzz.

internationalman:
Extroverted girls turn me off..

Those kind of girls that would holla at up to 3 guys on the way before you see her off to the junction...

It'd kinda make me wonder if they'd slept with her..

Princelewis296:
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bukatyne:
If my husband is in the habit of forgetting birthdays, I wouldn't take it to heart so much if he forgot mine.

bukatyne:
What's the difference between boyfriend and husband in this case?

Except you mean a bedmate or friends with benefits.

@OP:

Check if they forgot theirs; it is not reasonable to have issues with someone who forgot his/her own birthday because they forgot yours.

If birthdays are so important to you, sing it to them before the day or make a worthy mention of it afterwards.

As the partner who sees nothing special in birthdays, learn to celebrate your partner on their day if they like it loud.

That's where love, compromise & teachability comes to play for both parties.

Babaken:
So even in this present Nigeria economy hardship and killing you blaming someone for forgetting your birthday. Report her to buhari so that he submit her name to fulani herdsmen rubbish.

Sonnobax15:

To me,e don already be like normal thing....Even to her, It has also become a normal thing.....There are certain things that shouldn't be taken too serious.... So long there's understanding and love that keeps the both of you going,I don't think it'd be necessary to quarrel or pick up a fight simply because your partner forgot your birthday....

My own gf,na when my birthday don pass like two weeks or more already,na then she go shout--"Ehhhhhhh,why you no remind me na

apostle96:
It happened to me in the month of June
I didn't allow that to hurt me sha..as I myself didn't make a thing out of my birthday
On god

Kobicove:
Who cares?

debbydams:
I used to but not anymore

Damikjay:
No ooo

E Neva reach dat stage

debbydams:
if he's a busy type I no get problem fa..I.might be angry nd if he apologise then wen are cool
But if he's a busy type I won't get angry oo,,he Neva marry me na,he has life nd I have mine,my mama sef don forget when she born me so na another man pikin go put my birthday for head?

2times2:
I no dey forget

2times2:
An eye for an eye

InfernoNig:
Nothing. Even me self dey forget my birthday. Na my banks dey remind me.

Damikjay:
No p

Me don sharply forget say u even get birthday

OgogoroFreak:
I will do her some more.

debbydams:
nothing na..i don't have any prob with that,after all we are just bf and gf,he has his life,nobi my birthday go be his priority..

WowSweetGuy:
I'm not a birthday person but u can have a good comeback by forgetting hers too

youngblaq:
And when did that become a sin against the gods?
Na forget dem forget...no be say dem nor wan wish you well. If e hurt you, you tell dem. And if you like, you forgive dem join.

rosalieene:
Now I see your problem.
Your problem is mainly centred on EQUAL FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITIES hence why your problem escalated.
When you were courting, you were supposed to discuss this.
You're a man, own up to your responsibilities.

teebillz:
One of the surest way to keep a bitch loyal is to mess her up. Bleep her, spank her, pee on her, shove your dick in every hole in her body, splash her face with your sperm and give back the dick to her to suck until it is clean.

CharisEleos:
Twp Captains cannot be in one boat.
The problem lies with both of you.
She cannot take shit. You cannot take shit. So, who will now take the shit? Pride.

Pride goes before a fall. That is what has befallen your marriage.
When you learn to get off your high horses, you both will be cohabitable.

The problem with many couples is that they place themselves higher than the other. Now you talked about her trying to measure up to you ( equality). What made you see her as trying to do that if you yourself have not placed yourself so high.? Even before God, we all are equal. So why think you are higher than someone else? Your better half for that matter.

It's normal for two people to have a misunderstanding. But you should learn to to let go immediately and also try to avoid anything that will cause any further misunderstanding. If you see it coming, quickly turn it to a joke. Is she sees it coming, let her do same. but no. Rather you'll feel, "Why should I be the one to backdown" let him /her go to hell!!!!!!. Ego.

If you can't manage your first marriage then you'll not be able to manage the next. mind you the other woman will be coming with a baggage of her own character flaws.

No one is perfect.

BigYash:
Don't even try 1%. In other words,zero trust is the way to avoid them smashing a man's heart

Nonexisting1:
He is simping for the ladies here, we know all of them. Wait for Chatinent comment too if he hasn't done already and you will see the caution with which they comment on threads concerning vagina people.

GeneralPula:
This screen shot below is a DMX interview..

He further said you can trust a snake, only that it gon bite you.

You can trust a thief, only that he’s gon steal from you..

You can trust a woman, only that she’s gon bitcch on you..(Added this 3rd phrase meself)

Kondomatic:
How?

Kondomatic:
Every human can be trusted but not with everything. This is known.

And I am damn sure that you do not trust yourself 100% so let women be. You people here make it seem like men are faithful angels in marriage.

Before you see one married woman that blends for money, you must have seen at least 5 married men that pay someone else for sex but we don't talk about it.

vickydevoka:
Na beans. Depending on who u be n ur partner b. No let make Woman de take decision as a man. If na one u wan Born, stick to it, bcus na u know ur pocket