dgreatrock:

@Magz,
You folks are damn fortunate to live in such neihgbourhood, we only see such places when we travel.

That is what you think, I think that you are fortunate to be able to live in Nigeria. I grew up here ignorant of my own language and culture, and now I am trying to learn and catch up as an adult. And besides, NY (and all America pretty much) is a land of glutons and fools. People have no morals. I'd much rather be somewhere in my Fatherland!

Like they say though, the grass is always greener on the other side,

Women come flat out asking you for money?

That is a turn-off, an insult and a red flag!

@ You are dead-on with most of this

Just tell her you're not ready for a serious commitment.

^^That's only if you aren't ready. Why be afraid to commit yourself?^^

Congratulations to you!

I hope things continue to go favorably for you.

Move on. She doen't want you.

Amaka1725:

Nice guys are non existent

Nah. You are wrong here.

Yes, for real. As far as I know, and based on my life experiences, the most virtuous women I've ever known were Muslims, and a few are Rasta.

faakay:

Solution: Tag her: In relationship with her

schescale:

abeg! follow your heart jooo, ashawo

^^They have the right answers^^

If you want a virtuous woman, then look for either a devout Muslim Woman or a Rasta Woman. They are the most virtuous women.

Why imitate savages? Glutonous, hypocritical infidels? Study the history of the World, and you'll see that it is not wise to follow the ways of the so-called "West".

I am from New York State.

New York State was actually the first slave colony of North America all the way back in 1619. It was known then as Dutch New Amsterdam, and was inhabited mostly by Native American Indians. The Islands of Mannahattes were swindled from the Natives by British settlers and would later become what is now known as New York City. Only through forced slave labor was the first infrastructure laid down and the first forts built.

New York was built by Africans!

Hip-hop culture helped me excel growing up. It helped shape me into a creative, competitive, and intelligent individual with confidence. Hip-hop literature and art magazines gave me an extra incentive to read. Congregating in the local hip-hop shops at B-Boy breakdance competitions and Emcee battles kept me off the streets and out of trouble. Listening to and studying the music expanded my vocabulary tremendously and gave me philosophies on life that were relatable to my way of living.

Hip-hop culture is such a huge part of who I am, and I am appreciative of this. I can't even adequately express how tremendously it affected my life.

Hip-hop culture is not dead! Nor is the spirit of the freedom fighters and rebels who planted the first seeds that would later blossom into the hip-hop eras, or the Ancient African griots who were rapping centuries and centuries ago to keep the knowledge and wisdom of the ancestors alive.

I keep Hip-hop in my heart!

I embrace and celebrate Hip-hop Culture!

^^Isn't polygamy cool?^^

LMAO, I can't stop laughing at this damn thread!

Ahahahahahahahahahaha








Hehehehehe

Move on

or

Marry her

Honestly, I think those are your choices.

But, if she has trust issues that bad, you have to really decide if it is worth it. Fact is, without trust, you really havn't got anything!

@ Poster, what is your age?

I'm a widower, You know that, Theif.

daduke2k:

Simple. because gud guyz are always ready 2 pls. I aint a gud guy

I'm a good guy. And I'm single.

I hate to break your heart, but this situation is hopeless at best. I don't want to discourage you from asking her, but I would not put alot of thought or energy into pursuing her still if she has known you already for 5 years and still does not see you as the man she'd like to be with.

Focus on yourself. Devote your time and attention on improving yourself! Come up with clear, realistic goals about further becoming the person you want to be, and maybe after transforming over the following months, she'll have changed her mind about you. If not, you'll find someone.

kellorah:

Cos your child/ren will always come first in your life and they're not able to ompete with that; and they obviously don't want to share u with someone else. . . . .esp; if it's another man's kid/s!

And their father will always be in your life, as long as he's in his kids'. That means your current boo bumping into your ex when your ex comes to take the kid/s out, etc.

Great answers, btw tho

I actually prefer a woman with children

And this is not just because I am a parent myself

Thanks

We are all beautiful, and we are all ugly.