peggykorol: Nor be today Yansh dey Back
I would go close to them and check if he had a condom on

pickabeau1:


Most cases, The woman is reacting to something... which you may not know except you are the man in question

mark joshua: U rush to him because he is rich now u are runing for it,u must go back Α̣̣̥и̣̣̣̥d̶̲̥̅̊ continue copin Α̣̣̥и̣̣̣̥d̶̲̥̅̊ endurin.also teach Ɣ☺ΰ‎‎​r dauther how critical is it to rush into marriage just because of money.if u refuse to go back u may not ba ĦαƔ again in Ɣ☺ΰ‎‎​r life.u have tasted marriage don't go back to singleness bacause u won't beable to cope with it

Codedeben: OP my own long oo.
After our final year paper during uni days, me and 3 of my guys decided to go and celebrate in our usual spot we tagged "school 2".
We were there having fun, celebrating the end of having to hop into bus from main campus to permanent site everyday. There's this guy among us who was always boasting he could down a crate of beer in a sitting. We ordered for McDowell at first, later switched to beer and pepper soup. My guy was on his 3rd bottle of Harp when he started acting up. You know one thing about beer nah say you go just dey stand up go piss at some intervals. Na so this our guy stand up say him wan go piss as usual ooo, we didn't even pay attention to his movement but few seconds After he left we heard Gboa behind us. He had dashed into a table where some people were chilling as well. In the process he made them spill beer on themeselves. See as this people vex, instead make our guy apologize and make im dey go on im own jejely, na so he start to dey insult dem dey accuse dem say na dem push the table across im path as dem see am dey come cos dem think say hin don high (imagine statement). Even an insane mind know say na our guy miss road and probably he was halucinating. We just stayed back to watch as the drama unfolds. D next thing we dey hear be say our guy dey threaten those people that he was a son of a Major General and e go ask im papa boys to come fall those guys. That statement got on the nerves of one of dem and he whooz our guy for face say make im Go call im papa come. Na so our guy say "sh-i-t!! na me you slap so? walaaaahi you don die 2day" . He immediately opened his zipper. We were like what is happening here. As in D whole thing just be like a film cos we don know dis guy teytey and he never tell us say im get any1 for military talk more of im palee and besides wetin im wan commot for im trouser. D suspense was high. Na so our guy open im trouser zip and carry this thing commot come dey say " I go kill you 2day I swear". Na dt time me move close 2 see wetin our guy dey up to. Only 2 see say na im JohnT im commot dey piss for there front, wen im finish he com hol am come dey direct am to d guy dey tell am say im go shoot am. I swear, everyone just burst in2 laughter. Every1 in sch2 dt night couldn't help but laugh thr ass off. But it was so embarrassing to us. The bar security guy walked up to us and asked us to take d dude home imdtly. Come see as dis guy wey bin dey fumble say im stomach na brewery dey stagger as we dey hol am go stop cab. We flagged down a taxi and fortunately/unfortunately for us he had only 1 passenger. The norm there is 2 at the front and 3 for back. The greatest mistake we made was to say make our guy sit down for back. we didn't want him to sit down close 2 d door so he sat down next to the passenger we met in the car which happen to be a very cute lady( and dts whr the word "unfortunate" comes in).
He started dozing off imdtly we hit the road and guess what? He noded the chick several times as he was dozing. At a point he stationed his head on d babe shoulder, na So we pinched one another dey laugh am. I guess the chickala wan avoid embarrassment so she didn't push his head off anylonger. Omo, come see whr the main gbege com happen. Like 10 minutes later na so our guy vomit inside d car, come vomit on the girl leg, the thing splash for her thigh, messed up her leg big time. Mehn! It wasn't funny at all. Omo come see the mother of all embarrassment. The girl just dey vex dey rake.


Brothers and sisters, do you know why I was more embarrassed? The chick was actually my 300 level crush that was always telling me she would never go out with someone with my kind of lifestyle. Wasn't she right afterall?

slimyem: ^^or maybe the story isn't for real. Just some propaganda for him to gain recognition and sympathy to aid his already dead career. Or what's the essence of the "he is. In the recording studio" line and the contact e-mail address?
I'm only wondering o....
Anything can be done for survival in this country.

fr3do:

Abortion is murder except in cases where the mother is in coherent danger.

taryour: What a wrong mother that innocent child has. I wonder why the woman dint just aBort the preggy @ the early stage If that child grows up hating the mother wunt surprise me.

In this case the mother will love all other kids she has after this boy which is really really bad. There is a Nigerian movie (say the word) that relates with this story,that movie brought tears to my eyes. By the time the mother realised her mistake and wanted to retrace her steps was to late cause her son died trying to prove to his mum that he would be a thief/armed robber like his father who raped and got his mother pregnant.

If a woman has a bad circumstance surrounding her pregnancy and knows she would hate and maltreat the child,for the love of God get a solution and don't bring the child to this world to suffer for sins he or she never committed.

lorretta u: I never truly got the hang of that word "companionship" until now.
I had a bout of cold/allergies some nights ago. One night I couldn't sleep from sneezing and coughing. Hubby stayed up all night to be with me. And we fell asleep in the early hours of the morning. I'd have done same for him. And the next when my dad called to know how we were doing, he said "we were sick thru the night"
That's the goodness of being together

There are plenty perks to being married
E.g sex without guilt (covers face)
Having someone who's with you all along the way and you both can share problems. Nothing like 'his problem' it's now 'our problem'
No more 'his money' now 'our money'

Being together is a good thing.

taryour: Nice thread,here is what works for me.
Firstly I went into my relationship with a statement on my mind(if my mum can remain with my dad with all the challenges they had which I also witnessed,then I can do better)
Ability to communicate effectively, while dating and up till now in marriage with 2 kids our communication has remained very very solid.
Communication has really helped my relationship a lot,it helps us both trash our differences amicably,there are somethings I can't say to my hubby face(cause I know I might not present it well and I don't want to be rude) so I put it into a chat and he understands me perfectly well. Each time we have our arguments,we make sure we apologise n trash it out before the end of the day.we do not go to bed in anger.
I have also learnt not to argue so much with my hubby,whenever he is angry with me am quite and let his anger subside then I apologise(even if deep down in my heart I know I wasn't wrong)I still apologise,I know how angry my hubby can get and I know better than to push further,we both have a bad temper but there can only be one leader,outside my home you don't dare mess with me,I will dish it to you very hot and spicy. I am the very aggressive type but hubby isn't,he is more calm than I am. I argue a lot too but not with hubby except in cases when we are gisting and having fun. Hubby loves football but I hate it with everything but what can I do I simply got used to it,my first son already took after him as a football fan.
We both understand ourselves perfectly,we have been together for over 8years now. We have had our ups and downs which has taught us to be more united and understand ourselves better.
Our sex life might not be has active as when we where still single cause of kids but we have both been active,we have fun anywhere in the house(of course when kids are asleep or in school).we try out new things and I sure don't forget my bowl of ice-cream when I want to give a special treat(call me a dirty woman/raw woman/sex freak/whatever) I care less,his my man.
We have remained each others best friends,we share gifts,watch movies together,shop together,hubby goes to market for me at times and cook as well, we gossip together and share news with each other. We are both social media fans(we actually meet on a social forum and started as friends before dating which led to our marriage). We don't hide anything from each other,we share same passwords in most cases,we know our pins. He introduced me to nairaland and he is also a active member on nairaland.
We do not encourage 3rd parties into our affairs,it has never and will never happen. What ever happens within our walls die within our walls.we both help ourselves to remain strong in work life and business life. We support ourselves in every possible way we can with the help of God and for once I have never regretted meeting my hubby. If there is a next life,I would chose the same man all over again.
My marriage is not perfect cause there is no perfect marriage but I tell you,marriage is fun and am loving it all the way.