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Thank you!

Please keep these coming,

Okay. I will try and keep these in mind. Thanks for a great post!

Hey, check this out. Maybe it might help you make your decision.

The Coasters - "Get an ugly girl to marry you"
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An ugly woman is often better than the beautiful one. If she is that bad looking, she should be very appreciative to be in a healthy relationship, and she may work harder to maintain it. Just pray on it though, as this is a problem I too have faced (and many other men as well).

Hope it all works out for you.

I don't believe your story.

No cmnt

Yo, that is kinda annoying though. Like, when a woman is all in your face, flirting with you and everything, and you see she has that ring on, So you say something about it, and find it is for no reason. Like, what gives? That makes me of course not even want to talk like that, cause it makes me think that the chick is odd or something, you know?

I wish you the best, PC Guru,

Yes.

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Just be natural and let it flow. Have conversations without the expectation of hooking up or finding a girl. Don't look for that. Just be yourself, and talk.

Like everything, practice makes perfecto (even when discussing social skills).

HOPE THIS helps

Orimili:
Also, I noticed that you are in Upstate NY, which part, might I ask?

I live in The Roc

honeric01:
Well, how uncompartible are you spiritually? is it that she doesn't believe in what you believe in or she's not really "very" spiritual as you would like?

Man it is hard to explain, She believes in God and everything like that. She is just not as deep and as spiritual as I would like.

Maybe I just gotta leave her alone and move on, eh?

Aight. It is like this. I dated this young woman about 2 1/2 years ago, and she fell madly in love with me. We first met through her mom whom I used to work with on my previous job. Well, she is a very sweet, beautiful and positive person and honestly I really liked her. However, for some reason I could never really feel that spiritually connected to her. I am a very deep and serious person, and I always think that the person who I am to be with should pocess a similar spiritual depth. Like, this girl is very fun to be around and everything like that, but I cannot really build with her the way that I would like to.

So, I broke up with her but chose to remain friends. Well, since we split, she still to this day wants terribly to get back together with me. She calls me several times every day, and sends countless messages saying how much she loves me and wants to be my wife. She even dated another guy for a while but broke up with him saying that I am the only man she wants to be with. I do actually believe her, and I feel that she would make a good and loyal companion,  I am just confused. Her entire family (mom, sisters, brother, everyone) loves me as well and wants me to be with her. Her mom in particular wants to see us as a happy couple. The girl works, loves my music, and she is even a virgin (waiting for me, she says).

Now, I am wondering what to do. We have been talking alot lately, and I just feel like,  *Blah*. Like, part of me says that she can't be the one for me while the other part of me feels like I may be about to miss out on a major blessing. I know that good women are somewhat hard to come by in these times, and I sorta feel that I should be with her because God has blessed me with this chance to have this amazing fine woman in my life. I don't know though. Am I being unreasonable? What should I do??

One Love, Magz aka Lonely Doo-wopper

It is a very complex subject.

LMAO

WTF?

One Love

TOH, You like me. Stop pretending luv.

Yeah I have always heard that African girls will pick a white guy over and "American"-born Black male.

Only Bluespice

Says History dammit

African "American" men

Can anyone tell me why our women are so prejudiced? What's good with that, huh?

Interacial dating is just wickedness

Mother of my child passed away. That's why we ain't married

Would never cut my hair.

Music is life. I will not work for no rich cracka or nothing like that, because God blessed me with a cool talent that I can utilize to earn my own living.

And I don't live anywhere close to NYC. I stay in The Roc, which is in Upstate New York.

One Love

ThiefOfHearts:
But it was God's will for you two to fornicate.

I wish you luck in finding a mugu.

Excuse me?? You don't even know the situation. Don't you think that it is possible that I lost the woman that I was to marry? If God takes somone away from you at an early age, then it was not meant to be.

Anyways,

Everything you do in life - good or bad - comes back at one point or another. The world is just a cycle,

By the way, my email is: CEO@GrindStreet.com

And, this is me:

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Treetop20:
are you ready to settle down?

Yeah, pretty much.

ThiefOfHearts:
A parent at 23.

Why dont you marry the mother of your kid, Mr parent

It was not God's will for us to stay together.