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Just as CC said GIVE WHAT YOU CAN AFFORD TO LOSE.....
I once lent what wasn't mine to some1 with the hope that the person was gonna pay ASAP but I ended up paying the money amidst tears.... Its was painful and hrtbreaking, Hence I decided I will NEVER lend what I cant afford to part with.

Some times you just have to let go cos of friendship and love ..... so many money I had to let go cos of friendship BUT I became wiser and knew exactly when to give and when not to.

Zomoears, are you sure you aint my coz??
Cos 1 of my coz is going tru a similar situation like yours.


Tell her that what ever she sows she will reap..... #Oma leyin# ****Yoruba***

kenyattamoore: Did he rape you in your house ?sorry about that dear .Mine does it also but I have stopped caling it rape because it's a daily thing.Sometimes he would come home and when he suspects something rong he would check my vagina with his fingers just to b sure no one slept with me
it's not easy to fight back with him he has beast strength,maybe you are tall woman.anyway it really feels good to talk about this with other women going through same thing or who went through this in past...now I feel not so much alone

Arghhhhh.... O Lord have mercy....
mehnnnn I feel for you oo

PLS DO SOME THING FAST FAST before he KILLS you. Your plan should be a 3G plan cos he might just get back ds NIGHT and beat you to death (GOD FORBID). I don't knw wt your plans are but pls be FAST..... Sis, ABEG.

kenyattamoore: still working on it ,will update you guys

PLS BE FAST.... Gods speed.

Kai... ds thread HUNTS me even while am asleep.... #sighs# :

MAMA or MA.....



Oh and sumtyms I call her by her name.....


Ma.... there's no ME without YOU.

Your story is abit twisted I tot you wanted to work things out with your wife

You opened a thread earlier concerning how your MIL and wife insults you and all of a SUDDEN you wanna separate?


Anyway which way...

IT IS WELL WITH YOU.

MY MUM.......

My MUM.......

I made her my younger sister since I dnt have one She has all the advantage my sis can have except that she doesn't bear my surname....
She 'no' like school so she had to learn the trade she likes.... We fight like normal sisters do except she cant raise her hand on me while I can cos she is way younger than me..... And according to her now, the best we have done for her is teaching her to speak English fluently and curbing her once promiscuous life style and ofcos taking her on trips by air.... Like she will always say.... Sis, am a big gal now.... She is called AMINA but we call her AMMY (Aaaamy) and she likes it too. (akoo e ti po ju)
She is a GOOD gal and I love her for that.

We also need to teach our daughters to distinguish between:

A man who flatters her and a man who compliments her.
A man who spends money on her and a man who invests in her.
A man who views her as a property and a man who views her property.
A man who lusts after her and a man who loves her.
A man who believes he's a gift to women and a man who believes she is a gift to him.


And then we need to teach our sons to be that kind of MAN.

byvan: He must not necessarily marry her but your family have to figure out a way of taking care of the child, they can get married in future if they are compatible and wish to . nobody should be forced into marriage irrespective of the circumstances.Please calm down and think of a way forward,shit happens.

ds All I can say....

YES a married man can be the best man at a wedding.

What's meant to be will ALWAYS find its way..... Karma will catch up sooner or later.

kenyattamoore: Madam am sorry if my writting is not coherent and my english not good,if I have to give all details here it will take me days....I dont have tine to lie.If you dont believe then it's fine...just wanted to share what am going through ,

Kenyattamoore dearie, I knw you aint lieing..... But you shaa get family somewhere abi? You weren't sold (sorry, pls permit me to use ds word) to ds DEVIL of a man called 'your boiffy' So why the hell did you have to give up on your self at 1st 'its a matter of time b4 you die'....?

Your folks no aint going Paste them here if you like....(and take them off latter) I WILL GLADLY CALL YOUR FOLKS EVERY MIN OF THE DAY ON YOUR BEHALF.

Its Not abt being in a relatnship, engaged or married, its abt being SECURED, HAPPY, SAFE, RELIEVED and FEELING GOOD. Its abt a peaceful state of mind, sleeping at night without the fear of losing what you've got.... Its abt feeling loved, respected, understood, cared for and appreciated. And the ONLY person who can give you all ds is your self.
STAY STRONG AND FIGHT FOR YOUR LIFE.

kenyattamoore: I am in a abusive relationship ,this for those who are saying what they will or not do if they find themselves in this situation .the last time he beats was yesterday .as I am writting now ,I have a bloody eye and wounds everywhere ...he squeezed my throat so hard until I stopped breathing ,kicked me in the head repeatdly and also kicked me in my lower abdomen,am still bleeding right now and I am very scared
I tried leaving for for several times but he would come to my house and cry his eyes out ...if the crying doesn't work he will result on threatening me ,like he did yesterday ,he says nobody else will have me because he would have killed me before it happens ...so I really don't have any choice right now and no strength to fight no more ,I know I am already dead anyway,just a matter of time

This is sooo sad and yet soooo stuuupid.... lyk WTH 'Its a matter of time b4 you die' What are you even saying? so you prefer to die by his hands while he lives and enjoy his life PM me let me give you a good slap or knock to RESET your brain. You must be joking!!!


I had a friend back in d uni who was constantly abused(physically and emotionally) by her so called 'boyfriend', she cldnt tell us her (friends) cos she was scared (dnt knw y tho) but I guess cos we were gonna make fun of her... One day she came back to the hostel with a red eye, bruises on her body (belt whip) and finally a bandaged hand This same devilish boffy came to drop her in the hostel. She receives a GIFT wnever he beats her....On seeing her, I broke down but she didn't wanna talk abt it. That night I made her sleep in my room and advised her the little way I cld, she opened up and I adviced her to take a walk or continue getting the beating of her life. She didnt LEAVE oo and ofcos the beating continued until when the boy knocked a stool on her head.... she came back wt a bandaged head again and ds time nobody even looked at her twice except me who ofcos told her she needed a deliverance but I thank God that happened cos it was like her brain was 'reset' with the pain....
She then came back to her senses, opened up to us and we decided to 'treat' the guy's fuckup.

we organized some correct 'sabo' boys to beat the hell outta him, striped him naked and collected his car keys( the car even belonged to the gal) and warned him to stay away from the gal. The foolish boy came to our hostel to threaten the gal and he gt the beating of his life again as all of us bounced on him with our kitchen utensils and our gate man....He stil continued to threatn d gal and dt ws how we involved one 'SARS' guy like that who is a friend to one of her friends... gave him some change and that was the END.... The news went viral and you can imagine what later happened to the guy.... a club guy...

Oh and ofcos she has that big scar on her face till date.

So my friend Kenyattamoore, SAVE yourself while you can..... A word is enough for who ever wanna listen.

Best of luck

I read this story and had to give my mum to read too..... She asked me if its a nollywood script.? Told her its a true life story and she just bursted into laughter....


the SIL is simply crazy. May God help the pregnant woman.

Orisherishe...

Ahaaaaa...... This thread is sooooo heartbreaking God have mercy. Some sisters are really going tru tough time mehnnnnn I fear oo
Its well with you ALL.... #sad#

Ahaaaaa...... This thread is sooooo heartbreaking God have mercy. Some sisters are really going tru tough times mehnnnnn I fear oo
Its well with you ALL.... #sad#

Royal Roy: Disadvantage? For you? I don't think so!

You think so ....
Let me explain just a little....
The last born in a family of 4.... immediate elder brother is like 8years older than me and this alone comes with a lot of discomfort. He is soooooo 'OVER' protective and sometimes it pisses me off but most times it comes with a lot of advantage too

RedBenson: @bolded, not now anymore cos am sure you are abv 20. You are an old mamma now

RedBenson: @bolded, not now anymore cos am sure you are abv 20. You are an old mamma now

Of marriageable age.... but Once a last born ALWAYS a last born anyday anytime.

Abit spoilt too sha that's why am called AYINKE And my mum stored my name on her fone as 'Baby of the house' and another line as 'my baby' isn't that sweet?

Will really love to get married to a last born too God willing

I love ALL the goddies that comes with being a last born and ofcos I av to love all the 'non goddies' too

But I love being a last born

Being a last born is a pride... but it comes with a lot of disadvantage too


But I like being the baby of the house.

If a man says he's in love with 2 or 3 women and he's confused as to which to marry? He's a thief and a wicked man. He deserves to end up heartbroken, don't advice such man.. If he's a responsible man he wont be in love with two women and if he claims he's in love with them then he is a GREEDY man...... and ofcos 1st class thief.

Exponental: True love is an expression of stupidity happily.
When u truly love someone, u can take a risk of saving d person from certain situations not even caring about d consequences but if not for love, u boastfully acknowledge d risk involve.

So true..... Hmmmmm AAR....

Happy birthday r231...
More graceful years ahead...
Cheers..

Royal Roy: ....just like me. I don't believe people say things out of anger or unknowingly.....nope....its what they had always wanted to say to me & didn't have the courage until they reached a boiling point.

Even after resolving the issue, Some words you say might be used against you later in the relationship.

Cheers!

RR ,So I will assume you have never said a word out of anger to your partner before? Words that you don't mean... or are you a saint? You have Never used a 'foul' word on her before...


Some words are said purely out of ANGER...

Nice thread by the way....have learnt a lot May God help me.

slimyem: https://25.media.tumblr.com/99864369546f78b55664225ece75a8fa/tumblr_mr6bdw45Ws1qhub34o3_r1_250.gif

wow...I love this...

Ymodulus: reading from Page 1 - 8.

All i have to say is i really need to date a gal and have my first break Up. I am criusly craving for this.

Just wanna understand the feelings u all passed thru.

A big AMEN to your prayer..... I pray God ans you speedily.

*sighs* Its a long story but hey, am good now .... Thanks to God and my mum... Life goes on.

Ymodulus: reading from Page 1 - 8.

All i have to say is i really need to date a gal and have my first break Up. I am criusly craving for this.

Just wanna understand the feelings u all passed thru.

May God ans your prayer....


*Sighs* Its a long story .... But hey, am good now . Thank God for my Mum. GOD BLESS HER FOR ME

zeb04: Oh my ist blind date we'll I didn't get 2 meet d guy, I stopd at d door oh dearie he was too handsome he had dis big nose frm d door I cld see d hair in his nose nd his head, his head, it was 2 majestic nd bald. Simple me cldnt take al d handsomness, had 2 run.

Oh lawd.... LMAO #falling of my bed#


Hilarious thread

#exhales# what a thread... #iro lo ma pa awon mi#

I would have said you should get her a hollandaise (vlisco) but its quite expensive.... but there are cheap ones too... Any GTP (Ghana textiles)Ankara will do... good luck!

Idowuogbo: Haaa! U and abrrevs, which one b E in O? If na Edo,den blame d shekpe in my system. No b me dey type o! na my Shadow talk type d E in ur O.

Lmao ... I meant Ejigbo in Osun state... Am sorry if you aint the 1.

Idowuogbo:
Which one b J A A o! Yes, I b learner.

And dt reminds me Idowuogbo, I saw a post of urs sumtym ago where you said you are from E in O state or am I mistaken?

yellowpawpaw: So u r greedy naturally!
Lol!!!

@RR...