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Even this failed politician is talking. See a failure criticizing another failure... Smh

webhead:
you're right.
But, like I said, this is for only weak men–physically and mentally.
Armed with the/my redpill knowledge of how most of them operate, no woman can mentally dominate/use passive aggression against me.

It all starts with having an abundance mindset.
When a man feels like he needs to cling to one woman only, he'll definitely diminish his masculinity and fall for this trap.
But when a man bears in my mind that there are billions of other women in the world, he won't try to water down his role as the head of the relationship.
(like the Op is doing)

Lots of truth in your post, but how many men have the privilege of your knowledge? Was it something you were born with? I'd like to guess no. That's why a large number of men keep scratching their heads when they face issues in relationships with their wives, then come to Naira land to vent...

webhead:
This is for only weak men

It's not a matter of weakness. Any relationship is a form of power play. Someone must be dominated and someone must dominate. Generally in a marriage, women have a way of winning this game. They are very good at the passive-aggression game. No matter how strong a man thinks he is, if he is not wise, she will relegate him to the status of the dominated, where he'll just be dying of anger and frustration.

Barrister026:
Have ordered her to go put some more protein on several occasions.

But must i always do that?

Brother, accept my sympathies, but I must tell you one truth: in a monogamous relationship between a man and a woman, especially one that has resulted in marriage and children, it is the woman who generally holds power. Except in over-oppressive cultures e.g. some Islamic states like Yemen, Somalia, Iraq etc, generally women always determine what goes and what doesn't in the relationship and the home. So unless you are prepared to send her out of your life/end the relationship, you just have to abide by her conditions. Sorry, but that's just the way it is. When a man married to a woman, he gives up a large part of his power and freedom.

How much be this Npower money sef wey una no wan let us rest for front page?

My laptop. The thing pain me die, because the laptop was loaded to the hilt. I no been know say extremely talented thieves full Uniben hostel that year. The next day, I jejely carry my load comort Hall 4, go rent a room self-con for Ekosodin. I no been want make dem come steal me join

chatinent:
Yawns.

Political parties and their campaign comparisons!


No bi say when APGA enter naw things go change! Na the same people! Always remembering us after four years! If they were so good, what stopped them from building another bridge when they aren't holding any political position so that we'll be certain they will do sth when they enter?





Repair this sentence first before you repair Osisioma Bridge.

All of una na the same!

Don't mind them. All of them are the same.

BeardedMeat:
Dog is buhari.

Why you dey abuse your President na?

Zetty177x:
Yes.. since 2015. I can't sleep outside net o. Malaria nearly kill me.. I'm awaiting malaria vaccine before I stop mosquito net

Malaria vaccine . Is that one possible?

wumi2017:
It makes room looks like that of iya 90yrs old(aged people)
Once I have my "o n pa Ayan,, o n pa efon" that's my own roll back malaria movements

What is that? Like insecticide or something?

Malaria is 10x deadlier than covid-19, especially in this part of the world. If this country had true, patriotic leaders, malaria should have been the tackled with all the seriousness they gave the Ebola virus.

pacino26:
Under what circumstances did he rape her? Women scream rape alot that one got to investigate properly before speaking for or against. You'll give a man a boner mid way into cuddling and romancing you will say no. Next you'll read is attempted rape or rape.

This is another angle to it. Now in the West, a woman can sleep with you willingly and decide that she didn't like the experience, then claim you raped her. All of them dey craze over there.

Cashsteady:
This is what happens when you allow terrorist into your military... 20-30% of France population are full of terrorist migrants from Algeria, Morocco, Tunisia and some other middle East countries.. I just pity France if they keep letting all this useless terrorist migrants in to give their beautiful country a bad reputation..




Same thing dey happen for UK... Rape cases in London don skyrocket. There are some parts in London you can't walk in the middle of the night because of fear being raped or stabbed by this homeless Terrorist from Bangladesh and Pakistan who just entered UK.



Germany too experiencing the same thing from all this Somalis migrants.


Turkey own is now out of hand... Syrians migrants don turn that beautiful country to something else.


Na only Denmark wey still dey try for their immigration..some Syrians tried to enter Denmark illegaly they were caught and sent back to syrian instantly..



Europe you better secure una borders. All this terrorist gat no joy oo..

It's a ticking bomb. Liberalism will only keep making the whole thing worse.

Op, e Neva finish ooo. What of Snake? Bush Rat? Dog?

Hayee:
who is the somebody
No I don't want we in insecurity period please no where is safe

I was right; you are a good sport. Stay safe though.

Hayee:
toor who said I wanted any expensive stuff

It was somebody oooo. So you mean they were lying ? Anyways, do you still want it?

Hayee:
why

I have that very expensive stuff you're looking for but unfortunately, I don't have your contact details to send it to you. So you see, very valid reason

Lol. Till today, I don't still understand what really happened between Tonto and Oga Kpokpogri. Who was the scammer? Who was the scammee? Tonto come scatter everything by involving Janemena. This psychopathic woman's need for drama is destructive, not just to her but her immediate circle of friends, family and acquaintances. Na because of women like dis na im Robert Greene in The 48 Laws of Power talk: Infection: Avoid the Unhappy and the Unlucky

LIpokond:
I hope to lash tonto dikeh one day, it will be my greatest dream

All of una get agenda. It's not impossible but hope you get strong mind sha?

Chai! Musa don old ooo... The yansh too big for am to even carry am jog sef

Hohenheim:
Nigeria is basically Man U, no pattern at all just depending on individual brilliance wey we no even get sef

Be like say you dey my mind.

Abeg, where dem see this Joe Aribo of a character?The guy average for a no 10.

NwaNimo1:
He's gone to beg, borrow and bullshiit?

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lol. Forget, this baba just come use this president level catch cruise and enjoy him life. Bubu no send anybody...

Hayee:
coded prankster ke
How

;DDon't mind me jhoor. You seem cool. Dm?

The linesman dey craze. See better goal dem cancel . E for be 2- 0 now...

Asgard73:
Igbo women deserve it all.... painment for scratch face sapiens with loud mouth.

'Scratch face sapiens'? Chai! Wetin you no go see for Nairaland?

BigSarah:
I'm terrified of pictures of snakes...
But each time I see a thread about snakes I can't resist opening

Lalasticlala

I always wondered who will be fascinated enough by slithering reptiles to watch that Snakes in the City program on Nat Geo Wild....

Hayee:
so nobody has mumu bottom abi

I was just focusing on the 'alpha female boss' in that instance. Your reply though, you seem like a coded prankster

Hayee:
very dominating in her feild though
She a well known Carter in lagos

In a way, it's easier to deal with a dominant female superior than her male counterpart; generally, they're more manageable. Usually, despite their harsh exterior, they're just little insecure girls. Press their 'mumu button' of their self-esteem and they fall like ripe mangoes. But some of them can also be devil incarnates too oooo.

CaveAdullam:
Wonder what kind of discussion both of you had before marriage.

1. You must understand that it's difficult for adults to change their mindsets, especially when these mindsets or ideology comes with incentives and comfortability or a medium that serves as an escape route.
True for women when they get married. They don't see the need for constant improvement because all they've wanted was to secure a man that will cater for their expenses through thick and thin despite their poor nature, bad attitude, amoebic body shape, damaged mentality, complacency, entitlement mentality etc.

2. Your wife's laziness is rooted in the comfortability you've placed her and to make her become productive you must upset that foundation. (She may however vacillates between changing for the better or seek another greener pasture for laziness).

How do you do these:

A. For the main time, pretend that your remote work is failing or has failed. Move from home early and daily to do your work outside and come back late like a normal job seeker. When you come back tell her the experiences you had when searching for a good job.

B. Reduce the amount of comfortability through the extra things you provide for the family. This will rhyme with your recent "joblessness".

C. Be the one that should start telling her to keep master's degree program aside because things are not as rosy before. (By the way, she doesn't need it, except otherwise). Because it's high time expenses must be managed.

D. Act broke with her and others and let it rhyme with the aforementioned.

On the extreme, if her unproductive nature hinges your prospect and progress tell her it's high time to cut off the relationship. She can't be enjoying life while doing nothing.

Enjoy your liability!

Who vex you dis afternoon? See as you destroy our ladies...

Hayee:
there is something like alpha lady my ex boss is one
Just say you haven't met one yet

Lol. Was she that dominating?

Abdulmujeeb52:
it's still better than getting pregnant out of wedlock which is norm in Christianity

Lol. Are you for real?

Ikpunekenwa:
Its very easy to understand, the scum that bleached their brain with one horrible religion actually patented it to revolve around his prick and rapist tendencies. This is an example down below.

This is wrong on so many levels...