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Kslib: I cant't.. It just doesnt sit well with me. Although it wouldnt be a bad idea if the lady in question is humble and not too proud/arrogant BUT no matter what,the thought of her being the bread winner/the one taking care of you financially will always come to her mind even if she doesnt say it to your hearing...
Ok!! Lets assume the lady is humble/not arrogant and loves you without rubbing it on your face that she's the one with the money,you as a man wont be comfortable
in telling her that she did so so and so wrong(cos of the guilt)..
You wont even feel comfortable in telling her that she's spending money too much and that so so and so was an unnecessary buy.. Etc..
So so many things are wrong with marrying a lady richer than you.. I dont know about other guys though,but personally,i can never do it!!!

Enegod: where are the signs?

Lero15: I just received an alert about an hour ago. This is 2013...

youngalex: U can imagine what dis ladies pass thru wit dis our distorted mindset,is it a crime for a single ladY to be rich?....i mentored one young lady during her sec. Sch days being a family friend i knew she will go far expectedly she made a first class and presently works wit an oil company,her monthly salary is almost my 3 months salary,I laugh when she calls me big bro....its her destiny @ 28 she is earning mIllions....so guys if you re lucky to find such lady that respects you dnt let go

Failed relationships are one of the biggest causes of stress and unhappiness in life. Working on successful relationships, whether they are with our children, parents, friends or partners, is one of the most important life skills we can learn. If we cannot maintain lasting relationships, we will always struggle to be happy.

This article looks at SEVEN COMMON REASONS WHY ONCE HARMONIOUS RELATIONSHIPS BREAK DOWN. If we know why relationships are liable to break down we can avoid the pain involved.

Jealousy
It is ironic that we can easily become jealous of our closest friends. Jealousy often occurs when there is a feeling of separation and competition. We need to learn to be happy at the success of others; it only when we can feel a sense of oneness with others achievements that jealousy will remain far away.

Also, we need to trust our partner - a suspicious mind is very poisonous. It is better to be trusting rather always suspecting infidelity or disloyalty. Others will be rightly discomforted if we mistrust them. If our partner lets us down, it is not our fault. But, if we suspect, because of our own insecurity, we are bound to create serious problems in our own relationships.

Attachment
There is a big difference between real love and emotional attachment. When we have emotional attachment to someone, we need their attention and presence. When we have excessive attachment to others, we can easily become jealous and demanding. Often attachment occurs out of a sense of insecurity; if this is the case we need to develop self belief and inner confidence, we can’t just rely on other people to provide that. Strong relationships need a certain detachment; we need to be able to accept others for what they are, rather than expecting them to give us all their attention.

Domination
Even the closest relationships need to value the individual freedom of others. Problems will inevitably occur when we seek to dominate others. Often this takes the form of expectation. We want our son to become a certain person; we want our wife to live in a certain way.

Often people don’t realize how dominating they are. Parents justify to themselves the idea that they ‘only want the best for their children’ But, actually what they are doing is trying to live through their children. Nobody has the right to tell someone how they must live. If relationships are based on this expectation and domination, there will inevitably be conflict at some stage. The strongest relationships are based on mutual understanding and remain free of expectation.

Selfishness
Selfishness is the root of all relationship problems. When we are selfish we think of ourselves first and foremost. We ignore the needs of others and become ego centric. Ego centric people are never easy to live with; they tend to be a drain on relationships. When we are selfish we want the praise, support and backing of others; but, we are not willing to give anything in return.

True love is selfless, it is given without expectation of receiving anything in return. If we love our self the most, we will always struggle with relationships. Take time to listen to others rather than dominating the conversation; be giving rather than being permanently needy.

No Time
We have to spend time on what we value. If we always work late, it shows where our priorities lie. If we spend no time with our partner then they will begin to feel resentful / unloved. We can always make time for things we really value; make sure your relationships don’t suffer because you have given your life away to your boss. Also, make sure you create time when your partner is the focus of attention; do things that they enjoy doing, and don’t just drag them along to your office parties.

Too Much Time
It does depends on the personality of the people involved; but some people, especially introverts, need time to themselves. If we are always with other people, the relationship can become claustrophobic. We need time to ourselves; strong relationships should be able to deal with periods of separation. This allows individual expression and individual growth.

Picking Faults
Whoever we spend time with will undoubtedly have faults. Successful relationships require a certain tolerance of others’ weaknesses. If we keep picking up on the faults of over people, expecting them to change, we create permanent tension. For example, your partner or friend may not share your judgement that they are faults. This does not mean we have to ignore when others do wrong things.

A strong relationship should be able to cope with constructive criticism and suggestions. However, we need to make sure we don’t become obsessed with noticing bad things. Rather than remembering all the bad things your partner does, make yourself think of some of the good things that they have been doing. Unfortunately, humans often seem attracted to noticing the faults of others, but, it doesn’t help relationships to do this. If you become too critical it will cause long term problems.

Greatken007: DAT 1 NA BIG WAHALA OOO,EVEN IF U BUY GOLD FOR HER SHE WONT APPRECIATE,BUT WHEN GUYS REFUSED TO GET RICH MAKE D GALS FOLD THEIR HANDS?

Enegod: i love Oprah

spongeback: I can't marry or date a guy am richer than

Araboy: Just wondering why I don't see Black guys dating Arab girls like Arab guys dating black girls can you please elaborate

Enegod: yes..am tired of dating broke asss chicks

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Uyi Iredia: I might with fears as to whether she'll still respect me inspite.

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