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it's so unfair that some people misunderstood your question. You weren't throwing a pity-party for ursef or "whining". Just asking a simple, heart-felt question. Yes, a third class is one-kind. No, it's not the end of the world. And no, it doesn't mean u're dumb.

i know someone who had a third class in university. He' one of the most intelligent people I've had the good fortune to meet. It's sad that people have to be put in academic box to prove themselves. It's hard sometimes to come down to the mental level of some Nigerian lecturers, who just follow the same themes laid down decades ago and expect you to play along. Just show some element of innovative thinking, and you're fried.

well, the "paper" don't matter. Like some people have been saying, prove those lecturer-buggers wrong, and make something of yourself. You'll walk tall.

Brownbono, very grateful for your input, it's great when others who know share, thanks and Peace.

Thanks again, Kidonig, I'll make sure I advise him accordingly. When I sed time was short, it's bc he left in Oct and now we want to apply we can't risk waiting a month or two. Like you sed, prayer is the key. Best regards, I'll keep you posted.

Thanx kidonig for the prompt reply. I guess i hav most of the documents you listed, and my husband also got a shared flat which we were scared too might not satisfy them, but it's a chance we may hav to take, like you said sch acc is dear and they won't like wives moving in permanently, so he's paid for a flat for my visa application purposes.
My next question is, since he hasn't moved in to the new place, how can we get proof of address, bc the statements of accounts he sent me last month mirror his sch accomodation address, does he hav to stay one month in the new flat and accumulate utility bills b4 i can apply, as I sed he left in Oct and time is short, I just want to know how he can get quick proof of add if its so important. He really doesnt want to move in without me as its to be our new home, should I explain that, bc his acc contract with the sch will soon expire anyway, hope I'm not bugging but I'd appreciate another quick response, greetings to ur wife,

congrats kidonig, at last some cheering news! I too, am trying to join my husband in the UK as his dependant. He left in Oct 2007 and if he had his way, I know he'd have wanted me in the next day!lol.
however, i'm writing bc we hav a similar prob like you once had, about the tenancy agreement, I'd really like to know just want they need to prove we have adequate accomodation. he has paid and got the tenancy agreement, but I read on some sites that we need to add landlord's letter of approval, also to state how many rooms in the house, size, who else lives there and how many rooms for our exclusive use etc,
pls, i'd appreciate advice from the house too and esp from kidonig bc you must hav done something right to get the visa for your wife, my hubby wants to leave his school-owned acc and move into the new place with me once i arrive, i just want to b sure what details the visa pple need to be convinced that we have adequate accomodation. Pls help another loving couple,